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cbayer

(146,218 posts)
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 07:16 AM Jul 2015

Episcopal Church OKs Same-Sex Religious Weddings

http://www.usnews.com/news/us/articles/2015/07/01/episcopalians-to-vote-on-allowing-gay-marriage-in-churches

Episcopalians approve gay marriage, allowing religious weddings for same-sex couples.


Bishop Gene Robinson addresses the congregation at Christ Church in Philadelphia, in 2005. Robinson, now retired, said he is breathless about how quickly the gay rights movement has progressed since he was getting daily death threats and forced to wear a bulletproof vest to his consecration 12 years ago.

Associated Press July 1, 2015 | 10:11 p.m. EDT + More

By BRADY McCOMBS and RACHEL ZOLL, Associated Press

SALT LAKE CITY (AP) — Episcopalians voted overwhelmingly Wednesday to allow religious weddings for same-sex couples, solidifying the church's embrace of gay rights that began more than a decade ago with the pioneering election of the first openly gay bishop.

The vote came in Salt Lake City at the Episcopal General Convention, just days after the U.S. Supreme Court legalized gay marriage nationwide. It passed in the House of Deputies, the voting body of clergy and lay participants at the meeting. The House of Bishops had approved the resolution Tuesday by 129-26 with five abstaining.

The Rev. Brian Baker of Sacramento said the church rule change was the result of a nearly four-decade long conversation that has been difficult and painful for many. Baker, chair of the committee that crafted the changes, said church members have not always been kind to one another but that the dynamic has changed in recent decades.


"We have learned to not only care for, but care about one other," Baker said. "That mutual care was present in the conversations we had. Some people disagreed, some people disagreed deeply, but we prayed and we listened and we came up with compromises that we believe make room and leave no one behind."

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Episcopal Church OKs Same-Sex Religious Weddings (Original Post) cbayer Jul 2015 OP
"Religion now comes to us in this smiley-faced, ingratiating way, because it's had to give so much" AtheistCrusader Jul 2015 #1
What you are not understanding is that we aren't late to the party. kwassa Jul 2015 #19
A proud day for us. This is really just a formality because some Episcopal churches have been hrmjustin Jul 2015 #2
Kudos to your denomination, justin. cbayer Jul 2015 #4
The current crop of bishops are much better than the ones we had when I first joined in the 90's. hrmjustin Jul 2015 #5
You forgot the word 'some'. AtheistCrusader Jul 2015 #6
I know the history. hrmjustin Jul 2015 #7
So why pretend "Episcopal Churches" have been doing it for decades? AtheistCrusader Jul 2015 #8
Because i have been going to them for 2 decades. hrmjustin Jul 2015 #9
Real life experience AlbertCat Jul 2015 #10
New york is the headquarters of the church and i am well aware of our history. hrmjustin Jul 2015 #11
Thank you for correcting that claim. AtheistCrusader Jul 2015 #12
Well it has been going on for decades. hrmjustin Jul 2015 #13
The official policy was actually against it. AtheistCrusader Jul 2015 #14
Some Bishops allowed the rules to be broken. hrmjustin Jul 2015 #15
That's what I mean by Implicit Allow. AtheistCrusader Jul 2015 #16
Well you won't get an argument from me that they did things the wrong way, hrmjustin Jul 2015 #17
This is an opportunity. AtheistCrusader Jul 2015 #18
Many of the converts to the Episcopal church come from the RCC. kwassa Jul 2015 #20
wrong place - oops cbayer Jul 2015 #3

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
1. "Religion now comes to us in this smiley-faced, ingratiating way, because it's had to give so much"
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 10:01 AM
Jul 2015

ground and because we know so much more. But you have no right to forget the way it behaved when it was strong, and when it really did believe that it had God on its side."


Late to the party there, champs

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
19. What you are not understanding is that we aren't late to the party.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 04:47 PM
Jul 2015

The Episcopal Church is subject to the laws of the states about marriage. As each state made it legal, the Episcopal Church in that state started marrying same-sex individuals.

Now because the Supreme Court has ratified same-sex marriage, we can enact things on a church-wide basis, because the decision covers the entire country.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
2. A proud day for us. This is really just a formality because some Episcopal churches have been
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 10:04 AM
Jul 2015

doing this for decades.

This was a great general convention.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
4. Kudos to your denomination, justin.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 10:07 AM
Jul 2015

Always tending to be a little ahead of the curve and, imo, one of the most GLBT welcoming christian groups around.

I know it's a formality, but it's an important one.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
5. The current crop of bishops are much better than the ones we had when I first joined in the 90's.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 10:08 AM
Jul 2015

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
6. You forgot the word 'some'.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 11:59 AM
Jul 2015

Please don’t misrepresent your church by pretending it’s more progressive than it is as a whole, because no, 'Episcopal Churches' as an entire whole haven't been doing it for a year, let alone "decades".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blessing_of_same-sex_unions_in_Christian_churches#Episcopal_Church_of_the_USA

If you add the word 'some' to your claim, then it would be true.

Subset != Superset.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
8. So why pretend "Episcopal Churches" have been doing it for decades?
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:07 PM
Jul 2015

Something to be gained from that false characterization?

In 2012 Episcopal Church didn't officially yet allow priests to sign off on SSM certificates.

That makes the claim of 'decades' ring a bit false, no?

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
9. Because i have been going to them for 2 decades.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:11 PM
Jul 2015

Real life experience and i know a lot of clergy.

And i edited to say some.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
10. Real life experience
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:14 PM
Jul 2015

Uh... anecdotal evidence is worthless....


....because, (are you sitting?) the world is not just like your back yard!

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
11. New york is the headquarters of the church and i am well aware of our history.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:21 PM
Jul 2015

The fact is some Episcopal churvhes have been doing this for decades.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
12. Thank you for correcting that claim.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:23 PM
Jul 2015

I might not have said anything, being that various E churches have just gone ahead and done it, but the org's official stance just three years ago was quite incompatible with the claim, even though today the change may indeed be a formality.

Crediting it with 'decades' seemed a bit disingenuous.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
13. Well it has been going on for decades.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:25 PM
Jul 2015

No it was not offical policy but bishops have been allowing it for decades.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
14. The official policy was actually against it.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:51 PM
Jul 2015

That might sound like nuance, but with a background in engineering and security, implicit versus explicit permissions and whether those permissions are enforced or even audited have very important implications.

In 2012, the explicit permission for a priest in the EP church to officiate such a wedding in the capacity of signing the certificate, was explicitly denied. It appears that permission was neither enforced not audited, so that results in an implicit allow, but it was still up to the individual priest to decide.


On a personal note, This approach to handling social change is alien to me. It appears to have been engineered to support progress while entertaining the fears and dislikes of regressive members of the church.

I do not understand a desire to cater to such people until they give up. Does that make them better people, when they finally roll over and relent? Maybe. I wouldn't bank on it though.

When I approach a problem, if there is an underlying principle to guide a consistent outcome, I go with that. If the world is not with me, that is their problem. Not mine. I do not accommodate things like, in this case, discrimination. I forge ahead, alone if need be. Why pretend to accept or tolerate their position? Does this not lend credence to their position, or to the possibility of their position co-existing with mine?

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
15. Some Bishops allowed the rules to be broken.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 12:58 PM
Jul 2015

Ever hear of Bishop Spong? He broke the rules all thd time and God bless him for it.

There is precedent in our church for this. In the 70's several bishops ordained women beforethe church allowed it.



You won't get an argument from me that the church was slow on this. Being active in the church has always been a learning experience. Politics and cowards have always been problems for us.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
16. That's what I mean by Implicit Allow.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 01:13 PM
Jul 2015

If you have a rule that says 'Not Allowed' for any process, but you deliberately choose not to enforce the rule, AND refuse to gather audit data that might allow later enforcement of the rule, you are implicitly allowing the action that process claims to Deny.

This happens a lot in the physical and software security world for liability/legal reasons.

In your church's case it appears to be engineered to placate the aforementioned audience while allowing people to get married.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
17. Well you won't get an argument from me that they did things the wrong way,
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 01:15 PM
Jul 2015

B6t i am glad we got our avt together.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
18. This is an opportunity.
Thu Jul 2, 2015, 01:28 PM
Jul 2015

So the law allows it.
Your church, a splinter faction of the RCC that shares heritage and source material with the RCC, allows it.

There has never been a better time to recruit from the population of members of the RCC. They poll largely in favor of this, but the heirarchy is resistant to changing it.

It would pay dividends in orther issues where the EP church is more progressive, like contraception, abortion, etc. The EP church is against abortion from a moral stance but explicitly refuses to interfere in the right to access it. That's a position I can coexist with. The RCC actively lobbies, campaigns and sues to block, limit and restrict it.

Anything you can do to shrink the RCC population is a material boost to many progressive issues, and being sourced and similar to the RCC, your church is in a uniquely credible position to accomplish it.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
20. Many of the converts to the Episcopal church come from the RCC.
Fri Jul 3, 2015, 04:51 PM
Jul 2015

Exactly for the reasons you stated.

The Anglican church in England, however, is more conservative than the government is on this issue, and won't perform same-sex marriages, despite the fact they are legal in Great Britain.

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