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cbayer

(146,218 posts)
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:42 AM Apr 2015

Women's Equality in the Church is no Longer Negotiable

http://religiondispatches.org/womens-equality-in-the-church-is-no-longer-negotiable/

BY MARY E. HUNT APRIL 23, 2015



Champagne corks did not pop on either side of the Atlantic on April 16, 2015 when the Vatican and the Leadership Conference of Women Religious announced the end of the Doctrinal Assessment of LCWR, but there was certainly shared relief that this sorry chapter in church history is closed.

The Vatican insisted, and the women agreed, to a thirty-day moratorium on discussing the final document so it will be some time before concrete information emerges. Even this small matter demonstrates what I think is the most important takeaway: pushing back against unjust authority can work, but it does not change the fundamental power equation.

Without structural changes to a top heavy, patriarchal institution, there is little to prevent a repeat of this kind of abuse, waste of resources, or worse.

Catholics can do better and we deserve better.

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Women's Equality in the Church is no Longer Negotiable (Original Post) cbayer Apr 2015 OP
Women's equality in the Catholic Church has NEVER been negotiable skepticscott Apr 2015 #1
It's not negotiable and never will be. That's how the RCC works. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #2
Hate is OK because religion is *special*, you see. trotsky Apr 2015 #3
Please cross post this in Interfaith where it can be discussed okasha Apr 2015 #4
Yes, an echo chamber is probably a better location. trotsky Apr 2015 #5
That's unfair. She didn't ask to post it in A&A. rug Apr 2015 #16
Good point. Trotsky meant an EMPTY echo chamber. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #67
Why do you keep posting there? rug Apr 2015 #69
Because we grow weary and disgusted by your feeble apologia for the RCC. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #71
"we". I was right! rug Apr 2015 #73
'we' As in the denizens of a&a. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #74
"we", as in speaking with one mind. rug Apr 2015 #75
make sure you fill out the tithing application. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #80
"Has the recipient received tithes from St. Brigid's before?" rug Apr 2015 #82
I did. this is how the church disburses some of the contributions it collects. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #87
Yes, it's called "charity". rug Apr 2015 #90
It must, since the RCC has such deep pockets to lobby against same sex marriage and other civil righ AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #93
Circular. rug Apr 2015 #95
Feel free to cross post, okasha cbayer Apr 2015 #6
Can't do it from my phone. okasha Apr 2015 #13
Does a tree make a sound if it falls in the woods and no one hears it? cbayer Apr 2015 #15
Nor is it of consequence if the only response okasha Apr 2015 #17
Exactamente! cbayer Apr 2015 #18
You mean without reminder that the church squashed these nuns? Goblinmonger Apr 2015 #8
Yes, you wouldn't want to be distracted skepticscott Apr 2015 #10
While the outcome is mixed, I think there is some good news here. cbayer Apr 2015 #11
So you're all a-twitter skepticscott Apr 2015 #12
Wow, that bar is pretty low. trotsky Apr 2015 #14
You mean you want to stick your fingers in your ears and pretend its an improvement. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #68
Apparently not as important skepticscott Apr 2015 #19
Why did you post in Interfaith when the hosts asked you not to do that? hrmjustin Apr 2015 #20
Unless you block somomeone, they can post what and where they want. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #22
I will just have to pick up the pieces of my life after your most serious accusation. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #23
You'd be better off seeking a group on reading comprehension instead. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #39
When you lift a hand to help out here I might take what you say seriously. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #41
You are an inspirational role model, sir. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #43
I try sir! hrmjustin Apr 2015 #44
MADem locked the post, not Justin. okasha Apr 2015 #64
First time i got called despicable here. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #96
Not his first mistake. okasha Apr 2015 #97
I stand by the lock. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #98
As you should. okasha Apr 2015 #99
Since you claim that justin had nothing to do with skepticscott Apr 2015 #113
There's that persecution complex and lack of reading comprehension. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #108
Accusing a member of despicable behavior is different from calling that member despicable? rug Apr 2015 #112
Your attempt to walk it back is cute but a fail. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #115
Walk it back? I don't think you're using that correctly. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #118
Why are you talking to me the "despicable" "tyrant" as I have been called. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #124
He didn't call you phil89 Apr 2015 #152
Yeah real distinction there. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #153
Oh, Justin..your devotion to host duty is admirable..truly skepticscott Apr 2015 #35
As host I must think of the people who post in there. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #37
Except that my OP was not personal skepticscott Apr 2015 #45
The better question is why after being warned not to post in the room did you feel the need to hrmjustin Apr 2015 #48
I explained that..did you not read that part? skepticscott Apr 2015 #52
I have already told you why it was locked. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #56
And your "explanation" failed to hold water, justin skepticscott Apr 2015 #58
Nice try Scott. A for effort. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #59
You seem to be at a loss for answers, justin skepticscott Apr 2015 #62
RESPECT MY AUTHORITAH! AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #100
A tyrant in word and action. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #109
Justin is a tyrant okasha Apr 2015 #120
It is hilarious. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #123
"...in Interfaith where it can be discussed without distraction." cleanhippie Apr 2015 #21
Or: Post it there so that skepticscott Apr 2015 #25
How's that "discussion" going, okasha? skepticscott Apr 2015 #114
ECHO Echo echo.......echo AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #135
At their own peril, sir. Goblinmonger Apr 2015 #7
Rather, the nuns were reminded skepticscott Apr 2015 #9
Oops. beam me up scottie Apr 2015 #24
They don't even want it there.. skepticscott Apr 2015 #26
Looks like they reposted it because...cooties. beam me up scottie Apr 2015 #28
Yes, the version they reposted skepticscott Apr 2015 #30
You were asked by the hosts not to post in there. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #31
What was it about this post that you found offensive? skepticscott Apr 2015 #36
Nothing. You personally were told not to post there because of your anti-religious views. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #38
Then have the guts to block Scott if you don't want 'em posting there. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #40
Really? You are really daring me to ban another member? hrmjustin Apr 2015 #42
Daring you? Lol. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #46
Seems like it to me. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #49
It sure sounded like he was skepticscott Apr 2015 #51
I we ban you it will be for your post not because what he says. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #53
Admirable, justin...admirable skepticscott Apr 2015 #55
Are you going to post in there? hrmjustin Apr 2015 #57
Answer the question skepticscott Apr 2015 #60
I answered that. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #61
No, you didn't..you tried to deflect with another question. skepticscott Apr 2015 #63
Ok to be clear. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #65
What you've clarified skepticscott Apr 2015 #66
You will be informed. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #70
I expect you'll have to decide skepticscott Apr 2015 #76
I am sorry but I don't buy your trying to be helpful routine. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #78
You're free to call me a liar, justin skepticscott Apr 2015 #84
The Mets are behind the yanks so you are more interesting tonight. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #86
Do it. Smite him! PassingFair Apr 2015 #131
I don't have the power to smite. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #134
In other words, you're banning me because of my opinions expressed elsewhere skepticscott Apr 2015 #47
I did not ban you. You have been hostile to believers and as host of the room I must think of the hrmjustin Apr 2015 #50
Ah, so you're not "banning" me skepticscott Apr 2015 #54
Well, I went there and gave it a REC anyway! edgineered Apr 2015 #101
Thanks! Looks like the "approved" version skepticscott Apr 2015 #105
Sometimes I just don't know whether to watch golf or edgineered Apr 2015 #107
Well, you know what they say about trees falling in the woods skepticscott Apr 2015 #111
I'm not sure about the falling trees having no consequence, edgineered Apr 2015 #119
Same difference. Just one is without any justification, explanation, or transparency. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #85
DOUBLE SECRET PROBATION BAN. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #132
I am waiting back to hear from all hosts. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #133
That's cheap shit for a mod. ban people or don't. 'you were asked not to post there' is a cop out. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #77
Thanks for your vote of confidence. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #79
It was well earned. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #81
I maybe despicable as your friend says but at least I volunteer. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #83
volunteer to fake ban people without justification for your amusement. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #88
That is a lie and a cheap shot. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #89
No, we know what you tolerate. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #91
You can think what you want. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #92
Whether or not you "lie," okasha Apr 2015 #102
Its the precise same representation, and YOU are thr one that tried to bend the truth AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #103
Go right ahead and link it, AC. okasha Apr 2015 #104
You're the one that started in with claims of misrepresentation. You link it. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #106
Two things. okasha Apr 2015 #121
There was not a single untrue allegation. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #126
I'm on my own phone right now. Get over it. okasha Apr 2015 #128
I am over it. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #129
Come down off your cross, Justin. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #110
. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #116
Yes, that's the reaction most give when reading your posts. cleanhippie Apr 2015 #117
Really? Most people treat me with respect here. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #122
Odd. Respect is earned. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #140
Funny how most treat me a hell of a lot better than you or your friends do. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #142
There is a possibile correlation, that is true. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #143
This is why no one takes you seriously. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #136
I think I made clear that all the hosts have not responded to the head host yet. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #138
You've been doing this shit for MONTHS. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #139
who is a victim? hrmjustin Apr 2015 #141
The person you asked to leave. You kept the poster who couldnt modulate behavior AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #144
Huh? hrmjustin Apr 2015 #145
Yeah, play stupid. right. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #146
Do me a favor and send me a pm about what the hell you are talking about. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #147
A PM is not necessary. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #155
"Herp derp?" okasha Apr 2015 #148
Well at least something good came out of this subthread. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #149
Just for the record, okasha Apr 2015 #150
Yeah still waiting to hear what he means. hrmjustin Apr 2015 #151
It's funny. All your pals seem to be able to navigate Urban Dictionary. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #154
The lead host for Interfaith is Kentauros. okasha Apr 2015 #125
"Thanks" AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #127
Good news, AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #27
Agree. I hope more people will stand with them. cbayer Apr 2015 #29
Lots of people are standing with them, cbayer skepticscott Apr 2015 #32
My aunt if she were in better health would be absolutely estatic...;) AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #33
Is she a nun? Supporter of the nuns? cbayer Apr 2015 #34
She is a Nun, one of the smartest, funniest, sweetest woman I know;) AuntPatsy Apr 2015 #72
She sounds wonderful. I bet she has a lot in common with these nuns. cbayer Apr 2015 #94
Catholics who don't agree with Catholicism... MellowDem Apr 2015 #130
And there are credible options. AtheistCrusader Apr 2015 #137
 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
1. Women's equality in the Catholic Church has NEVER been negotiable
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 10:25 AM
Apr 2015

Who but the incredibly naive or the willfully blind could possibly think otherwise?

Women are and will remain second class citizens in the RCC. Their options are to leave or to rationalize it and delude themselves that their "activism" will somehow change that. The author's empty and meaningless posturing about her "uncompromising" stand is really pretty sad.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
2. It's not negotiable and never will be. That's how the RCC works.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 10:54 AM
Apr 2015

And all the while, here in the US, the Supreme Court is frantically carving out exceptions to laws that let them consolidate their power.

WASHINGTON • In a groundbreaking case, the Supreme Court on Wednesday held for the first time that religious employees of a church cannot sue for employment discrimination.

But the court's unanimous decision in a case from Michigan did not specify the distinction between a secular employee, who can take advantage of the government's protection from discrimination and retaliation, and a religious employee, who can't.

It was, nevertheless, the first time the high court has acknowledged the existence of a "ministerial exception" to anti-discrimination laws - a doctrine developed in lower court rulings. This doctrine says the First Amendment's guarantee of freedom of religion shields churches and their operations from the reach of such protective laws when the issue involves employees of these institutions.

The Rev. Matthew Harrison, president of the St. Louis-based Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod, said he was "delighted" with the high court's decision.


http://www.stltoday.com/lifestyles/faith-and-values/st-louis-lutheran-leader-responds-to-landmark-supreme-court-case/article_9ef07f9e-3c9c-11e1-bc10-001a4bcf6878.html

This particular woman is Lutheran and so was her church, but still, employment discrimination statutes just got blown out of the water for people employed by churches in any capacity that can even tangentially be called 'ministerial'.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
3. Hate is OK because religion is *special*, you see.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 11:06 AM
Apr 2015

People on the left and the right insist that religious beliefs are privileged, cannot be criticized, and certainly cannot be mocked. (Or you can expect violent retribution - "It's normal!" says the pope.)

Until and unless we can crack through this notion that religious ideas are better than any other ideas, we're bound to have these problems.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
4. Please cross post this in Interfaith where it can be discussed
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 01:47 PM
Apr 2015

without distraction. There's a lot in this piece that's important to women both in and out of the Catholic Church.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
5. Yes, an echo chamber is probably a better location.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 02:05 PM
Apr 2015

Wouldn't want the cold breeze of reality to get in the way of figuring out how when the pope says equality for women is off the table, he really means that things are going to change. Those silly translation errors, amirite?!?

Good luck with your discussion.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
69. Why do you keep posting there?
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 08:56 PM
Apr 2015

In the future I'll ask you to interpret all his posts. It's as if you're all of one mind.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
73. "we". I was right!
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:00 PM
Apr 2015

The long-term effects of inhabiting an echo chamber.

For "feeble", you have an awfully hard time disposing of them. Be glad you don't have my full attention.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
75. "we", as in speaking with one mind.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:04 PM
Apr 2015

Dissenters are no longer denizens.

Speaking of posting history, I'll order some donuts from St. Brigid's for you.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
82. "Has the recipient received tithes from St. Brigid's before?"
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:14 PM
Apr 2015

Gee, they have it backwards.

Do you read what you link?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
87. I did. this is how the church disburses some of the contributions it collects.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:18 PM
Apr 2015

I told you I was uninterested in hacking about in the weeds about what precise word is used to label money changing hands in the church.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
90. Yes, it's called "charity".
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:23 PM
Apr 2015

Tithing is 10% off the top from every congregant. The RCC does not do that.

The word you're looking for is "donation".

As in,

Luke 21:1-4
1 He looked up and saw rich people putting their gifts into the treasury; 2 he also saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins. 3 He said, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all of them; 4 for all of them have contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in all she had to live on.”

Admittedly, money changed hands, doubtless for nefarious ends.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
93. It must, since the RCC has such deep pockets to lobby against same sex marriage and other civil righ
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:42 PM
Apr 2015

Ts.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
6. Feel free to cross post, okasha
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 02:32 PM
Apr 2015

I'm happy to discuss it here and not bothered by any background noise.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
15. Does a tree make a sound if it falls in the woods and no one hears it?
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 05:06 PM
Apr 2015

Perhaps, but that sound is of no consequence.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
8. You mean without reminder that the church squashed these nuns?
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 02:41 PM
Apr 2015

You mean because of that?

Reality sucks.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
10. Yes, you wouldn't want to be distracted
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 03:11 PM
Apr 2015

by any ugly facts, now would you, okasha? Best to surround yourself with people who will reinforce your agenda and your preconceived notions, because that's how we grow!

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
11. While the outcome is mixed, I think there is some good news here.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 03:30 PM
Apr 2015

They ended the moratorium early and with little that looks like sanctions of any kind.

The nuns were successful in garnering the attention of the catholic community, and in particular, those who the church listens to because of their financial investments.

Is it an overall win? Not sure, but I think there are indications that it is a step in the right direction.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
12. So you're all a-twitter
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 03:42 PM
Apr 2015

Not because the church actually relented on some of its blatantly sexist practices, but because the nuns didn't get punished for requesting equality with men in the church? That's your good news? Seriously?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
14. Wow, that bar is pretty low.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 04:17 PM
Apr 2015

Nothing has changed, but they weren't punished for speaking up, so hooray!

Wow. Just wow.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
22. Unless you block somomeone, they can post what and where they want.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 06:24 PM
Apr 2015

The fact that you locked SS's post and reposted the same article yourself in an attempt to silence another DU'er is just childish and petty. You should be ashamed. Your behavior as a host is despicable and contrary to everything this site stands (or at least stood) for.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
23. I will just have to pick up the pieces of my life after your most serious accusation.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 06:29 PM
Apr 2015

There must be a support group for despicable people like me.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
39. You'd be better off seeking a group on reading comprehension instead.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:21 PM
Apr 2015

Then you might learn to tell the difference between a person and their behavior being called despicable.


It's been interesting to observe your 'rise to power' on DU and how you've chosen to exercise said 'power.'

Interesting, indeed.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
41. When you lift a hand to help out here I might take what you say seriously.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:30 PM
Apr 2015

Until then your attempt to dress me down for doing my job as an Interfaith host will not be taken seriously by me.

But for the record he was asked not to post there and if it was not locked the thread would have gotten ugly. He knew this and still did it anyway.











okasha

(11,573 posts)
99. As you should.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 10:24 PM
Apr 2015

Scott showed up in Interfaith the first day and wasnot banned outright because he agreed to stay out of the group. If I recall correctly, the specific issue was stalking.

Cleanhippie was banned that same day for his first and last post, which clearly violated the group's SOP.

That's a long time to carry a grudge around, but whatever floats their dinghies.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
113. Since you claim that justin had nothing to do with
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 01:31 PM
Apr 2015

locking the post, he has nothing of his own to "stand by", now does he?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
108. There's that persecution complex and lack of reading comprehension.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 12:06 PM
Apr 2015

Were YOU called despicable or was your behavior called despicable?

C'mon, Justin, at least be honest with yourself.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
112. Accusing a member of despicable behavior is different from calling that member despicable?
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 12:56 PM
Apr 2015

Be honest with your own self.

To quote you,

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
118. Walk it back? I don't think you're using that correctly.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 03:28 PM
Apr 2015

This ain't about me, it's about you.

But you keep trying, justin. Keep trying.

 

phil89

(1,043 posts)
152. He didn't call you
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 06:14 PM
Apr 2015

despicable. Stop the victim nonsense. He said your behavior was despicable, and he pointed that out.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
35. Oh, Justin..your devotion to host duty is admirable..truly
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:02 PM
Apr 2015

But I posted something that two of your good friends expressly said they wanted there but were unable to post themselves, so I thought I'd help out. I posted it without comment or anything else you might find offensive or disruptive, wouldn't you agree? But apparently you found my mere appearance disruptive and offensive, even though I said nothing.

But you're the host, so I guess you can be as tolerant as you choose to be.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
37. As host I must think of the people who post in there.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:04 PM
Apr 2015

You know how that would have gone. If I posted in the Atheist room it would cause major issues and I stay out after last April.

I did ask you not to post in the room.

It is not personal.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
45. Except that my OP was not personal
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:36 PM
Apr 2015

As noted, I said nothing and made no comment. There was nothing about me in it. It was the exact OP your dear friends cbayer and okasha expressly wanted to have posted there. Since it wasn't the content of the OP, then it must have been personal, by you, against me. No other possibility, justin...sorry. But, as I said, you're the host, and you can exercise your authority any way you choose. Just be honest and own up to it. That's all anyone can expect.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
48. The better question is why after being warned not to post in the room did you feel the need to
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:40 PM
Apr 2015

post there?


And don't pretend your very presence would not be disruptive. You know how you have treated believers here and you know the comments you would have gotten.



 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
52. I explained that..did you not read that part?
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:48 PM
Apr 2015

And there was no "me" to have gotten comments, justin, my friend. Only the unadorned OP, which was exactly what cbayer and okasha wanted. People were free to post the same comments that they would to your "version". If you or your friends tried to make it about me, that would have been up to you, though you'd have to explain why they would have found that necessary. Can you?

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
58. And your "explanation" failed to hold water, justin
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:56 PM
Apr 2015

Are you saying that you and your friends would have been unable to keep from making the thread personal and snarky? I certainly had no intention of posting there beyond the unadorned OP, so please, tell us what other posters would have made it ugly?

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
62. You seem to be at a loss for answers, justin
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 08:03 PM
Apr 2015

But since you've had more time to think about it, I'll ask again: Who were you afraid would make the thread snarky and personal? Because it wouldn't have been me. So obviously you had concerns about your cohorts there. Which ones?

"Nice try Scott. A for effort" is just a deflection, as we both know. But it isn't fooling anybody, and seems a little beneath a true leader.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
120. Justin is a tyrant
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 03:56 PM
Apr 2015

because he's become immune to bullying?

That is funny--and packed full of fail.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
21. "...in Interfaith where it can be discussed without distraction."
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 06:18 PM
Apr 2015


Translation: Post it there so the mean atheists can't refute our bullshit excuses and nonsensical pontifications.


 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
25. Or: Post it there so that
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 06:36 PM
Apr 2015

we can lock this exact same thread rather than be forced to discuss the topic without being able to blame the mean ol' atheists for "disrupting".

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12646821

Apparently it was "off-topic" even though two regular Interfaith posters called for it to be posted there.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
114. How's that "discussion" going, okasha?
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 01:37 PM
Apr 2015

Is Interfaith providing the kind of intellectual discussion you'd expected, without all that irritating "distraction"? Or is this thread still more interesting to you?

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
7. At their own peril, sir.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 02:37 PM
Apr 2015
AT THEIR OWN PERIL.

By the way, how did that turn out for them? The church changed their position on all that and sided with the nuns, right? right?

ETA: Because I'm feeling peckish on a Friday
 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
9. Rather, the nuns were reminded
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 03:08 PM
Apr 2015

that the Catholic Church regards the back of the bus as their rightful position. But hey, if the folks over in Interfaith want to have a discussion rationalizing "separate but equal" (well, actually "separate and not even equal&quot , they should knock themselves out.

beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
28. Looks like they reposted it because...cooties.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 06:41 PM
Apr 2015

Meh, it's their group, if they want to pretend it's really a good thing and everyone else is just too stupid to realize it let them.

They're only fooling themselves.

Women's equality isn't as important to some as they pretend.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
40. Then have the guts to block Scott if you don't want 'em posting there.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:25 PM
Apr 2015

Stop weaseling and block Scott. No one is required to follow your suggestions about what and where to post, and you using your Host power to lock it and then repost the same article yourself is indicative of the level of discourse you foster in that that group.

Pat yourself on the back, job well, done.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
51. It sure sounded like he was
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:43 PM
Apr 2015

I know for a fact that the hosts in A&A would never ban someone just because they were dared to, but perhaps the hosts in Interfaith see the world differently and define tolerance in a way unknown to the rest of us.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
55. Admirable, justin...admirable
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:52 PM
Apr 2015

And will you lock my posts for what they are, or simply because they were made by me?

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
60. Answer the question
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:59 PM
Apr 2015

Did you lock my post for what it was, or simply because it was made by me?

A true leader mustn't be afraid to own up to what he's done, and why.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
63. No, you didn't..you tried to deflect with another question.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 08:05 PM
Apr 2015

I defy you to point to where you answered my question from post 55.

That kind of dishonesty does not become a host, justin...you can do better.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
66. What you've clarified
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 08:48 PM
Apr 2015

is that the post was locked because of who I am (someone you intensely dislike due to things I've posted elsewhere) and not because if its content. Thank you.

And perhaps it makes you feel more tolerant to tell yourself that you haven't officially "banned" me, but if you intend to lock or block anything and everything I post in there, even if it is useful and wanted information (as in this case), then you have, for all practical purposes.

Which is fine, but have the gumption to stand up and say right out that you're banning me, instead of hiding behind technicalities.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
76. I expect you'll have to decide
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:07 PM
Apr 2015

about banning me from Interfaith due to things I've said elsewhere. I'm intensely curious to see how that works out for you.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
78. I am sorry but I don't buy your trying to be helpful routine.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:09 PM
Apr 2015

You knew what you were doing and wanted to get a response.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
84. You're free to call me a liar, justin
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:15 PM
Apr 2015

But as I told you, I had no intention of posting further in that thread beyond the OP.

And yes, your rather prolonged response here is amusing (have you really been sitting at your computer hitting refresh every 15 seconds for the last couple hours?), but it's hardly something I would consider it worth provoking. In fact, it's just reminded me why you're better on ignore.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
86. The Mets are behind the yanks so you are more interesting tonight.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:17 PM
Apr 2015

And when one is called despicable you usually like to respond.

Not you but your friend did.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
47. In other words, you're banning me because of my opinions expressed elsewhere
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:40 PM
Apr 2015

and not because of what I've actually posted in that Group.

Very tolerant of you, justin...you should be proud.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
50. I did not ban you. You have been hostile to believers and as host of the room I must think of the
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 07:43 PM
Apr 2015

other posters of the room.

You were not banned but warned to leave us alone.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
105. Thanks! Looks like the "approved" version
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 09:03 AM
Apr 2015

isn't doing so well...guess there wasn't such a desperate need for it after all.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
107. Sometimes I just don't know whether to watch golf or
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 12:04 PM
Apr 2015

visit the home page of some groups to quietly fade into sleep.

edgineered

(2,101 posts)
119. I'm not sure about the falling trees having no consequence,
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 03:45 PM
Apr 2015

as stated above thread, but it is certainly of great consequence to the hierarchy of the RCC that the nuns have the ear of Frankie. Changes in the RCC are now happening with celerity.

This is by no means the gentle rustling of leaves being heard (or not); the sweeping changes for women are resounding with the same force as the 80 million trees blown down at once, as in Tunguska. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tunguska_event

Once again this week the voice of reason rises above the background noise to expose those blinded by faith in both gods and politicians. Cross posting a requested article in an agreed upon group, as requested, and posting without comment, only to have it locked for being off topic isn't hypocrisy for some.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
77. That's cheap shit for a mod. ban people or don't. 'you were asked not to post there' is a cop out.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:08 PM
Apr 2015

You might be a host, but you're not a very good one. Either you're jerking people around soft-banning, or you are unable to rein in your fellow hosts that are improperly banning people.

But, its a shithole echo chamber, population 4-5, so it hardly matter I guess.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
89. That is a lie and a cheap shot.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:22 PM
Apr 2015

He has made clear his opinions of religious people and religion.

As have you.


You guys just don't like me because as host I don't tolerate nonsense.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
91. No, we know what you tolerate.
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:41 PM
Apr 2015

I don't lie. And you happily tolerate positive posts about sexist, gender segregated religious events, for starters.

You know full well Okasha's claim that there were some women mixed in was absolute bullshit in every single publication that ran the pictures. They were all stuck in the back rows. And addressing the congregation (as the host) was not the same as leading them in prayer, which women were not allowed to do.

And you even agreed that the church couldn't refuse the Muslim group without losing federal funding. Yet when you finally acknowledged it, you didn't backtrack your position. You just left it unsupported.

There was no nonsense in that post. It was deadly serious. You don't like it when the truth shows a religion for what it is.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
102. Whether or not you "lie,"
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 12:14 AM
Apr 2015

you continue to misrepresent my comments about the image in question, months after having had those comments explained to you. And every time you double down, it's yet another willful misrepresentation. I'll give you a pass for your first response, on the grounds that it was, as far as I could tell, an honest error. Not on your subsequent efforts to defend it, though.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
103. Its the precise same representation, and YOU are thr one that tried to bend the truth
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 12:34 AM
Apr 2015

When you claimed you could see women in forward rows. That was fully untrue. I examined th photos from multiple news sources from every available angle. Fully made up.

You pointed out a woman spoke to them prior, from the podium. Not a refutation of my point. Women are not allowed to lead the prayer, and they weren't.

I understand your point that you were considering the cooperative interfaithy nature of the event beautiful. I maintain my original distaste for you cheering on a blatantly and obviously sexist event, and further point out the church CANNOT refuse their request to use it because they receive public funds from the parks department.

Cheering a sex segregated, women relegated to the back, event. And having the gall to call yourself a militant feminist that week, in a separate thread.

Go ahead, link it. Pretend I've misrepresented or changed the story. Go ahead.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
104. Go right ahead and link it, AC.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 12:49 AM
Apr 2015

If you do, you'll see that I said there were figures that might be women because they seemed to be wearing the traditional female prayer garment.

The National Cathedral is an Episcopal church, led my Presiding Bishop Katharine Schorri and in full communion with the Orthodox and ELCA Lutheran Church. Your implication that the church hosted this interfaith event because it was forced to is a figment of your imagination.

Yep, I'm a militant feminist. That .means that I'm not easily intimidated, least of all by male-primate dominance displays.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
106. You're the one that started in with claims of misrepresentation. You link it.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 09:49 AM
Apr 2015

Saying 'they were forced' and 'they didn't have a choice anyway' is not the same thing. I didn't say they were forced.

Generally, if you want to amaze or awe me with a 'beautiful gesture', you want to do something for someone that someone in your position might not otherwise have done. If its something you HAVE to do, it looks a little more mundane. Not saying its bad. Just unimpressive. And at the same time, you probably want to avoid hosting an event that is clearly sexist in nature. There aren't any groups so out of band with society that i can even attempt to draw a useful parallel to illustrate it. It's just broken.

There were no female headgarb in the front rows. Iirc, the timing of that excuse frustrated me because you offered it after my posting privileges had been revoked, so I couldn't refute It in that venue. It was completely untrue.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
121. Two things.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 04:13 PM
Apr 2015

You made untrue allegations in that thread knowing I had you on ignore. Don't hand me your 'frustration" that you couldn't reply because you earned yourself a hide.

If what you mean by "female head garb" is a hijab, you were correct. Muslim womens' prayer garments are not hijabs. Look it up.

The women seated in the back were not wearing the prayer garments; they were in street clothes. Muslim women do not perform salat in public, mixed-gender groups in street clothes.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
126. There was not a single untrue allegation.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 07:23 PM
Apr 2015

If there was, you have all your work ahead of you to prove it. I used an open ended descriptor for the covering for a reason.

I have no clue who does and does not have someone on actual ignore, and I don't care if you do. I didn't get a hide. I was banned by the hosts for 30 days. You can't even get that right. I could reply to that thread right now. Every post is visible.

Thanks for making me search for it on my phone to double check. Total pain in the ass.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
128. I'm on my own phone right now. Get over it.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 07:38 PM
Apr 2015

I told you I was putting you on ignore. You have the honor of being the only person I have ever put on ignore. The only reason you're off now is that I don't want to be blindsided by another thread of your "misspokes."

I'd forgotten you were banned for 30 days. You deserved it.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
110. Come down off your cross, Justin.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 12:14 PM
Apr 2015

It's pretty funny to watch you try to turn "...and your behavior as a Host is despicable" into this poor, poor me pity party.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=193934


If you cannot even be honest about what I actually wrote that anyone can see for themselves, how can anyone take you seriously about anything else?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
117. Yes, that's the reaction most give when reading your posts.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 03:26 PM
Apr 2015

It's good to be able to laugh at one's self.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
136. This is why no one takes you seriously.
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 03:52 PM
Apr 2015

Herp derp I'm contributing
Graaaaa you called me despicable
Pointless emoticon response.

All the while ignoring that you soft ban people with no transparency, and no cause per your groups SOP.

None of us are new to the internet. We've all seen mods like you before.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
138. I think I made clear that all the hosts have not responded to the head host yet.
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 03:58 PM
Apr 2015

When we have a decision he will be told.


your desire to keep this going id amusing.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
139. You've been doing this shit for MONTHS.
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 04:03 PM
Apr 2015

You've birthed more catch phrases than I can remember. You've soft banned people who didn't break your sop, and were themselves victims of posts so egregious they were nuked by juries. You've attacked victims.

What's this decision you've got in the works now? Change the sop or something? 'ban whoever the fuck we want without warning'?

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
144. The person you asked to leave. You kept the poster who couldnt modulate behavior
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 04:43 PM
Apr 2015

Enough to not freak out on him with such a vicious post the hide was unanimous, but you asked the victim to gtfo.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
147. Do me a favor and send me a pm about what the hell you are talking about.
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 05:12 PM
Apr 2015

You lost me and if you don't want to say it publicly than say it to me in a pm.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
155. A PM is not necessary.
Mon Apr 27, 2015, 01:55 PM
Apr 2015

Does

"Fuck you, you fucking fuck"
ring any bells? You don't recall threatening the VICTIM of that screed? Even after the attackers post was hidden by a jury? For his MERE PRESENCE?

okasha

(11,573 posts)
148. "Herp derp?"
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 05:41 PM
Apr 2015

I think his tummy's upset.

By he's inspired me. I think I'll treat myself to some Obsession come Friday. I
just love those Asian-inspired scents.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
150. Just for the record,
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 05:53 PM
Apr 2015

I have no idea what he's yattering about, either. Maybe he still thinks you're trying to "lure him into Interfaith so you can ban him."

okasha

(11,573 posts)
125. The lead host for Interfaith is Kentauros.
Sat Apr 25, 2015, 04:57 PM
Apr 2015

If you have problems with the group's hosting or "failure to rein in" anyone, he's the person to bring it up to.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
32. Lots of people are standing with them, cbayer
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 06:47 PM
Apr 2015

lots of people are condemning the Catholic Church for being blatantly sexist.

Others, however, try to paper this over and make it seem like something positive. Those people are not standing with the nuns, they are telling them to be happy with getting walked over and disregarded.

AuntPatsy

(9,904 posts)
72. She is a Nun, one of the smartest, funniest, sweetest woman I know;)
Fri Apr 24, 2015, 09:00 PM
Apr 2015

She taught me to think for myself and she loved the church, I try not to disrespect that part,

MellowDem

(5,018 posts)
130. Catholics who don't agree with Catholicism...
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 11:32 AM
Apr 2015

Should leave it and stop supporting it. Jimmy Carter did it with the Southern Baptists.

Anything else is just hypocrisy.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
137. And there are credible options.
Sun Apr 26, 2015, 03:53 PM
Apr 2015

That's the galling part. People have options that include faiths that splintered off the very same church, not too long ago.

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