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Related: About this forumWomen's Equality in the Church is no Longer Negotiable
http://religiondispatches.org/womens-equality-in-the-church-is-no-longer-negotiable/BY MARY E. HUNT APRIL 23, 2015
Champagne corks did not pop on either side of the Atlantic on April 16, 2015 when the Vatican and the Leadership Conference of Women Religious announced the end of the Doctrinal Assessment of LCWR, but there was certainly shared relief that this sorry chapter in church history is closed.
The Vatican insisted, and the women agreed, to a thirty-day moratorium on discussing the final document so it will be some time before concrete information emerges. Even this small matter demonstrates what I think is the most important takeaway: pushing back against unjust authority can work, but it does not change the fundamental power equation.
Without structural changes to a top heavy, patriarchal institution, there is little to prevent a repeat of this kind of abuse, waste of resources, or worse.
Catholics can do better and we deserve better.
more at link
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Who but the incredibly naive or the willfully blind could possibly think otherwise?
Women are and will remain second class citizens in the RCC. Their options are to leave or to rationalize it and delude themselves that their "activism" will somehow change that. The author's empty and meaningless posturing about her "uncompromising" stand is really pretty sad.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)And all the while, here in the US, the Supreme Court is frantically carving out exceptions to laws that let them consolidate their power.
But the court's unanimous decision in a case from Michigan did not specify the distinction between a secular employee, who can take advantage of the government's protection from discrimination and retaliation, and a religious employee, who can't.
It was, nevertheless, the first time the high court has acknowledged the existence of a "ministerial exception" to anti-discrimination laws - a doctrine developed in lower court rulings. This doctrine says the First Amendment's guarantee of freedom of religion shields churches and their operations from the reach of such protective laws when the issue involves employees of these institutions.
The Rev. Matthew Harrison, president of the St. Louis-based Lutheran Church-Missouri Synod, said he was "delighted" with the high court's decision.
http://www.stltoday.com/lifestyles/faith-and-values/st-louis-lutheran-leader-responds-to-landmark-supreme-court-case/article_9ef07f9e-3c9c-11e1-bc10-001a4bcf6878.html
This particular woman is Lutheran and so was her church, but still, employment discrimination statutes just got blown out of the water for people employed by churches in any capacity that can even tangentially be called 'ministerial'.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)People on the left and the right insist that religious beliefs are privileged, cannot be criticized, and certainly cannot be mocked. (Or you can expect violent retribution - "It's normal!" says the pope.)
Until and unless we can crack through this notion that religious ideas are better than any other ideas, we're bound to have these problems.
okasha
(11,573 posts)without distraction. There's a lot in this piece that's important to women both in and out of the Catholic Church.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Wouldn't want the cold breeze of reality to get in the way of figuring out how when the pope says equality for women is off the table, he really means that things are going to change. Those silly translation errors, amirite?!?
Good luck with your discussion.
rug
(82,333 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)In the future I'll ask you to interpret all his posts. It's as if you're all of one mind.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)The long-term effects of inhabiting an echo chamber.
For "feeble", you have an awfully hard time disposing of them. Be glad you don't have my full attention.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)As to the other, I'll let the post history stand on that score.
rug
(82,333 posts)Dissenters are no longer denizens.
Speaking of posting history, I'll order some donuts from St. Brigid's for you.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)Gee, they have it backwards.
Do you read what you link?
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)I told you I was uninterested in hacking about in the weeds about what precise word is used to label money changing hands in the church.
rug
(82,333 posts)Tithing is 10% off the top from every congregant. The RCC does not do that.
The word you're looking for is "donation".
As in,
1 He looked up and saw rich people putting their gifts into the treasury; 2 he also saw a poor widow put in two small copper coins. 3 He said, Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put in more than all of them; 4 for all of them have contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in all she had to live on.
Admittedly, money changed hands, doubtless for nefarious ends.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Ts.
rug
(82,333 posts)cbayer
(146,218 posts)I'm happy to discuss it here and not bothered by any background noise.
okasha
(11,573 posts)cbayer
(146,218 posts)Perhaps, but that sound is of no consequence.
okasha
(11,573 posts)is a chorus of power saws.
A ver que pasa.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)You mean because of that?
Reality sucks.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)by any ugly facts, now would you, okasha? Best to surround yourself with people who will reinforce your agenda and your preconceived notions, because that's how we grow!
cbayer
(146,218 posts)They ended the moratorium early and with little that looks like sanctions of any kind.
The nuns were successful in garnering the attention of the catholic community, and in particular, those who the church listens to because of their financial investments.
Is it an overall win? Not sure, but I think there are indications that it is a step in the right direction.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Not because the church actually relented on some of its blatantly sexist practices, but because the nuns didn't get punished for requesting equality with men in the church? That's your good news? Seriously?
trotsky
(49,533 posts)Nothing has changed, but they weren't punished for speaking up, so hooray!
Wow. Just wow.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)as it was made out to be. What a shock.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)The fact that you locked SS's post and reposted the same article yourself in an attempt to silence another DU'er is just childish and petty. You should be ashamed. Your behavior as a host is despicable and contrary to everything this site stands (or at least stood) for.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)There must be a support group for despicable people like me.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Then you might learn to tell the difference between a person and their behavior being called despicable.
It's been interesting to observe your 'rise to power' on DU and how you've chosen to exercise said 'power.'
Interesting, indeed.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Until then your attempt to dress me down for doing my job as an Interfaith host will not be taken seriously by me.
But for the record he was asked not to post there and if it was not locked the thread would have gotten ugly. He knew this and still did it anyway.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)okasha
(11,573 posts)You owe him an apology.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)okasha
(11,573 posts)Or his last.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)okasha
(11,573 posts)Scott showed up in Interfaith the first day and wasnot banned outright because he agreed to stay out of the group. If I recall correctly, the specific issue was stalking.
Cleanhippie was banned that same day for his first and last post, which clearly violated the group's SOP.
That's a long time to carry a grudge around, but whatever floats their dinghies.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)locking the post, he has nothing of his own to "stand by", now does he?
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Were YOU called despicable or was your behavior called despicable?
C'mon, Justin, at least be honest with yourself.
rug
(82,333 posts)Be honest with your own self.
To quote you,
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)This ain't about me, it's about you.
But you keep trying, justin. Keep trying.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)phil89
(1,043 posts)despicable. Stop the victim nonsense. He said your behavior was despicable, and he pointed that out.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)But I posted something that two of your good friends expressly said they wanted there but were unable to post themselves, so I thought I'd help out. I posted it without comment or anything else you might find offensive or disruptive, wouldn't you agree? But apparently you found my mere appearance disruptive and offensive, even though I said nothing.
But you're the host, so I guess you can be as tolerant as you choose to be.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)You know how that would have gone. If I posted in the Atheist room it would cause major issues and I stay out after last April.
I did ask you not to post in the room.
It is not personal.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)As noted, I said nothing and made no comment. There was nothing about me in it. It was the exact OP your dear friends cbayer and okasha expressly wanted to have posted there. Since it wasn't the content of the OP, then it must have been personal, by you, against me. No other possibility, justin...sorry. But, as I said, you're the host, and you can exercise your authority any way you choose. Just be honest and own up to it. That's all anyone can expect.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)post there?
And don't pretend your very presence would not be disruptive. You know how you have treated believers here and you know the comments you would have gotten.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)And there was no "me" to have gotten comments, justin, my friend. Only the unadorned OP, which was exactly what cbayer and okasha wanted. People were free to post the same comments that they would to your "version". If you or your friends tried to make it about me, that would have been up to you, though you'd have to explain why they would have found that necessary. Can you?
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Are you saying that you and your friends would have been unable to keep from making the thread personal and snarky? I certainly had no intention of posting there beyond the unadorned OP, so please, tell us what other posters would have made it ugly?
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)But since you've had more time to think about it, I'll ask again: Who were you afraid would make the thread snarky and personal? Because it wouldn't have been me. So obviously you had concerns about your cohorts there. Which ones?
"Nice try Scott. A for effort" is just a deflection, as we both know. But it isn't fooling anybody, and seems a little beneath a true leader.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)It's both funny and sad.
okasha
(11,573 posts)because he's become immune to bullying?
That is funny--and packed full of fail.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Translation: Post it there so the mean atheists can't refute our bullshit excuses and nonsensical pontifications.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)we can lock this exact same thread rather than be forced to discuss the topic without being able to blame the mean ol' atheists for "disrupting".
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12646821
Apparently it was "off-topic" even though two regular Interfaith posters called for it to be posted there.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Is Interfaith providing the kind of intellectual discussion you'd expected, without all that irritating "distraction"? Or is this thread still more interesting to you?
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)By the way, how did that turn out for them? The church changed their position on all that and sided with the nuns, right? right?
ETA: Because I'm feeling peckish on a Friday
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)that the Catholic Church regards the back of the bus as their rightful position. But hey, if the folks over in Interfaith want to have a discussion rationalizing "separate but equal" (well, actually "separate and not even equal" , they should knock themselves out.
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)Now I see why they want it in the echo chamber.
Little too hot in here.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Already locked, without even allowing anyone to comment. What are they afraid of, one wonders?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12646821
beam me up scottie
(57,349 posts)Meh, it's their group, if they want to pretend it's really a good thing and everyone else is just too stupid to realize it let them.
They're only fooling themselves.
Women's equality isn't as important to some as they pretend.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)appears far superior.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)Stop weaseling and block Scott. No one is required to follow your suggestions about what and where to post, and you using your Host power to lock it and then repost the same article yourself is indicative of the level of discourse you foster in that that group.
Pat yourself on the back, job well, done.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)I know for a fact that the hosts in A&A would never ban someone just because they were dared to, but perhaps the hosts in Interfaith see the world differently and define tolerance in a way unknown to the rest of us.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)And will you lock my posts for what they are, or simply because they were made by me?
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)Did you lock my post for what it was, or simply because it was made by me?
A true leader mustn't be afraid to own up to what he's done, and why.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)I defy you to point to where you answered my question from post 55.
That kind of dishonesty does not become a host, justin...you can do better.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Your thread was locked because you did not listen to the hosts warning.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)is that the post was locked because of who I am (someone you intensely dislike due to things I've posted elsewhere) and not because if its content. Thank you.
And perhaps it makes you feel more tolerant to tell yourself that you haven't officially "banned" me, but if you intend to lock or block anything and everything I post in there, even if it is useful and wanted information (as in this case), then you have, for all practical purposes.
Which is fine, but have the gumption to stand up and say right out that you're banning me, instead of hiding behind technicalities.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)about banning me from Interfaith due to things I've said elsewhere. I'm intensely curious to see how that works out for you.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)You knew what you were doing and wanted to get a response.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)But as I told you, I had no intention of posting further in that thread beyond the OP.
And yes, your rather prolonged response here is amusing (have you really been sitting at your computer hitting refresh every 15 seconds for the last couple hours?), but it's hardly something I would consider it worth provoking. In fact, it's just reminded me why you're better on ignore.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)And when one is called despicable you usually like to respond.
Not you but your friend did.
PassingFair
(22,434 posts)You have the power!
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)and not because of what I've actually posted in that Group.
Very tolerant of you, justin...you should be proud.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)other posters of the room.
You were not banned but warned to leave us alone.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)you're just going to block anything I put up there?
Clear now
edgineered
(2,101 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)isn't doing so well...guess there wasn't such a desperate need for it after all.
edgineered
(2,101 posts)visit the home page of some groups to quietly fade into sleep.
skepticscott
(13,029 posts)and no one hearing them.
edgineered
(2,101 posts)as stated above thread, but it is certainly of great consequence to the hierarchy of the RCC that the nuns have the ear of Frankie. Changes in the RCC are now happening with celerity.
This is by no means the gentle rustling of leaves being heard (or not); the sweeping changes for women are resounding with the same force as the 80 million trees blown down at once, as in Tunguska. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tunguska_event
Once again this week the voice of reason rises above the background noise to expose those blinded by faith in both gods and politicians. Cross posting a requested article in an agreed upon group, as requested, and posting without comment, only to have it locked for being off topic isn't hypocrisy for some.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)That's really pathetic, yo.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)I told scott he would be informed.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)You might be a host, but you're not a very good one. Either you're jerking people around soft-banning, or you are unable to rein in your fellow hosts that are improperly banning people.
But, its a shithole echo chamber, population 4-5, so it hardly matter I guess.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)He has made clear his opinions of religious people and religion.
As have you.
You guys just don't like me because as host I don't tolerate nonsense.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)I don't lie. And you happily tolerate positive posts about sexist, gender segregated religious events, for starters.
You know full well Okasha's claim that there were some women mixed in was absolute bullshit in every single publication that ran the pictures. They were all stuck in the back rows. And addressing the congregation (as the host) was not the same as leading them in prayer, which women were not allowed to do.
And you even agreed that the church couldn't refuse the Muslim group without losing federal funding. Yet when you finally acknowledged it, you didn't backtrack your position. You just left it unsupported.
There was no nonsense in that post. It was deadly serious. You don't like it when the truth shows a religion for what it is.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)okasha
(11,573 posts)you continue to misrepresent my comments about the image in question, months after having had those comments explained to you. And every time you double down, it's yet another willful misrepresentation. I'll give you a pass for your first response, on the grounds that it was, as far as I could tell, an honest error. Not on your subsequent efforts to defend it, though.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)When you claimed you could see women in forward rows. That was fully untrue. I examined th photos from multiple news sources from every available angle. Fully made up.
You pointed out a woman spoke to them prior, from the podium. Not a refutation of my point. Women are not allowed to lead the prayer, and they weren't.
I understand your point that you were considering the cooperative interfaithy nature of the event beautiful. I maintain my original distaste for you cheering on a blatantly and obviously sexist event, and further point out the church CANNOT refuse their request to use it because they receive public funds from the parks department.
Cheering a sex segregated, women relegated to the back, event. And having the gall to call yourself a militant feminist that week, in a separate thread.
Go ahead, link it. Pretend I've misrepresented or changed the story. Go ahead.
okasha
(11,573 posts)If you do, you'll see that I said there were figures that might be women because they seemed to be wearing the traditional female prayer garment.
The National Cathedral is an Episcopal church, led my Presiding Bishop Katharine Schorri and in full communion with the Orthodox and ELCA Lutheran Church. Your implication that the church hosted this interfaith event because it was forced to is a figment of your imagination.
Yep, I'm a militant feminist. That .means that I'm not easily intimidated, least of all by male-primate dominance displays.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Saying 'they were forced' and 'they didn't have a choice anyway' is not the same thing. I didn't say they were forced.
Generally, if you want to amaze or awe me with a 'beautiful gesture', you want to do something for someone that someone in your position might not otherwise have done. If its something you HAVE to do, it looks a little more mundane. Not saying its bad. Just unimpressive. And at the same time, you probably want to avoid hosting an event that is clearly sexist in nature. There aren't any groups so out of band with society that i can even attempt to draw a useful parallel to illustrate it. It's just broken.
There were no female headgarb in the front rows. Iirc, the timing of that excuse frustrated me because you offered it after my posting privileges had been revoked, so I couldn't refute It in that venue. It was completely untrue.
okasha
(11,573 posts)You made untrue allegations in that thread knowing I had you on ignore. Don't hand me your 'frustration" that you couldn't reply because you earned yourself a hide.
If what you mean by "female head garb" is a hijab, you were correct. Muslim womens' prayer garments are not hijabs. Look it up.
The women seated in the back were not wearing the prayer garments; they were in street clothes. Muslim women do not perform salat in public, mixed-gender groups in street clothes.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)If there was, you have all your work ahead of you to prove it. I used an open ended descriptor for the covering for a reason.
I have no clue who does and does not have someone on actual ignore, and I don't care if you do. I didn't get a hide. I was banned by the hosts for 30 days. You can't even get that right. I could reply to that thread right now. Every post is visible.
Thanks for making me search for it on my phone to double check. Total pain in the ass.
okasha
(11,573 posts)I told you I was putting you on ignore. You have the honor of being the only person I have ever put on ignore. The only reason you're off now is that I don't want to be blindsided by another thread of your "misspokes."
I'd forgotten you were banned for 30 days. You deserved it.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Doesn't mean you were right either.
cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)It's pretty funny to watch you try to turn "...and your behavior as a Host is despicable" into this poor, poor me pity party.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=193934
If you cannot even be honest about what I actually wrote that anyone can see for themselves, how can anyone take you seriously about anything else?
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)cleanhippie
(19,705 posts)It's good to be able to laugh at one's self.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)Think about that.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Herp derp I'm contributing
Graaaaa you called me despicable
Pointless emoticon response.
All the while ignoring that you soft ban people with no transparency, and no cause per your groups SOP.
None of us are new to the internet. We've all seen mods like you before.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)When we have a decision he will be told.
your desire to keep this going id amusing.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)You've birthed more catch phrases than I can remember. You've soft banned people who didn't break your sop, and were themselves victims of posts so egregious they were nuked by juries. You've attacked victims.
What's this decision you've got in the works now? Change the sop or something? 'ban whoever the fuck we want without warning'?
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Enough to not freak out on him with such a vicious post the hide was unanimous, but you asked the victim to gtfo.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)What are you talking about?
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)You lost me and if you don't want to say it publicly than say it to me in a pm.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)Does
okasha
(11,573 posts)I think his tummy's upset.
By he's inspired me. I think I'll treat myself to some Obsession come Friday. I
just love those Asian-inspired scents.
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)okasha
(11,573 posts)I have no idea what he's yattering about, either. Maybe he still thinks you're trying to "lure him into Interfaith so you can ban him."
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)okasha
(11,573 posts)If you have problems with the group's hosting or "failure to rein in" anyone, he's the person to bring it up to.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)cbayer
(146,218 posts)skepticscott
(13,029 posts)lots of people are condemning the Catholic Church for being blatantly sexist.
Others, however, try to paper this over and make it seem like something positive. Those people are not standing with the nuns, they are telling them to be happy with getting walked over and disregarded.
AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)cbayer
(146,218 posts)AuntPatsy
(9,904 posts)She taught me to think for myself and she loved the church, I try not to disrespect that part,
cbayer
(146,218 posts)MellowDem
(5,018 posts)Should leave it and stop supporting it. Jimmy Carter did it with the Southern Baptists.
Anything else is just hypocrisy.
AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)That's the galling part. People have options that include faiths that splintered off the very same church, not too long ago.