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qwlauren35

(6,148 posts)
Sun Feb 21, 2016, 11:20 PM Feb 2016

I fell off the fence.

This doesn't exactly belong in the AA Group, but I think the men here will understand.

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A funny thing happened to me today. I haven't said anything about the presidential primaries on Facebook, in part because I've been focused on Donna Edwards' Senate campaign. But there was another reason. For the most part, I didn't care. I knew that the heat was up between Bernie supporters and Hillary supporters, and it has been ugly. VERY ugly. And listening to Bernie supporters bash Hillary supporters was a big turn-off. I had done some reading about the candidates' positions on their websites, and Bernie's were definitely more ambitious, more pie-in-the-sky. I can see why he has so much appeal, although I think he'll have to take amazing liberties with Executive Orders... but all that to say, I was on the fence. Well, today, I fell off the fence and landed in the Hillary camp.

It was a weird thing really. I was reading about a group of airline stewardesses who had sued and won the right to wear pants. For them, it was a BIG deal. And I watched some men come along and talk about how they wanted to wear kilts. They really didn't understand. I don't think they wanted to understand. There were some women who tried to explain. How skirts are cold and impractical in cold weather, are impractical in most male-centered workplaces, and just in general are restrictive, on purpose. And then one man said "it's just a custom, it's a cultural thing". As if that excuses instances of sexism. At any rate, my feminist rage kicked in, and I fell off the fence. It's time for a woman president, Hillary has groomed herself for the job, and by golly, I'm going to vote for her. Sure, she's not as progressive as Bernie. Not by miles. Yes, she gets corporate money. Yes, she raked in millions as a speaker. Yes, yes, yes, she fails the progressive litmus test. But by gosh, I think she has the cajones to do the job, and to do the job well. So, IF she wins the nomination, I will campaign for her. This has surprised me. But sexism pushed me over the edge. And I want Hillary.

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I fell off the fence. (Original Post) qwlauren35 Feb 2016 OP
Wonderful that you've decided.... FrenchieCat Feb 2016 #1
appreciate your honesty and the post mgmaggiemg Feb 2016 #2
She and Bernie really aren't that far apart based on individual issues. She is ranked the 11th most Liberal_Stalwart71 Feb 2016 #3
DU E-mail me about the campaign. qwlauren35 Feb 2016 #7
Thanks for your support! BainsBane Feb 2016 #4
Bravo! Kick and rec. lamp_shade Feb 2016 #5
Your post made me cry Coolest Ranger Feb 2016 #6

FrenchieCat

(68,867 posts)
1. Wonderful that you've decided....
Sun Feb 21, 2016, 11:42 PM
Feb 2016

I support Hillary because I saw her in action against my candidate in 08, and was well impressed with her determined tenacity, making me understand that she can win and probably might have if things didn't just happened in a particular way. Cause me, I realize that without putting up the best all around, we will all wandering around the desert for 25 more years, scratching our behinds trying to figure out what happened! I may not have that long, nor many others!

I'm not voting for my BFF, not looking for a candidate that has to check every one of my boxes, although the box that says winner is one of my must have!

 

Liberal_Stalwart71

(20,450 posts)
3. She and Bernie really aren't that far apart based on individual issues. She is ranked the 11th most
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 12:55 AM
Feb 2016

progressive/liberal Senator. I don't think that's too bad.

Anyway, I haven't warmed to HRC, but I do think reality is settling in.

By the way, I'm in Maryland and rooting for Donna. I need to get involved, though. I haven't been working hard enough for her campaign. I will do something about that this coming week.

Thank for sharing. I love your story. As a black woman, I can most definitely relate.

qwlauren35

(6,148 posts)
7. DU E-mail me about the campaign.
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 12:38 PM
Feb 2016

I'm quite involved and can hook you in to wherever you are. There are activities you can help with at every level.

Just let me know. We would LOVE to have you.

Lauren

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