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Faith is the excuse we give ourselves to believe things without good reason (Original Post) man4allcats May 2012 OP
Experience and intuition are the others whathehell May 2012 #1
faith is something one uses to justify one's own prejudices - I believe it therefore it's true etc n msongs May 2012 #2
Do you really believe that? Starboard Tack May 2012 #41
There is no possible proof of god, save serious miracles. WingDinger May 2012 #3
Well said, WingDinger. cbayer May 2012 #4
exactly the same evidence for what? dmallind May 2012 #8
While I get along better with atheists, the presumptuous part is WingDinger May 2012 #9
You have seen things "far in excess of nature"? mr blur May 2012 #10
I'll give you one example. WingDinger May 2012 #12
You actually don't know the odds of two beach rocks seeming to "fit" together? edhopper May 2012 #13
Starving children and suffering people around the world can get bent. trotsky May 2012 #14
You might be happier if you could get rid of a anthropromorphic notion of God, Thats my opinion May 2012 #86
And you might be able to relate to more people trotsky May 2012 #91
Never mentioned God, in relation to the rocks. Just an example of WingDinger May 2012 #15
But it is odds. You just don't know what they are. Goblinmonger May 2012 #16
What about karma? What do you think about that? cbayer May 2012 #17
Confirmation bias. Look it up. trotsky May 2012 #18
Yes, Karma, is the CONFIRMATION that cooperation is the secret to the success of mankind. WingDinger May 2012 #19
Again, I need only to point to Dick Cheney to disprove karma. trotsky May 2012 #21
There is a price for being a DICK. WingDinger May 2012 #22
Hmm, let's see... trotsky May 2012 #23
I have heart failure, and would rather die, than become a Dick, to get freebie heart fix. WingDinger May 2012 #25
But that's not the point here now, is it? trotsky May 2012 #27
what I said is: Karma, is confirmation that cooperation is the key to humankinds success. WingDinger May 2012 #28
So you're not going to answer the question. trotsky May 2012 #29
You want me to identify the cosmic killjoy, and I answered you anthropologically. WingDinger May 2012 #30
Nope, I'd just like to see some evidence. trotsky May 2012 #31
Evidence that being generally uncooperative,and not rich and powerful enough to buy sycophants WingDinger May 2012 #32
Oh I'm sure Dick Cheney suffers greatly because all of DU considers him to be a jerk. trotsky May 2012 #34
He cries himself to sleep each night because DU hates him. n/t laconicsax May 2012 #39
Not for that reason, but he may cry himself to sleep. cbayer May 2012 #43
To be honest, we have no way to know how happy or not the man is. eqfan592 May 2012 #45
That's true, but I still wouldn't want to be him. cbayer May 2012 #48
Are we engaging in mindreading and asking ridiculous questions? laconicsax May 2012 #61
You confuse comfort, privilege, wealth and power with good Karma. Starboard Tack May 2012 #42
I think we are talking about two different types of karma. eqfan592 May 2012 #46
I'm not sure they are so distinct. Starboard Tack May 2012 #49
Still not an answer. trotsky May 2012 #54
Karma doesn't require evidence. Neither does any personal belief. Starboard Tack May 2012 #57
Anything goes! trotsky May 2012 #59
Is that what you believe? Starboard Tack May 2012 #65
*psst* laconicsax May 2012 #66
I know, but I thought it would be more interesting to take it literally Starboard Tack May 2012 #76
What's funny is that when I used the hypothetical "you" in a discussion with Thats my opinion... trotsky May 2012 #106
That was very civil of you. I always try to use "one". Less ambiguous. Starboard Tack May 2012 #111
This game again? trotsky May 2012 #114
I missed your revision, but I appreciate the effort--and take it at face value. Thanks. Thats my opinion May 2012 #119
No, you didn't miss it. trotsky May 2012 #144
Hey, it's their deeply held beliefs - why should they keep them to themselves? trotsky May 2012 #69
Just because YOU don't believe, you feel the need to slam those who do Starboard Tack May 2012 #77
Wrong. trotsky May 2012 #78
You believe you are entitled to ask for evidence. Starboard Tack May 2012 #88
And that's exactly what someone did. trotsky May 2012 #89
Who was that someone? Starboard Tack May 2012 #95
Scroll up. n/t trotsky May 2012 #96
I did Starboard Tack May 2012 #97
Hint: look for a statement that begins with "karma is..." trotsky May 2012 #98
Nope. I find no statement beginning with "karma is" Starboard Tack May 2012 #101
OK, I found it. Still don't know why you couldn't just link to it. Starboard Tack May 2012 #102
Since you jumped into the thread to lecture and berate me, trotsky May 2012 #104
Apology accepted. Starboard Tack May 2012 #109
Does a personal belief require evidence? No. eqfan592 May 2012 #62
Couldn't agree more. Starboard Tack May 2012 #64
re: karma Heddi May 2012 #70
I think you make some really good points here. cbayer May 2012 #72
I called out of work for a Mental Health Day tonight Heddi May 2012 #73
Very cool that you are learning to sail. cbayer May 2012 #99
mr heddi just wants a boat Heddi May 2012 #107
Let me know if you have any questions when shopping for your boat. cbayer May 2012 #113
I'll tell my husband Heddi May 2012 #117
Where in my post do I mention God? edhopper May 2012 #38
a FORCE that is in opposition to dishevel and disorder. AlbertCat May 2012 #51
This seems so ancedotal and inaccurate that I find it funny, you are proclaiming something special.. Humanist_Activist May 2012 #74
Even if you dismiss the divinity hokum, there still is showing all sorts dignity and respect. AlbertCat May 2012 #50
A choice? darkstar3 May 2012 #11
Refusing the charicatures of all that is, makes sense. WingDinger May 2012 #20
What????? eqfan592 May 2012 #24
It is oxyMORONIC, to believe it is possible to have faith in what you dont believe. WingDinger May 2012 #26
Indeed it is. eqfan592 May 2012 #33
Faith, is belief in things not see nor evidenced. WingDinger May 2012 #35
I agree that faith is not beliefe in what you do not believe. eqfan592 May 2012 #36
"and belief is not dictated by choice" WingDinger May 2012 #37
Belief is influenced by what we choose to study. eqfan592 May 2012 #40
To assert that all that is came about entirely organically, AlbertCat May 2012 #52
"Faith is not a choice." Really? Starboard Tack May 2012 #44
Do you think the only things that aren't chosen are things that are genetic? eqfan592 May 2012 #47
I was never convinced about God's existence in the first place. Starboard Tack May 2012 #55
Sorry, but I disagree when talking about it in the context of belief. eqfan592 May 2012 #56
I disagree. I think belief is entirely a choice. Starboard Tack May 2012 #58
How is belief entirely a choice? eqfan592 May 2012 #60
Simple. You chose to believe that. Starboard Tack May 2012 #67
You are conflating the existence of options in the world with the... eqfan592 May 2012 #68
To humans, cause and effect, is lord and savior. WingDinger May 2012 #79
None of that demonstrates actual, conscious choice when it comes to belief. eqfan592 May 2012 #81
Prove that belief is a choice. laconicsax May 2012 #63
Proof that belief, is a choice, there are those that choose to believe that. Simple.. WingDinger May 2012 #80
"Belief exists, therefore belief is a choice." eqfan592 May 2012 #82
I deliberately left out the muddy part that would piss people off, but since you asked... darkstar3 May 2012 #71
Faith is always a choice. That's why we call it faith Starboard Tack May 2012 #75
No, that is not why we call it faith. eqfan592 May 2012 #83
Faith means trust. I decide whether to trust something or someone. Starboard Tack May 2012 #90
Sorry, but I'm not the one playing at semantics. eqfan592 May 2012 #93
On certain things I will trust my lawyer more Starboard Tack May 2012 #94
I'm sorry, but you are just not addressing the main issue. eqfan592 May 2012 #116
Why is deluding oneself not a valid choice? Starboard Tack May 2012 #121
"Why is deluding oneself not a valid choice?" eqfan592 May 2012 #122
My point is your choice of the word "deluding" Starboard Tack May 2012 #124
I am in no way, shape or form saying that. eqfan592 May 2012 #126
Ridiculous. You invalidate your first statement with your answer to A. darkstar3 May 2012 #84
That's because no one is interested in an intellectual exercise. trotsky May 2012 #85
I think it is more about people not wanting to engage with fundies of any stripe. Starboard Tack May 2012 #100
Yeah, I can't stand fundies. trotsky May 2012 #103
I'm happy to hear that. Starboard Tack May 2012 #108
I'm sure you had no choice but to respond to me like that. n/t trotsky May 2012 #112
How do fundies not believe in choice? eqfan592 May 2012 #118
Fundies believe there is only one true way Starboard Tack May 2012 #123
OK, the first draft of this was much harsher. eqfan592 May 2012 #125
The choice one makes is based on the evidence, or lack thereof Starboard Tack May 2012 #131
*sigh* eqfan592 May 2012 #132
Have you ever served on a jury? Not a DU jury Starboard Tack May 2012 #135
Ya know, maybe it would help for you to understand... eqfan592 May 2012 #128
Thanks for sharing. Starboard Tack May 2012 #133
I wasn't aware that she believed that all non-believers end up in hell. eqfan592 May 2012 #134
There you go Starboard Tack May 2012 #136
Or two people having different beliefs constructed from their own experience... eqfan592 May 2012 #138
We may both be correct Starboard Tack May 2012 #140
Same to you. eqfan592 May 2012 #141
This post gets to the core of the matter... CJCRANE May 2012 #137
Yes, thank you. (nt) eqfan592 May 2012 #139
I'm curious. Why do you find the idea of choice insulting? Starboard Tack May 2012 #142
I explained that, in large part, with the story about my mother. (nt) eqfan592 May 2012 #146
All it shows me is, that as usual, you don't want a conversation Starboard Tack May 2012 #92
When will you be civil, then? trotsky May 2012 #105
You'll find that I am civil most of the time. Starboard Tack May 2012 #110
Ah yes, the old "but maw, he did it first" routine. That's cute. trotsky May 2012 #115
Being intolerant of intolerance doesn't make one tolerant. Starboard Tack May 2012 #127
LOL trotsky May 2012 #143
Do not stand in the circle you have marked with your piss and preach to others about "conversation". darkstar3 May 2012 #129
Yep, the hypocrisy is pretty glaring, isn't it? n/t trotsky May 2012 #145
We can accept that it is not YOUR choice. Thats my opinion May 2012 #87
Read #71. Carefully. darkstar3 May 2012 #130
We? rug May 2012 #5
Certainly. See post #2. Dawson Leery May 2012 #6
Whatever works for you..... I guess. cbayer May 2012 #7
"Faith is believing what you know ain't so." AlbertCat May 2012 #53
On belief and faith... Joseph8th May 2012 #120

whathehell

(29,090 posts)
1. Experience and intuition are the others
Wed May 2, 2012, 03:04 PM
May 2012

Trying to "reason" yourself out of a situation you're "gut"

tells you is dangerous can get you killed.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
3. There is no possible proof of god, save serious miracles.
Wed May 2, 2012, 03:27 PM
May 2012

Real science admits that they cannot detect spiritual things. Alluding to superiority, because you poopoo all things spiritual, shows a paucity of soul.

Outside of fools pushing for theocracy, it should be none of your damn business. Further, if you spout that shit to independents, and they sniff out your progressive-ism, you have dissuaded a potential dem for life.

Faith is not an excuse, it is a choice. That you have EXACTLY the same evidence as they, makes you cynical, not superior.

dmallind

(10,437 posts)
8. exactly the same evidence for what?
Wed May 2, 2012, 04:29 PM
May 2012

Withholding belief in a claim and believing in its opposite are entirely different things. No idea what the OP believes or not but I'm just waiting for somebody to reject the null hypothesis personally.

And thinking that shows a paucity of soul is rather presuming that the null hypothesis on souls has already been rejected, no?

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
9. While I get along better with atheists, the presumptuous part is
Wed May 2, 2012, 05:52 PM
May 2012

calling any faith simply an excuse. I have seen things far in excess of nature in my lifetime. And, I see the paucity of history to hang your hat on. We all have to figure it out on our own. BUT, the Jesus meme, or empathy/compassion, is far too widespread, not to have some message about human nature. Further, MOST of what you would call the opposite of religion, is exemplified in the teachings of Jesus. Much of Occupy rests there. Much of Feminism too. Equality for minorities, etc etc. Even if you dismiss the divinity hokum, there still is showing all sorts dignity and respect. You could all catch a lesson, if not a hero.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
12. I'll give you one example.
Thu May 3, 2012, 09:30 AM
May 2012

I was a small boy, rock hunting, on a rock beach, in Palos Verdes, with my grandmother. I looked down, and a rock stuck out to me. So, I picked it up. Then, about a half mile down the beach, I noticed another odd rock. So, I picked it up. When I got back to Grannys pad, I looked at the rocks. Low and BEHOLD, the two odd rocks fit together, perfectly. The odds of that are too astronomical to compute.
All of nature FITS. Too perfectly not to have a FORCE that is in opposition to dishevel and disorder. No, not an anthropomorphic BEING, but a persuasion of the material world. Working at the genetic etc level.

edhopper

(33,615 posts)
13. You actually don't know the odds of two beach rocks seeming to "fit" together?
Thu May 3, 2012, 09:59 AM
May 2012

So to suppose an intelligent or supernatural or spiritual "Force' that made you find them is a presumption of yours not based on anything in reality.
Why would the Universe have you find the rocks? Perhaps finding rocks like this is vastly more likely than you thought it was?
Seems you are taking a meaningless anecdote and making a giant leap of explanation for it.
It is a human thing to find patterns where none exist.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
14. Starving children and suffering people around the world can get bent.
Thu May 3, 2012, 10:26 AM
May 2012

God's apparently too busy helping football players win games and healthy, happy kids find matching rocks on the beach.

Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
86. You might be happier if you could get rid of a anthropromorphic notion of God,
Fri May 4, 2012, 01:20 PM
May 2012

and consider something far more intrinsic as to how the universe works in terms of energy and events--not persons. But I guess you must keep the old idea because it continues to supply you with a handy target. If you had the same approach to science, you would still think the earth was flat.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
91. And you might be able to relate to more people
Fri May 4, 2012, 01:57 PM
May 2012

If you understood that the vast majority of believers do not share your view of god, but instead the one I am commenting on.

I have plenty of evidence against your impersonal, nebulous god too. Start another thread if you want to talk about it.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
15. Never mentioned God, in relation to the rocks. Just an example of
Thu May 3, 2012, 10:36 AM
May 2012

LUCK, or odds not being the end all in all cases. Near misses on motorcycle, on and on.

I find myself mostly a deist. But, the works seems to function for most of us without monkeying with it.

The greatest SIN, are those that suppose that God will intervene in our destruction of the functioning of our life support facility.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
16. But it is odds. You just don't know what they are.
Thu May 3, 2012, 11:12 AM
May 2012

And even if they are "astronomical" there is still a chance. The odds of winning the lottery are horrendous. Yet someone wins it at some point. Is that the mark of some greater design?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
17. What about karma? What do you think about that?
Thu May 3, 2012, 11:18 AM
May 2012

I am not quite sure what to make of it, but I have stupendous and reproducible parking karma, I kid you not.

I am a very courteous and thoughtful driver, but I'm not saying those things are connected. All I can tell you is that if you want to find a parking space in a place where there is rarely a space to be found (say, Manhattan) and you want it right in front of the place you are going, get me to drive you there.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
18. Confirmation bias. Look it up.
Thu May 3, 2012, 11:19 AM
May 2012

And if you want proof that there is no such thing as karma, look no further than Dick Cheney.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
19. Yes, Karma, is the CONFIRMATION that cooperation is the secret to the success of mankind.
Thu May 3, 2012, 11:47 AM
May 2012

It is no accident, that those that TAKE, isolate themselves from humanity. They had better. Karma is the reaction to their haughty entitlement, and imbalance of competition to cooperation.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
21. Again, I need only to point to Dick Cheney to disprove karma.
Thu May 3, 2012, 12:07 PM
May 2012

Or George Bush, for that matter. Or Mitt Romney. Or any wealthy fortunate son who has spread nothing but pain to others yet has been rewarded with a long, comfortable life of privilege.

Do tell me more about karma. *snort*

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
23. Hmm, let's see...
Thu May 3, 2012, 12:51 PM
May 2012

He lives a live of luxury and privilege.

Has a wife and family who evidently care for him.

Has received preferential treatment for healthcare services to extend his life past what any normal person with his heart condition would.

How is Dick suffering? How are George Bush or Mitt Romney suffering? What price are they paying?

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
25. I have heart failure, and would rather die, than become a Dick, to get freebie heart fix.
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:01 PM
May 2012

In fact, most of your asserted privileges, I would forego.

Many Christians murmurred, that the heartless get goodies, and they thought they should suffer.

And the answer was, and it confirms my deist assumptions, " God made the sun to shine upon the just and the unjust alike. Now in death? Christianity is the smug reaction to the Dicks. Eternal damnation for the Dicks. And not a damn thing they could do about it.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
27. But that's not the point here now, is it?
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:04 PM
May 2012

I asked you specifically how Dick Cheney, George Bush, or Mitt Romney are suffering for all the nastiness they have brought into the world.

And now you start saying things that ALSO go against the idea of karma. "the heartless get goodies" "the sun shines upon the just and the unjust"

Eternal punishment after death is not karma. So are you defending karma or not? Please stay on topic.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
28. what I said is: Karma, is confirmation that cooperation is the key to humankinds success.
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:12 PM
May 2012

Were competition the ultimate goal, cooperation would earn you eternal torture, not cooperation.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
30. You want me to identify the cosmic killjoy, and I answered you anthropologically.
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:16 PM
May 2012

Karma can work on many levels, but as a deist, I prefer it operating organically, and supporting compassion and cooperation. Wholly a human thing. You want to make it special miracle fodder.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
32. Evidence that being generally uncooperative,and not rich and powerful enough to buy sycophants
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:23 PM
May 2012

will get you branded a jerk? And have most of those you meet saying infracatory prayers for your comeuppance? That hubris is as old or older than greek tragedy? That every special person/celeb, will have all of us watching intently all that they endure? Hoping for fail.

Karma is alive and well, even if God is dead.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
34. Oh I'm sure Dick Cheney suffers greatly because all of DU considers him to be a jerk.
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:24 PM
May 2012

I bet it weighs heavily on him every day.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
45. To be honest, we have no way to know how happy or not the man is.
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:17 PM
May 2012

We may assume he's unhappy because so many of us greatly dislike the man, but that's just our projecting our negative feelings about him onto him. So would I want to be him? No, but is that because I think he is a miserably unhappy person? no.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
48. That's true, but I still wouldn't want to be him.
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:30 PM
May 2012

His medical problems alone are a nightmare.

At any rate, I don't think karma is an absolute thing at all.

A voodoo queen in New Orleans once told me to never wish evil on anyone because it would come back to hurt me threefold. Good advice, whatever the case, imo. This was part of instructions I was given when I honestly believed that my ex-husband had put a hex on my house. I know it seems silly, but I did what she said and everything started working again.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
61. Are we engaging in mindreading and asking ridiculous questions?
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:19 PM
May 2012

I suspect that Alberto Gonzales' dreamt he was a coelacanth last night.

Do you take your tea with maple syrup?

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
42. You confuse comfort, privilege, wealth and power with good Karma.
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:11 PM
May 2012

You should understand how real Karma is, as well as anyone here. Say something positive and you usually get positive feedback, while negativity has a tendency to bite you in the ass. Ask Cheney how many heart attacks, shunts and bi-passes it takes to feel good, or you might just study his smile.
What goes around comes around, like the planets, galaxies, universe. Has nothing to do with a deity. Karma means different things to different people. From simple cause and effect for most westerners to reincarnation for Hindus, Buddhist and Sikhs. Take your pick.

Many Western cultures have notions similar to karma, as demonstrated in the phrase what goes around comes around. The concepts of reaping what you sow from Galatians 6 , violence begets violence and live by the sword, die by the sword are Christian expressions similar to karma. Some observers[who?] have compared the action of karma to Western notions of sin and judgment by God or gods, while others understand karma as an inherent principle of the universe without the intervention of any supernatural being. In Hinduism, God does play a role and is seen as a dispenser of karma. (See Karma in Hinduism for more details.) The non-interventionist view is that of Buddhism and Jainism. The secular Western view is that of a deterministic universe.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
46. I think we are talking about two different types of karma.
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:19 PM
May 2012

The metaphysical type spoken of earlier (good parking space karma) and the sociological kind (be a dick to people and they won't like you).

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
49. I'm not sure they are so distinct.
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:40 PM
May 2012

But each individual has her own concept of Karma. It comes in lots of spiritual flavors too. Take your pick.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
54. Still not an answer.
Thu May 3, 2012, 05:20 PM
May 2012

We know what Cheney is responsible for in the "goes around" department. He clearly hasn't even come close to receiving back what's supposed to "come around."

And what you describe is not karma, but a basic guideline of human interaction. And even that isn't universal, because with a suitable support structure you can be as nasty as you want to be (Bush, Romney) and be patted on the back for it.

Still waiting for evidence.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
57. Karma doesn't require evidence. Neither does any personal belief.
Thu May 3, 2012, 05:48 PM
May 2012

Pick your flavor of Karma if you like, or choose not to. Whatever turns you on. It's only a word. Take it or leave it.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
59. Anything goes!
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:05 PM
May 2012

Fred Phelps, don't you worry about having to justify your hatred of homosexuals. It's your belief - go for it!

Republicans, never you mind about having to show us that trickle-down works. It's your personal belief - whatever turns you on!

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
65. Is that what you believe?
Thu May 3, 2012, 07:26 PM
May 2012

Not me. If you don't like homosexuals, keep it to yourself. If you don't like people of faith, keep it to yourself. Start yapping about it and you'd better have something solid to back it up. Good luck.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
66. *psst*
Thu May 3, 2012, 07:33 PM
May 2012

I'm fairly sure that trotsky was pointing out the folly of the position you've been arguing and not stating his own beliefs.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
106. What's funny is that when I used the hypothetical "you" in a discussion with Thats my opinion...
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:27 PM
May 2012

I was immediately berated by multiple people even after I pointed out the grammatical correctness. However, I even went back and edited my post to remove it and replace it with the clearly third party "one."

That was rather civil of me, wouldn't you say?

Are you capable of being as civil? Will you edit your post that tries to slander me by implying I hold certain positions?

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
111. That was very civil of you. I always try to use "one". Less ambiguous.
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:57 PM
May 2012

You should be thankful to those who brought it to your attention.
Which post of mine are you referring to? Send a link and I'll take a look.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
114. This game again?
Fri May 4, 2012, 07:02 PM
May 2012

Scroll up. It's just a few posts up this subthread. See if you can find your own uncivility.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
144. No, you didn't miss it.
Sun May 6, 2012, 09:10 AM
May 2012

You replied to it. You ignored the question I asked, but acknowledged the edit.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
69. Hey, it's their deeply held beliefs - why should they keep them to themselves?
Thu May 3, 2012, 08:23 PM
May 2012

Others here were yapping about karma, but since they don't have to back it up, why do Phelps and other Republicans?

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
77. Just because YOU don't believe, you feel the need to slam those who do
Fri May 4, 2012, 03:51 AM
May 2012

What's with that? What do you care if someone believes in Karma? Karma is a wonderful barometer of the soul, however one wants to define soul. Yes, I believe I have a soul, as do many atheists. It's existence necessitates no deity of any sort, nor is one desired.

Others here were yapping about karma

Don't you see how ugly and condescending that remark is? Newsflash Trotsky, that's what we do here. We yap about shit like little puppies.

And what's with bringing a bunch of fundie freaks into the conversation. WTF is that about? Are they friends of yours? Or was that a lets-stir-some-shit sideshow?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
78. Wrong.
Fri May 4, 2012, 07:07 AM
May 2012

Because I don't believe, I am entitled to ask for evidence. Especially when someone is promoting their beliefs as truth.

Do you agree or disagree with that statement?

I'm not going to drag your ugly condescension into the thread - please just answer my question. Thanks.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
88. You believe you are entitled to ask for evidence.
Fri May 4, 2012, 01:43 PM
May 2012

Prove it.
I believe you are not entitled to ask for any evidence unless someone is claiming the beliefs to be facts, such as the existence of Noah's Ark, the creation of the universe etc.. Whether Jesus said certain things or performed certain acts is pure hearsay and cannot be proven one way or the other. So those beliefs are based on opinion, not facts. So what? You have a right to disagree with anyone's opinion, but asking for evidence is ridiculous. What do you expect, a video of the crucifixion?

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
89. And that's exactly what someone did.
Fri May 4, 2012, 01:55 PM
May 2012

Except now you are trying to portray me as a horrible mean person because I asked someone to back up what they said. You've interjected and said more than your share and made sure to berate and insult me in the process. I've come to expect that from you, for whatever reason. How about you let the other person speak for themselves now?

If you need to get one last dig in at me, I understand. Go for it.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
97. I did
Fri May 4, 2012, 05:20 PM
May 2012

Couldn't find anyone of faith selling their personal beliefs as facts. Maybe you could point to it for me.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
98. Hint: look for a statement that begins with "karma is..."
Fri May 4, 2012, 05:28 PM
May 2012

If you want to go Clintonesque and try parsing the word "is," be my guest.

But the typical reading of that sentence indicates a statement of fact.

Now will you let that person speak for themselves, or do you have more scorn to throw at me?

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
101. Nope. I find no statement beginning with "karma is"
Fri May 4, 2012, 05:50 PM
May 2012

What's the big secret? Can't you just point to it and stop the silly game?

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
102. OK, I found it. Still don't know why you couldn't just link to it.
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:02 PM
May 2012

Never mind, it's your Karma, which shouldn't bother you, as you don't believe in Karma. Good luck with that.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
104. Since you jumped into the thread to lecture and berate me,
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:14 PM
May 2012

I figured you had at least read it to that point. My mistake, and I humbly apologize.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
109. Apology accepted.
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:46 PM
May 2012

I jumped into a sub-thread about karma, which was started by cbayer.
I had not read all the other threads. I'm sorry you feel that I'm lecturing and berating you, but I have a huge aversion to negativity and rigid thinking. Your humility is very refreshing.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
62. Does a personal belief require evidence? No.
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:20 PM
May 2012

But if you are going to bring that belief into the public sphere, then you should be prepared to provide a valid justification for it, or to admit that there is none (which isn't necessarily a horrible thing). Otherwise, may as well just keep it to yourself.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
64. Couldn't agree more.
Thu May 3, 2012, 07:21 PM
May 2012

The belief itself is harmless. Only when it is used to influence the actions of others does it fall into dangerous territory.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
70. re: karma
Thu May 3, 2012, 08:49 PM
May 2012

My issue with Karma is that people always seem to relate it to things going well...I admit that I have commented on my own "Craigs List Karma"...I give away things on Craigslist that I could feasably sell for $30 or so, and in return I seem to be on the receiving end of some really great things on Craigslist for free that could easily be sold for $30 or more (same with Goodwill, etc).

However, I try to remember that the idea Karma also has a bad side, too, and that when bad things happen to people, it's because they are suffering some Karmic retribution. That's a great idea when I think of people who are so evil and toxic (child molesters that are impaled on fence posts, etc), but what about the 3 year old with 75% burns on their body....is that karma? Or the lady who is hit head-on by a drunk driver...karma? bad luck? My own horrid health news...what evil am I being asked to atone for?

I guess I equate my opposition of Karma with my opposition of the Death Penalty---neither can ever be applied justly or fairly, and innocent people will always be caught up in them, so I cannot support either one with a clear conscience.

I have good parking luck too. Is it Karma? Is it just one of those things that happens in life? Is a good parking space the best that "the universe" can offer in an otherwise mundane life?

If you don't get a good parking space, is that proof that the universe is displeased? Or maybe the other person driving with good parking Karma left the house 5 minutes before you did....


You and I both have seen I'm sure in our own profession just the most bizarre things....there was a news story of a girl who was in a car with her parents and as they were driving just out of the blue an otherwise healthy tree just fell over and fell on the car and the only part of the car that was damaged was where the little girl was sitting and she died immediately. Why? Was there a purpose? As astronomical the odds of 1) an otherwise healthy tree falling without wind or weather to cause it to fall 2) a car driving by at that exact time 3) the tree hitting the car at the exact time the car was traveling under the tree 4) the tree hitting the space in the back of a car where a young child was....all of those are pretty strange odds, and all odds lined up to make this young girl lose her life. Was that karma? bad luck? universe displeased? I tend to think it's just one of those things. One of those things about life that makes life "life". A bunch of odd things. If the tree fell 5 seconds earlier, or 5 seconds later, or if the car had gotten that red light.....

?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
72. I think you make some really good points here.
Thu May 3, 2012, 09:00 PM
May 2012

I don't think of karma as absolute, just little rewards (and punishments) for behavior. It's probably all coincidence, but at times something bad will happen and it will cause me to reflect on my recent behavior.

As I am never the best I could be and sometimes just downright ugly, a little bit of bad karma can give me the opportunity to make small changes in the way I am treating other people. When good things happen, I don't generally take it as an excuse to behave badly, but the opposite is certainly true.

As to the tragedies that happen, I can't invoke karma at all. The horrible things we have both seen that have happened to really good people can't have anything to do with karma (or a god or anything like that, imo).

Basically I don't think it's a real thing, but an opportunity to assess things. However, my parking karma is wicked good and if it goes away, I am going to consider some serious changes, lol.

Hope you are doing well, Heddi, and glad to see you back around. I hope your *karma* is flowing positive.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
73. I called out of work for a Mental Health Day tonight
Thu May 3, 2012, 10:38 PM
May 2012

So I'm making Channa Masala, and some rice in the rice cooker. I cleaned the fish tank...watching a Queen Concert. I'm doing okay> More better days than bad days these days, which is nice (I know my husband appreciates the squelching of the water-works).

I got my basic keelboat certification last week....

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
99. Very cool that you are learning to sail.
Fri May 4, 2012, 05:44 PM
May 2012

You are certainly in a great place to do it. Maybe a captain's license at some point? Do you plan to race? Cruise?

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
107. mr heddi just wants a boat
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:32 PM
May 2012

so we'll putz around on the 25-footers for a while, take some more classes over the next few years...prob move back to Fl or the east coas at some point and use the boat as a live aboard and just fart around the Atlantic seaboard and Caribbean....


that's the plan this week

I just need to learn how to gybe without decapitating my first mate :-/

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
113. Let me know if you have any questions when shopping for your boat.
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:58 PM
May 2012

We spent a year looking at boats before buying this one. It is the perfect combination of a blue water cruiser and home.

And it's a great way to live.

The boom is the most dangerous thing on a boat, but you will get it.

Heddi

(18,312 posts)
117. I'll tell my husband
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:41 PM
May 2012

once we rescue his decapitated head from the waters of puget sound....Oh look, a harbour seal is balancing it on his nose...

edhopper

(33,615 posts)
38. Where in my post do I mention God?
Thu May 3, 2012, 02:16 PM
May 2012

I use the same unnamed "force" you do. I used logic and reason to question your premise.
What you see as proof, I see as a person trying to confirm an idea that has no evidence. Based on misunderstood anecdotes.

 

Humanist_Activist

(7,670 posts)
74. This seems so ancedotal and inaccurate that I find it funny, you are proclaiming something special..
Fri May 4, 2012, 01:27 AM
May 2012

and I guess supernatural in a natural process. First off, some info, first, salt water doesn't erode rock except mechanically(beating it down), its not like fresh water with dissolved acids etc. that "eat" through rock. Hence why sea caves have distinct characteristics versus terrestrial caves.

You were at a rocky beach, and the first rock "stood out" to you as a child, so I'm assuming its composition and structure was different than the surrounding rocks? Is that correct? If so, then that rock was most likely "foreign" to that area. Given the info you provided, I don't find it astronomical that you would find an additional rock of same composition and structure as the one you found a half mile down the beach. Nor would it be too odd that they fit, as you put it, perfectly, most likely they traveled to that beach as one rock, and then due to most likely wave action, collided with a harder rock, breaking into 2 or more pieces that, due to currents, etc. were moved a half mile apart from each other, when they washed up on the beach.

Of course the other explanation is that your imagination ran wild when you found two odd rocks that you thought fit perfectly together, but actually didn't. This I find more likely.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
50. Even if you dismiss the divinity hokum, there still is showing all sorts dignity and respect.
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:44 PM
May 2012

The "Golden Rule" is not unique to Jesus.... or any religion.

It is an expression of altruistic behavior... which surely evolved long before we were human. It most likely starts with caring for young...or watching over eggs or something like that. Maybe even when single cells started to congregate and specialize.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
11. A choice?
Thu May 3, 2012, 12:05 AM
May 2012

There is simply no way, not for all the money I could never spend, that I could have faith in God right now. I cannot "choose" it. My brain simply refuses it as, at best, wishful thinking.

Faith is not a choice.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
20. Refusing the charicatures of all that is, makes sense.
Thu May 3, 2012, 11:52 AM
May 2012

Closing yourself to the possibility of a force that is part and parcel of nature and physics, aint highminded. To assert that all that is came about entirely organically, from a point of singularity, to open into the panoply of materials and processes, is a choice. So is faith.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
24. What?????
Thu May 3, 2012, 12:58 PM
May 2012

Faith is not a choice. I can't "choose" to to have faith in something I don't believe exists for whatever reason. It's completely nonsensical to argue differently.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
35. Faith, is belief in things not see nor evidenced.
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:28 PM
May 2012

Your PROOF, is a simple tautology. You cannot believe in what you do not believe. Faith, is NOT belief in what you do not believe.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
36. I agree that faith is not beliefe in what you do not believe.
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:36 PM
May 2012

Given that faith is dictated by belief, and belief is not dictated by choice, then faith is not a choice. So once again, I'm very glad you've come around on this issue.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
37. "and belief is not dictated by choice"
Thu May 3, 2012, 01:40 PM
May 2012

does not preclude belief INFLUENCED, by choice. Even if that choice, is self meditation. Nor is it "a priori", or self evident.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
40. Belief is influenced by what we choose to study.
Thu May 3, 2012, 02:41 PM
May 2012

As well as the conclusions we draw from what we study. You'll not hear argument from me on that.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
52. To assert that all that is came about entirely organically,
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:53 PM
May 2012

from a point of singularity, to open into the panoply of materials and processes, is a choice.

*******

That's not THE choice! The choice is merely to follow the evidence.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
44. "Faith is not a choice." Really?
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:16 PM
May 2012

Are you saying it is something you're born with, like ethnicity, skin color, some genetic trait?
Do you have faith in your statement being true?

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
47. Do you think the only things that aren't chosen are things that are genetic?
Thu May 3, 2012, 04:23 PM
May 2012

You are an atheist, correct? When did you make the conscious choice to no longer have faith? Because I can tell you no such choice was made on my part. It was a long, slow process involving the shifting of my beliefs as I thought and studied on the subject. There was no "I'm just not believing anymore" moment. I found that I DIDN'T believe anymore, and I couldn't really pinpoint when exactly it even happened.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
55. I was never convinced about God's existence in the first place.
Thu May 3, 2012, 05:33 PM
May 2012

My mother taught me to say a couple of prayers at bedtime, which I was OK with up to the age of seven. It had been told that Jesus was the son of God and that God saw and heard everything and had created everything, including me. Sounded OK until I started going to Sunday school at age six. Didn't last long. I asked too many questions and was basically expelled. It was a normal C of E Sunday school, nothing extreme, but I couldn't get my head around the miracle stuff. Couldn't figure out why the Son of God needed to prove himself and why weren't we all the children of God. That kind of stuff. So, my parents, who were not religious but thought some kind of religious grounding was OK, sent my brother and me to a Congregationalist Sunday school, which was a little better, but I still had the same questions and stopped going after a few months. No further interest until I was about thirteen and wanted a social life. So, I started attending church to find friends. Dull vicar (C of E), so I switched churches and started attending another in the next village (also C of E). Loved the vicar (and his 2 daughters), very liberal, cool guy. I liked him so much, I made a conscious choice to believe, got confirmed, became a server at communion 3 times every Sunday. I believed, but wasn't totally convinced. Then, one Sunday, the vicar delivered the most scathing sermon I've ever heard, criticizing his own congregation for their hypocrisy and he was right. I remained friends with him, but stopped attending.
My "belief" in God was never more than a metaphor. I always perceived God as a concept like infinity. Pointless trying to prove or disprove either. Spirituality is a whole other thing.

Point is, choices don't have to made in moments of revelation. They can be the result of endless years of doubt and indecision, but they are still choices.
If I tell you I've seen a UFO, it is your choice to believe it or not. If you see a UFO, it is also your choice to believe it and/or interpret it.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
56. Sorry, but I disagree when talking about it in the context of belief.
Thu May 3, 2012, 05:43 PM
May 2012

"Point is, choices don't have to made in moments of revelation. They can be the result of endless years of doubt and indecision, but they are still choices."

This is true, but not in the context of belief. If you tell me you saw UFO, I'm not going to "choose" to believe you or not. I'm going to either believe you or not based on my own previous experience, knowledge, etc., as well as the evidence you have provided.

Belief is not really a process we have direct control over. At best we can control some of those things that influence our belief (like what we study).

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
58. I disagree. I think belief is entirely a choice.
Thu May 3, 2012, 05:56 PM
May 2012

By definition belief is about something unprovable, one way or the other. It is based on faith. If you believe I saw a UFO, I think you would base your belief on what you already know, including my credibility. You would have faith in me or not. Friendships and marriages are based on this concept. We choose to believe based on our individual experiences. If Moses were my brother, whom I trust implicitly, and he told me about his encounter with a burning bush, I would believe him. If I saw the burning bush I would not believe, I would know. Knowledge is not a choice.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
60. How is belief entirely a choice?
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:16 PM
May 2012

I mean, your example doesn't even work as a proof for that position. Yes, my belief is going to be based on what I know and what I know about you. I said as much in my post. But where is the conscious choice you are implying exists come into play?

Check this out: http://laicite.wordpress.com/2010/03/08/belief-is-not-a-choice/

And my favorite excerpt:

Belief is not a choice, because the word “choice” implies that there are alternative options. It is impossible to choose to believe in something knowing that it is false, just as it is impossible to reject a true belief. Belief is something we have no control over; it is simply a stance taken by our brains after having considered the available evidence.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
67. Simple. You chose to believe that.
Thu May 3, 2012, 07:33 PM
May 2012

Of course there are alternative options. Many people believe they are safer carrying guns around. Others believe the exact opposite. There is no hard evidence either way. Many people believe homosexuality is a choice, many don't and many on both sides are homosexual. We base our beliefs (not absolute truths) on evidence and personal experience. I see a bowl of fruit and believe it will be tasty, then I bite it and find it's plastic. I made a choice based on the evidence. I was wrong. Happens every day.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
68. You are conflating the existence of options in the world with the...
Thu May 3, 2012, 08:12 PM
May 2012

...ability to choose between beliefs. You are pointing out the options and saying people "choose" to believe one way or another, but that's not really how it works. You either believe something is true or you don't. You can't choose to believe something is true if you believe it isn't, not unless you want to be self-delusional. Thus a choice doesn't really exist. HOW you reach the belief takes can be complex, and some choice can be involved insofar as what fields of study you choose to investigate and other such factors, but when it comes down to the belief itself, choice doesn't come into play.

 

WingDinger

(3,690 posts)
79. To humans, cause and effect, is lord and savior.
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:05 AM
May 2012

They worship, knowing the future. Always have. It is paramount, to be able to predict where that spear goes. What that comet MEANS. Part of that quest to KNOW cause and effect, is anything that might interfere with that direct chain of events. Or God. Part of that, is a hope that bad people suffer some loss. All human, all reasonable. Out of that, comes our written heritage of religious guidance books. From that, comes the justification for all manner of faiths. Understandably, many of them clash for turf, again, an human response. Many die in the shakeouts. With further scientific evidences, more people choose to forgo any belief in anything affecting cause and effect. They CHOOSE to believe in pure cause and effect. Many still choose to believe in a force that can moderate cause and effect by will alone, and on mass scale. One that is above simply, cause and effect.

All choices. All, having adequate PERSONAL verification, TO THEM, for their choice.

For real contrasting verification of my assertion. Witness a cult member that has his/her verifications screwed with. They CHOOSE to double down on their faith. Forcing their choice, against hard evidence against. Happens everyday. In non cult members lives too.

Further, witness those playing slot machines. They stroke them, lick them, anthropomorphize them. We think the universe SHOULD choose us for reward, thus, lottery.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
81. None of that demonstrates actual, conscious choice when it comes to belief.
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:16 AM
May 2012

I'm sorry, but your examples run into the same issues that ST's did. Choosing to ignore evidence does not equate to choosing to believe, because in my experience the choice to ignore the evidence wasn't much of a choice either. They believed so strongly in something that any contrary evidence automatically had to be false. What lead them to such a state is another discussion all together, but to say that conscious choice is the primary factor here is simply not true.

Like I've said before, there IS choice in the areas surrounding belief, but once it comes to the belief itself (and thus faith), choice basically evaporates (unless, as was pointed out by a previous poster, the choice is on a topic which the subject is in a state of 100% ignorance of).

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
63. Prove that belief is a choice.
Thu May 3, 2012, 06:25 PM
May 2012

Choose to believe that the Bildebergers collaborated with the Illuminati to fake the 9/11 attacks so they could destroy the last remaining evidence that Prince Phillip had Diana killed.

If it's as simple as a choice, then surely you can choose to believe the above statement.

To prove your point, just choose to believe it, think about it and make a post along those lines in Creative Speculation.

Shouldn't be too hard, and when you're done, you can choose to stop believing it and go back to being your old self.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
71. I deliberately left out the muddy part that would piss people off, but since you asked...
Thu May 3, 2012, 08:57 PM
May 2012

I'll present you with an intellectual exercise to make my point, but first, we must establish two things.

1. The meaning of faith. In the context of this post, "faith" does not necessarily carry a religious overtone. While I usually like to be precise in how I use the word "faith," and dislike the colloquial usage embodied in the statement "I have faith in my abilities," for this one post I will admit that it does not matter which definition of "faith" you use, the end result is the same.

2. The meaning of the word ignorant. People often take offense to the word "ignorant" and equate with pejoratives like "stupid." In the context of this post, "ignorant" means exactly what it was intended to mean when the word was coined: Possessing no knowledge of the subject in question. We are all born generally ignorant, and while we all work to correct that problem, every human being on this earth is still ignorant about a great many things.

With that out of the way...please take a look at the following three premises.

Premise A: The brake system on a brand new car to be sold, that no one has ever driven before, will bring that vehicle to a halt.

Premise B: If I throw a softball into the air high enough, it will never come down.

Premise C: There is a race of beings living somewhere in the universe who are exactly like those depicted as "Q" in the Star Trek TNG television series.

How do we react to each of these premises? Well, to start with, we have solid evidence (repeated ad nauseum) for A and against B. Therefore, even when told to reserve judgment until I see with my own eyes, I (John Q. Public) will have faith in A and not in B.

But what about C? We have absolutely no evidence either way. I am completely ignorant as to the probability of this premise being true or false. Now I have an opportunity to choose whether I have faith.

(As a side note, if your reaction to Premise C was "false", then you will perhaps understand why so many atheists refer to it as the "default position.&quot

My point: When presented with a premise, faith is not a choice unless one is ignorant.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
75. Faith is always a choice. That's why we call it faith
Fri May 4, 2012, 03:27 AM
May 2012

Knowledge is not a choice. Faith is the choice to believe in something, that although unproven, the believer wants it to be true so much as to have faith in that belief.
Your premises are built on probabilities.
A. Being new doesn't guarantee the brake line doesn't have air in it. But you get in and drive it and don't test the brakes till you hit the first stop sign. That's faith in the God Techno.

B. If you throw the softball high enough it won't come down. Problem is you, personally, are not able to throw the baseball high enough, but if you could....

C. I'm not familiar with your analogy, but again the probabilities of it being so are extremely remote, but who knows absolutely. Maybe there are Trekkies out there who believe it and if it makes them happy, fine. It's their choice to believe it.

Ignorance abounds, but I don't encounter too much around here. The ignorance I do see more of, is ignorance of the differences between liberal progressive theists and our mutual nemesis, the fundies.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
83. No, that is not why we call it faith.
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:27 AM
May 2012

We call it faith because it is belief without empirical evidence. Somebody would not place faith in something they don't believe exists. So how does one find themselves believing something? Well, we were just talking about that in a different thread.

Faith/belief are not choices because one would not have faith in something they didn't believe existed, and one cannot choose to stop believing something exists if they are convinced of its existence. If they at some point find themselves over the years convinced of the opposite, then their belief will change with no conscious choice being involved on their part, and the faith will simply cease to exist because its foundation, the belief, has been removed.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
90. Faith means trust. I decide whether to trust something or someone.
Fri May 4, 2012, 01:55 PM
May 2012

It is my choice. Maybe this will help.

Faith is confidence or trust in a person or entity. Depending on the religion, faith is belief in a single god or multiple gods or in the doctrines or teachings of the religion. Informal usage of faith can be quite broad, including trust or belief without proof, and "faith" is often used as a substitute for "hope", "trust" or "belief".

Some critics of faith have argued that faith is opposed to reason. In contrast, some advocates of faith argue that the proper domain of faith concerns questions which cannot be settled by evidence. This is exemplified by attitudes about the future, which (by definition) has not yet occurred. Logical reasoning may proceed from any set of assumptions, positive or negative. In this view, faith is simply the selection of any assumption that may not be determinable by evidence.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Faith


I have faith in my own judgment on this subject. I do not have faith in yours. That is my choice. I have more faith in my doctor concerning my health, than I do in my lawyer. My choice. I have more faith in the theory of evolution than the theory of intelligent design. My choice.
You can play at semantics and try to change the definition of words, but I have more faith in the dictionary and my own knowledge of language. My choice.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
93. Sorry, but I'm not the one playing at semantics.
Fri May 4, 2012, 02:36 PM
May 2012

You say you choose to trust your doctor over your lawyer. If you believe that this is a conscious decision, then choose differently. Just try it.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
94. On certain things I will trust my lawyer more
Fri May 4, 2012, 04:05 PM
May 2012

I choose who to trust, when to trust, how to trust, what to trust and why to trust. I make all these choices based on my knowledge and experience. The more information I have to process increases the probability of my making a better choice. I base that choice on what I want the end result to be. If my goal is good health I will probably place more faith in my doctor, if my goal is to successfully defend myself in court, then I will place my trust in my lawyer and if my goal is spiritual solace, then I may seek out a guru or priest or just someone I respect on that level, or I might just meditate instead. Those are all my choices. I make them every day and will continue as long as I am able.

If people want to believe in rubbish, then that is their choice and their business. And that includes those who think they have no choice. I see them as extreme robots living in a 2 dimensional reality. There is little difference, in essence, between the compulsive believer and the compulsive cynic, the first buys everything from Fox News to Messiahs to supermarket tabloids and the second doesn't even buy his own reflection. Fortunately, most of us fall somewhere in between in that strange place we call reality.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
116. I'm sorry, but you are just not addressing the main issue.
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:40 PM
May 2012

A choice with only one option you can chose without deluding yourself is not choice at all. You can call it a choice all you want, but it is not a choice.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
121. Why is deluding oneself not a valid choice?
Sat May 5, 2012, 01:45 AM
May 2012

Especially when the one choosing does not see it as delusional. It's always a choice. Accepting one's very existence as real is a choice. The fact that others may perceive your choice as delusional doesn't make it so for you. It can be argued that in every difference of opinion, one person or the other is delusional. Maybe both are delusional, but the two dimensional mind dictates that only one, if either, can be right. There lies the conundrum. When we apply this to the question of God existing or not, it is essential that the theist first explain his own personal concept of God. In my experience, that can range from the old man with a beard in the sky to the Universe itself with no personification and everything in between. I find most people treat biblical texts as metaphors and choose the ones that suit their purpose. Most people are moderate in their beliefs. But those on the fringe make the most noise. Same with atheists. I've been an atheist for over fifty years and have rarely encountered any animosity from anyone of faith and when I did, it wasn't because of my atheism. I digress.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
122. "Why is deluding oneself not a valid choice?"
Sat May 5, 2012, 01:53 AM
May 2012

The fact that you actually asked that question, and you WEREN'T joking, proves that we are never going to see eye to eye on this issue.

Also, my point was never about what others may perceive as delusional, so I have no idea why you even brought it into the picture.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
124. My point is your choice of the word "deluding"
Sat May 5, 2012, 02:20 AM
May 2012
A choice with only one option you can chose without deluding yourself is not choice at all.


Basically you are saying to a theist "If you don't agree with me you must be delusional"
What kind of conversation do you hope to follow with that kind of dismissive attitude?

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
126. I am in no way, shape or form saying that.
Sat May 5, 2012, 02:36 AM
May 2012

When did this conversation ever become about specific theological beliefs?

You are saying a person can choose to believe things. I'm saying the belief is constructed, and to try and believe something that goes against that construction is self delusional, thus the only actually viable choice is the constructed belief, therefore there is no real choice.

EDIT: In essence, I am actually saying that a person who genuinely believes there is a god would have to be self-delusional to make the "choice" not to believe in a god, which is not a valid choice at all. The construction of the belief must change, not any conscious choice to simply stop believing.

darkstar3

(8,763 posts)
84. Ridiculous. You invalidate your first statement with your answer to A.
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:28 AM
May 2012

Your answer to B is just plain bullshit. The verb "throw" automatically makes B so improbable that you have to be delusional to believe it.

If you don't encounter too much ignorance around here, you're not paying attention. It's on full display every time someone gleefully indulges in fallacy, which happens several times a day.

ETA: This just goes to show that an intellectual exercise is only useful when the audience is capable of and willing to engage in it.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
85. That's because no one is interested in an intellectual exercise.
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:48 AM
May 2012

They're only interested in admonishing the mean old fundie militant atheists who have the nerve to ask questions about their beliefs.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
100. I think it is more about people not wanting to engage with fundies of any stripe.
Fri May 4, 2012, 05:46 PM
May 2012

Especially, when they prefer pseudo-intellectual, self righteous bullying tactics. It is hard to exercise when one has no flexibility or an open mind.
This might help you loosen up a little
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/peter-baksa/who-is-god-can-he-be-expl_b_894003.html

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
103. Yeah, I can't stand fundies.
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:13 PM
May 2012

Especially those who bully by passive-aggressively attacking and smearing others.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
118. How do fundies not believe in choice?
Fri May 4, 2012, 10:41 PM
May 2012

In fact, the one thing most fundies love to toss at me when trying to convert me is that I have "chosen" to stray from god and that I could "chose" to go back. I then have to explain to them why this is a load of horse shit, or just ignore them, one of the two.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
123. Fundies believe there is only one true way
Sat May 5, 2012, 02:09 AM
May 2012

Xian fundies believe that way is through Jesus, who they believe is a Messiah.
Atheist fundies believe anyone who believes in a deity is delusional.

Not much discussion going on there.

Your dilemma with fundies appears to stem from the fact that you engage them on the topic of religion. Why would you do that? When I'm asked if I've found Jesus, I usually reply that I never lost him to start with. Tends to nip it in the bud. They want more, they have to dig for it, but it rarely gets beyond "I don't discuss my personal beliefs about religion. I keep it to myself and appreciate others doing the same." Can't remember the last time I needed that one. I don't want to hurt anyone or insult them for their beliefs. If they're good people, then I'll share their company. If they're assholes, I'll move on. It's rare that I hang out with fundies or extremists of any type.
I have many Xian friends and we talk about issues, not personal religious beliefs. There are more important things than religion, especially for me. I guess that's what makes me curious about the discussions here. I'm not a group person by nature and wasn't current with the tension between many fellow atheists and religionists of all faiths. I'd never encountered it before on such a level of personal hostility. I think it's time to quit squabbling over beliefs and start working together towards common goals.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
125. OK, the first draft of this was much harsher.
Sat May 5, 2012, 02:23 AM
May 2012

I'm toning it down now. I honestly do not know how anything you just typed pertains to the discussion we were having. Your implication of choice in matters of belief is one I see promoted by fundies every single day, and it is one that neither you nor they have yet been able to prove. So far, your primary argument has been "Because I believe it is a choice, it is a choice," which fails to address the construction of beliefs entirely.

I can't chose to believe in god, OK? I find the evidence so far provided to be far less than compelling, and there is literally nothing on a conscious level I can do to change that. It's not some sort of light switch that can just be toggled. And to be perfectly honest, I find the implication that somehow I COULD just up and choose to believe in god again "if I really wanted to" to be completely insulting.

I know your intent was not to give insult, and I fully admit that I'm tired and cranky after our fridge decided to go out tonight after work, leaving my wife and I to scramble to try and save our food while our apartment maintenance man replaced it with a different broken fridge, but broken in a way that at least still cools the food, until we get a new one. I see no further gain to be had in continuing this discussion, as it is beyond obvious we will NOT see eye to eye. So, as you yourself said you wished to do, I suggest we "quit squabbling" on this particular issue.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
131. The choice one makes is based on the evidence, or lack thereof
Sat May 5, 2012, 12:15 PM
May 2012
I can't chose to believe in god, OK? I find the evidence so far provided to be far less than compelling, and there is literally nothing on a conscious level I can do to change that. It's not some sort of light switch that can just be toggled. And to be perfectly honest, I find the implication that somehow I COULD just up and choose to believe in god again "if I really wanted to" to be completely insulting.


I also find the evidence less than compelling, but others obviously find it compelling. I'm not suggesting that you or I could just up and choose to believe in god again. That choice would be based on a changing of the evidence, which may be different for every individual. Happens every day, but usually in the opposite direction when "believers" become disillusioned. Many years ago I had a close Italian friend, a former catholic priest and graduate professor of theology. He became disillusioned with the church, having witnessed so much corruption and abuse from the inside. He abandoned it, after believing in it and being nurtured by it since the age of eight, when he first entered the seminary. He could no longer be part of something he had lost faith in. He no longer trusted the church, but his belief in god remained strong. I questioned him on that and he assured me that the two were not connected. His belief in god was based on his own personal experiences, as was his disbelief in the church.
Belief is a point we reach after looking at the evidence presented and forming a conclusion, based on a combination of all the evidence and personal experience to date. We call it belief because we are not sure; we do not know, but for one reason or another we choose. Some may find the choice easy, others not so easy. I had another friend who found himself sailing single handed through several days of nasty weather. One night, totally exhausted, he claims he had an encounter with god and from that moment became a fervent believer. His switch was thrown. We may conclude that he was hallucinating and he probably was. He also is intelligent enough to realize it was probably a hallucination, but he chose to believe it was real. And for him, it was.
We all look at something and come away with as many different images. In a way, we are all delusional. Reality and truth are extremely subjective.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
132. *sigh*
Sat May 5, 2012, 12:35 PM
May 2012
I'm not suggesting that you or I could just up and choose to believe in god again. That choice would be based on a changing of the evidence, which may be different for every individual.


Do you understand how the first sentence and the second sentence are contradictory? First you state that we couldn't just up and choose to believe in god. I agree completely. But then you say that we COULD choose to, but it would be based on a "changing of the evidence." If it's based on a changing of the evidence, then it isn't a choice anymore! If the evidence you have on a subject constructs one certain belief, but then later constructs a different belief due to the addition of new evidence, then no conscious choice ever comes into play.

Belief is a point we reach after looking at the evidence presented and forming a conclusion, based on a combination of all the evidence and personal experience to date.


This is exactly what I've been saying. The belief is constructed based on the evidence presented. No choice involved.

We may conclude that he was hallucinating and he probably was. He also is intelligent enough to realize it was probably a hallucination, but he chose to believe it was real.


Again, where does the conscious choice come into play here? Yes, he did have two subsets of contradictory evidence, but one side was clearly more compelling than the other. In order for there to be a choice available, you must argue that the option of believing that which seems less personally compelling that other options is somehow a valid choice. But it simply doesn't work that way. People simply don't believe in the less personally compelling of two options.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
135. Have you ever served on a jury? Not a DU jury
Sat May 5, 2012, 05:21 PM
May 2012

Evidence is presented, you lean one way then the other. Eventually you decide, then you discuss with others who may not share your decision. In the end, you all choose one way over the other, by weighing the evidence and either submitting to persuasion or submitting others to your persuasive powers. Point is, you choose, then later, maybe, you choose differently.

Now you say that belief is a construct. I disagree. It is a state of mind, arrived at by gathering information and interpreting that information. We all interpret information in our own unique way. Sometimes, our interpretations are virtually indistinguishable, sometimes they are at odds with another's perception of reality. You say that your mother is religious. Does that make her delusional? I think not. She interprets life differently to you regarding religion. That's all. The choice lies in the interpretation, not the construction of the ideas based on empirical evidence. Faith, by definition, does not require empirical proof. That is why it is a choice.
And that is why the debate between two people who are convinced that their differing beliefs are true, is pointless.
It can be argued that lack of belief is not a choice. But to assert something as being absolute, either way, is not about belief, but rather a claim on knowledge. Belief is merely thinking something is true without knowledge or irrefutable evidence. If someone encourages me to play certain numbers in a lottery, because he "just knows" what's coming up, had a dream, whatever, I am not buying. I'll probably humor him rather than calling him delusional. If the numbers come up, I might rethink his powers of ESP and I might also think he may have inside info, but I would be open.
Nothing has indicated the presence of a deity in my life, but many things have indicated the possibility of extra-sensory experiences. I choose not to believe in god, as I have seen no evidence indicating the existence of any deity, beyond the human mind. I choose to believe in certain aspects of the so-called "paranormal", based on personal experience.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
128. Ya know, maybe it would help for you to understand...
Sat May 5, 2012, 03:16 AM
May 2012

...why I find this idea that I have a "choice" in being an atheist or not so insulting. I've actually had it pretty easy as atheists in the country go. I haven't had to deal with much in the way of direct discrimination, and and I hope that continues. However, there is one particular incident that will always stick with me, and it involves my mother.

My mother and I have always had a very good relationship. I love her a great deal, and I never once doubted that she loved me, and there's sadly far too many people who can't say the same (my wife included, tho that situation has thankfully improved). My mother is also a Democrat, tho she is a bit more moderate than I am, but we are in full agreement on most key issues. She's an intelligent, thoughtful, and caring woman.

So you can imagine my dismay when after telling her I was no longer a christian she told me she thought I was going to hell. That my mother would honestly believe her son would end up in a place of eternal torture and damnation, no matter what sort of life he may lead, all because he was no longer a christian was bad enough. But the fact that she was so obviously distressed and concerned about it made it so much worse.

Now I'm obviously none too concerned about my actually going to hell. But the fact that those words left her mouth at all really stunned me, and the knowledge that this is something that worries her so greatly was distressing to say the least, as the last thing I ever wanted to do was bring her any sort of extra stress in her life. And while her and I still have a very good relationship, this is an issue we have never spoken about since, even tho I can easily see how much it still worries her whenever the topic of religion comes up.

So when somebody tells me that I "chose" to lose my faith, it takes every ounce of my strength not to want to punch them dead in the face. I would never in a thousand years have chosen this situation with my mother of my own free will. But I can no more change my belief now than I could fly into space by jumping with all my strength.

Now this is not to say that I somehow lament the loss of my faith. I don't. I feel very at peace with the universe around me now. I only wish it could have happened that I could have found this peace and not have this situation with my mother.

Like I said, I've been very lucky as an atheist, and compared to so many other stories that are out there, mine likely appears extremely tame, hardly worthy of mention. But the pain and distress caused by it is very real to me, and very sharp at times. It is why I feel the way I do on this subject of belief and choice. You could say it was a major part in constructing that particular belief for me. So there you have it.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
133. Thanks for sharing.
Sat May 5, 2012, 12:51 PM
May 2012

First, let me say that I never said that you chose to lose your faith. I said belief, itself, is a choice. If you are saying that you had faith and then lost it, I can only assume that you lost it due to a preponderance of evidence, which took you on a journey from faith through doubt to incredulity; a well worn path through a dark tunnel that many have traveled. I still see it as a choice, based on your personal experience of enlightenment and growth.
And your decision to announce your loss of faith to your mother is interesting. Did you really not know what her reaction would be? I loved my mother too, but I would taunt her, at times, over issues we disagreed on. Fortunately, religion was not one of them. I rarely heard her mention religion after I turned seven. There was a time when she worried because I was attending church too often, during my early to mid teens. I reassured her by explaining I went to expand my social circle. Neither of my parents ever attended church, except for weddings and funerals. We said Grace once a year on Xmas day (I have no idea why). We never discussed religion at home, though my mother did warn me one time about dating a catholic girl. "They make you change, son". "Change what?" I asked. "Convert!" she replied. I laughed and said I had nothing to convert from as I'd lost interest in the whole religion thing. I was way too busy driving my car and chasing girls. She was relieved. My brother and I are the only members of my family, including grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, that ever attended church. We did it out of personal choice and curiosity, neither encouraged, nor discouraged by other family members. Didn't last long. I decided it wasn't for me and didn't really care if god existed or not. Why should I? I couldn't do anything about it either way. If he did exist, I felt no requirement or desire to love or worship him, as I saw nothing deserving of love or devotion. I think I had always believed that the only place god could exist is in one's mind. And my mind is where all my choices come from.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
134. I wasn't aware that she believed that all non-believers end up in hell.
Sat May 5, 2012, 01:05 PM
May 2012

My father, also a christian, does not agree with that viewpoint, and I had heard him say as much even prior to my "coming out," if you will. My mother never said much on the subject, but she never disagreed with my father when we spoke about it. So it did come to me as a shock.

eqfan592

(5,963 posts)
138. Or two people having different beliefs constructed from their own experience...
Sun May 6, 2012, 01:15 AM
May 2012

...and understandings. I'm sorry, and I'm not trying to be an asshole on this, but so far you have yet to bring forward a true example of actual, conscious choice when it comes to matters of belief and faith, at least in my opinion.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
140. We may both be correct
Sun May 6, 2012, 02:48 AM
May 2012

There is a certain parallel between religious orientation and sexual orientation. Both can be broken down into those who are locked in and those who are curious. Those in the first group have no doubts about their orientation and consider no other possibilities, while those in the second group are going to choose the one they find more appealing.
I can only tell you of my own conscious choice. At a certain point I'm saying "No, I can't go with this any more. Time to readjust" And after a series of readjustments I managed to rid myself of the whole deity thing. I saw no value in it. I saw no point in it. I chose to discard it as irrelevant. Even if it were true, I wanted no part of it. That was a definite choice. It isn't dissimilar to alcohol. Their is always a choice.

Good conversation btw. Greatly appreciated.

CJCRANE

(18,184 posts)
137. This post gets to the core of the matter...
Sat May 5, 2012, 08:58 PM
May 2012

because you could choose to *pretend* to believe, in order to reassure your parents. However, you can't choose to genuinely believe, if the faith isn't there.

The other poster makes an interesting comment in the next post down - saying that God is only in the mind, which is at odds with how most believers perceive God. Most believers do not see God as a creation of their own mind, one that they have chosen to make. This may explain the different takes on this issue.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
142. I'm curious. Why do you find the idea of choice insulting?
Sun May 6, 2012, 03:11 AM
May 2012
I find this idea that I have a "choice" in being an atheist or not so insulting.


I actually believe that atheism is the default position, so no choice is necessary, unless the choice was exercised previously; in which case, reverting to the default position necessitates choosing. One may choose to stray from the proven scientific path and take a leap of faith. It excites people. It's romantic. It's tragic. It sells. Doesn't have to make sense, that's the whole point of faith. Easy choice, with a brochure full of perks.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
92. All it shows me is, that as usual, you don't want a conversation
Fri May 4, 2012, 02:06 PM
May 2012

If you want to indulge your ugly side, go find another sandbox to play in.
I have never seen you post a positive thought. I'm sure you can find people like yourself who like to gleefully indulge in ridicule and derision.
If you want an intelligent conversation, learn a little civility.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
110. You'll find that I am civil most of the time.
Fri May 4, 2012, 06:53 PM
May 2012

I bear no ill will toward anyone, but I will respond to incivility with equal measure. I am intolerant of intolerance. No matter how much I may disagree with someone, I try to be respectful, as long as they are equally respectful. It's a "do unto others.." thing. One of the good messages I picked up along the way.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
115. Ah yes, the old "but maw, he did it first" routine. That's cute.
Fri May 4, 2012, 07:05 PM
May 2012

I am also intolerant of intolerance. There are many people in this forum who are intolerant of the atheist viewpoint. Even some who believe this is a Christian nation and atheists need to suck it up and deal. I will argue vigorously with anyone displaying religious bigotry.

But I'm glad you are here to lecture everyone else. The rest of us are not without sin, so we are unable to throw stones.

Starboard Tack

(11,181 posts)
127. Being intolerant of intolerance doesn't make one tolerant.
Sat May 5, 2012, 02:57 AM
May 2012

In response to this from Darkstar3 in a post to me

ETA: This just goes to show that an intellectual exercise is only useful when the audience is capable of and willing to engage in it.


you jumped in and said

That's because no one is interested in an intellectual exercise. They're only interested in admonishing the mean old fundie militant atheists who have the nerve to ask questions about their beliefs.

That was most tolerant of you.

And your tolerant response to TMO

And you might be able to relate to more people if you understood that the vast majority of believers do not share your view of god, but instead the one I am commenting on.

I have plenty of evidence against your impersonal, nebulous god too. Start another thread if you want to talk about it.

Very classy. You attack a member who is reaching out to you to explain how not all Xians fit your highly prejudiced image. But no, you have to distort everything to suit your agenda of "all believers are to blame".

You need to get with the program Trotsky, and figure out who the real enemy is, instead of stirring shit in the ranks. Try being positive for a change and quit whining when people start lecturing you. You need it, and we only do it because we care for you. Now, go make a list of all the nice things you're going to say to people. It'll work wonders for your karma, which is probably in tatters by now. Worry not. It'll all be fine after November and you can revert to your old ways again if you like.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
143. LOL
Sun May 6, 2012, 09:10 AM
May 2012

You were given the chance to behave as civilly as I did by editing a post - but you refused.

You have absolutely zero moral authority on which to lecture anyone, and I find your attacks on me laughable.

Thats my opinion

(2,001 posts)
87. We can accept that it is not YOUR choice.
Fri May 4, 2012, 01:33 PM
May 2012

But when you univeralize your conclusion to suggest that it is not a choice for anyone, you are probably beyond any rational position.

 

Joseph8th

(228 posts)
120. On belief and faith...
Sat May 5, 2012, 01:09 AM
May 2012

... we need well-defined terms to make any dialectical progress (see above subthread on faith-as-choice). Part of the problem is common language is too ambiguous, and common words like "faith" and "belief" are additionally loaded terms. Dictionary's multiple definitions are the very definition of ambiguous. I suggest the following clarifications in the context of debate and discourse on topics religio-philosophical ... wha'cha think?

Belief - a rationalized emotional state.
Faith - a system of beliefs.

If for the sake of argument (literally!), we start with these more clearly defined terms, then the question of choice vis-a-vis faith is rooted in belief. That is, whatever conclusion we reach about choice v-a-v belief can be extended to faith, reducing the problem to a more manageable size.

In my opinion, the problem of choice is the problem of free will -- do we have it, or no? I might as well weigh in with my 2 cents:

We're living beings -- highly organized matter -- and we live collectively in the sense that all living beings are collectively alive (we're in the set). So we're collective beings, comprised of other living beings (we're only some 10-20% human genetic material, the rest is microbes and mites, each 90% water), and we comprise the set we call 'life on Earth'. Shades of Gaia Theory, here: we're increasingly complex, increasingly organized collective beings continuously along the scale from single-cell to collected set.

Do the microbes in my gut, without which I'd be long dead, CHOOSE to comprise me? Do I choose to comprise humanity with fodder for its existence? When people (and some animals) commit suicide, they have chosen to leave the set we call life, with all its organization and all the demands that order demands from us. The question is legitimate: are the demands of life really commands? We can't choose to not eat and live, like we can't ignore gravity. But we can ignore the speed limit.

So it's not a black and white problem, this free will thing. If there's a more intractable existential open question, I'm unaware of it. Personally, I just sort of classify and reclassify each node of my personal decision tree without crying over spilt milk or pining for the days of yore -- an approach that I find minimizes existential angst. Not much self-recriminating "Damn, I shouldn't have trusted that new cars' brakes would work."

But the fact that we have decision trees at all suggests to me that free will exists. I think the problem is too much freedom, myself. I could jump up right now and toss a chair through the window. I could choose that, but I don't -- it would take too much effort to rationalize that behavior and defend it or face expected punishment, later.

Hm. The problem of free will is analogous to writer's block: Life is staring at a perpetually blank page, wondering how to write the next chapter.

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