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eppur_se_muova

(36,262 posts)
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 09:48 PM Dec 2023

Tinkerbell has lost her struggle. RIP Tinkerbell.

Last edited Fri Jan 5, 2024, 12:15 AM - Edit history (1)

She has been on felimazole for months to treat her hyperthyroidism, but kept losing weight until she was just skin and bones. Then she quit eating her pill pockets, and I kept finding loose pills where she had eaten around them. Then her prescription ran out while a new order took 10 days to arrive. The vet saw her on the 27th and , surprisingly, said her thyroid hormones were at perfectly normal levels. Her kidneys were starting to show signs of trouble, but she was a long way from where her sister Zoey's were a few days before she died. He said she might have a few months, but it couldn't be predicted accurately (of course I understood that already). But she had really stopped eating very suddenly just a few days before -- over the holidays, when the vet's office was closed. The vet gave me a prescription drug to stimulate her appetite and it seemed to be working -- she wasn't eating a whole lot, but she would eat small amounts every few hours, and I had hoped that might be enough for her to recover. But now she is too weak to climb, even into our laps, and can't drink out of the sink, which she has always done. She just will not drink out of a dish. The last time I lifted her into my lap she jumped back down and fell over on her side after landing and just laid there for several minutes. We have moved her bed and her food to the bathroom floor (she used to spend most of her time on the bathroom counter, don't ask why -- she's a cat), but she has yet to show the slightest interest in eating or drinking, even when I've tried to provide her with water by hand. I'm afraid she will die from dehydration if we can't get her on an IV before the 2nd. Possibly tonight, possibly tomorrow night; if she survives I can get her to the vet early and hope for a minor miracle but we know that she is in her end stage -- it is only a question of how soon. We just didn't expect it to happen so fast, with her thyroid apparently being stabilized, and her kidneys only beginning to show problems.

She has been our sweet furbaby for more than 17 years -- don't know the exact date Mother got her, and she was several months old at least then -- but no matter how long we have had her, it is hard to accept losing her. Her life was mostly trouble-free until I moved back in with my own two cats, but she has clearly been the boss of them, so she hasn't been denied much. She lived almost her entire life indoors, in this house, and now she will end her life here. Even with two other cats in the house, we will feel her loss deeply.

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Tinkerbell has lost her struggle. RIP Tinkerbell. (Original Post) eppur_se_muova Dec 2023 OP
Sending love and hugs to Tinker Bell and her loved ones 💕💗 MLAA Dec 2023 #1
I'm so sorry. nocoincidences Dec 2023 #2
Gentle passage, Tinker Bell. Ocelot II Dec 2023 #3
Sending love for you, your fur family and Tinker Bell. Bluethroughu Dec 2023 #4
So sad,,,, KarenS Dec 2023 #5
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope she passed gently. brer cat Dec 2023 #6
I'm sorry. There is never enough time with them. onecaliberal Dec 2023 #7
Great name and a good run Ellipsis Dec 2023 #8
sending you hugs and healing vibes for Tinkerbell macandsandy Dec 2023 #9
You've done your best for Tinker Bell. I hope you and kitty find some comfort Mousetoescamper Dec 2023 #10
Major healing ❤️‍🩹 vibes for Tinker Bell benfranklin1776 Dec 2023 #11
So sorry montanacowboy Dec 2023 #12
done. AllaN01Bear Dec 2023 #13
Healing and comfort to you and Tinker Bell nt spooky3 Dec 2023 #14
Comforting vibes on the way.. Permanut Dec 2023 #15
Lady Bast, please hold Your little Tinker Bell gently in Your loving arms. niyad Dec 2023 #16
Vibes sent Roy Rolling Dec 2023 #17
Lady Bast, please take Your Krusty home gently in Your loving arms, and niyad Jan 2024 #24
Thank you Roy Rolling Jan 2024 #44
I'm so sorry. Nt spooky3 Jan 2024 #25
Sending a hug to you and Tinker Bell democrank Dec 2023 #18
Sending comfort and healing vibes to sweet little TinkerBell. CousinIT Dec 2023 #19
Great idea! StarryNite Dec 2023 #21
Thanks for the suggestion. She will not even lick drops of water on her paw, so I don't know if it will work ... eppur_se_muova Jan 2024 #27
Thank you, I didn't even know such a thing existed! But she doesn't seem interested in licking it off. eppur_se_muova Jan 2024 #37
Sending healing vibes to Tinker Bell. StarryNite Dec 2023 #20
Bless PlutosHeart Dec 2023 #22
She thanks you for the lovely life you gave her..... Karadeniz Jan 2024 #23
It is hard to say goodbye to a family member LetMyPeopleVote Jan 2024 #26
Can you use a syringe or eyedropper to get some warm water into her? Bayard Jan 2024 #28
I tried an eyedropper, but she wouldn't have it. I bought a nursing bottle today, and I *think* she took a little. eppur_se_muova Jan 2024 #36
Well, that's good Bayard Jan 2024 #38
Hugs to you and Tinker Bell Mersky Jan 2024 #29
I'm very sorry, my good friend. I know how hard it is to lose a pet. NNadir Jan 2024 #30
I am so sorry about little Tinker Bell, peacebuzzard Jan 2024 #31
DU kitty vibes Wicked Blue Jan 2024 #32
One other idea catchnrelease Jan 2024 #33
I'm so sorry. area51 Jan 2024 #34
Sweet girl Deep State Witch Jan 2024 #35
We lost our precious Bichon on the 18th of December. SlimJimmy Jan 2024 #39
Holding you and Tinker Bell in love and light. niyad Jan 2024 #40
Thanks to all who sent thoughts and suggestions. We tried just about everything. eppur_se_muova Jan 2024 #41
Lady Bast, please take Your Tinker Bell gently home in Your loving arms, and niyad Jan 2024 #42
Sending love and hugs Goddessartist Jan 2024 #43

Ellipsis

(9,124 posts)
8. Great name and a good run
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:05 PM
Dec 2023

I had a cat that I gave her an IV for fluids... it worked out.


Our best to you and all.

macandsandy

(17 posts)
9. sending you hugs and healing vibes for Tinkerbell
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:22 PM
Dec 2023

So sorry to hear this! Our fur babies keep us feeling happy and loved as we do them I'm sure.
Sending you good vibes and healing !
May things work out.
It's so hard when our animals are sick and / or older.
Best wishes
Sandy

Mousetoescamper

(3,215 posts)
10. You've done your best for Tinker Bell. I hope you and kitty find some comfort
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:31 PM
Dec 2023

Holidays are an especially hard time to have a sick pet. I had a worrisome situation on Christmas Eve when my 15-year-old cat was yowling and seemed to be in pain. I would've taken her to a vet if one had been open. I comforted her as best I could. After a few hours she seemed to be fine and there hasn't been a repeat of the episode.

It's always too soon. I'm not sure what comfort it might bring, but you and Tinker Bell are in my thoughts tonight.



benfranklin1776

(6,445 posts)
11. Major healing ❤️‍🩹 vibes for Tinker Bell
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:36 PM
Dec 2023

And hugs for you as this is a terrible time for you. Fervently hoping you both make it through this.

montanacowboy

(6,089 posts)
12. So sorry
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 10:41 PM
Dec 2023

I had a cat I had to give IV's to twice a day. He was a wonderful orange persian and he tolerated the needles. It's so hard to let them go. But when they are so sick, it's a blessing. Hugs to your kitty.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
16. Lady Bast, please hold Your little Tinker Bell gently in Your loving arms.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:07 PM
Dec 2023

Soothe her, and send comfort to her worried loved ones.

Holding all of you in light and love. Vibes for best possible outcome. We are here for you and Tinker Bell.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
24. Lady Bast, please take Your Krusty home gently in Your loving arms, and
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 12:49 AM
Jan 2024

send peace and comfort to their grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious Krusty. Do not be surprised if Krusty comes to visit you.

CousinIT

(9,245 posts)
19. Sending comfort and healing vibes to sweet little TinkerBell.
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:25 PM
Dec 2023

Poor little angel. Have you tried that malt tasting stuff in a tube? I think it's Nutri-Cal or some such. Pet stores have it usually, the cat or dog kind will work the same.

https://www.petsmart.com/dog/vitamins-and-supplements/dietary-supplements/petag-high-calorie-gel-supplement-for-dogs-5305423.html

StarryNite

(9,445 posts)
21. Great idea!
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:53 PM
Dec 2023

Sub Q liquids and Nutri-Cal can be very helpful. If the kitty doesn't want to eat it putting it on the top of a paw will often inspire them because they don't like it being there and will lick it off.

eppur_se_muova

(36,262 posts)
27. Thanks for the suggestion. She will not even lick drops of water on her paw, so I don't know if it will work ...
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 01:31 AM
Jan 2024

but will try to find it tomorrow.

eppur_se_muova

(36,262 posts)
37. Thank you, I didn't even know such a thing existed! But she doesn't seem interested in licking it off.
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 11:42 PM
Jan 2024

I tried touching it to her nose and lips. She *really* doesn't seem to like having anything force-fed to her. But she is drinking now, and the vet is open tomorrow.

PlutosHeart

(1,276 posts)
22. Bless
Sun Dec 31, 2023, 11:57 PM
Dec 2023

Am wishing healing for her but if she must leave may she go swiftly and with your love binding her and back.
Bless.
So many friends I know are going through fur baby losses right now.

Bayard

(22,073 posts)
28. Can you use a syringe or eyedropper to get some warm water into her?
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 02:26 AM
Jan 2024

You can also mix some warm water with the nutritional supplement others mentioned, or even some tuna juice. Just a tiny bit at a time, so it doesn't shoot into her lungs. She needs hydration and calories.

It is incredibly hard to lose our fur kids. Please keep us posted.

eppur_se_muova

(36,262 posts)
36. I tried an eyedropper, but she wouldn't have it. I bought a nursing bottle today, and I *think* she took a little.
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 11:39 PM
Jan 2024

The best news is, she is doing a little drinking out of a bowl, at last, but she is mostly splashing her paws in the water, and not licking her paws afterwards, as far as I can tell.

Bayard

(22,073 posts)
38. Well, that's good
Tue Jan 2, 2024, 01:48 AM
Jan 2024

Just be sure to get it over the top of her tongue. I'd try the tuna juice--drained off of water packed tuna.

Hang in there.

Mersky

(4,981 posts)
29. Hugs to you and Tinker Bell
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 02:56 AM
Jan 2024

It's rough when your kitty is crashing, been there and it’s terrifying. If you have an oral medication syringe, could try mixing some wet cat food with water and squirting it in her mouth periodically (avoid mixing in tasty human food that contains salt). Any calories and water could help get through the night. Also, 5 mg of omeprazole (1/4 coated tablet dissolved in a tad of water and given by oral syringe) to reduce the acid stomach that tanks their appetite. We had to do that for a couple weeks. I dumped all knowledge about pulling my 15 year old kitteh back from the brink of stage 4 kidney disease here:
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1161&pid =82563

Hope this helps, but really, it’s the loving the good years and opening our homes that matter.

peacebuzzard

(5,172 posts)
31. I am so sorry about little Tinker Bell,
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 03:22 PM
Jan 2024

sending our love, from me and my kitties. Hugs, and hope she gains some strength. I lost my sweet girl kitty of 18 years who had kidney issues over 3 years ago. At the end I think the problem was she had an undetected heart condition and the IV fluids were excessive for her frail state. The vet instructed to give her sub q fluids which worked for a while but was more than she could handle at once. I think it would have been better in small amount of liquids or moist, wet food. She was only able to tolerate small amounts. Best wishes eppur_se_muova, sending hugs and well wishes for you and Tinker Bell.

catchnrelease

(1,945 posts)
33. One other idea
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 08:06 PM
Jan 2024

You may have tried this already but if you can get some Churros (a liquidy treat in a squeezable tube) and see if it will get her started eating it could help. At the kitten rescue I volunteer with, we have a cat that came in last weekend and he hadn't eaten a thing. He didn't seem ill other than a snotty nose. After trying many kinds of food, including baby food, we took a tube of churro and squeezed some into his mouth a little at a time. At first he resisted but as he kept swallowing it he started licking it from the tube. Then we offered human baby food meat and he went for that finally and now he's eating a more normal cat food.

It does sound like your kitty is shutting down, but hopefully you'll find something to help her hang on for a little longer.

Deep State Witch

(10,426 posts)
35. Sweet girl
Mon Jan 1, 2024, 09:48 PM
Jan 2024

May Bastet welcome you with open arms, sweetie.

It happened quickly with my Tynan, too, and he was hyperthyroid and wouldn't take his meds.

SlimJimmy

(3,180 posts)
39. We lost our precious Bichon on the 18th of December.
Tue Jan 2, 2024, 02:11 AM
Jan 2024

She died in her sleep in her bed in the living room. A gentle end for a gentle soul. A friend of ours sent this card to us and I'd like to share it with you ...

"Good bye hurts so much
But someday you will think
of your animal friend
with smiles instead of tears
and it will feel as if this little soul
left a rainbow in your heart."

eppur_se_muova

(36,262 posts)
41. Thanks to all who sent thoughts and suggestions. We tried just about everything.
Fri Jan 5, 2024, 12:14 AM
Jan 2024

Ultimately, it seems it was just her time. The vet took one look at her -- it was the very earliest appt I could get -- and said it was time to put her sleep. But we had to make an appt for later in the day for that. Before that time came, she had died a natural death in her mother's lap.

Everything we tried seemed to work, at least a little bit, at first, but then it didn't. I just wish we could have brought her in before New Year's -- when she kept dropping down almost on her face every time she tried to drink, whether from the sink or a bowl, I think it was obvious that she was not going to make it much longer, but she kept trying to eat and drink and even wandered around the house up to a few days before her death. We just kept grasping at false hope, and fighting the calendar. In the end, the holidays helped cause us to run out of time to prevent her final suffering.

We had her mortal remains cremated today. We will have a small keepsake "urn" -- really a walnut box with her name and photo -- to remember her by. RIP, sweet baby.

niyad

(113,306 posts)
42. Lady Bast, please take Your Tinker Bell gently home in Your loving arms, and
Fri Jan 5, 2024, 05:08 AM
Jan 2024

send peace and comfort to her grieving loved ones.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby girl. I know that you did everything possible for her, and I am glad she crossed in the arms of her loving family. Do not be surprised if she comes to see you.

Those of us owned by our furries are here for you, if you have need.

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