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iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 01:22 PM Apr 2018

RIP Sassy.

We decided it was that time and I had to take her into the vet this morning and send her off. She would have been 23 years old next month. We're all a little sad that she's gone now, but she lasted way longer than most cats do. She wasn't afraid to bop the big dogs in the nose when they needed it even though she herself was tiny. She was never more than about 6 lbs her entire life. Here's one of the last photos we took of her about 3 weeks ago:



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RIP Sassy. (Original Post) iscooterliberally Apr 2018 OP
RIP, Sassy... The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2018 #1
Sassy made that very easy. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #6
RIP Sassy kimbutgar Apr 2018 #2
Oh we hear bumpy noises every night. Here are some of the rest of the gang: iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #3
Oh my goodness youre right it will not be quiet tonight kimbutgar Apr 2018 #7
You get used to the sounds they make and you expect it. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #11
When our boy 20 yrs. old in '95 was near to his repose and at the vet's for sprinkleeninow Apr 2018 #34
'95 was the year Sassy was born. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #40
Mystical 'things' come to us at certain times with a 'knowing'. sprinkleeninow Apr 2018 #44
Obviously things always go bump in the night at your house. The Velveteen Ocelot Apr 2018 #9
Yes they do! It's when things don't go bump that I get worried. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #10
Great view for kitties MFM008 Apr 2018 #18
Such a tiny lil girl!! I am so sorry, is - no matter how long our kitties are here with us, Leghorn21 Apr 2018 #4
I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Sassy. Cherish all the great livetohike Apr 2018 #5
RIP, little one. DonaldsRump Apr 2018 #8
I am sorry for your loss. irisblue Apr 2018 #12
I am so sorry for your loss grumpyduck Apr 2018 #13
My condolences to you. From my perspective your situation would be harder to deal with. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #16
Thank you so much. grumpyduck Apr 2018 #48
RIP Sassy blondebanshee Apr 2018 #14
Such a proper Grand Dame, no doubt she was well loved. procon Apr 2018 #15
minngal marieo1 Apr 2018 #17
Peace to you, Sassy nt sweetroxie Apr 2018 #19
Saying goodbye is never easy, my condolences to you for your loss. Moostache Apr 2018 #20
She even looked sassy. StrictlyRockers Apr 2018 #21
RIP Sassy meow2u3 Apr 2018 #22
Scooter is now 15, still ok but has had some little problems Riverman100 Apr 2018 #23
I still see my old dog Cisco out of the corner of my eye sometimes. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #27
When I was a kid we had a cat. bluescribbler Apr 2018 #24
There's a black and white pit bull that lives in the house behind us. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #28
was Boots her protector? bluescribbler Apr 2018 #30
Sassy never really met Boots. By the time we moved into this house Sassy was already 18. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #33
Hugs to you! lunatica Apr 2018 #25
Condolences on the loss of your beloved Sassy. gademocrat7 Apr 2018 #26
Beautiful kitty, and lucky you were her human and took such good care of her lunamagica Apr 2018 #29
Bye-bye Sassy. You're such a good girl... Kittycow Apr 2018 #31
Safe home Sassy. MontanaMama Apr 2018 #32
Mirrors our home. Noises, cats, dogs, and Scooter! erronis Apr 2018 #35
It sounds to me like Scooter is in great hands! iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #51
Another beautiful and awe inspiring creation of the Creator. sprinkleeninow Apr 2018 #36
I'm so sorry janterry Apr 2018 #37
AwakeAtLast Apr 2018 #38
Wow rebe303 Apr 2018 #39
23 is amazing GregD Apr 2018 #41
💙 sprinkleeninow Apr 2018 #46
I'm so very sorry. catbyte Apr 2018 #42
Awwww you lost your "best friend" today FakeNoose Apr 2018 #43
A beauty LyndaG Apr 2018 #45
What a beautiful girl she was get the red out Apr 2018 #47
I'm so sorry KT2000 Apr 2018 #49
I'm so sorry. R.I.P., Sassy. sinkingfeeling Apr 2018 #50
Oh, I Am So Very Sorry DarthDem Apr 2018 #52
Wow. What a marvelously long life Sassy led. She left you with a lot of memories. mnhtnbb Apr 2018 #53
She looks very much like my long ago tiny pal Razz. Yonnie3 Apr 2018 #54
Wow! What a great, long life for Sassy! meadowlark5 Apr 2018 #55
Extraordinary kitty. Our thoughts are with you. slumcamper Apr 2018 #56
Now I'm curious about Bob. iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #58
So sorry... Phentex Apr 2018 #57
Thank you to everyone who posted kind words! iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #59
So sorry for you loss zeusdogmom Apr 2018 #60
My Sassy met her and escorted her over the Rainbow Bridge. raven mad Apr 2018 #61
Your Sassy was gorgeous! iscooterliberally Apr 2018 #63
And a catnip hookah! raven mad Apr 2018 #64
I'm so sorry for your loss. phylny Apr 2018 #62

kimbutgar

(21,148 posts)
2. RIP Sassy
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 01:24 PM
Apr 2018

23 years is a long time for a cat to live. Tonight expect to hear some bumpy noises in your house.

kimbutgar

(21,148 posts)
7. Oh my goodness youre right it will not be quiet tonight
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 01:30 PM
Apr 2018

When my two previous cats died both times we heard noises that sounded like they were still roaming around the house. My friend said they were saying goodbye before going to cat heaven.

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
11. You get used to the sounds they make and you expect it.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 01:43 PM
Apr 2018

Tonight when I get home I'll miss her bunting me with her head for affection from the couch. I'll also miss her little yowl for some milk in the morning. She always knew when I was making tea and I would giver her just a little splash of milk in a sauce cup. She loved it, but too much would upset her tummy.

sprinkleeninow

(20,248 posts)
34. When our boy 20 yrs. old in '95 was near to his repose and at the vet's for
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:09 PM
Apr 2018

a last time [liver disease], he did pass on Mothers' Day in the middle of the nite. I woke up to an indisputable 'meow' at approx. 4 a.m. When the doc told us the timing when he had passed, I cried hard remembering his voice saying "when we meet again mommie"! 😪🕯

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
40. '95 was the year Sassy was born.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:26 PM
Apr 2018

It's hard to believe that it's been that long. She was my wife's cat from before we got married, so she predates our marriage. Your story reminds me of when I took my old dog Cisco in to send him off at 14. He had two jobs during his life. During the day he guarded a delivery van. At night he guarded a van with spare PA equipment. Cisco was part of a rock n roll band. We would walk him on our breaks and he would come into the bars after closing. We didn't plan it this way, but on the day I put him down I walked out of the vets office. I got in the car and had NPR on. It was the 50th anniversary of 'the day the music died'. This was the day when Buddy Holly, Richie Valens and the Big Bopper went down in an airplane. I couldn't believe it. I was balling all the way home. My Cisco is Buddy Holly's dog now. He's the one on the left in all my posts.

sprinkleeninow

(20,248 posts)
44. Mystical 'things' come to us at certain times with a 'knowing'.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:37 PM
Apr 2018

You coupled the thought of your beloved boy with another spirit that had passed on. It was a sad thing but also concurrently a blessed thing you experienced.

Leghorn21

(13,524 posts)
4. Such a tiny lil girl!! I am so sorry, is - no matter how long our kitties are here with us,
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 01:27 PM
Apr 2018

it’s still jarring and sad when it’s “time”...all best wishes to you and

RIP, Sassy.

livetohike

(22,143 posts)
5. I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP Sassy. Cherish all the great
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 01:28 PM
Apr 2018

memories from those years. She must have been a joy to have as part of the family

grumpyduck

(6,235 posts)
13. I am so sorry for your loss
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 01:56 PM
Apr 2018

23 years is a long time. We had to send Burt to cat heaven this past Friday and we're devastated -- and we only had him for twelve years. I can't even imagine losing a pet after 23.

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
16. My condolences to you. From my perspective your situation would be harder to deal with.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:10 PM
Apr 2018

23 years is a very long time. Way longer than any of us would have expected this little cat to live. Yes, we're sad, but we have had plenty of time to prepare for this day. We also still have a house full of furry critters to comfort us. We'll be OK. Here's some hugs for you grumpyduck:

procon

(15,805 posts)
15. Such a proper Grand Dame, no doubt she was well loved.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:06 PM
Apr 2018

You did what's right, and 23 years is a lot of wonderful memories to cherish.

Moostache

(9,895 posts)
20. Saying goodbye is never easy, my condolences to you for your loss.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:21 PM
Apr 2018

Also my thanks to you for providing a loving home and life to Sassy for 22+ years. We lost one of our long time furry family members a few years back and it was hard then and only a little easier now, but in time the loss is replaced with or squeezed aside by the memories and the love that was given and shared.

RIP Sassy, and may your happy memories soon overwhelm the loss as well.

Riverman100

(275 posts)
23. Scooter is now 15, still ok but has had some little problems
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:34 PM
Apr 2018

When he does go I will be heartbroken. His jr partner Koko will be a mess for a while too I believe. But the point is that after my dog Buddy (a.k.a. Butthead) passed, for a few weeks I could hear the tags on his collar jingle in the morning. Once when we were just sitting and watching TV, my girlfriend turned to me and said "you better let Buddy in, be's out there barking". Then she realized....

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
27. I still see my old dog Cisco out of the corner of my eye sometimes.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:43 PM
Apr 2018

He's been gone almost 10 years now. I used to do deliveries and he would ride in the front passenger seat of the van when I was on my rounds. Sometimes my brain thinks he's still over there. He would lean up against the door and put is front right paw on the 'paw rest' while we drove.

bluescribbler

(2,116 posts)
24. When I was a kid we had a cat.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:35 PM
Apr 2018

She was black with white markings, and we called her Boots. When she joined our family, the only dog in the neighborhood was my friend's Shetland Sheepdog they called Shep. Other dogs joined the neighborhood over the years, and they soon learned not to mess with Boots. She would be relaxing in the shade of our lilac shrubs when a new puppy, Kelly for example, would come investigating. As Kelly came closer, boots would hiss, spit and swipe out at his snout with claws extended. Kelly was a German Shepherd who grew to approximately 20x Boots' size, but a hiss and spit never failed to send him packing. Shep, on the other hand, could tree Boots without half trying.

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
28. There's a black and white pit bull that lives in the house behind us.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:45 PM
Apr 2018

Her name is Boots. She loves cats, but doesn't like other dogs. Sassy had to deal with these guys for most of her life.

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
33. Sassy never really met Boots. By the time we moved into this house Sassy was already 18.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:08 PM
Apr 2018

Sassy couldn't make the jump over the 6 foot fence in our yard. I did catch my other cat Taz nose to nose with Boots in her yard when we first moved in. I almost panicked because I didn't know Boots yet. There was really nothing I could do except watch and hope for the best. As soon as Taz saw me, she jumped back over the fence as though she had been caught doing something wrong.

Kittycow

(2,396 posts)
31. Bye-bye Sassy. You're such a good girl...
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 02:50 PM
Apr 2018

I'm sure you've met the DU Honor Guard and furry, feathered, and all other sorts of Friends from here. The stories you've all shared must be hilarious

erronis

(15,257 posts)
35. Mirrors our home. Noises, cats, dogs, and Scooter!
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:12 PM
Apr 2018

A range of shelter dogs and cats have come through and we have loved each one individually and jointly. Mixes of pits, Akitas, border collies, bulldogs.

Right now, Scooter looks the most like your Sassy. Although our Scooter has only three legs (one rear one was severely deformed, probably by accident) and is only around 2yo.

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
51. It sounds to me like Scooter is in great hands!
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:51 PM
Apr 2018

We only have two senior dogs left. One came from a shelter and the other from a rescue group. We inherited two cats from my deceased mother in law. One cat followed us home from the dog park. The three youngest ones came from a feral litter that we rescued on our street. We trapped the parents and got them fixed out our local Humane Society. They live on our street and us and our next door neighbors keep them well fed.

GregD

(2,263 posts)
41. 23 is amazing
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:26 PM
Apr 2018

My "Buddy" passed the day after Thanksgiving and I'm still heartbroken. Miss him every day. You have my sympathy.

catbyte

(34,386 posts)
42. I'm so very sorry.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:29 PM
Apr 2018

It sounds like she had a long life and was well-loved. None of us can hope for more than that. The only time our furry loved ones are capable of breaking our hearts is when it's time for them to leave us. Again, I'm so very sorry.

FakeNoose

(32,639 posts)
43. Awwww you lost your "best friend" today
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:31 PM
Apr 2018

...and she looks great even in this photo. I'll bet she could have lied about her age and gotten away with it.
RIP Sassy!

KT2000

(20,577 posts)
49. I'm so sorry
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 03:43 PM
Apr 2018

It is so hard to lose our friend. I can see that she fit her name and likely gave you some laughs over her attitude. RIP Sassy.

mnhtnbb

(31,388 posts)
53. Wow. What a marvelously long life Sassy led. She left you with a lot of memories.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 04:03 PM
Apr 2018

I am sorry for the loss of your fur baby.

I have never believed in nor cared about "heaven". But I sure as hell hope there is a Rainbow Bridge because I dearly want
to see my furry friends again.

Yonnie3

(17,441 posts)
54. She looks very much like my long ago tiny pal Razz.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 04:04 PM
Apr 2018

Razz was short for Raspberry because she couldn't meow loudly and it came out sounding like Bronx cheer. It has been more than twenty years, but I still think of her dancing a message instead of meowing.

I am sorry for your loss.

meadowlark5

(2,795 posts)
55. Wow! What a great, long life for Sassy!
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 04:08 PM
Apr 2018

I'm so sorry for the loss of your fur friend But her long life is a testament to the love and care she got being part of your family.

slumcamper

(1,606 posts)
56. Extraordinary kitty. Our thoughts are with you.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 04:54 PM
Apr 2018

Pets weave themselves into our lives and become symbiotic. I understand the emptiness you must be feeling, BUT assuredly you did the loving and humane thing.

I would hope that, as a society, we can attain a point where assisted death with dignity becomes a universal human right with a foundation in law.

You kitty reminds me of "Bob" who also attained a similar age. Bob was already a well-established, adult neighborhood cat when we moved here. SHE (as it was eventually discovered) was borderline friendly but just as often cantankerous. Simple arithmetic suggests she was at least 20 at the end. An "outdoor" cat, she was quite old and decrepit at that point. Frail, in pain, and suffering through a harsh Iowa winter, we decided to have her put down. The night before the scheduled euthanasia, our youngest daughter asked to bring her inside. We agreed--the ONLY time Bob was in the house (so I thought)--and they spent some time together until Bob lost bladder control and was gently taken back to her winter box in our garage. The next morning, day of the procedure, we went to lift Bob from her box. She'd already left us.

There was something poetic in that entire episode. I hope you can find some similar comfort in your loss.



iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
58. Now I'm curious about Bob.
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 06:01 PM
Apr 2018

Who was letting her in and how many times was she in your house? By the way. We also had a girl cat named Taz. We got her as a baby kitten from a local mom and pop pet store many years ago. They only took in 'oops litters' that people found. They thought she was a he. We didn't realize until we went to the vet to get her neutered.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
57. So sorry...
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 05:32 PM
Apr 2018

23 years - WOW! That's amazing. I know she will be missed by all. I am so sorry for your loss.

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
59. Thank you to everyone who posted kind words!
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 06:02 PM
Apr 2018

It was very much appreciated! I'm going to sign off for the night. See you all tomorrow!

zeusdogmom

(994 posts)
60. So sorry for you loss
Wed Apr 18, 2018, 06:54 PM
Apr 2018

It can be so hard to say good bye to our fur family members.

May good memories of her ease the loss.

iscooterliberally

(2,860 posts)
63. Your Sassy was gorgeous!
Thu Apr 19, 2018, 11:39 AM
Apr 2018

I'll bet she's there with my Cisco, Nikki, & Rocky too. They're all having tuna steaks at a back stage party at the great gig in the sky.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
64. And a catnip hookah!
Thu Apr 19, 2018, 12:31 PM
Apr 2018

Vet figured about 4 months old when she adopted us. Matted, very underweight and so very fearful. She was a little over a year old in the picture.

I miss her every day.

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