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Eugene

(61,903 posts)
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 01:51 PM Jun 2016

Pope's comments on modern marriage raise storm of criticism

Source: Reuters

World | Fri Jun 17, 2016 11:13am EDT

Pope's comments on modern marriage raise storm of criticism

VATICAN CITY | BY PHILIP PULLELLA

Pope Francis has said the "great majority" of Catholic marriages being celebrated today are invalid because couples do not fully realize it is a lifetime commitment, drawing sharp criticism from Church conservatives.

The pope, who has come under fire before for making spontaneous comments about doctrinal matters, was speaking at a question-and-answer session with priests, nuns and parish workers on Thursday night in a Rome basilica.

"We are living in a provisional culture," Francis said in response to a man who spoke of "the crisis of marriage" and asked how the Church could better prepare young couples.

"Because of this, a great majority of our sacramental marriages are null because they (the couple) say 'yes, for the rest of my life' but they don't know what they are saying because they have a different culture," Francis said.

In the Vatican's transcript issued on Friday morning his words were changed to read "some" instead of "a great majority". A Vatican spokesman said the pope's off-the-cuff remarks are sometimes edited after consulting with him or among aides.

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Read more: http://www.reuters.com/article/us-pope-marriage-idUSKCN0Z318J
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Pope's comments on modern marriage raise storm of criticism (Original Post) Eugene Jun 2016 OP
LOL! trotsky Jun 2016 #1
We should listen to anonymous posters on the internet instead. rug Jun 2016 #2
An anonymous non bigoted married person is more informed than a bigoted celibate who has to have Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #3
Who is this "anonymous non bigoted married person" you want me to listen to? rug Jun 2016 #4
people still think he is some sort of progressive, though, mwrguy Jun 2016 #5
Or because they badly want and need skepticscott Jun 2016 #6
Yeah, even old celibate bigots can run an effective PR campaign. n/t trotsky Jun 2016 #7
With the help of skepticscott Jun 2016 #8
I see you and your gin partner haven't even read the story. rug Jun 2016 #9
I was right skepticscott Jun 2016 #11
Not only does it point to itself, it jumps up and down and sets off fireworks Major Nikon Jun 2016 #22
I see you switched gin partners. rug Jun 2016 #26
so right DustyJoe Jun 2016 #41
must be nice to have do-overs Angry Dragon Jun 2016 #10
The gist of his comment is that many people do not take their commitments to one another seriously. rug Jun 2016 #12
Sure, people should just stay in abusive marriages until Frank and his minions say it never happened Major Nikon Jun 2016 #13
Do you think people split up primarily because of abuse? rug Jun 2016 #14
Do you think people don't split up because of abuse? Sounds like it. Major Nikon Jun 2016 #15
You left out "primarily". rug Jun 2016 #16
Holy shit, I damn sure did! Major Nikon Jun 2016 #17
You're babbling. rug Jun 2016 #18
Doubling down on the strawman gibberish while calling someone else a babbling idiot Major Nikon Jun 2016 #19
You're the one that tossed it. rug Jun 2016 #20
Are you really going to keep trying to make that bullshit fly? Major Nikon Jun 2016 #21
" people should just stay in abusive marriages until Frank and his minions say it never happened " rug Jun 2016 #23
Wow! You actually posted a direct quote without adding strawman bullshit! Major Nikon Jun 2016 #24
Your quote is the strawman. rug Jun 2016 #25
Really? I'd love to see your explanation of that one Major Nikon Jun 2016 #27
You need to explain why you think abuse is the primary reason for divorce. rug Jun 2016 #29
Haha! Just when I thought you couldn't possibly get any more mileage out of your strawman bullshit! Major Nikon Jun 2016 #31
The only bullshit is your comment. rug Jun 2016 #32
More strawman bullshit is such a great follow up to strawman bullshit! Major Nikon Jun 2016 #33
You're not very good at logical fallacies, are you? rug Jun 2016 #34
Putting words in someone's mouth and then arguing on that basis is blatant strawman Major Nikon Jun 2016 #35
Responding to you is not. rug Jun 2016 #36
Then you are foolish by your own definition Major Nikon Jun 2016 #37
Your tenor describes how much you give a fuck. rug Jun 2016 #38
Shit I hope so. Just don't cry if I refuse to entertain your strawman gibberish Major Nikon Jun 2016 #39
Guess he really is an asshat. Silver_Witch Jun 2016 #28
Do you know what he said? rug Jun 2016 #30
Yes... Silver_Witch Jun 2016 #40
Sounds pretty much spot on Major Nikon Jun 2016 #42
Exactly!!!! Silver_Witch Jun 2016 #46
About as close as trump is to understanding Islam. rug Jun 2016 #44
That is so much shit it is amazing. Silver_Witch Jun 2016 #45
That is so much shit it is trite. rug Jun 2016 #47
The people who defend him skepticscott Jun 2016 #43
The truth does point to itself. skepticscott Jun 2016 #48
 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
3. An anonymous non bigoted married person is more informed than a bigoted celibate who has to have
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 02:50 PM
Jun 2016

his ravings edited and rewritten for the record because they are so ludicrous and insulting.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
6. Or because they badly want and need
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 03:07 PM
Jun 2016

the leader of their church to at least appear progressive, so they can rationalize maintaining their membership in and support for what they know deep down is a blatantly bigoted organization.

Then of course there are those who will defend him at every turn, and attack anyone who has the temerity to point out his bigotry, because they're as bigoted as he is.

And the truth points to itself.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
9. I see you and your gin partner haven't even read the story.
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 04:18 PM
Jun 2016

Too bad the Meta Forum was closed.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
12. The gist of his comment is that many people do not take their commitments to one another seriously.
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 07:38 PM
Jun 2016

Do you disagree with that?

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
13. Sure, people should just stay in abusive marriages until Frank and his minions say it never happened
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 08:48 PM
Jun 2016

Which in some areas can take years if it ever happens at all.

Yep, the only thing better than getting the government involved in your relationship is getting the church involved.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
14. Do you think people split up primarily because of abuse?
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 08:57 PM
Jun 2016

Sounds like it.

I'd like to see if you can actually discuss a topic without mentioning "Frank".

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
15. Do you think people don't split up because of abuse? Sounds like it.
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 09:05 PM
Jun 2016

Sweet Jebus your game of strawman bullshit is so fun anyone can play!

The OP mentioned Frank as did you, but I can't. Brilliant!

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
16. You left out "primarily".
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 09:09 PM
Jun 2016

Rephrasing is a sophomore's game.

I take it then you think the primary reason people split up is abuse.

The strawman is people are compelled to split up because of divorce.

An ignorant position.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
18. You're babbling.
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 09:23 PM
Jun 2016

Now go start a thread warning everyone that abuse is the leading case of divorce.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
21. Are you really going to keep trying to make that bullshit fly?
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 09:39 PM
Jun 2016

Please do continue, though, like always. I'm enjoying the show.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
23. " people should just stay in abusive marriages until Frank and his minions say it never happened "
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 09:45 PM
Jun 2016

Own your own shit.

I don't think you're really enjoying this.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
31. Haha! Just when I thought you couldn't possibly get any more mileage out of your strawman bullshit!
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 10:21 PM
Jun 2016
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
32. The only bullshit is your comment.
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 10:27 PM
Jun 2016

Francis said not a word about abuse, nor was it mentioned at all in the article. He spoke about the lack of commitment that's prevalent.

You, for reasons that reside somewhere in your cortex, felt compelled to snidely suggest that "Frank" wants people to stay in abusive marriages.

And that was the high point of your remarks.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
33. More strawman bullshit is such a great follow up to strawman bullshit!
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 10:44 PM
Jun 2016

I never claimed Frank said anything about abuse. In fact, my point was he DIDN'T say anything about abuse while claiming the real problem is people are just not staying in bad marriages. Neither did I say abuse was the "primary" (your word, not mine) cause of divorce.

Now let's explore an ACTUAL case of strawman bullshit rather than one that is attributable to Freudian projection:

Do you think people split up primarily because of abuse?

Sounds like it.


Not only do you ask and answer questions for me, you DEMAND I explain something I never claimed to begin with:

You need to explain why you think abuse is the primary reason for divorce.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=231366

The best part is how you think everyone is just too fucking stupid not to see right through your driveling nonsense.

So if you can find people who are just so fucking stupid they address obvious logical fallacies rather than calling them out for the obvious silly stupid shit they are, more power to you. Meanwhile the more you try to rerun that gibberish the more I'm going to laugh at the pathetic attempts that just keep getting more pathetic.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
34. You're not very good at logical fallacies, are you?
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 10:49 PM
Jun 2016

First of all, your introduction of abuse to a comment about commitment is a red herring, not a strawman.

Second, it is a complete non sequitur.

Third, your comments have neen no more than lame ad hominems.

Finally, you could have saved yourself the effort of typing your last paragraph. It's been found.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
35. Putting words in someone's mouth and then arguing on that basis is blatant strawman
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 11:06 PM
Jun 2016

If you want to pretend otherwise, it only provides evidence that you simply won't own up to your own bullshit, as if more were needed.

First of all, the Catholic church has been compelling people to stay in abusive marriages for centuries and still does to this day. If you think this isn't relevant to Frank's comments, it only shows your worship of Frank is far greater than any respect you might offer for the victims of that abuse. But since the pederasty of the RCC presents no such obstacle for you either, I can't say I'm surprised.

Second, red herring and non sequitur are two different things. If you can't differentiate between the two, then it simply provides evidence of your ignorance of what constitutes a logical fallacy, as if more were needed, while you simultaneously and hilariously try to lecture others on what constitutes a logical fallacy.

Third, I find it quite rich when someone who gets put in time out for repeatedly engaging in personal attacks attempts to lecture me on the lameness of personal attacks.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
36. Responding to you is not.
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 11:10 PM
Jun 2016

It's simply foolish.

If not else, you're no longer resorting to gifs.

BTW, props for bringing pederasty into the discussion. It proves the point.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
37. Then you are foolish by your own definition
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 11:21 PM
Jun 2016

Don't respond to me if you don't want and see how my Give-A-Fuck-O-Meter responds.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
39. Shit I hope so. Just don't cry if I refuse to entertain your strawman gibberish
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 11:39 PM
Jun 2016

Or do. I can always use the chuckle.

 

Silver_Witch

(1,820 posts)
40. Yes...
Fri Jun 17, 2016, 11:56 PM
Jun 2016

A celibate man that has never married or been in a long term relationship (except of course with a mythical being) judges people in committed relationships and criticizes them before they have even failed to live up to HIS expectations of their marriage bonds.

Am I close???

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
42. Sounds pretty much spot on
Sat Jun 18, 2016, 11:23 AM
Jun 2016

I would further add that same celibate pointed hat man is promoting fake morals handed down from a time when people believed the sun orbited the earth and routinely sold the vast majority of women into slavery.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
44. About as close as trump is to understanding Islam.
Sat Jun 18, 2016, 10:23 PM
Jun 2016

He's talking about two things.

1) The lack of commitment and impermanence of relationships. You don't have to be celibate to note that.

2) He's also referring specifically to sacramental, not civil, marriages. It's a core teaching that marriage is a sacrament that should not be entered into unless you plan for it to be a life's decision.

He's not judging "people in committed relationship" at all. Quite the opposite.

 

Silver_Witch

(1,820 posts)
45. That is so much shit it is amazing.
Sun Jun 19, 2016, 02:32 AM
Jun 2016

He most certainly is criticizing people who are married where he has no evidence that they will not be together for the entirety of their life.

No one is talking about Trump - all thought they are both ASSHATS....so I guess we can discuss them both here.

This man is full of JUDGEMENT he is judging people he does not even know.

Lastly, he knows NOTHING about commitment or impermanence or relationships for that matter. He has not been in one and does not understand that one human can treat another in such a way that it destroys the relationship.

When his and your mythical God make people kind and gentle there will be no divorce. People divorce for a reason my friend and almost always a good reason. Judging them does not fix anything, nor does it show compassion.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
47. That is so much shit it is trite.
Sun Jun 19, 2016, 08:50 AM
Jun 2016

Okay, while you wait for God to "make" people kind, I'll see what I can do in the meantime. Not that I'm very good at it.

If you think there is "almost always a good reason" for divorce, you're naive.

Nevertheless, he's not talking about divorce. He's talking about marrying and committing for a good reason.

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
43. The people who defend him
Sat Jun 18, 2016, 08:24 PM
Jun 2016

are the real assholes. He's totally programmed and indoctrinated, but they should know better. Right, dude?

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