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La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 03:04 PM Aug 2014

I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be Black, especially after each such attack

I strongly identify as a person of color, but I do so knowing, that my experience is not the experience of Black people in this country. No one really sees me as a threat or a danger, I do not walk around with the fear that someone will shoot me and get away with it, because of the color of my skin.

Every time an unarmed young black boy is murdered these days, I feel such sadness, and during these times I always wonder how much sorrow must the black community feel, how does the mother of this child go on with her life? I am not part of this community, but if it makes me so sad, I cannot imagine how it must make people in the community feel.

The act of killing a young child is horrifying, but the defense of this act that generally follows is even more appalling. it makes me feel very alienated, not just from right wingers but also plenty of people who identify as liberals.


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I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be Black, especially after each such attack (Original Post) La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 OP
LOL. Not to make ligt of the OP; but ... 1StrongBlackMan Aug 2014 #1
i think it would matter to the people who survive after me La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #2
Recing for your final line Number23 Aug 2014 #3
yes, either by completely ignoring this issue because it wont effect them ever La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #4
+1000 Blue_Tires Sep 2014 #20
Right now JustAnotherGen Aug 2014 #5
i am sceptical about how much real change will be affected by this killing La Lioness Priyanka Aug 2014 #6
No one is more cynical than me JustAnotherGen Aug 2014 #7
Racism in America can only be solved by white people... BaggersRDumb Aug 2014 #8
Where have you been all of my DU life! JustAnotherGen Aug 2014 #9
I have learned SOOOO much in the past few years from my African American friends... BaggersRDumb Aug 2014 #10
My mom JustAnotherGen Aug 2014 #11
White privilege is the fluffy, fluffy marshmallow that keeps white people from SEEING Number23 Aug 2014 #13
Amen to it all! JustAnotherGen Aug 2014 #15
Exactly. The idea that only rich whites perpetuated, encouraged and benefitted from racism Number23 Aug 2014 #16
racism is a disease of white people noiretextatique Aug 2014 #14
I am in love with the OP that trumad did on that Number23 Aug 2014 #17
I missed a Trumad post? JustAnotherGen Aug 2014 #18
I'm trying to find that OP...ah, found it! OneGrassRoot Sep 2014 #19
point has been made for decades now heaven05 Aug 2014 #12
 

1StrongBlackMan

(31,849 posts)
1. LOL. Not to make ligt of the OP; but ...
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 07:28 PM
Aug 2014
No one really sees me as a threat or a danger, I do not walk around with the fear that someone will shoot me and get away with it, because of the color of my skin.


Honestly, the fear is of being shot ... If I'm shot, I really wouldn't care much whether the person that shot me gets away with it.
 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
2. i think it would matter to the people who survive after me
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 08:40 PM
Aug 2014

like my mother and my wife. that's how i meant it

Number23

(24,544 posts)
3. Recing for your final line
Mon Aug 18, 2014, 10:22 PM
Aug 2014
it makes me feel very alienated, not just from right wingers but also plenty of people who identify as liberals.
 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
4. yes, either by completely ignoring this issue because it wont effect them ever
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 03:51 PM
Aug 2014

or by randomly condoning actions because the victim was not perfect

JustAnotherGen

(31,874 posts)
5. Right now
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 05:49 PM
Aug 2014

Seeing so many people disturbed by Mr. Brown's death - its AOK. That's how it feels. I think more people are starting to see it. What a shame that guy had to die to get across a point that has been made time and again. ooooohhhhhmmmm

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
6. i am sceptical about how much real change will be affected by this killing
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 06:02 PM
Aug 2014

other killings have occurred, and really not much has changed

institutionalized racism, at its core is about protecting assets (land, property, labor etc) and the entrenched do not want to give up power/control ever.

maybe, i am just depressed about this, and my current outlook is just a reflection of my sadness.

JustAnotherGen

(31,874 posts)
7. No one is more cynical than me
Tue Aug 19, 2014, 06:10 PM
Aug 2014
what s important is the world is watching this play out -as Bravenak stated in another thread - the citizens of Ferguson are getting tips on what to do from the Middle East!
 

BaggersRDumb

(186 posts)
8. Racism in America can only be solved by white people...
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 06:36 PM
Aug 2014

Empathy to what someone is feeling may be required for these same white people to finally solve this issue.

Empathy may only come with familiarity of the problem, but as white privilege protects most white people from experiencing what BLACK people experience everyday all day, might be a long road.

I suspect the African American community is no longer willing to go down a long road, I suspect they think they have waited long enough.

JustAnotherGen

(31,874 posts)
9. Where have you been all of my DU life!
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 07:00 PM
Aug 2014
I've said it sooo many times - I didn't put the race card in the deck - no black American did.

We just have to live in the social construct in which it exists.

I'm not the one with the hang ups and biases - so I can't fix what someone else essentially is on the inside.

I'm not co-dependent. The dominant culture needs to figure this one out.
 

BaggersRDumb

(186 posts)
10. I have learned SOOOO much in the past few years from my African American friends...
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 07:02 PM
Aug 2014

And from my Gay friends.

We will walk hand in hand, arms locked, and they wont be able to stop us all....

Some of us white folk, have your back, finally.

(Not to forget the white folk of SNCC and Mississippi Burning, etc)

Number23

(24,544 posts)
13. White privilege is the fluffy, fluffy marshmallow that keeps white people from SEEING
Wed Aug 20, 2014, 10:21 PM
Aug 2014

let alone actually addressing this problem.

And what I'm seeing now is a growing number of whites that are saying "it's not white people. It's the ONE PERCENT stoking all of this and laughing all the way to the bank." So not only is white privilege an issue but this race to act as though only RICH whites have contributed to/benefitted from this evil adds another layer to this.

I've got no time or patience for this argument, in all honesty. I think it's lazy, ignorant and dishonest and it gives every day white people who AREN'T rich all the cover they need to act as though they don't have a dog in this fight and don't have any responsibility along with the rest of us to get rid of this 400 year old blight on our country.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
16. Exactly. The idea that only rich whites perpetuated, encouraged and benefitted from racism
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:13 PM
Aug 2014

is so ignorant I can't stand it. Like I said, I've got no patience -- NONE -- for that line of argument. Even dirt poor whites had privileges that other people never had.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
17. I am in love with the OP that trumad did on that
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:16 PM
Aug 2014

I think that's the first time I've paid trumad any real attention to be honest.

But that OP had me almost in tears. Not only the quote but seeing Einstein teaching those students at Lincoln University just did something to me.

JustAnotherGen

(31,874 posts)
18. I missed a Trumad post?
Fri Aug 22, 2014, 08:45 PM
Aug 2014

I wonder if I responded to it. Trumad is actually one of my favorites around here that I used to read when I just read at DU. Might not always agree - but that poster always gives me food for thought.

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