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I won't link to the celebratory circle jerk post - I was warned by a person I respect to not make this appear to be a personal attack.
The issue that has my shorts in a bunch is the attack on BRAVENAK half way down the thread.
An email from BRAVENAK explaining why BRAVE is fighting back was shared and is being used as proof of how "those people, they, them" are terrible and truly racist.
Now as I have stated before, I am just a middle aged white man from the hills of Appalachia - I truly have no standing in the fight other than being disgusted by the tone and viewpoint of that thread.
When you read someone's reasons for their actions and all you can take from it is "nuh-uh, YOU ARE" you are proving the point.
All you can do is squeal happily that you never believed her anyway?
That this just exposes how all of them are just trying to paint themselves as the victims?
Well, maybe all of you clueless fucks don't recognize that language, but I do.
The folks on this group go to almost absurd lengths trying to avoid calling you racist douche bags, but as an outside observer I can't for the life of me figure out why they bother.
Any critical statement causes you to collapse into a storm of aggrieved pearl clutching condescending rationalization.
You sound weak, and it sickens me to read this crap every damn day.
randys1
(16,286 posts)I saw that attack of her, exposing a PRIVATE message.
When this happens, you know who you are dealing with.
But then we have known for a long time now.
Number23
(24,544 posts)with a good number of these people about a year ago. Most of the black regulars in this forum were like because we knew these folks and we knew what they were about and couldn't understand why the hell she was befriending these people.
But a part of me knew they'd show their asses. These kinds of people ALWAYS show their behinds. And when they did, she walked away and they hate her even more for it now.
They're attempts to hurt her, to cause her pain do absolutely NOTHING but show their own dearth of humanity and character (not to mention lives). The more they attack her, the bigger asses they make of themselves.
randys1
(16,286 posts)denying their own racism.
By definition a man born into a misogynistic society WILL be misogynistic to one degree or another.
By definition...you fill in the blank
The Polack MSgt
(13,196 posts)It always bothers me - the casual unreasoning racist attitudes that people don't even seem to notice.
I'm no saint, but when told that my actions or words are hurtful, I try to think through the reasons. Too many people simply throw out a defensive denial, or worse assume that the person confronting them is a liar and is attacking them for some shady motive of their own.
When the words justice and equality were replaced with "tolerance" momentum was lost. People act like as long as we aren't actively excluding or attacking POC that shit is all good.
You tolerate an unwelcome guest or a minor irritant - Tolerance is a scam
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)It seems what we had to tolerate was not clearly defined. This isn't just in regards to black Americans - but quite a few "others".
Yesterday it was a black man at Trump rally - tomorrow it could be a white man at a rally to give Syrian refugees safe harbor.
What treatment and actions we tolerate towards one - can always be extended to another.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)I feel very hurt and sad for my brothers and sisters. It pains me. But I sure as hell won't sit down and shut up. Fuck no. I won't do that.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)So they are upset that she changed her mind from one candidate to another. Now they're following her around from thread to thread making all sorts of hostile posts toward her. It's incredibly disruptive. It's incredibly offensive.
I am so sorry that this is happening. As you say, the more they attack her the bigger asses they make of themselves. As much as we can say it doesn't bother us, I can honestly say that it pains me to see it.
It's tag-team bullying. For no point other than to hurt and embarrass and humiliate and make people not want to post, not want to express their thoughts or politics views or share their laughs and sorrows with others. I wish they would stop. It hurts.
leftofcool
(19,460 posts)She is used to being stalked because she is a powerful Black woman who speaks her mind. She is used to it just like John Lewis got used to being stalked on his Face Book page. I would say she is right up there with damn good company and just like John Lewis and others, she doesn't give one gawd damn what certain people think of her.
Evergreen Emerald
(13,070 posts)Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)She's smart, funny, conversational, friendly. We here in this group liked her the moment she started posting here. I couldn't care less who she says or doesn't say she's voting for. And she doesn't treat me that way either. I'm glad I have met friendly people online here at DU. I will continue being friendly with them. That to me is just the only way I can tolerate it. Some things are just so cruel and sad I can hardly bear seeing them. I couldn't look at what happened on John Lewis' face book page. He is such a good man, so strong and dignified. I'm glad some people like him and brave have a thicker skin than me. It's really hard to take, seeing this ignorance and hurtful actions toward people who don't deserve such treatment. No one deserves such treatment.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)It's pathetic.
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)And for taking my advice.
And you are correct - all she did is explain why she's fighting back.
Kid you I not TPS - now someone at DU is running around referring to regular members of this group on twitter as house you knw what's. And if we link to it or upload the screen shot we get a hide.
brer cat
(24,612 posts)I know they don't control what is on twitter, but they can certainly stop the person from posting here.
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)And they don't need to know either. But we can all certainly smirk at the epic meltdown.
Number23
(24,544 posts)Wait... am I supposed to be upset that people I don't know or care about, and think are dumber than a bag of hammers and wouldn't spit on if they were on fire don't like me?
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)Feel vindicated.
Oh yeah another thing - its immature to say I told you so . . .
But I'd love to say it to a few pearl clutches right now.
Number23
(24,544 posts)A poster who gets a time out about every 4-6 weeks and who has a WELL ESTABLISHED reputation for being one of the nastiest, most deranged and hateful people in the history of this web site.
Another poster with a WELL ESTABLISHED history of being incredibly hostile to black people and to women, and who called another black woman a "token" because she (rightfully) called him and a bunch of his friends out on their racism.
Sometimes looking at the people making the accusation tells you all you need to know about the accusation itself.
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)Especially the one who insists I'm stalking him.
Clue ass wipe (since I looked at two of THAT girl's threads and she gets away with it I'm calling someone - a man an ass wipe)
When your posts show up in Latest?
There's this little x next to them.
I click it.
Bye Felicia!
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Says more about the tweeter than about us.
GusBob
(7,286 posts)Voted of course to hide, then it was reposted in another thread and got a hide. In the discussion it appears to me the pm was being passed around off forum and someone encouraged it to be posted on DU.
And then to top it off in a "good bye cruel DU thread" Bravenak gets blindsided for no good reason, that thread gets locked, the poster carries it over to a group and calls Brave another name
Disgusting. People are saying primaries are like this around here. I call bullshit
The Polack MSgt
(13,196 posts)That it's about politics anymore, not to me at least
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)Number23
(24,544 posts)wiped their boy out of competition in the black community.
randys1
(16,286 posts)The way it works is as long as Black folk are quiet and docile, fine.
As soon as they get uppity, uh I mean opinionated and god forbid, angry, then the rules change
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Like 'if I can't get my way on everything I will just go around insulting people.' No sense of responsibility for their words thoughts or deeds.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)Sad they are bent out of shape over one small woman like myself. I was just keeping it real right quick.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)bravenak
(34,648 posts)lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Always have. Always will.
Number23
(24,544 posts)The folks on this group go to almost absurd lengths trying to avoid calling you racist douche bags, but as an outside observer I can't for the life of me figure out why they bother.
Any critical statement causes you to collapse into a storm of aggrieved pearl clutching condescending rationalization.You sound weak
Damn.
The Polack MSgt
(13,196 posts)Believe it or not I was trying to throttle down from my original draft
Number23
(24,544 posts)feel.
If I felt like it would make a bit of difference, I wouldn't care. But we all know it will have no effect at all except to increase my blood pressure so I don't bother.
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)But I do choke on a lot of liquid.
How am I supposed to take these people seriously?
So much assery running it's course.
mopinko
(70,231 posts)i come here to get the news, put my 2¢ in here and there, but keep my head down.
i am an old white lady, but these people make me sick also.
and oh yeah, liking hillary makes you a sexist and a warmonger. really, i have been around a long time, thought i had seen it all. but it finds a new way to make me sick almost daily.
tpm, you are dead on right.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)And that's one reason I'll keep saying whatever I want to say. I won't be silenced by fools who treat everyone else with contempt. They don't even respect themselves enough to treat people with different views about racial matters or economics or the practical versus the ideal with respect. So, there's little reason we should. Keep on expressing yourself mopinko. I love your posts.
mopinko
(70,231 posts)i have nothing to add to a conversation that has devolved into a schoolyard pissing contest.
all that comes to mind is- turn the page already.
betsuni
(25,638 posts)Children crying to mommy about imaginary bullies and monsters. There is no bottom of the barrel. The last couple of days... I see people saying horrible hateful things (and lies) about people I greatly respect and then turn around and complain about "those people" being divisive and trolls and non-Democratic. The hypocrisy is breathtaking.
By the way, I missed the thread with the Bravenak email -- could somebody PM me and tell me where it is? Edit: never mind. I saw it. Of course it was obvious bravenak was only teasing with the Hillary supporter thing. For people who think they're so damn smart, they have zero common sense or insight. None at all.
And I finally saw it too. I thought it was funny and right on. Anyone who doesn't take themselves so seriously would see it that way too. They're so self-righteous, they think they're 'changing the world' by tag-teaming someone for a funny private correspondence. Makes you wanna puke. Or laugh and keep posting.
Starry Messenger
(32,342 posts)Honestly, the folks from this group are actually the nicest and most restrained posters in the face of the most patronizing bs. Just a little pushback on the offenders, and out come the crying towels from some of the worst hypocrites.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)go on about 'calling out' other people for their 'hypocrisy.' Yeesh. Everyone is hypocritical to some extent. Everyone changes their mind about some things from month to month or year to year. To not do so is to not grow.
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)against me for being one of the more high profile Hillary supporters here, among others.
The impotent rage these folks have against those of us I mentioned above is really a wonder to behold.
These folks claim they are more progressive than thou and want the world to be a better place, but they clearly can't even handle the minimal power that being a large majority here on DU affords them vis-a-vis the jury system and shouting down those who don't agree with them with ad-hominem insults.
Liberalism and Progressivism is supposed to be about not running over people who find themselves on the wrong side of the powerful. Those attacking us fail on that score miserably.
JustAnotherGen
(31,906 posts)Thrown your way.
lovemydog
(11,833 posts)Always enjoyed your insights. I may not always agree with them but yeesh, who cares. I still respect you and appreciate how you treat others with different views with respect. As you say, that's a part of liberalism and progressivism. It's not rigid Stalinistic behavior, in which anyone who changes their mind automatically becomes a 'counter-revolutionary' to be stalked and harassed.