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defacto7

(13,485 posts)
Fri Jan 26, 2018, 02:51 AM Jan 2018

The craziest thing

I fell on the ice a couple of weeks ago out of which came surgery 4 days ago. Our dog Casper always sleeps on his pillow situated on the floor on my wife's side of the bed; this has always been his choice of sleeping places. But since coming home from surgery he now sleeps on the cold floor on my side of the bed. When it's time to get up in the morning or just during the day when he's greeting me, he bats my bad arm with his nose like he's pushing it out of the way wagging his tail all the while. Although it hurts like hell when he does it I have no reason to think he's doing something sinister. I'm sure he has the best of intentions. Maybe he thinks he has to call my attention to it or maybe he wants it to go away I don't know. It's all just one of those strange moments in the life of an animal when they sense something and want to communicate.

Animals never cease to amaze me. Their intuition and altruism sometimes Rises from nowhere settling on us supposedly logical human beings without coaxing or reward. We have so much to learn from them.

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The craziest thing (Original Post) defacto7 Jan 2018 OP
I wish I could read their minds BigmanPigman Jan 2018 #1
Me too! B Stieg Jan 2018 #2
Rather than converse defacto7 Jan 2018 #11
You're right. They hide nothing. BigmanPigman Jan 2018 #12
What a good boy! ploppy Jan 2018 #3
Thank you. defacto7 Jan 2018 #10
He surely does sense something has happened to you. Amazing! Best wishes for your recovery. Judi Lynn Jan 2018 #4
Yeah, he's trying to help. defacto7 Jan 2018 #9
Give that boy the pillow! RandomAccess Jan 2018 #5
Good point. defacto7 Jan 2018 #8
Our golden was extremely fearful during thunderstorms dixiegrrrrl Jan 2018 #6
That's an amazing thing about cats. defacto7 Jan 2018 #7

BigmanPigman

(51,609 posts)
1. I wish I could read their minds
Fri Jan 26, 2018, 04:20 AM
Jan 2018

or they could speak English. I am sure we would learn a great deal and have fantastic conversations. The down side would be that they probably would be preferable to many humans that I have had conversations with and could have easily done without. Dogs would be sitting at coffee shops with us (like the paintings of dogs playing poker).

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
11. Rather than converse
Sun Jan 28, 2018, 12:56 PM
Jan 2018

I'd like to just listen in to what they think. I'd be afraid I'd influence them too much if I participated directly. When you think about it, once you've gained trust they seem to wear their thoughts and feelings on their sleeves so to speak. Humans hide.

BigmanPigman

(51,609 posts)
12. You're right. They hide nothing.
Sun Jan 28, 2018, 05:34 PM
Jan 2018

A friend told me one that she is glad that people don't have tails since it is true give away of their thought s and feelings. It would be like going into the boss and asking for a raise and he/she offers you a raise and you are thrilled but think he/she could make an even better offer but he sees that your tail is wagging like mad and sticks with the original offer instead of going higher. Actually though, it would be easier for juries and judges to tell if you are guilty of something if they see your tail go between your legs and put your head down. It could save a lot of court time and money.

Judi Lynn

(160,545 posts)
4. He surely does sense something has happened to you. Amazing! Best wishes for your recovery.
Fri Jan 26, 2018, 05:47 PM
Jan 2018

He might not understand how your arm hurts, but most definitely he is trying to comfort you.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
9. Yeah, he's trying to help.
Sun Jan 28, 2018, 12:46 PM
Jan 2018

I just do my best to steer my other arm into his good nature.

Thank you, recovery is underway.

 

RandomAccess

(5,210 posts)
5. Give that boy the pillow!
Fri Jan 26, 2018, 06:34 PM
Jan 2018

Sounds like a wonderful dog.

What if you cried out in pain when he did that?? Think he'd get the message??

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
8. Good point.
Sun Jan 28, 2018, 12:43 PM
Jan 2018

Actually there were a couple of times that crying out was a natural response. He layed off at that point but still continues every once in awhile to a lesser degree. I think he doesn't like my sling in the way.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
6. Our golden was extremely fearful during thunderstorms
Sat Jan 27, 2018, 01:44 AM
Jan 2018

He would try to hide under the bathtub, or under my desk, or in the laundry room which has no windows, etc, shaking like a leaf.
even the best calming formulas only helped somewhat.

One of our cats would immediately go and lie down by his head and purr steadily for as long as the dog was spooked. It seemed to help him.
I have since read that cats purr at a frequency which helps healing:

Cats purr during both inhalation and exhalation with a consistent pattern and frequency between 25 and 150 Hertz. Various investigators have shown that sound frequencies in this range can improve bone density and promote healing.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/why-do-cats-purr.

No doubt at all that dogs know when we hurt also. My guy would lick any scratches, scrapes and small cuts that I had.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
7. That's an amazing thing about cats.
Sun Jan 28, 2018, 12:38 PM
Jan 2018

I don’t doubt it for a moment. There's something innate in animals that sense and connect where they're needed in nature. Talk about symbiotic. Humans can do the same... if we would just do it.

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