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Does your religion make you a better person than you would otherwise be without it? n/t (Original Post) Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 OP
Am I a person with a faith, or a faith inhabiting a person? guillaumeb Jun 2015 #1
So you are unable to answer the question? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #3
Are you unable to understand my answer? guillaumeb Jun 2015 #7
Are you unable to understand the question? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #9
Almost like a tennis match. guillaumeb Jun 2015 #13
I think one can know. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #15
Here is a definition: guillaumeb Jun 2015 #18
Using the first definition... cleanhippie Jun 2015 #46
A rational and reasonable response. guillaumeb Jun 2015 #49
Which brings us back to the original question. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #50
My faith gives me an example to follow. guillaumeb Jun 2015 #59
I would imagine that's a selective reading of Jesus, he's not a nice example to follow... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #63
His words versus the words of some of his followers? guillaumeb Jun 2015 #106
But does your religion make you a better person than you would otherwise be without it? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #64
You know you've struck gold skepticscott Jun 2015 #69
I give credit to guillaumeb for an honest and civil exchange so far. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #85
Does your claimed lack of faith make you a better person than you would be guillaumeb Jun 2015 #107
Why the deflection? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #123
So, you go around cursing unproductive foliage? AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #82
I do not understand your response. eom guillaumeb Jun 2015 #108
I thought you knew about the life and philosophy of jesus? AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #109
Are you referring to the story of the mustard seed? eom guillaumeb Jun 2015 #110
No. AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #111
You have misread Mathew, and the point of the story. guillaumeb Jun 2015 #112
Jesus could not have driven the money changers from the Temple. Yorktown Jun 2015 #113
Splitting of hairs. guillaumeb Jun 2015 #115
Not splitting any hairs, pointing out an impossibility Yorktown Jun 2015 #117
And your basis for asserting how many money changers there were? guillaumeb Jun 2015 #118
Just picture a shopping alley in an open air market Yorktown Jun 2015 #119
The fruit tree has a natural cycle of production. AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #114
I repeat myself, at the risk of seeming crude: guillaumeb Jun 2015 #116
Anyway, the NT fig tree stories contradict themselves Yorktown Jun 2015 #120
Your repetition does not improve the story. AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #122
Why ask a question with an obvious answer? Cartoonist Jun 2015 #2
I would argue that no they wouldn't, plenty of people are well aware that their religion... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #57
I'm an atheist so this question doesn't apply to me directly, but I will report that my Nay Jun 2015 #83
I think this fear is instilled in them due to their religion... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #86
I got the impression that he was very afraid of what he might do if he wasn't Nay Jun 2015 #90
I'm just wondering if that fear is his own conscience, a true sociopath wouldn't care about others.. Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #96
I Am Not Religious - I Am What I Am cantbeserious Jun 2015 #4
Do you have a corncob pipe and a craving for spinach? AtheistCrusader Jun 2015 #99
Fancy That - I Do cantbeserious Jun 2015 #100
I believe the answer to this involves experience, ethics and morality. tymorial Jun 2015 #5
I think my experiences with religion, positive and negative, have made me a fuller person. pinto Jun 2015 #6
Absolutely Zamen Jun 2015 #8
How? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #10
It gives me a reason to show more restraint Zamen Jun 2015 #11
Restraint from what? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #12
Being able to do what I want Zamen Jun 2015 #14
You don't think that you already do just that? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #16
Well of course Zamen Jun 2015 #19
"it was only my religion and morality that stopped me from doing it." cleanhippie Jun 2015 #21
My morality came from religion Zamen Jun 2015 #22
What morality do you get from your religion? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #23
Only by people who choose to misinterpret the lessons for their own benefit Zamen Jun 2015 #26
Only by people who choose to misinterpret the lessons for their own benefit? cleanhippie Jun 2015 #38
I either use my interpretation, or we admit that there's no such thing as morality Zamen Jun 2015 #41
I fail to understand how if we don't use YOUR interpretaion, there is no morality. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #44
So you follow biblical law to the letter? No exceptions? Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #27
I'm not a Christian, strictly speaking Zamen Jun 2015 #35
substitute "biblical" for whatever religion you are. Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #36
Not always, but I try my best Zamen Jun 2015 #39
So you get your morality from Yahweh, who slaughtered innocents Arugula Latte Jun 2015 #33
That's NOT morality phil89 Jun 2015 #93
well I think his claim is that we are all amoral and it is only fear o god that keeps us in line. Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #105
Ahhh... gcomeau Jun 2015 #135
So you want to do evil Cartoonist Jun 2015 #17
How can you even define "evil" if you're an atheist? Zamen Jun 2015 #20
God is not needed Cartoonist Jun 2015 #24
But then what is the health and well being of humanity? Zamen Jun 2015 #28
Positive and Negative Cartoonist Jun 2015 #45
Different people around the world will have different opinions Zamen Jun 2015 #48
How does God untangle "this mess"? n/t Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #51
By being an objective source of morality Zamen Jun 2015 #53
Can you give an example of this "objective morality"? n/t Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #54
That's where you're wrong Cartoonist Jun 2015 #55
How so? Zamen Jun 2015 #56
Not necessarily, the strength of a type of utilitarian argument is rather strong... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #60
Good and evil are totally subjective. Period. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #87
And how does it magically become objective skepticscott Jun 2015 #70
God is the only being with the authority to define it Zamen Jun 2015 #72
So give us some specific examples skepticscott Jun 2015 #74
More to the point Zamen Jun 2015 #76
So in other words, you can't justify skepticscott Jun 2015 #78
Can you justify your ethical beliefs? Zamen Jun 2015 #80
Yes, I will make some assumptions, first, all humans are alike in our emotional and physical makeup. Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #84
Why would I feel the need to? You made the claim skepticscott Jun 2015 #101
It's a Poe. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #92
And it looks like we'll see them skepticscott Jun 2015 #127
I don't know whether to feel humbled or bummed. Iggo Jun 2015 #137
" it's critical that we preserve it" - 'cause otherwise we might stop burning witches. Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #104
Look up consequentialism phil89 Jun 2015 #94
So how does that apply to you? Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #25
I've been in many situtations where I knew I could have done something Zamen Jun 2015 #29
And you didn't do this thing because it was a sin according to your gods? Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #31
That's right Zamen Jun 2015 #32
And you have never done anything that is a sin according to your gods? Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #37
Of course, but there's also forgiveness Zamen Jun 2015 #40
So there is forgiveness but somehow religion is the only barrier to your immorality. Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #66
Would you prefer it if I had no morality at all? Zamen Jun 2015 #71
Why would you have no morality? n/t Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #81
Why would that be necessary? Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #65
For many people, it's just a lack of opportunity Zamen Jun 2015 #68
A small minority of people are sociopaths, lacking empathy, and would concede that... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #73
That's why I don't understand atheists trying to destroy the only thing Zamen Jun 2015 #75
Its not the only thing, indeed its probably the least effective thing, from what I can tell... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #77
HA, we've got us a Poe. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #89
Poe! cleanhippie Jun 2015 #88
Most sociopaths live healthy productive lives Lordquinton Jun 2015 #125
You do bring up a good point, and, as far as crime syndicates go, religion is one of the ways... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #129
What makes us "better persons" are compassion and empathy. Big Blue Marble Jun 2015 #30
It does for me DeadEyeDyck Jun 2015 #34
I would agree with you on that being offensive... cleanhippie Jun 2015 #47
Why is it offensive? I have to justify my beliefs all the time... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #52
You don't have to justify your faith to anyone. Mariana Jun 2015 #61
I used to be a Christian long ago newfie11 Jun 2015 #42
Probably. Jackpine Radical Jun 2015 #43
For the many religious people I know, their religion is what makes them the people they are. Agnosticsherbet Jun 2015 #58
This is a chicken or egg thing I think, because, for example, I'm a Secular Humanist... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #62
And you incorporated those things in your life, no matter the source. Agnosticsherbet Jun 2015 #103
I think i would be the same uf i was an unbeliever. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #67
Whew. Thats good to know. cleanhippie Jun 2015 #95
My life. hrmjustin Jun 2015 #97
The Church of the SubGenius? Erich Bloodaxe BSN Jun 2015 #79
Absolutely Not AC_Mem Jun 2015 #91
Like any human capacity religion can be both good and bad. Just like governance, applegrove Jun 2015 #98
Being involved in the UU community has made me a better person CanonRay Jun 2015 #102
Do circular, personal semantic arguments make one a better person? pinto Jun 2015 #121
Yep! goldent Jun 2015 #124
Yes. Practicing my faith keeps me mindful of the needs Ilsa Jun 2015 #126
And this is how we act on it: Ilsa Jun 2015 #128
NO marjan Jun 2015 #130
Welcome to DU. DU also has some limitations. Typing in all caps is discouraged for example. JDPriestly Jun 2015 #131
Welcome to DU! gopiscrap Jun 2015 #134
Does your humanism make you a better person that you would otherwise be without it? cbayer Jun 2015 #132
Considering that poeple frequently say their religion makes them better people... cleanhippie Jun 2015 #133
Being "better" or "worse" due to beliefs are legitimate questions. Yorktown Jun 2015 #136
"not legitimate questions"? Warren Stupidity Jun 2015 #139
I'm asking for personal impressions, not objective truths. Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #140
It would be hard to obtain an objective truth in terms of your question, wouldn't it? cbayer Jun 2015 #141
True, what I was wondering is how many people lean on their religious beliefs to justify their... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #142
I suppose there are people like that and I have heard them described cbayer Jun 2015 #143
Well, one of the posters in this thread, for one, I even argued I didn't think he was sociopathic... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #144
I'm not sure who you are talking about, but if he got tombstoned cbayer Jun 2015 #145
I was taught, more or less, the same as you, I'm talking about hoother people describe themselves... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #146
Ah, evangelizers. cbayer Jun 2015 #147
It was funny, in this particular case, I think I was responding to transgender issues on the... Humanist_Activist Jun 2015 #148
I think so much of this is circular. cbayer Jun 2015 #149
I think the philosophies, the religions, the politics, the education, and the beliefs I carry LanternWaste Jun 2015 #138
No, I would still be the same person Marrah_G Jun 2015 #150
having been brought up religious and since aboandoning religion rurallib Jun 2015 #151
Yes. It guides a lot of who I am, including my progressive political views. (nt) UrbScotty Aug 2015 #152
No Marrah_G Aug 2015 #153

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
1. Am I a person with a faith, or a faith inhabiting a person?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:26 PM
Jun 2015

Speaking personally, I am a Christian. But my beliefs do not define me, my actions do.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
7. Are you unable to understand my answer?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:46 PM
Jun 2015

Which was:"But my beliefs do not define me, my actions do."

Actions speak louder than words ever can. I try to act out my faith. But I would never say that any faith is necessary for anyone to lead a good life.

I feel that faith can provide a framework, an outline for people. Faith communities can provide a group, and foster a sense of fellowship. But faith is not a necessary component of a good life.

Does this suffice?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
9. Are you unable to understand the question?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:54 PM
Jun 2015
Does your religion make you a better person than you would otherwise be without it?



If your response to this question really is
my beliefs do not define me, my actions do.


Then I can only interpret that to mean "No, my Religion does not make me a better person than I would be otherwise."

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
13. Almost like a tennis match.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:59 PM
Jun 2015

My faith provides a matrix, if you will, for behavior. But I hope I would behave much the same way toward others even if I had different spiritual beliefs, or no spiritual beliefs. But I will never know.

Are you a person of faith?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
15. I think one can know.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:03 PM
Jun 2015
But I will never know.


I think one can know. In fact, I think most already know but choose to pretend otherwise. YMMV.

Are you a person of faith?

Define what you mean by faith and I'll be happy to answer.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
18. Here is a definition:
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:10 PM
Jun 2015

1. complete trust or confidence in someone or something, or

2. strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion, based on spiritual apprehension rather than proof.



My personal opinion is that definition #1 could apply to a non-theistic belief system.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
46. Using the first definition...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:58 PM
Jun 2015

I most certainly am, but only after said person or thing has demonstrated reliability. (Like my wife telling me she loves me; in 15 years she has affirmed that sentiment through words and deeds.)

As for the second definition, not at all.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
49. A rational and reasonable response.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:15 PM
Jun 2015

By both definitions I am a person of faith. But I judge people solely by their actions, not by what they claim to believe.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
50. Which brings us back to the original question.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:21 PM
Jun 2015
Does your religion make you a better person than you would otherwise be without it?


I still don't understand how anything we've discussed provides your answer to this question.

It seems a yes/no question to me. With the natural follow-up of why or why not?
 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
63. I would imagine that's a selective reading of Jesus, he's not a nice example to follow...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:52 PM
Jun 2015

in his entirety. A lot of things he the Gospels said he did were...questionable, to put it lightly.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
106. His words versus the words of some of his followers?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 08:58 PM
Jun 2015

I will stay with His message. Rather than, say, the crude misogyny of Paul.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
69. You know you've struck gold
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:10 PM
Jun 2015

When you pose a question that the religionistas tie themselves in knot to avoid giving a simple and direct answer to. They can't face up to the fact that all possible answers lead to a contradiction.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
85. I give credit to guillaumeb for an honest and civil exchange so far.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:55 PM
Jun 2015

But the lack of response from the usual posters in the Group speaks volumes to your point.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
123. Why the deflection?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 11:05 PM
Jun 2015

Your pointless question still fails to answer the OP.

Why is it so difficult for you to answer such a straightforward question with a straightforward answer?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
112. You have misread Mathew, and the point of the story.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 09:31 PM
Jun 2015

Jesus cursing the fig tree must be read in context with the story of driving the moneychangers from the Temple. Jesus is comparing the fig tree to Israel. The tree has the promise of fruit, even as it is bare. The same as the Jews, who follow the forms of worship while actually worshipping money.

In like manner, Jesus drove the money changers from the Temple. Their conduct represents the appearance of faith, even as the reality of faith is ignored.

I hope this helps. Many of Jesus' stories must be read knowing that the context of the stories is specific to His times.

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
113. Jesus could not have driven the money changers from the Temple.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 09:44 PM
Jun 2015

The Temple was too big, the changers were all around along the inner and outer walls.

Strictly impossible for one man alone. Even for a group of ten men. One would have needed a few dozens at least.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
115. Splitting of hairs.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 09:53 PM
Jun 2015

Mathew 21:12
And Jesus went into the temple of God, and cast out all them that sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the tables of the moneychangers, and the seats of them that sold doves,


The story talks about Jesus entering the court and driving out the money changers. I would think that there was a court specific to money changers and sacrificial animal sellers. But, not being THAT old, I never saw the court myself. If you look at the illustration, the two largest courts were for the Gentiles. Thee would be no reason to look there.

But the point I was making was that the story of the fig tree must be linked to, and understood as relating to, the story of the money changers.

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
117. Not splitting any hairs, pointing out an impossibility
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 10:04 PM
Jun 2015

This statement

cast out all them that sold and bought in the temple
can not have represented reality.

There were dozens of merchants 'that sold and bought in the temple'

One guy alone chasing them? (assuming it was not complicated by the believers busy getting their money changed)

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
118. And your basis for asserting how many money changers there were?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 10:09 PM
Jun 2015

And how long it would take to remove them, at least in the sense of removing them from whatever court they were in?

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
119. Just picture a shopping alley in an open air market
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 10:28 PM
Jun 2015

Historians say the walls of the temple were lined with money changers, small stalls like this:




Something like a rustic version of the shopping alley of the Shwedagon pagoda in Rangoon

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
114. The fruit tree has a natural cycle of production.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 09:49 PM
Jun 2015

Your comparison to Israel would only make sense if the tree was in season, and still did not bear fruit.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
116. I repeat myself, at the risk of seeming crude:
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 09:56 PM
Jun 2015

"Jesus cursing the fig tree must be read in context with the story of driving the moneychangers from the Temple. Jesus is comparing the fig tree to Israel. The tree has the promise of fruit, even as it is bare. The same as the Jews, who follow the forms of worship while actually worshipping money.

In like manner, Jesus drove the money changers from the Temple. Their conduct represents the appearance of faith, even as the reality of faith is ignored. "

Jesus spoke often of the appearance of faith, as opposed to the reality. When He compared the Pharisee to a whitewashed tomb He was not literally speaking of a tomb. But we both know that.

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
120. Anyway, the NT fig tree stories contradict themselves
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 10:35 PM
Jun 2015

Luke 13:6–9 differs from the probably original Mark 11:25

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
122. Your repetition does not improve the story.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 11:03 PM
Jun 2015

The tree was not in season. It is unreasonable to approach it expecting fruit in the first place.

If there's any comparison going on with Israel, it makes no sense at all. It basically says 'I am an unreasonable asshole and if you don't live up to my unreasonable expectations I will ruin you'.

Cartoonist

(7,317 posts)
2. Why ask a question with an obvious answer?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:28 PM
Jun 2015

No believer would answer that question in the negative. They would stop being a believer if they did.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
57. I would argue that no they wouldn't, plenty of people are well aware that their religion...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:42 PM
Jun 2015

isn't the source of their morality, but they still believe in it because they have faith in their god(s) and religion.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
83. I'm an atheist so this question doesn't apply to me directly, but I will report that my
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:52 PM
Jun 2015

long-time next door neighbor (who always acted like a very nice guy) told me one day that he just didn't know what he might do on this earth if he wasn't afraid of going to hell.

I thought that was pretty scary, actually.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
86. I think this fear is instilled in them due to their religion...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:58 PM
Jun 2015

I mean, I've encountered the same argument, but to be honest, I doubt there are that many budding serial criminals in our mist. More likely they have been brainwashed into believing they are "broken" or "fallen", that they are, because of original sin, somehow intrinsically bad people. I strongly believe that this is false. Actually the proof is in how he told you this, he's afraid of how he would act, why be afraid of that, if he were truly an amoral person without his religion, wouldn't he at least feel neutral about the issue. Why would he care how he acted if he found out he wasn't a believer any more?

Nay

(12,051 posts)
90. I got the impression that he was very afraid of what he might do if he wasn't
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 04:03 PM
Jun 2015

a believer, but of course I cannot climb into his head and determine whether he is a sociopath or not. I can only take his word for it. He seemed pretty serious about it. He had a truly amoral wife who caused him plenty of embarrassment, so maybe he always thought about whacking her? I don't know.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
96. I'm just wondering if that fear is his own conscience, a true sociopath wouldn't care about others..
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 04:16 PM
Jun 2015

or how they should behave except when they think other people's perceptions will interfere with their own goals.

Its a rather sensitive subject, and there's debate as to the source of such lack of empathy. But it does appear to only manifest in a small minority of the population.

tymorial

(3,433 posts)
5. I believe the answer to this involves experience, ethics and morality.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:37 PM
Jun 2015

One can be raised to be a moral person without religion and will become a moral adult. However life experiences can change ones perspective and harden the individual. They would still understand right and wrong but chose to act selfishly. I do not believe religion is a driving force in moral behavior but it can guide one to a moral worldview should nothing interfere. Most people ethically speaking know right and wrong. An ethical person is aware that intentionally harming another person is wrong. A moral person would not harm the other person. Some religious individuals would lead you to believe that without religion it is not possible to understand morality or engage in moral action. I do not believe this at the individual level but I do believe that despite all of the strife caused by religion throughout the centuries, the moral and positive aspects of religion have shaped individuals to be "better people" by passing down a legacy of loving they neighbor (for example). I think a more interesting question would be... would it be possible to be better people without religion having ever existed

-
Thanks for the philosophical question. I live for discussions like this.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
6. I think my experiences with religion, positive and negative, have made me a fuller person.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:39 PM
Jun 2015

If that makes any sense. From a positive perspective I gained a fuller understanding and appreciation for introspection, humility, service, a sense of community and something larger than myself. On the downside I gained a fuller understanding just how limiting a hidebound dogmatic approach to life was to growth, change and that larger sense of life that I still find so positive. Weird dichotomies that happened to hold opportunities for me personally.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
12. Restraint from what?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 12:58 PM
Jun 2015

And are there other sources from which you could draw reason to show restraint?

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
14. Being able to do what I want
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:01 PM
Jun 2015

I could draw reason from the fact that I might face punishment if I get caught, but if I was in such a position that I was almost above the law or thought I could get away with it, it'd take a lot of will power to resist the temptation. Most people who've never been in such a position don't realize how hard that is. Power on that level, where you feel untouchable, is intoxicating.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
16. You don't think that you already do just that?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:06 PM
Jun 2015

Unless you are already in a position to consider yourself above the law, do you not think that fear of punishment already plays a major role in your restraint?

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
19. Well of course
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:11 PM
Jun 2015

But there have been situations where I knew for certain I could have gotten away with something, and it was only my religion and morality that stopped me from doing it.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
21. "it was only my religion and morality that stopped me from doing it."
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:13 PM
Jun 2015

I'd bet it was mostly the latter, not the former.

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
22. My morality came from religion
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:15 PM
Jun 2015

If there's no God, we're all just making morality up as we go along, and that can change like the wind.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
23. What morality do you get from your religion?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:17 PM
Jun 2015

You don't think that the lessons of morality taught by your religion haven't changed with the winds of time?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
38. Only by people who choose to misinterpret the lessons for their own benefit?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:40 PM
Jun 2015

Seriously? On what authority do you have it that the interpretations YOU choose follow are the "correct" ones?

And again, you don't think that those interpretations have changed over time to reflect the morality of the day?

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
41. I either use my interpretation, or we admit that there's no such thing as morality
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:43 PM
Jun 2015

And we're just making it all up as we go along.

Which would you prefer?

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
44. I fail to understand how if we don't use YOUR interpretaion, there is no morality.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:54 PM
Jun 2015

And making it up as we go along seems to be exactly what were doing.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
36. substitute "biblical" for whatever religion you are.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:38 PM
Jun 2015

Is there a text with laws in it? Do you follow them without fail?

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
33. So you get your morality from Yahweh, who slaughtered innocents
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:33 PM
Jun 2015

because he got pissed off?

That's frightening.

 

gcomeau

(5,764 posts)
135. Ahhh...
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 06:48 PM
Jun 2015
My morality came from religion

If there's no God, we're all just making morality up as we go along, and that can change like the wind.


Unlike your religion, which you can never change.

Cartoonist

(7,317 posts)
17. So you want to do evil
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:09 PM
Jun 2015

But faith is holding you back.
I'm an atheist. Nothing is holding me back except my lack of desire to do evil.

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
20. How can you even define "evil" if you're an atheist?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:12 PM
Jun 2015

It's a totally subjective concept without God.

Cartoonist

(7,317 posts)
24. God is not needed
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:17 PM
Jun 2015

My concept of good and evil is based on the health and well being of humanity and the environment.

Cartoonist

(7,317 posts)
45. Positive and Negative
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:56 PM
Jun 2015

That which keeps things stable and moving forward is good. That which destroys, harms, or hinders is evil. I don't see where God enters the picture.

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
48. Different people around the world will have different opinions
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:03 PM
Jun 2015

On what constitutes moving forward, or harming and hindering. And there's no way to prove one person is more right than the next. That's where God comes in. Without God, there's just no way to untangle this mess, and we'll be killing each other over it for the rest of eternity.

Cartoonist

(7,317 posts)
55. That's where you're wrong
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:39 PM
Jun 2015

The difference of opinion is due to the difference of religion and to religious doctrine. Eliminate God from the picture and general consensus over what is good and evil becomes easy.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
60. Not necessarily, the strength of a type of utilitarian argument is rather strong...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:47 PM
Jun 2015

in that we should treat others as we want to be treated. Note, this "Golden Rule" predates Christianity, Judaism, and has cropped up independent of religion in multiple cultures around the world. Its pretty basic, but basically, don't harm other people, or through neglect allow them to come to harm. We even have an instinct for this, empathy, which manifests itself in altruism, being a social species the most sociable of us were more likely to survive to reproduce, its "survival of the nicest." Combine this with recent cultural developments and it probably explains why we are living in one of the least violent times in human history. Also happens to be one of the least religious times as well.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
74. So give us some specific examples
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:21 PM
Jun 2015

Of morality being defined and specified by "god". And then tell us who gave your "god" the authority to define it.

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
76. More to the point
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:23 PM
Jun 2015

What gives you or anyone else the authority to define it? If you dispose of God, all that's left is a free for all. So while religion may be imperfect, it's critical that we preserve it.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
78. So in other words, you can't justify
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:32 PM
Jun 2015

your rather ridiculous statement with even a single example.

But i give you credit for responding so quickly every time. We need people like that here since, well..you know.

May the FSM bless you. Ramen, Zamen!

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
84. Yes, I will make some assumptions, first, all humans are alike in our emotional and physical makeup.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:54 PM
Jun 2015

Second, due to the first assumption, I would prefer to be treated equally with everyone else, and with kindness, not violence or selfishness.

Here, I'll give a specific example from my own life, and this happened very recently, just in the past week. So, took my fiancee to the doctor, on our way back home, tire blew out, pulled into a gas station to change to my spare tire. The only jack I had came with the car, the screw type, very difficult to use, pain in the ass, in fact. Started setting up, when a guy comes up and offers me to use his jack, which is much better, to jack up the car. I had the nuts loose, ready to jack the car up. We used his jack, which reduced the time to change my tire from easily 20 minutes to just a little over 5 minutes. I said thank you, he took his jack back, and we went our separate ways.

He didn't have to help, we weren't even helpless, or in danger, just inconvenienced, and my jack sucks, so what was his motivation for helping me? Is it to avoid hell or to please his god(assuming he's religious at all), or is it possible that he has been in my situation, empathized with it, and reacted accordingly, based on reciprocity?

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
101. Why would I feel the need to? You made the claim
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 06:00 PM
Jun 2015

Either back it up or admit you can't. That's what intelligent, honest, rational people do in a discussion. Trying lamely to make this about me is not an answer, so don't waste your time or mine on further such attempts.

If I get to the point of making claims about my ethical beliefs, feel free to question me about them. So far, I haven't.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
104. " it's critical that we preserve it" - 'cause otherwise we might stop burning witches.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 08:47 PM
Jun 2015

or to put it in a more modern context, otherwise the whole opposition to LGBT equality would evaporate. Religion is indeed a torrent of bad moral edicts. The ones that arent irrational or vile or idiotic are just common sense and would exist without any imaginary divine authorities.

 

phil89

(1,043 posts)
94. Look up consequentialism
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 04:11 PM
Jun 2015

time to put down the bible and start reading about this well covered topic.

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
29. I've been in many situtations where I knew I could have done something
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:22 PM
Jun 2015

And I would never have been caught for it.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
66. So there is forgiveness but somehow religion is the only barrier to your immorality.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:05 PM
Jun 2015

Excuse me if I don't buy your argument at all.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
65. Why would that be necessary?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:57 PM
Jun 2015

This I truly don't understand, I don't go around, day to day, thinking about stealing or murdering, or even punching people, only to stop myself when I think about what whether God would approve. Even when I was a Christian, I didn't think that. The idea of harming people is repugnant, at most entertained in truly stressful situations, but never acted upon.

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
68. For many people, it's just a lack of opportunity
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:08 PM
Jun 2015

That's the only thing that stops them. It's surprising how quickly the character of previously normal people changes when you give them a bit of power.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
73. A small minority of people are sociopaths, lacking empathy, and would concede that...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:18 PM
Jun 2015

If threat of punishment is the only thing keeping them from committing crime, then that threat has utility, but for the vast majority of people, such threats are unnecessary for them to be rational, moral actors in society.

 

Zamen

(116 posts)
75. That's why I don't understand atheists trying to destroy the only thing
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:21 PM
Jun 2015

That can restrain the sociopaths.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
77. Its not the only thing, indeed its probably the least effective thing, from what I can tell...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:27 PM
Jun 2015

and observe, what might be more of a deterrence is social pressure and the criminal justice system.

After all, even a sociopath can use critical thinking skills, and considering the lack of evidence for the claims of every religion on the planet, I would much rather we relied on the threat of real jail-time to restrain such people than that of hell.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
125. Most sociopaths live healthy productive lives
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 04:34 PM
Jun 2015

And like most mental disabilities are more likely to be the victim of a crime than commit one.

Even if they behaved in the stereotypical manner why would they care anything about a god?

There's also the fact that the religious far outnumber atheists in prison. Plus crime syndicates tend to be religious, mafia, cartels and so on.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
129. You do bring up a good point, and, as far as crime syndicates go, religion is one of the ways...
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 07:51 PM
Jun 2015

along with ethnicity, race or locality(neighborhood gangs), to distinguish themselves from others.

Big Blue Marble

(5,092 posts)
30. What makes us "better persons" are compassion and empathy.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:23 PM
Jun 2015

These attributes may or may not be gained through religion. More likely they
are gained through life experiences.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
52. Why is it offensive? I have to justify my beliefs all the time...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:33 PM
Jun 2015

indeed, we all do, why should your faith be exempt from such scrutiny?

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
61. You don't have to justify your faith to anyone.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:49 PM
Jun 2015

If someone asks you a question about your faith that you don't want to answer, you can simply refuse to answer it.

newfie11

(8,159 posts)
42. I used to be a Christian long ago
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:49 PM
Jun 2015

Attended church weekly.

What I saw are two kinds of people.
Those that are truly decent caring people and the others. Those others are people hiding behind religion. Those that think their better than others. Their prejudice, think they can do bad things over and over and being a good Christian be forgiven.

I am more aligned with Buddhism than Christianity.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
43. Probably.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 01:54 PM
Jun 2015

First we would have to establish whether Unitarianism is a "religion" by your definition. The closest the UUs ever get to imposing a doctrine is in their 7 Principles:

1st Principle: The inherent worth and dignity of every person;
2nd Principle: Justice, equity and compassion in human relations;
3rd Principle: Acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations;
4th Principle: A free and responsible search for truth and meaning;
5th Principle: The right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large;
6th Principle: The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all;
7th Principle: Respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.

As for beliefs, not long after I joined I was invited to participate in a multi-session Religious Education group called "Create Your Own Theology." We examined various theological perspectives & discussed them at considerable length, & at the end each came up with their own perspective, which they shared with the group. Most were one or another flavor of agnostic, while I had more deist and Buddhist leanings.

The church is very involved in gay rights (our minister emerita and her partner were the lead plaintiffs in WI's recent Right To Marry Suit). The head of the local ACLU chapter is a member, as is the doctor who founded the local free clinic.

In general, the church is an association of people from whom I draw (and to whom I hope I return in some measure) sustenance and inspiration.

Agnosticsherbet

(11,619 posts)
58. For the many religious people I know, their religion is what makes them the people they are.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:43 PM
Jun 2015

Generous, kind to a fault, loving, considerate, happy.

In the same way, the beliefs and philosophies of secular humanists make them what they are.

Generous, kind to a fault, loving, considerate, happy.

Asking individuals of either group to, temporarily, remove an essential piece of their history, personality, and life in order to evaluate whether they would be a better person is an impossible task.

Now, if you ask a member of the old Red Brigades or ISIS if their philosophies (Red Brigades were a Marxist-Leninist left wing terrorist group in Italy) ISIS (extremist Islam) if their philosophies or religions made them better people, I suspect they would also find it impossible to extract the core of who they are and make an informed judgment.

Does being a secular humanist make you a better person that you would otherwise be? All you need to do is extract every bit of what that philosophical belief brings into your life and leave a vacuum and tell me if what is left informs your actions in a positive or negative way.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
62. This is a chicken or egg thing I think, because, for example, I'm a Secular Humanist...
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 02:50 PM
Jun 2015

or I should say I use that label because its useful in summarizing my ethical and moral beliefs. However, I arrived at those independently of when I was even aware of Humanism as a philosophy.

Generally speaking, I'll be honest, the "philosophy" part bores me. I prefer to think of things practically.

Agnosticsherbet

(11,619 posts)
103. And you incorporated those things in your life, no matter the source.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 07:52 PM
Jun 2015

Individuals incorporate religion in their lives. That is where they get their source of morals, ethics, and concepts of compassion. It is possible to get those from other sources. but they did not.


 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
67. I think i would be the same uf i was an unbeliever.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 03:05 PM
Jun 2015

My parents had a good sense of right and wrong and they are not believers.


My faith has helped me to improve.

AC_Mem

(1,979 posts)
91. Absolutely Not
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 04:05 PM
Jun 2015

This is a new age of time. It is my belief that we are ascending as a species with an opening, or enlightenment, happening. Because of this, we have those who embrace it and therefore no longer need the good/evil, black/white, heaven/hell boundaries of traditional religion and those who fear it and are holding ever more tightly to what feels "safe" for them.

It's always rocky in humanity when we take a spiritually evolutionary leap. Look around you - the children, teens and adults born in the 80's and 90's and 2000's - unless they are brought up in a tightly woven fabric of religion, they are not necessarily making that choice for themselves. They are exploring their inner spirituality and the data is out there to prove it.

My grandchildren are exposed to religion via their other family (father's side), and on our side they are exposed to concepts such as Buddhism, Spirituality, Reincarnation,etc. They can make up their own minds (or have made up their own minds) when they are ready.

Interestingly, the religious side of their life (the father's side) are also rabidly conservative. My grandson was shocked when he went to church with them one day a couple years back (he is 15 now) and they were telling the flock how evil President Obama is and how to vote (GOP) and of course, the voting machines were right there in the church. He asked me - isn't that illegal Mimi? He was completely turned off by it. My 10 year old granddaughter is, like me, my mother and my grandfather on my mother's side, born intuitive so religion has not been a "fit" for her (so far).

Yippee for CHOICE!! - and of course, my children and grandchildren choose to be democrats

Shine on,
Annette in Orlando

applegrove

(118,677 posts)
98. Like any human capacity religion can be both good and bad. Just like governance,
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 05:00 PM
Jun 2015

or literature or politics. On the whole religion does a world of good. I adore religious people who walk the walk. No better people in the world.

pinto

(106,886 posts)
121. Do circular, personal semantic arguments make one a better person?
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 10:38 PM
Jun 2015

A background thread sidetrack, obviously, yet I grow tired of the game. Find myself posting less and enjoying the forum less. Still skim and read topics that catch my interest. Just a personal aside, here. No big deal.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
126. Yes. Practicing my faith keeps me mindful of the needs
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 04:53 PM
Jun 2015

of others and less focused on myself. My pastor discusses Christ's anger with the money-changers and pharisees, his love for the downtrodden and his ideal of each of us loving one another enough to help each other.

Maybe others don't need the lessons and reminders, but it helps me.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
128. And this is how we act on it:
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 05:47 PM
Jun 2015

Huge, active food pantry
Backpacks of food and hygiene items for kids to take home from school on the weekends
Home repair and lawn care ministry for poor elderly and disabled
Children's homes
Care packages for veterans and people in hospice
Sewing and collecting clothing for poor children in some very impoverished areas in the UNITED
Outreach and activities for adults with intellectual disabilities
Partner with American Red Cross on sheltering weather victims and on blood drives
Other stuff I don't even know enough about to list.

marjan

(1 post)
130. NO
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 01:54 AM
Jun 2015

I AM NEW MEMBER ....AND I AM MUSLIM...BUT I THINK THAT EVERYBODY HAS SO MANY FRAMEWORK FOR HIMSELF AND ONE OF THEM IS RELIGION...ALL OF THEM HELP PEOPLE TO BE A BETTER MAN OR WOMAN ...BUT EVERY OF THEM WITHOUT THE OTHERS....ARE NOT USEFUL...
IN MY RELIGION THERE ARE SO MANY DIFFERENT LIMITATIONS ESPECIALLY FOR WOMAN ....BUT MOST OF THEM REALLY DO NOT HELP PEOPLE TO BE A GOOD PERSON...AND JUST A LIMITED NUMBER OF THEM ARE RELIABLE AND FUNCTIONAL

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
131. Welcome to DU. DU also has some limitations. Typing in all caps is discouraged for example.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 04:44 AM
Jun 2015

That limitation is encouraged not because it is reliable and functional but because people on DU prefer as much lower case as possible. Lower case is a bit easier on the eyes.

I use the upper case once in a while for emphasis.

I hope you won't be offended by my mentioning this, but sooner or later someone may be more rude than I am about it.

Welcome to DU. I think we have people of all religions and there is a group on religion.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
132. Does your humanism make you a better person that you would otherwise be without it?
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 08:37 AM
Jun 2015

People are who they are. Religion is sometimes a part of who they are.

Being "better" or "worse" due to it are not legitimate questions.

cleanhippie

(19,705 posts)
133. Considering that poeple frequently say their religion makes them better people...
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 09:30 AM
Jun 2015

It's a very legitimate question.

But you knew that.


How's Italy?

 

Yorktown

(2,884 posts)
136. Being "better" or "worse" due to beliefs are legitimate questions.
Tue Jun 9, 2015, 06:50 PM
Jun 2015

Matthew 7:16 By their fruit you will recognize them.

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
139. "not legitimate questions"?
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 02:59 PM
Jun 2015

really? Theists frequently assert that religion makes people better, that religion provides the moral foundation of civilization, etc. but questioning those assertions are not legitimate questions.

Amazing what you can read on the internets.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
140. I'm asking for personal impressions, not objective truths.
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 03:19 PM
Jun 2015

Of course most people arrive at their moral or ethical outlooks independent of the labels they attribute to them. Few recognize this though.

And to answer your question, no.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
141. It would be hard to obtain an objective truth in terms of your question, wouldn't it?
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 04:06 PM
Jun 2015

I think that various philosophies and religions have made me a better person. I arrived at my moral and ethical outlook at least in part due to those things.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
142. True, what I was wondering is how many people lean on their religious beliefs to justify their...
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 05:28 PM
Jun 2015

morality. Plenty of people think so little of themselves they think that without their religion, they would be horrible people. That may actually be true for a few, but not the majority.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
143. I suppose there are people like that and I have heard them described
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 05:32 PM
Jun 2015

previously.

But I think they are exceptions. I can see how someone who is sociopathic and really has not sense of right or wrong might do that, but most people are good with or without religion, imo.

And those sociopaths that do use religion as a tool go control themselves probably don't do it very successfully.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
144. Well, one of the posters in this thread, for one, I even argued I didn't think he was sociopathic...
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 05:35 PM
Jun 2015

because he was afraid of how he would act if a god didn't exist, or he believed one didn't exist. That fear is an example of his own consciousness.

Of course, that poster ended up getting tombstoned, cutting the conversation short.

And I've encountered the argument before, several times. Apparently a lot of Christians think they are sociopaths, or incapable of resisting "sin" or depravity without Jesus. Then again, this is what they are explicitly taught by that religion, one of the reasons I find those beliefs poisonous.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
145. I'm not sure who you are talking about, but if he got tombstoned
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 05:41 PM
Jun 2015

perhaps he is a sociopath.

We have had markedly different experiences, obviously. The christianity I was raised in never promoted this concept at all. It was more about all people being basically good but vulnerable to acting badly. If anything, that would result in disappointment or disapproval, but the expectation was that you had the innate capacity to be good.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
146. I was taught, more or less, the same as you, I'm talking about hoother people describe themselves...
Fri Jun 12, 2015, 02:23 AM
Jun 2015

especially those who attempted to evangelize to me. Even Catholics trying to "bring me back to the Church". A lot of their conversion or struggle with faith stories usually revolve around "temptations". It comes in two types, those who are tempted by things I wouldn't consider harmful, for example, fantasizing about other people, lust, masturbation, premarital sex, etc. When they talk about how Jesus saved them and gave them strength to resist such things, I find that kinda sad.

The other thing is them expressing fear in how they would act if they didn't believe in their religion, generally with challenges to my morality, making assumptions about the morality of atheists for purposes of attempting to shock me. Like saying that without God, there's nothing wrong with torturing a baby for fun. Yeah, that was an actual argument used. I really don't understand that mindset, nor would I want to.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
147. Ah, evangelizers.
Fri Jun 12, 2015, 06:18 AM
Jun 2015

I've been lucky to have avoided them for the most part. My ability to listen pretty much disappears once people start talking about being saved and "needing" jesus.

This whole concept of nonbelievers being amoral baffles me. Simple observation certainly shows that not to be true. Plus the almost daily reports of despicable behavior on the part of one believer or another compounds that.

I don't understand that mindset either. I respond to it much as I would a creationist or anti-GLBT equality argument. The ideas are hollow and without any substance to back them up. Unless there is an opportunity to help them reconsider, they are best ignored.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
148. It was funny, in this particular case, I think I was responding to transgender issues on the...
Fri Jun 12, 2015, 01:23 PM
Jun 2015

Catholicism subreddit. I go there sometimes to challenge them, as far as I can tell, I haven't been shadowbanned yet. I'm honest that I'm an ex-Catholic, etc. and, unlike here, I can be somewhat respectful.

Also I restrict my comments to social issues, such as contraception, not anything related to supernatural beliefs.

Anyways, I ended up getting a PM from a Catholic from there, inviting me to chat about religion and atheism. I actually told him, straight off, I don't know how helpful it will be, a lot of their mindset is truly alien to me, being human focused that I am. But we chatted anyways, we had a few back and forths throughout a week or so, and then we decided to mutually end it, because we were going around in circles and talking past each other. Completely unproductive, as I predicted. The tortured baby for fun thing was his example. I would counter his points, and he would pretend I didn't say anything, it was frustrating.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
149. I think so much of this is circular.
Fri Jun 12, 2015, 01:43 PM
Jun 2015

It's an area where it is unlikely that someone is going to convince someone else to change their position.

What I would prefer to see is just an attempt to understand that others can have radically different beliefs and still be perfectly acceptable human beings.

I know some wonderful people - some are believers and some are not. And I know some truly despicable people that seem to completely lack any sense of empathy and are extremely judgemental. Again, some of these people are believers and some are not.

In response to your question, I don't think religious beliefs make a person better or worse, but for some they might provide guidance and a way of looking at things that leads them to make good decisions. There's nothing wrong with that, per se and there is nothing wrong with not getting anything from religion at all.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
138. I think the philosophies, the religions, the politics, the education, and the beliefs I carry
Thu Jun 11, 2015, 02:50 PM
Jun 2015

I think the philosophies, the religions, the politics, the education, and the beliefs I carry are all part and parcel of who I am.

Am I a better person due to the existence of the Democratic party? I believe so-- it's allowed me additional perspectives I may not have had access to without it. Am I a better person due to a belief in the philosophies of Historicism and Pacifism? I think so, and for the same reason. I think I'm a better person for many reason, religion being one of them.

I also think that many people give services to politics, philosophies, religions, et. al. see it only as a form of ritual and prioritize observance over belief.

rurallib

(62,421 posts)
151. having been brought up religious and since aboandoning religion
Sun Jun 14, 2015, 08:12 AM
Jun 2015

I can safely say I am a much better person without religion.

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