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guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
Fri Feb 23, 2018, 10:26 PM Feb 2018

Are theists overly sensitive to valid criticism of religion?

And if so, does this hyper-sensitivity inhibit open and productive dialogue?

I have seen this charge made twice in recent days. Are theists too sensitive to negative posts here, and too sensitive to valid criticisms here and elsewhere?

Perhaps. Perhaps we are so blinded by our own privilege that we cannot truly engage in discussion.

There was a response made recently about religion and theists. I felt that it was rude and insensitive. Please read the response and tell me what you think:

g

ibraltar72 (925 posts)
1. It is tragicomic how far people will go to

hang onto a myth that somehow validates their psychosis.


https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1218&pid=272271

Am I wrong in assuming that this response equates belief in a religion with psychosis?

There was another post in another group that also dealt with theists. In this case the theists in question are Catholics. Please read the post and again, tell me what you think:

Reminder: They're not lunatics or imbeciles...
Last edited Tue Feb 20, 2018, 01:47 PM - Edit history (2)
...just overly sensitive catholics:

I guess we can't have a discussion of the apparent incongruities of religion...in the religion group...



https://www.democraticunderground.com/123055976

Given that there are constant "discussions" about religion and what some see as incongruities, what does the poster really mean? And what does Sam Harris mean?

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Are theists overly sensitive to valid criticism of religion? (Original Post) guillaumeb Feb 2018 OP
imo people secure in their beliefs should not be afraid of criticism and issue msongs Feb 2018 #1
I've never heard of a baker refusing to provide a cake Mariana Feb 2018 #4
But you've heard of a baker who refused to provide a same-sex cake. yallerdawg Feb 2018 #7
Indeed. It is necessary to support the meme. eom guillaumeb Feb 2018 #46
Which makes sense, given two observations. Igel Feb 2018 #62
And being secure in one's beliefs is a good thing. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #10
Must we always be respectful around religion? Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #24
What I linked to is not criticism, it is an attack. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #28
Apparent insults often have a full academic justification Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #54
Do not conflate "full academic justification" with being correct. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #58
Guil? Your imposing the old priestly pious reverence for religion, Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #69
Look at my posts here that are labelled "bad news". guillaumeb Feb 2018 #74
Opposing Evangelicalism? But what about your modern "tolerant" Christianity? Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #89
Consider your position to be thoroughly refuted. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #102
Thank you. Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #188
The answer to the question in your OP title is Yes. nt. Mariana Feb 2018 #147
It is a good thing that I did not attach a poll. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #148
Astoundingly offensive posts. yallerdawg Feb 2018 #2
What is offensive is linking to a thread in a protected Group. MineralMan Feb 2018 #40
And what of the remarks? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #67
Hi Mineral Man. thucythucy Feb 2018 #95
Recommended. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #149
Jesus is supposed to have said: Mariana Feb 2018 #3
There's this: yallerdawg Feb 2018 #6
As Far as I know, he did it Only that one time Farmer-Rick Feb 2018 #29
For a "fictional character"... yallerdawg Feb 2018 #35
As did Dumbledore. opiate69 Feb 2018 #160
Seems to me it wasn't what but where that he objected to. Igel Feb 2018 #63
So are you excusing the offensive and insulting language? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #11
I'm not excusing it at all. Mariana Feb 2018 #15
You are not excusing it, guillaumeb Feb 2018 #27
I don't think anyone comes here seeking religious guidance and counseling... yallerdawg Feb 2018 #22
I see extremes on both sides. safeinOhio Feb 2018 #5
And those extremes by definition are extremes. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #12
In a civil discussion with a Baptist minister, safeinOhio Feb 2018 #19
We had a long argument a few years ago on religion and psychosis. Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #25
I addressed one specific tendency. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #30
One of those links is to a thread in a protected DU group. MineralMan Feb 2018 #41
Frowned upon? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #47
And what of my questions? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #48
Calm dialogue is good. So are insults. Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #70
Your hyperbolic response fails to address my actual question. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #75
Not hyperbole if you follow say, Afghanistan and Syria. Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #114
I repeat, guillaumeb Feb 2018 #119
Which comment #? Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #122
Both. eom guillaumeb Feb 2018 #129
My brother and I grew up in Catholic schools through college. He is a priest and I am a Buddhist. wasupaloopa Feb 2018 #8
Agreed. eom guillaumeb Feb 2018 #13
Way to go! no text sprinkleeninow Feb 2018 #166
Go ahead and explain how religious beliefs Voltaire2 Feb 2018 #9
Expain the use of such words as lunatics, imbeciles, and psychotics guillaumeb Feb 2018 #14
No thanks. Ill stick to the hazy difference Voltaire2 Feb 2018 #18
Good choice to ignore what cannot be defended. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #26
That is not a category in th DSM. Voltaire2 Feb 2018 #39
There is no protected category of "religious" delusions marylandblue Feb 2018 #97
Hmmm, that's a real misuse of the DSM marylandblue Feb 2018 #16
Actually it is the same pass worded differently. Voltaire2 Feb 2018 #17
Still a misuse of medical tool for a sociological purpose marylandblue Feb 2018 #20
Well no that isnt a good example identifying delusions. Voltaire2 Feb 2018 #23
And the DSM definition isn't designed to handle any of that marylandblue Feb 2018 #60
Excellent point. thucythucy Feb 2018 #79
It is deliberately written Paleologue Feb 2018 #117
No, that's not.how it works at all marylandblue Feb 2018 #123
And you're saying Paleologue Feb 2018 #124
I am saying the DSM committee doesn't secretly believe marylandblue Feb 2018 #125
Here's another example Paleologue Feb 2018 #142
Here's a bunch of non-religious examples that show there is no "religious exemptions." marylandblue Feb 2018 #159
That's a lot of typing Paleologue Feb 2018 #173
That really wasn't my point marylandblue Feb 2018 #175
Sorry, was that supposed to be clever? Paleologue Feb 2018 #176
Please submit your test showing that a miracle marylandblue Feb 2018 #177
There are no miracles Paleologue Feb 2018 #178
It's about as acceptable as diagnosing 60 million people with a delusional disorder marylandblue Feb 2018 #179
Please show me where I "diagnosed" 60 million people as anything Paleologue Feb 2018 #182
Ok, let me explain marylandblue Feb 2018 #187
Thank you for the update. eom guillaumeb Feb 2018 #45
That doesn't bode well nil desperandum Feb 2018 #121
I pledge my allegiance to the Cadbury Easter Bunny. sprinkleeninow Feb 2018 #156
Cadbury uses really low quality chocolate marylandblue Feb 2018 #163
You are correct in that. sprinkleeninow Feb 2018 #164
If you're not doing the things others are objecting to, MineralMan Feb 2018 #21
You completely missed the point. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #32
Nietzsche and science said the majority can be wrong Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #52
Which ignores what I wrote. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #57
In comment #10? Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #71
So you're saying Mahatma Gandhi thucythucy Feb 2018 #86
Ghandi was good. But then India went to war with Pakistan. Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #90
I know quite a few progressive Christians, thucythucy Feb 2018 #94
Well said; welcome to DU Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #96
I also know many progressive Christian, as well as MineralMan Feb 2018 #110
Precisely. thucythucy Feb 2018 #111
This is a religous country, primarily Christian. Mariana Feb 2018 #170
I don't know that we can. thucythucy Feb 2018 #171
Everyone here likes to defend the "good" Christians Paleologue Feb 2018 #172
At what point in American history did Christians get laughed at and have "no political influence thucythucy Feb 2018 #180
I never said that happened at any point in American History Paleologue Feb 2018 #181
Yeah, you're right. I misread, and I apologize. thucythucy Feb 2018 #183
So you're tempering your apology Paleologue Feb 2018 #185
What exactly were the other churches supposed to do? marylandblue Feb 2018 #162
See #96 Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #168
The same things any other group does Mariana Feb 2018 #169
I'd be interested in hearing about the last approach. Bretton Garcia Feb 2018 #174
Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. thucythucy Feb 2018 #184
The reason Rev. King is famous is because he was unusual. Mariana Feb 2018 #186
I think you answered your own question Lordquinton Feb 2018 #31
I think that the 2 links make clear what is obvious. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #33
One of those links was to a discussion MineralMan Feb 2018 #36
Yes, the first link was to a "discussion" in a protected group. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #42
I think this thread made it clear Lordquinton Feb 2018 #37
I tend to agree. Bringing a link from a protected DU Group MineralMan Feb 2018 #38
It's about respect Lordquinton Feb 2018 #53
A commodity frequently in short supply... MineralMan Feb 2018 #61
Shameful was the original post itself. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #43
You have made it clear Lordquinton Feb 2018 #49
This one: guillaumeb Feb 2018 #50
Not my post, don't have a comment Lordquinton Feb 2018 #55
No comment except attempted reframing and deflection? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #59
Lol Lordquinton Feb 2018 #161
And this from a poster who claims to engage Mariana Feb 2018 #88
"Psychosis" is a perfect diagnosis for some -- e.g. the Biblical literalists - but not all believers malchickiwick Feb 2018 #34
Agreed. But the linked post lacked any nuance. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #44
Oh wait. So you agree that it is ok to call Voltaire2 Feb 2018 #51
Carefully reread what I wrote. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #56
Glad you agree its ok to call religious beliefs Voltaire2 Feb 2018 #65
Another misreading on your part. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #66
Some might be, but very few are. Igel Feb 2018 #64
Perhaps valid is not the best choice of words. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #68
About your second link, Gil .. Mariana Feb 2018 #72
I think it's atheism, in general, that is objectionable in this case. MineralMan Feb 2018 #73
I think what is clearly objectionable to some few here guillaumeb Feb 2018 #77
That's a legalistic point of view you have there, guillaumeb. MineralMan Feb 2018 #81
Again, a demonstrated refusal to discuss the actual issue. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #82
Yes, I've noticed your refusal. Oh, well... MineralMan Feb 2018 #83
Oh well indeed. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #98
Any reading of the entire post, guillaumeb Feb 2018 #76
I'm addressing your second link, to the post in the protected group. Mariana Feb 2018 #78
Why do you keep mentioning the "protected group" as if it is a violation? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #80
Just to be clear, since you mentioned the other link Mariana Feb 2018 #84
Yes, clearly the fault is mine. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #99
Indeed. The answer to the question in your OP's title is Yes. nt. Mariana Feb 2018 #112
But if the same comments were made about atheists on DU, guillaumeb Feb 2018 #118
You don't get to make stuff up, Gil. Mariana Feb 2018 #136
I am pointing out the obvious. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #144
Yes. Not all of them, but a lot of them. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2018 #85
You are... TwistOneUp Feb 2018 #87
He's also performing for an audience. Mariana Feb 2018 #91
Applause or an argument? MineralMan Feb 2018 #92
Yes TwistOneUp Feb 2018 #93
So when an atheist poster equates religon with psychosis, what is that? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #101
Probably not, if it is posted in a protected group for atheists and agnostics. MineralMan Feb 2018 #128
It was posted in the religion group. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #130
One example was in the Religion Group. MineralMan Feb 2018 #131
I have seen a few from the poster in a similar vein. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #132
OK. Whatever you say. MineralMan Feb 2018 #134
So only positive discussion is allowed in here? Cuthbert Allgood Feb 2018 #133
Not on topic, or relevant. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #135
What double standard? Cuthbert Allgood Feb 2018 #138
You want to see a double standard? Check this out. Mariana Feb 2018 #143
Neither harassment nor a double standard. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #146
What double standard? guillaumeb Feb 2018 #145
That's a really helpful response. Thank you. Clears up everything. Cuthbert Allgood Mar 2018 #189
There are questions, guillaumeb Mar 2018 #190
I asked a question and then gave you the basis of that question Cuthbert Allgood Mar 2018 #192
Gil ridicules atheists who receive death threats from Christians. Mariana Feb 2018 #150
Ridiculous assertion. guillaumeb Mar 2018 #191
Gil's complaining about a post Mariana Feb 2018 #137
Perhaps he's intolerant of atheists and their opinions. MineralMan Feb 2018 #139
I think his definition of tolerance is, well, unusual. Mariana Feb 2018 #141
Of course. But under the guise that Cuthbert Allgood Feb 2018 #140
Applause for the argument, I think. Mariana Feb 2018 #113
What an interesting display of logic. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #100
If you understood logic... TwistOneUp Feb 2018 #115
A nice display of tolerance. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #120
Tolerance is not always a positive thing, guillaumeb. MineralMan Feb 2018 #126
Guillaume, Mon Ami! sprinkleeninow Feb 2018 #153
Moi, j'ai un devis pour eux qui sont...............si..... guillaumeb Feb 2018 #154
I refrained. sprinkleeninow Feb 2018 #167
There are several groups on DU that exist for the exact purpose Mariana Feb 2018 #127
Which theists? TygrBright Feb 2018 #103
Agreed. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #106
Yet you do exactly this when it comes to theism marylandblue Feb 2018 #116
I was banned from this group once. rickford66 Feb 2018 #104
Interesting information. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #105
I was just commenting to a "latest thread" and didn't notice it was religion group. rickford66 Feb 2018 #107
I agree. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #108
Yeah, I remember those days. Mariana Feb 2018 #109
Do wild bears chit in the woods? nm Ferrets are Cool Feb 2018 #151
A study should be conducted. guillaumeb Feb 2018 #155
Oh you tease! sprinkleeninow Feb 2018 #158
May I clarify. sprinkleeninow Feb 2018 #165
I'm not sure why "psychosis" is viewed as an insult Stargleamer Feb 2018 #152
No, this is not a reflection on mental illness, guillaumeb Feb 2018 #157

msongs

(67,433 posts)
1. imo people secure in their beliefs should not be afraid of criticism and issue
Fri Feb 23, 2018, 10:39 PM
Feb 2018

threats of death to the infidels, eternal hell if u dont love Jesus, fatwas, riots, mob rule, and all those other favorites of the believers of various sorts.
If you can't bake a cake for gays (sinners) you shouldn't be baking cakes for adulterers (10 commandment violators) either

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
4. I've never heard of a baker refusing to provide a cake
Fri Feb 23, 2018, 10:55 PM
Feb 2018

for divorced people who are remarrying. Christ made it very clear that most divorced people who remarry are adulterers.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
7. But you've heard of a baker who refused to provide a same-sex cake.
Fri Feb 23, 2018, 11:00 PM
Feb 2018

And now you "define" Christian belief with this..

Igel

(35,337 posts)
62. Which makes sense, given two observations.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 10:12 PM
Feb 2018

First, most people have found ways around the most restrictive of the doctrines from the early church, or at least those interpretations. It pays not to impose your own interpretation of a holy book on others and then accuse them of hypocrisy when they don't meet the standard you have for them but not for yourself.

Second, if a man and women are about to get married after one or both got a divorce, they are (a) not likely to be focused on prior divorces when discussing buying a cake, (b) they are not likely to stay in a place of business if the owner pries into their former marriages and tries to pronounce judgment on whether their divorce was justified or not, (c) as far as any outside observer is concerned they may never have married before, may have divorced for just cause, may have had a spouse die. hat whole sitting in judgment thing's a bit of a problem. However, if two women or two men are getting a wedding cake for their nuptials, that's pretty clearly not the traditional "one man and one woman" and so the judgment as to the propriety of the event is a lot easier to make.

Here's a test: What would happen if that baker of infamy were to be confronted with one man and two women getting married, "Happy Wedding Jake and Jane and Julie!" or "On your wedding day, Jake and John and Jane!" with a little trio instead of the couple in plastic effigy on the cake.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
10. And being secure in one's beliefs is a good thing.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:34 AM
Feb 2018

But if one claims to desire dialogue, insulting 85% of the population seems a bit counterintuitive to that expressed desire.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
24. Must we always be respectful around religion?
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:03 PM
Feb 2018

SHould All Discussions on Christianity be Civil and Respectful?

There is a convention among different churches today, that other churches with different doctrines should not be attacked verbally. Out if Christian charity and solidarity. Suggesting that all are partly good; Christian. But? According to (informal?) theories of" privilege," often unjust regimes impose silence, as a form of preserving their unjust power, authority.

I argue that tbe censorship of a critical or even objective views of certain favored values, especially religious values, makes a true objective, academic examination of religions impossible.

Religious censorship is often presented as politeness, or tolerance. But as it turns out, it is tolerance of only a narrow range of beliefs.

As it turns out, often things tolerated are not finally, as good, fruitful, as churches have proudly proclaimed.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
28. What I linked to is not criticism, it is an attack.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:19 PM
Feb 2018

There is a difference. It is name calling and a broad brush attack on the concept of theism and the believers.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
54. Apparent insults often have a full academic justification
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 07:12 PM
Feb 2018

Calling religion" delusional," or "psychotic," is in effect just short for Freud's "all religion is delusional."

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
58. Do not conflate "full academic justification" with being correct.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 07:46 PM
Feb 2018

I am certain that we can all carefully choose which opinions to believe that just happen to conform to our own beliefs.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
69. Guil? Your imposing the old priestly pious reverence for religion,
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 04:58 AM
Feb 2018

... the reluctance to criticize it, even when massive amounts of evidence warrants, may well ultimately destroy this blog and it's irreplaceable value. And replace it with an all too conventional priestly reticence and enforced silence.

All in the name of "politeness" and "consideration." Which for 2,000 years have served, enabled, deified - and in biblical language, "whitewashed"- the corrupt status quo of murderous Christianity.

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
2. Astoundingly offensive posts.
Fri Feb 23, 2018, 10:39 PM
Feb 2018

What the Atheists object to is some few having the effrontery to disagree with them.

It is not at all an equal standard.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
40. What is offensive is linking to a thread in a protected Group.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 04:06 PM
Feb 2018

That's offensive, I think. Perhaps you do not think so.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
67. And what of the remarks?
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 01:19 AM
Feb 2018

So far, no one has admitted the obvious, that the remarks are a group attack. Instead, we can read opinions that "it is not done" but no comments about what was actually said.

Anyone can read and link to any posts in any group. We both know this.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
95. Hi Mineral Man.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 05:32 PM
Feb 2018

I generally lurk on the various threads, including the ones on religion, but every now and again I try to contribute my two cents.

I'm wondering it you'd be willing to look at my post here, #94, and tell me what you think.

As I say in the post, I'm agnostic (even if there is a God, I very much doubt She/He/It gives a damn whether or not I personally believe) but I see religion as an important part of many people's lives, and think there are ways progressives surrender a powerful force for good when we diss all religions and all religious people.

Like I say, just my two cents.

Best wishes.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
3. Jesus is supposed to have said:
Fri Feb 23, 2018, 10:47 PM
Feb 2018

"Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven."

Why aren't you rejoicing and being glad? Did Jesus change his mind about this, too?

Farmer-Rick

(10,197 posts)
29. As Far as I know, he did it Only that one time
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:20 PM
Feb 2018

against people who were using religion for profit.

Seems that's very specific.

He also murdered pigs and fig trees should we also? If so, don't come to my farm.

Igel

(35,337 posts)
63. Seems to me it wasn't what but where that he objected to.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 10:17 PM
Feb 2018

The idea of holy space or time makes little sense these days, though, so some justification must be found.

It's been pointed out that there were two thriving businesses because of the temple. The first was the sale of livestock; the sacrificial system was quite bloody and expensive. The second was the requirement that the poll tax be paid in the right currency, which a lot of people wouldn't have need of since much trade was done by weight of silver and gold, not by necessarily using the right coin. But if you come from some other area, you wouldn't have the right currency and the temple didn't give change, hence money changers. They may have been corrupt, but they all were and nobody had to use the ones at the Temple; some of the corruption was a convenience charge, no doubt.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
11. So are you excusing the offensive and insulting language?
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:36 AM
Feb 2018

I would love to know how you do excuse it.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
15. I'm not excusing it at all.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:59 AM
Feb 2018

I'm very curious about your reaction to it. Why does a Christian completely ignore Jesus's very clear teaching on the subject? Christians aren't supposed to feel offended and insulted by such language. Jesus said Christians are to rejoice and be glad about it. Why aren't you rejoicing and being glad? Why aren't you doing to others as you would have them do to you? If Jesus's message is so meaningless to you, why do you claim to be a Christian?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
27. You are not excusing it,
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:17 PM
Feb 2018

but you refuse to address it when it is evidenced on one particular side of the debate. Why is that?

yallerdawg

(16,104 posts)
22. I don't think anyone comes here seeking religious guidance and counseling...
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 10:48 AM
Feb 2018

from Atheists and people who profess to have no faith at all.

Following this "logic" the Pope should be an Atheist since this is the only way anyone would hear the truth?

There it is again - this insistence on defining the beliefs of others.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
12. And those extremes by definition are extremes.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:37 AM
Feb 2018

But is dialogue really possible if some feel that theists are psychotic or imbeciles?

safeinOhio

(32,713 posts)
19. In a civil discussion with a Baptist minister,
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 09:10 AM
Feb 2018

He shook his head and walked away when I brought up Matthew 25.

The more I try to be nonjudgemental, the more I see both sides being unreasonable.

but that's just me

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
25. We had a long argument a few years ago on religion and psychosis.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:09 PM
Feb 2018

Here on DU.

"Rug" and others argued adamantly against it. But I quoted dozens of clinical psychologists in support. Including Freud himself. Who said "all religion is delusion."

Are we allowed to quote scholars and psychologists in critiquing religion?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
30. I addressed one specific tendency.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:20 PM
Feb 2018

And linked to 2 of many such examples of attacking theists as delusional and worse. What does this type of name calling and hateful speech have to do with actual dialogue?

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
41. One of those links is to a thread in a protected DU group.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 04:07 PM
Feb 2018

That's normally frowned upon here on DU. Perhaps you should edit your OP to remove that link, eh?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
47. Frowned upon?
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 05:04 PM
Feb 2018

As in prohibited?

If anyone feels the need to characterize Catholics as overly sensitive imbeciles that reveals much about the poster, does it not?

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
70. Calm dialogue is good. So are insults.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 05:18 AM
Feb 2018

When a religious zealot has just murdered your family, or someone you value, as often happens, a little anger and a few bad words, even aggressive countermeasures, are often more useful than polite dialogue.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
75. Your hyperbolic response fails to address my actual question.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:04 PM
Feb 2018

Interesting that only one person in this post actually criticized the broad brush attacks. The others have offered a variety of rationalizations but will not say what is obvious.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
119. I repeat,
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 12:52 PM
Feb 2018

Interesting that only one person in this post actually criticized the broad brush attacks. The others have offered a variety of rationalizations but will not say what is obvious.
 

wasupaloopa

(4,516 posts)
8. My brother and I grew up in Catholic schools through college. He is a priest and I am a Buddhist.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:10 AM
Feb 2018

I would never think about criticizing his religion. He believes in his faith as strong as I don't believe it.

There is no reason for us to criticize each other's beliefs. Life is too short for that.

Voltaire2

(13,109 posts)
9. Go ahead and explain how religious beliefs
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:19 AM
Feb 2018

are substantially different from psychotic delusions.

The DSM basically just punts on it.


Delusions are false beliefs based on incorrect inference about external reality that persist despite the evidence to the contrary; these beliefs are not ordinarily accepted by other members of the person's culture or subculture


If enough people believe a sky being created the world 6000 years ago it gets a special exemption.


guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
14. Expain the use of such words as lunatics, imbeciles, and psychotics
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:41 AM
Feb 2018

to describe theists.

Do you recognize that your opinions might not be correct? And if not, what does that say?

What is unavoidable is that in the discussion of religion at DU, there seems to be no desire for dialogue among some few of the non-theists.

Calling people names might be emotionally satisfying for some, and obviously is, but it is not actual discussion.

Does the DSM say anything about this tendency to broadly categorize 85% of the population?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
26. Good choice to ignore what cannot be defended.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:16 PM
Feb 2018

What does the DSM say about such selective blindness?

Voltaire2

(13,109 posts)
39. That is not a category in th DSM.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 04:03 PM
Feb 2018

Delusions are. Creationism, demonic possession, and transubstantiation are all examples of delusional beliefs exempted by the DSM because they are in the protected category of religious delusions.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
97. There is no protected category of "religious" delusions
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 07:15 PM
Feb 2018

Belief in cold fusion would also not be considered a delusion.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
16. Hmmm, that's a real misuse of the DSM
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 02:17 AM
Feb 2018

It's a manual for diagnosing mental disorders. It's not a sociological handbook to explain why people tend to believe things that other members of their culture also believe.

Also, you are using the DSM-IV definition of delusion.
The new definition is in DSM 5 which was released in 2013. According to DSM 5,

"Delusions are fixed beliefs that are not amenable to change in light of conflicting evidence...The distinction between a delusion and a strongly held idea is sometimes difficult to make and depends in part on the degree of conviction with which the belief is held despite clear or reasonable contradictory evidence regarding its veracity."

Note that the definition no longer requires that the delusion actually be false, only that it be more impervious to evidence than a strongly held idea (which itself can often pretty impervious to evidence).

And DSM 5 also offers this note of caution:
An individual's cultural and religious background must be taken into account in evaluating
the possible presence of delusional disorder. The content of delusions also varies
across cultural contexts.


So you don't get a pass anymore just because everyone else believes it, but you also don't get to diagnose a delusion outside of a person's cultural context.



Voltaire2

(13,109 posts)
17. Actually it is the same pass worded differently.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 09:03 AM
Feb 2018

It exempts delusions if they are held widely enough.

Again, creationism is a great example. This is not in the realm of the unprovable, as for example the reclusive “first cause” god, it is a belief that is contrary to a mountain of evidence, it is most certainly held despite clear and contradictory evidence. It is exempt only because it is a religious belief.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
20. Still a misuse of medical tool for a sociological purpose
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 09:53 AM
Feb 2018

And one that is dangerous and nonconstructive. I believe that I have shown you by clear and convincing evidence that your use of the psychiatric definition of delusional is incorrect. Where do we go from here? Call each other delusional?

Voltaire2

(13,109 posts)
23. Well no that isnt a good example identifying delusions.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 12:01 PM
Feb 2018

We can disagree about looking at the DSM to find an authoritative definition of the term “delusion” without either of us being delusional.

The sort of religious beliefs in the creationist, demonic possession, transubstantiation etc category are quite different from a disagreement over the suitability of using the DSM to define a psychiatric term.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
60. And the DSM definition isn't designed to handle any of that
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 08:07 PM
Feb 2018

It's just not an appropriate tool to look at religious beliefs. Psychiatrists need to be able to separate religious beliefs from delusions because they need to be able to tell the difference between Obama's belief in Jesus and Trump's belief in the size of his inaugural crowd. Do you really think both those things require psychiatric treatment? Because I doubt any psychiatrist does, and the sole purpose of the DSM is to decide who needs treatment and who does not.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
79. Excellent point.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:30 PM
Feb 2018

One of the reasons I'm generally an agnostic, as opposed to an atheist, is because there are and have been very many people, more intelligent, functional, and far more courageous than myself, who have based their lives on religious belief. President Obama is one of them, as was the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Mahatma Gandhi, Sophie Scholl, President Jimmy Carter, Malcolm X, and many others.

The most consistent opposition to Hitler and his henchmen came from those with strong religious faith, including the French Protestants featured in the documentary "Weapons of the Spirit." The film tells the story of a single village of 5,000 farmers and peasants who provided protection for 5,000 Jews during the Holocaust, and were a major way station for refugees fleeing into Switzerland. I remember one woman who was interviewed who said that, as a Christian, she was willing "to face the machine guns" if need be.

I don't think I could ever rise to such a level of courage. The fact that their faith was such an integral part of their moral stance makes me take that faith rather seriously.

Also, for all those who quote Sigmund Freud as an authority on religion and delusion, remember that he considered the majority of women reporting histories of rape and/or incest as "hysterical." His work, while ground breaking at the time, is hardly foolproof, and his notion of which of his patients were and were not "delusional" has been the subject of much debate.

Also, consider that Albert Einstein was a theist.

Me--I can't decide, and see no reason why I should have to. I do prefer though that discussions of religion be at least minimally civil, if at all possible, though I've no doubt I've failed at times in that regard as well.

Anyway, thanks again for your excellent posts on this topic. Best wishes.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
117. It is deliberately written
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 12:35 PM
Feb 2018

not to address that, for reasons that are purely political, and not medical.

If someone claims to hear voices in their head telling them to do things, and that they can't resist doing them, does that person need psychiatric treatment? For what medical, scientific reason is the answer "yes" if they call the voice Caligula, but "no" if they call the voice Jesus?

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
123. No, that's not.how it works at all
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 02:07 PM
Feb 2018

They do a diagnostic interview to determine if you are really hearing voices or are expressing some sort of cultural or idiosyncratic construct. They don't care what you call your construct.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
124. And you're saying
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 02:24 PM
Feb 2018

that religiously based cases are never judged differently, even by psychiatrists who are hard-core religious fundamentalists?

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
125. I am saying the DSM committee doesn't secretly believe
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 02:38 PM
Feb 2018

Last edited Mon Feb 26, 2018, 03:26 PM - Edit history (2)

that there are 60 million schizophrenics in America, 95% of whom happen to be evangelical Christians who also happen to experience a 100% cure rate if they become atheists.

I have no idea if there isn't some fundamentalist psychiatrist somewhere who is misdiagnosing his religious schizophrenic patients. How would I know that it NEVER happens?

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
142. Here's another example
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 05:58 PM
Feb 2018

Suppose that a lot of people in this country believed that extraterrestrials were on their way to earth in a giant spaceship, and that when they arrived, all of their devotees would be taken up into the spaceship and carried off to a better world. And suppose that they gathered by the hundreds and thousands every week to sing songs to the aliens (convinced they can hear across the vastness of space) and celebrate that glorious day to come. And suppose this went on for decades. Delusional, weirdos, cultists, nuts and crackpots would probably be some of the kinder terms (whether spoken out loud or not) applied to them, by just about everyone.

But call those people Lutherans, Methodists, Episcopalians, Presbyterians and Catholics and the space aliens “God” and “Jesus”, and all of a sudden, the same behavior is regarded, not merely as sane and normal, but wonderful. Not only is it supposed to be immune from criticism, but people who DON'T engage in it are treated as if there is something fundamentally wrong with them.

For the same reasons of social bias in favor of religiously-based delusions, the DSM will never be written to encompass them in any way.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
159. Here's a bunch of non-religious examples that show there is no "religious exemptions."
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 11:48 PM
Feb 2018

Millions of Americans strongly believe that tax cuts for the wealthy always improve the economy. There is plenty of evidence against this. Psychiatrists do not consider this a delusion and are unlikely to ever ask about your economic beliefs.

Millions of Americans believe that Donald Trump is the legitimate President of the United States, millions of others believe he is not. They can't both be right. Psychiatrists do not investigate election returns in order to determine which half of their patients are delusional.

A large percentage of native English speakers believe that that there used to be a definite article pronounce "Ye" because they have seen quaint shops with signs like "Ye Olde Apothecary." There was never such a definite article. It is a clear fallacy based on the close resemblance of the letter "Y" to an Old English letter called "thorn" which is pronounced "th." Definite fallacy, zero evidence for it, completely wrong, easy to disprove with Dr. Google or consulting an English professor. Most psychiatrists are probably under the same "delusion" themselves, yet there is no recorded case of a psychiatrist referring himself or someone else for delusional thinking upon learning the truth.

Millions of Americans, including many liberals strongly believe in a thing called "American Exceptionalism." Although this belief has declined among liberals in recent years, it remains strong among conservatives. There is no evidence that America is all that exceptional, but there is a lot of evidence that nations at the height of their imperial powers often believe they are. Psychiatrists never inquire as to your opinion of this idea, and unless they have also have an interest in social science or history, probably never thought about it. If they did think about it, they would not call it a delusion.

There is such a thing as childhood schizophrenia (although it is rare), a symptom of which is, of course, delusions. There are also millions of children who strongly believe in the tooth fairy. But no child has ever been referred for psychiatric evaluation because they believe in the tooth fairy and no schizophrenic child has ever lost the diagnosis when they stopped believing in it.

Between in the late 1960s and early 1970's, hundreds of Americans donned strange green outfits, picked up dangerous weapons and sailed overseas to kill millions of unarmed total strangers on the strong belief that said strangers were a direct danger to themselves and their way of life. Despite their willingness to risk their own lives because of this ideas, historians generally believe this idea to be false. Despite the consensus of historians, psychiatrists do not consider those Americans to be delusional, however, many of them did come back with PTSD.

Millions of American mothers strongly believe in the false theory that if their children walk outside in winter without a jacket, they are more likely to catch a cold. Due to this false belief, they frequently become angry and tramatize their children so severely, that their children often grown up with the same false belief. Despite the obvious harm this creates to their children, the cycle continues. No psychiatrist has diagnosed a mother with delusions despite his medical knowledge of how colds are actually transmitted.

I could go on and on with example perverse to profound, stupid to sublime, but I hope you see the connection. These are all just erroneous beliefs. That's all they are. Psychiatrists aren't theologians, political scientists, sociologists, historians, philosophers, epidemiologists or in any other profession where they'd be especially qualified or interested in determining whether a belief is erroneous or not. They are only specially qualified to diagnose delusional disorders, which are not the same thing. Just because you believe (or know) that someone else believes something that is false (or stupid or whatever) doesn't mean they are delusional in the psychological sense.

And in case all those myriad examples are not enough for you to prove there is no religious exemption, and delusions don't mean erroneous beliefs, I'll leave you with this quote from DSM-5,

"Delusions are fixed beliefs that are not amenable to change in light of conflicting evidence.
Their content may include a variety of themes (e.g., persecutory, referential, somatic, religious,, grandiose)."


 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
173. That's a lot of typing
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 02:32 PM
Feb 2018

just to make a point that no one was disputing, that being mistaken about random fun facts is not the same as belief in utterly impossible things defining one's whole existence.

And just because the DSM acknowledges that some delusions CAN be religious in nature doesn't in any way prove that other religiously based delusions are not still given a pass because of being widely held.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
175. That really wasn't my point
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 02:48 PM
Feb 2018

But it seems you don't know or want to know anything about psychiatry, so I think by your definition you delusional and should seek psychiatric help to cure you of this delusion. Of course, you might not think you are delusion, or you might believe there is an exception for atheistic delusions, but I understand, many delusional people don't believe they are delusional.

By the way, I am not a theist. I just don't think a 1,000 page textbook should be used to hammer theists over the head. It could cause a serious brain injury.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
176. Sorry, was that supposed to be clever?
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 02:58 PM
Feb 2018

Oh...wait...I see what you did there! You tried to pretend that I'm delusional for thinking that people who believe that you can turn actual wine into actual blood by waving your hands and chanting over it, and will maintain that belief no matter how many tests you perform to prove that it's still wine, are delusional.

Clever doesn't even begin to describe that.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
177. Please submit your test showing that a miracle
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 03:12 PM
Feb 2018

didn't happen 2,000 years ago. I am very interested in results.

And by the way, I wasn't joking.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
178. There are no miracles
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 03:22 PM
Feb 2018

Only reality. And we know how reality works quite well, and how it worked 2000 years ago.

But don't think I didn't notice that you avoided any smarmy claims about the "miracle" that Catholics claim happens all the time in the here and now.

Please feel free to continue your serious online clinical diagnosis of me. I'm sure such a thing is widely lauded in the psychiatric community, amirite?

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
179. It's about as acceptable as diagnosing 60 million people with a delusional disorder
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 03:34 PM
Feb 2018

And did I miss something? Did a Catholic claim to recently turn water into wine? Is this claim supposed to have an impact in my non-belief in Catholicism? Are there any other claims of things I don't believe you think I am avoiding? Because there are a lot of things I don't believe in, I just want to make sure I don't avoid any of them.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
182. Please show me where I "diagnosed" 60 million people as anything
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 05:54 PM
Feb 2018

I CAN show you where you directly gave a specific individual that you've never met, never spoken to and know nothing about a medical diagnosis and medical advice. Thanks for that, btw...that was so sweet of you

And yes, you did miss something. Catholics claim to turn wine into blood every week. Not to mention bread into flesh. The water into wine thing you just made up out of thin air, for reasons of your own, apparently.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
187. Ok, let me explain
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 10:15 PM
Feb 2018

60 million is my rough estimate of how many people in the US believe the earth is 6,000 years old. You believe they are all delusional, but the psychiatric profession won't admit it because of politics.

My diagnosis of you was based on "your definition" which I believe incorrectly conflates erroneous beliefs with delusions. Since I believe your definition is erroneous, I concluded that your definition also means I should call you delusional. See the 60 million creationists you consider delusional.

Th thinge about wine into blood is my error. I incorrectly read it as water into wine, thinking you were referring to the Miracle at Canae. I apologize.

But the example you brought up is better, because it is a perfect example of a cultural construct. When a Catholic says the wine turns into real blood, they aren't saying it's chemical makeup has changed, they are saying something more like "I am a Catholic so I believe that in some mysterious way, this wine is now blood." How do we know that the Catholic doesn't believe it's real (as in "chemical" ) blood? If a doctor told a Catholic that he needed a blood transfusion, the Catholic would expect to get real blood, not sacramental wine. If he insisted on a transfusion of sacramental wine, the doctor would try to convince him that it would be a bad idea. The doctor might have to call a priest, who would probably be flummoxed and might say something like, "The wine isn't the type of blood that runs in your veins," or some other explanation that will convince him to do the medical procedure. If neither doctor or the priest are able to convince the person that he shouldn't put wine into his veins, then the doctor would likely, at that point, conclude that he is delusional.

And this distinction is what psychiatrists are after. They don't care if you sing about going to heaven or being abducted by aliens every Sunday, they don't care if you sing it with a billion people, or if you sing it by yourself. They don't care if you say wine is blood, they only care if you believe this so literally, practically and completely that you'll insist on being injected with sacramental wine. Then they'll inject you with thorazine and give you real blood.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
163. Cadbury uses really low quality chocolate
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 01:32 AM
Feb 2018

If you want a heavenly reward, I recommend you find a local artisan chocolate easter bunny.

sprinkleeninow

(20,254 posts)
164. You are correct in that.
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 01:54 AM
Feb 2018

Was never fond of Cadbury chocolates of any fashion. Husband always expects the eggs with that crunchy shell. (Yick.)

I was being silly what I said. Sorta meant allegiance to some imposters in the Cadbury Easter commercial. The dog, lion and what?, a bunny clucking. That's a hoot. It's been running every year for mb decades.

I'd like to order some boutique chocolates. Got some names. Also some handcrafted 'mallows'.

I appreciated quality, not quantity, but stuff gets expensive with that taste.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
21. If you're not doing the things others are objecting to,
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 10:46 AM
Feb 2018

then, what you're reading does not apply to you. If religious belief and practice were uniform, all theists would be alike. It is not, so they are not.

If someone criticizes some religious people for their behavior, look inward and check your own behavior before assuming you are the subject of criticism.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
32. You completely missed the point.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:23 PM
Feb 2018

The actual point is that these attacks on theists is not dialogue. They are addressed to theists as a class of humans. 85% of humans. So anyone in that class, anyone in that 85%, would be included in these constant attacks.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
52. Nietzsche and science said the majority can be wrong
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 07:05 PM
Feb 2018

"Madness is rare in individuals - but in groups, parties, nations, and ages it is the rule."

- Friedrich Nietzsche, in Beyond Good and Evil.

Appealing to popular belief as the standard for truth, is even known in Philosophy as a formal logical fallacy:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argumentum_ad_populum

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
71. In comment #10?
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 05:21 AM
Feb 2018

Keep in mind that there are objections to all religion; 100%. Even yours.

Often the less murderous theists will insist that angry criticisms of violent believers don't apply to they, themselves. But even allegedly meek and mild believers, as long as they support religion, serve as enablers for the violent.

The particular psychological mechanism at work in such apologists, would probably be "Denial."

Guil? Aren't you your violent, crazy brother's keeper? Or at least, his whitewasher? His enabler?



thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
86. So you're saying Mahatma Gandhi
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 01:13 PM
Feb 2018

and the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. served as "enablers of the violent"?

Seems to me they were just the opposite.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
90. Ghandi was good. But then India went to war with Pakistan.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 02:49 PM
Feb 2018

King was good. But soon half of American Christianity went hard right. And nobody, no churches, stopped them.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
94. I know quite a few progressive Christians,
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 05:24 PM
Feb 2018

and I don't quite see how they were supposed to "stop" "American Christianity" from going hard right.

No more than I can blame Democrats for the actions of Republicans.

"Gandhi was good" and he was also a devout Hindu. Rev. King was a Christian minister. Their religious beliefs were at the heart of their progressive work. Gandhi founded the Satyagraha movement--Satyagraha translates into English as something like "Soul Spirit Power." The beginning of non-violent civil disobedience that's transformed the world. His title, "Mahatma" is a religious title meaning "Great Soul." Rev. King founded the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC) which was at the heart of the civil rights movement. He directly borrowed Gandhi's methods, and gave it the same sort of religious underpinning

Churches were bombed during the struggle for civil rights. Remember the little girls murdered in the Birmingham Baptist Church while they attended Sunday school? Progressives seem to have forgotten how much religious people struggled and sacrificed to move us forward.

And maybe if so many American progressives weren't so immediately dismissive of religion, and so contemptuous of its power to move people to do good, maybe American Christianity wouldn't have gone so far right. I'm speaking as an agnostic. It depresses me that progressives have basically left the playing field as far as religion is concerned, just like right wing radio is pretty much dominant in every media market all across the country. Just like, somehow, the right has coopted patriotism, even as they sell our democracy to a hostile foreign power.

Like it or not, this is a religious country, and we progressives have to figure out how to make this work for us. Besides which, the essential Christian message--love your neighbor, give comfort to the afflicted, visit those in prison, do what you can to help the poor--is far closer to our message than to the right's.

I think it's time we took religion back from the extreme right. And we can start by not immediately attacking those among us who have religious feelings.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
96. Well said; welcome to DU
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 05:46 PM
Feb 2018

But I'd partly warn about your conclusion. By trying to work within Christianity, most activists end being coopted and assimilated. And de-clawed. Having been taught " tolerance" for "our Christian brothers."

If you or others want to return to churches to reform from within, I agree that would be very useful. As long as you can continue to resist assimilation.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
110. I also know many progressive Christian, as well as
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 09:22 PM
Feb 2018

Progressive Muslims and a few Hindus. Really, I never pay any attention to people's religion. It's actions that are how I determine whether or not I respect someone.

Every religion is made up of individuals. I don't find much correlation between major classes of religions and individual behavior.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
111. Precisely.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 11:39 PM
Feb 2018

I think as progressives we should be less concerned with what particular religion, if any, a person subscribes to, but rather if they are willing or not to work toward achieving a progressive agenda. I don't think we can afford to alienate people who might otherwise be our friends and allies.

I try to keep in mind that many progressive achievements and movements originated among religious people: the abolitionist movement being a prime example.

That said, I also don't think we should be reluctant to point out abuses of human rights or dignity, where ever they occur and under whatever guise.

Best wishes.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
170. This is a religous country, primarily Christian.
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 08:43 AM
Feb 2018

Every Christian has his own idea of what "the essential Christian message" is. Many of them who vote Republican don't agree at all with your interpretation of "the essential Christian message". How are we supposed to convince them they're doing it wrong?

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
171. I don't know that we can.
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 02:08 PM
Feb 2018

We might, however, refrain from calling those who DO agree with this interpretation of Christian teaching inherently "delusional" "schizophrenic" etc. etc.

Aside from being trash psychology, as has been demonstrated by the discussion of the DSM in response to this OP, it needlessly alienates people who could and should be our allies. Including, for example, the very many African American churches that continue to do good work in support of much of what I take to be our agenda ("pulpit to poll" activism that the GOP does so much to try to suppress).

As for those who have bought the right wing (which means, historically, the Southern white) version of Christianity, I'm not sure anything will convince them, other than hard experience. Although I have had one on one discussions with such people and have been able to raise at least a glimmer of doubt in them. Just as a for instance, I sat next to a right wing Christian on a long Greyhound bus ride. I knew what was about to happen when he asked me, "So, do you ever think about your relationship with God?"

Rather than calling him delusional, stupid, schizophrenic, I decided to debate the issues on his own terms. Quoting the part of Gospel in which Jesus talks about the Judgment Day. People are divided into two categories. Into one category are those who gave him drink when he was thirsty, food when he was hungry, solace when he was sick, people who visited him in prison. These are the people he gathers to himself--whatever that might mean. On the other hand are people who turned him away when he was thirsty or hungry, abandoned him when he was in prison, etc. In each case those being judged ask, essentially, "Lord, when did I ever see you in that situation, and then" [depending on the person] either helped you or turned you away. Jesus answers, if you've done these things to ANYONE -- you've done it to me.

He tried getting around that (it's not a part of the Bible much quoted by the right) but since he was wedded to the idea of ALL of the Bible having crucial validity, he couldn't (and I wouldn't) allow him to pass it by. I told him that by supporting a right wing agenda that hurts the poor and demonizes those in prison, he was essentially rejecting Jesus, every time he voted for the GOP, every time he agreed with someone like Rush Limbaugh or Ann Coulter. He was visibly upset at this--obviously the thought had never occurred.

The discussion ended with the guy asking, in exasperation, "How do you know God hasn't put me here next to you to save your soul?"

To which I answered, "How do you know God hasn't put ME here to save YOUR soul?"

Besides shutting him up, finally, I like to think it also planted a seed that might someday bear some fruit.

Now, we can't always engage one on one like this. But, as I've said, we should at least do what we can not to needlessly alienate those people--adherents of liberation theology, for instance, or queer theology, that can and will support aspects of the progressive agenda. Just as an another example, I'd cite the Metropolitan Community Church, a Christian denomination founded in the 1960s for LGBT people who want to retain their belief in Christ and the community that comes with that. These folks are persecuted enough by the far right. What good does it do to publicly speculate on their "mental health"--as if being brutally persecuted, and finding solace in a religion the avatar of which is someone judicially murdered for who he was and what he said--is evidence of some obvious delusion or mental failing?

I know my posts tend to get long and rambling, sorry about that. Just trying to answer your question.

Anyway, best wishes to you and yours.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
172. Everyone here likes to defend the "good" Christians
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 02:26 PM
Feb 2018

But simply by being Christian, by standing up in church every week and declaring that a guy born of a virgin died and came back to life and is going to come some day and take us all to heaven to live forever, they grant legitimacy and give social and political cover to what would otherwise be a crackpot, lunatic fringe group that only got laughed at and had no political influence whatsoever.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
180. At what point in American history did Christians get laughed at and have "no political influence
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 05:34 PM
Feb 2018

whatsoever?"

During the colonial period, when Massachusetts Bay Colony was founded and governed by Puritans?

During the "Great Awakening" when religious upheaval was part of the wave of social change leading up to the American Revolution?

In the lead-up to the Civil War, when abolitionism came pretty much directly out of New England churches?

During the Civil War, when Lincoln told us, in his second inaugural, that "the judgments of the Lord are true and righteous altogether?"

During World War II, when FDR on D-Day offered a prayer for "our sons, pride of our nation"?

During the civil rights movement, led by Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Rev. Jessie Jackson, Minister Malcolm X and other people of faith?

To which era are you referring, precisely?

The last time Christianity had "no political influence whatsoever" was perhaps at the beginning of the reign of Constantine, roughly 1600 years ago. Since then that "crackpot, lunatic fringe group" has been at the very center--for good or ill--of European and then American politics.

If you're going to criticize people for being delusional you might want to get a better grip on historical reality yourself.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
181. I never said that happened at any point in American History
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 05:43 PM
Feb 2018

You might have read my post a little more carefully and understood it before you spent all that time on your self-righteous rant.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
183. Yeah, you're right. I misread, and I apologize.
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 05:59 PM
Feb 2018

But then again, calling tens of millions of voters--many of whom might vote our way and have voted our way in the past--lunatics and fringe doesn't strike me as a winning electoral strategy.

But I get it, you're contemptuous of anyone who isn't an atheist.

The problem is, it's hardly ever a good idea to express contempt for people whose votes you're counting on. I'm thinking, for instance, of the millions of African American church goers, who are among our most dependable base.

Accusing all of them of being complicit in--well, what is it again you're saying? That simply going to church is some awful crime against humanity?

Seems awfully broad-brush to me.

 

Paleologue

(76 posts)
185. So you're tempering your apology
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 07:10 PM
Feb 2018

with an attack. Nice. But human nature is what it is. And no, I said nothing about a "crime against humanity". You know that. You made that up as a bogus smear, and it's morally bankrupt and intellectually dishonest.

And what the F is it with this meme about "we can't afford to offend people whose votes we need"? Are they going to vote the way we want because it's the right thing to do, or because we kiss their ass? If it's the former, they won't give a shit what we think or say. And if it's the latter, they are not allies we want, because they'll stab us in the back the minute someone else kisses their ass harder.

Bretton Garcia

(970 posts)
168. See #96
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 06:57 AM
Feb 2018

When one church sees another church doing a bad thing? It should unambiguously denounce it from the pulpit. Rather than ignoring it. Or urging people to ignore it in the spirit of "Christian fellowship and charity," or "tolerance," or ecumenism.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
169. The same things any other group does
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 08:32 AM
Feb 2018

to nonviolently protest anything they consider abhorrent: Write LTE's. Issue press releases. Buy ads. Organize marches and rallies. Etc. Make the public aware of exactly where they stand on each issue, and why they think those other guys are doing it wrong.

Would that have worked? Maybe, maybe not. We'll never know, will we, because it didn't happen on any appreciable scale.

What not to do: Refuse to condemn a brother of the faith. Pray and do nothing else. Declare that the RW churches aren't Christian. We know these don't work.

thucythucy

(8,086 posts)
184. Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 06:07 PM
Feb 2018

wrote his Letter from a Birmingham Jail in direct response to right wing (and white) ministers who were counseling "patience" while African Americans were being cruelly and wickedly oppressed.

But yeah, I also wonder if a more organized and more vehement response from liberal denominations might have had more impact, say back in the 70s and 80s when the so-called Moral Majority was on the rise.

One problem--among many--is that right wing Christians have all this money backing them--something the left isn't able to muster. This is made even worse when right wingers have control of the federal government--"faith based initiatives" being little more than slush funds for right wing churches.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
186. The reason Rev. King is famous is because he was unusual.
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 07:42 PM
Feb 2018

What if there had been thousands of clergy and their congregations, of all races, doing the same things he was doing, and publicly shaming the churches that were promoting or even tolerating segregation and discrimination? Would we have the same race problem that we have today? We'll never know, because it didn't happen. Same with Falwell and the Moral Majority. Maybe other Christians could have stopped them before they became so rich and politically powerful, but we'll never know, because relatively few of them even tried.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
33. I think that the 2 links make clear what is obvious.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:24 PM
Feb 2018

Except for those who excuse it in the name of whatever.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
36. One of those links was to a discussion
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 02:11 PM
Feb 2018

in the Atheists and Agnostics Group, a protected group on DU. I maintain that you can expect to find plenty of criticism of religion in a group with that name. It's not a group where I post.

Incidentally, that group does not normally accept references to this group in posts there. It is interesting that you are looking at that group for evidence, I think. It is a protected group for Atheists and Agnostics. What do you expect to find there, a prayer circle?

In the Religion Group, both believers and non-believers are welcome to discuss Religion. It's a broad topic, to be sure. As I have said many times, I know many progressive Christians, many of whom are friends and family. I don't consider religion to be delusionary, per se. It is for some people, certainly, but I don't assume delusion if I know someone has religious beliefs.

I don't believe that any deities or other supernatural phenomena exist at all. Some people do believe that they do. If I discuss my disbelief, I am not attacking everyone who believes. I am discussing my disbelief. Unless someone behaves as though they had delusions, I don't assume they have delusions. I just don't believe what they do, and find that belief hard to imagine, really.

Nobody here is attacking Christians. Sometimes we point out and criticize Christians and other religionists who behave badly. Someone has to, certainly.

However, if others don't behave badly, they're not included in our criticism. If you don't behave badly, then you are not being criticized. Now, religion, itself, certainly gets some criticism. That's natural from non-believers. This is an open forum, guillaumeb. Expect non-believers not to believe, and to speak of that. That's what I'd do, if I were you. But, if you're not delusional, don't take people saying that religion is a delusion personally. It's just an opinion, as you often point out.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
42. Yes, the first link was to a "discussion" in a protected group.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 04:55 PM
Feb 2018

Which does not excuse either the language or the dismissal of all Catholics.

And as I said, a few here are definitely attacking theists and any posts that dare to refer to positive news about religion. It is blatant and impossible to ignore.

And when a person equates religion with being psychotic there is no possible way to explain that as dialogue or as anything but an attack on theists. Sorry, it cannot be framed as anything other than an attack on theists.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
37. I think this thread made it clear
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 03:45 PM
Feb 2018

And is actually a very harmful thread. Going into a space for non-theists to discuss freely without having to worry about someone derailing it and you did your best to attack them here.

Shameful behavior.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
38. I tend to agree. Bringing a link from a protected DU Group
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 04:01 PM
Feb 2018

Into the discussion is sort of over the top here. Not that there's any rule against it, but it's normally not done, out of respect for the nature of protected groups on DU.

For example, we have a protected group where mental illnesses are discussed by DUers. If someone went there and posted a link to a thread in that group that singled out another DUer, that would be widely recognized as a serious breach.

Now, the group from which the link in the OP of this thread leads is a pretty irreverent group, and not one that I participate in. But, it IS a protected group, and I see links to threads there as the same as links to that mental illness group. It's just not done. It's rude.

And there it is.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
53. It's about respect
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 07:09 PM
Feb 2018

Some don't understand basic ideas, and instead want to argue anything other people say, while declaring their stuff absolutely off limits.

Another example of why discussions cant happen.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
43. Shameful was the original post itself.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 04:57 PM
Feb 2018

And as we all know, anyone can read posts anywhere here. So yes, the original shameful behavior of the linked post is evidence of intent and outlook.

As to the second reference, from another discussion in this forum, I notice that you are silent. One might wonder why.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
49. You have made it clear
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 05:17 PM
Feb 2018

That you don't respect boundaries or honest discussion.

I have no idea what topic you are claiming I am silent on, but I know there are dozens you have glossed over while attempting to put it on others.

Lordquinton

(7,886 posts)
55. Not my post, don't have a comment
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 07:27 PM
Feb 2018

I do wonder why you are demonizing mental illness. It comes in many varieties, and is a hot topic right now, but it's very common and nothing to be ashamed about, so what is the offence?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
59. No comment except attempted reframing and deflection?
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 07:50 PM
Feb 2018

Your refusal to comment is actually a comment.

Sad.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
88. And this from a poster who claims to engage
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 01:25 PM
Feb 2018

in "numerous" private exchanges about other posters in this group, at least some of which have been to "express anger at others".

malchickiwick

(1,474 posts)
34. "Psychosis" is a perfect diagnosis for some -- e.g. the Biblical literalists - but not all believers
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 01:34 PM
Feb 2018

Having escaped from an uber-conservative religious cult myself, I have no problem calling the religious beliefs of my family members a form of psychosis.

I don't think the term necessarily applies to any nor all believers, however, and I agree using it that way is sure to shut down any kind of real dialogue.

Voltaire2

(13,109 posts)
51. Oh wait. So you agree that it is ok to call
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 06:58 PM
Feb 2018

some religious beliefs psychotic. Just not yours. Hmmmm.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
56. Carefully reread what I wrote.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 07:44 PM
Feb 2018

What you claimed to find must have been in a subliminal message because it is absent from what I wrote. Unless you equate the word theism with "my beliefs".

Voltaire2

(13,109 posts)
65. Glad you agree its ok to call religious beliefs
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 10:52 PM
Feb 2018

psychotic.

Your big upset of the week boils down to your fetching a comment from a protected forum that you felt wasn’t sufficiently nuanced in its attribution of the term to religious beliefs.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
66. Another misreading on your part.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 01:16 AM
Feb 2018

Try reading the entire sub-thread again. Your discovery not actually there. Perhaps your beliefs require it to be there.

Igel

(35,337 posts)
64. Some might be, but very few are.
Sat Feb 24, 2018, 10:19 PM
Feb 2018

On the other hand, that claim depends on my definition of "valid," which might well be different from yours.

And in that underspecified semantic content we might find the source of much of the sensitivity. "Before we get started, you need to acknowledge that I'm right in what I'm going to say. Now, here's what I'm right about." Seldom a really great way to start a community circle discussion.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
68. Perhaps valid is not the best choice of words.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 01:23 AM
Feb 2018

But my position is that the type of comments that I highlighted are not in my view intended as actual discussion. Many posts here talk of both positive and negative things, but attacking theists or every believer in one particular religion as the starting point is no way to have an actual discussion.

Thank you for the comments.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
72. About your second link, Gil ..
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 10:13 AM
Feb 2018

the one to the post in the protected group. The quote in that post says those religious people are NOT lunatics or imbeciles, and furthermore, it describes them as "perfectly sane, intelligent people". I don't understand why you find this to be so objectionable.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
73. I think it's atheism, in general, that is objectionable in this case.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 10:39 AM
Feb 2018

When one cannot post in a protected group, apparently it's OK to post from that group elsewhere. I'm blocked in one group on DU. I simply don't go where I am not wanted. That seems to me to be the best approach.

I sometimes use the example of the Mental Health Support Group here on DU in situations like this. People post there with very personal information exposed. If, as some think, it's OK to post copies of threads from protected groups, what would prevent someone from posting things from that group? A group is either protected or it is not.

The Religion Group, thank goodness, is not a protected group on DU. Anyone can post here, and many do, since it is one of the most popular Groups on DU.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
77. I think what is clearly objectionable to some few here
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:12 PM
Feb 2018

is that any posting of anything positive about theism in general will be met with attacks. And those attacks are not reciprocated. And what is also clear from quite a few comments is that the atmosphere can be quite toxic here.

As to your attempt to bring in mental health issues, if people freely share on a public site there are no HIPAA issues.


A protected group simply means that posting can be restricted. The A/A group is restricted to atheists and agnostics. Some of the religious groups are restricted to believers. That is solely to insure that the intra-group conversation is confined to the group.

But all of this is a distraction from the issue of intolerance, and the unwillingness of some non-theists to criticize that intolerance.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
81. That's a legalistic point of view you have there, guillaumeb.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:39 PM
Feb 2018

I'm not a big fan of legalism. Calvinists are big on it, though.

Suit yourself, though, I guess. Common courtesy should make HIPAA unnecessary, but apparently that's not enough. That's truly unfortunate, I think, as are many other things that are legal to do but that shouldn't be done, for reciprocity's sake.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
82. Again, a demonstrated refusal to discuss the actual issue.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:44 PM
Feb 2018

I attended classes on labor law. One lawyer mentioned that there is a saying:

If you have the law on your side, argue the law.
If you have the facts on your side, argue the facts.
If you have neither, pound on the table.

Applying this, we have 2 linked instances of extreme intolerance. I linked them because you insisted that any references should be linked so anyone could read the entire thread.

And after I posted this, a meme was immediately created about protected groups and not posting or linking to them. A meme with no actual relevance to the TOS here.

And none of the non-theists who responded would admit that the linked posts are offensive and divisive.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
76. Any reading of the entire post,
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:06 PM
Feb 2018

cartoon and commentary, shows the opposite.

And the first link, the one that equates religion with psychosis? What did I miss there?

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
78. I'm addressing your second link, to the post in the protected group.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:26 PM
Feb 2018

It's saying that religion causes sane, intelligent people, who aren't lunatics or imbeciles, to believe things that would be considered crazy in any other context. Why is that offensive to you? Do you think it isn't true?

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
80. Why do you keep mentioning the "protected group" as if it is a violation?
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:37 PM
Feb 2018

Interesting how this type of meme gets created and repeated by the same few people.

Probably a coincidence.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
84. Just to be clear, since you mentioned the other link
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 12:50 PM
Feb 2018

and I was only talking about the one.

I think I see why you were offended by it, though. It's a basic reading comprehension problem on your part. You think the quote is calling the people crazy, don't you? The quote doesn't say the people are crazy. It does the exact opposite; it says they are perfectly sane and intelligent. It calls the beliefs crazy, which is not the same thing at all.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
118. But if the same comments were made about atheists on DU,
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 12:51 PM
Feb 2018

there would be an outcry about intolerance. Does this reflect a double standard?

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
136. You don't get to make stuff up, Gil.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:51 PM
Feb 2018

You don't get to conjure up a scenario, and then claim that the product of your imagination illustrates a double standard.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
144. I am pointing out the obvious.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 09:00 PM
Feb 2018

And you cannot deny that many comments such as my examples here have already been made in this group by non-theists about religion and believers.

The double standard is alive and well.

TwistOneUp

(1,020 posts)
87. You are...
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 01:24 PM
Feb 2018

You are asking this question as bait to enter into an argument with you. In the past you have defended your "faith", even when no one was trying to take your "faith" away.

This is your modus operandi. You are overly sensitive about your right to believe. And for the record, I don't give a rat's about what you believe. I just wish you'd STFU about it.

Your article isn't really about theists, it's all about you. Again. As usual.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
91. He's also performing for an audience.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 04:05 PM
Feb 2018

He's told us how he receives numerous personal messages cheering him on. That complicates things some.

Anyway, we have no idea what Gil believes. There's very little consistency in his proclamations about his own unique beliefs. For example, he says he's a Christian, but he doesn't seem to believe any of the events the Bible actually happened. He speaks about The Creator™, and he says no human can know or understand anything about this entity, but he also ascribes all sorts of properties and actions to it. How much of what he posts is really his opinion, and how much is calculated to generate applause? Who knows?

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
92. Applause or an argument?
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 04:36 PM
Feb 2018

The style often feels provocative to me. Most of the time, really. While I'm usually happy to play along in that game, it's getting old, somehow.

It's difficult not to respond in a way that feeds further argument. I usually fail at at, so I've been trying to limit the number of replies I'll contribute, especially in subthreads. I dislike participating in derailing a discussion, and that's what often happens when argumentative subthreads get longer.

I find the entire process annoying, to tell you the truth.

TwistOneUp

(1,020 posts)
93. Yes
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 04:53 PM
Feb 2018

I read this book (or saw this flick, i can't remember!) where proselytizing was considered a crime.

And in Ann Leckie's book, Ancillary Sword, there's a civilization that has absorbed so many planets they literally have hundreds of gods in their civilization.

So either zero or too many is fine with me; it removes the "one true" god nonsense. Which is where all the problems start; e.g., "The Troubles" in Northern Ireland.

AFA it being difficult not to respond (an occurrance of which i am guilty), it's rather like gambling against the house: the only way to win is not to play. Much like Monty Python's Argument Clinic, when the client runs out of money...

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
128. Probably not, if it is posted in a protected group for atheists and agnostics.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 03:44 PM
Feb 2018

Some such feel that way about religion, and it's a point that can be logically argued.

It's not my opinion that religion is synonymous with psychosis or delusions, at least in most cases. It is associated with psychosis in some people, but their psychosis is probably not due to religion.

The point is that what you are asking about was posted in a place where only atheists and agnostics normally post.

You apparently saw it while lurking in that forum (using that term in the internet sense, of course). You were offended. But, you could not say so in that place, I understand.

So you came here, copied and pasted that post and began to complain about it. I read it. It didn't actually say what you claimed it said, in the context where it was posted.

Oh, well. People will have viewpoints with which you disagree, sometimes vehemently. People have all sorts of viewpoints.

One person said something that offended you. That's unfortunate, I guess. I'm not sure it warrants the lengthy thread that has ensued, though.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
130. It was posted in the religion group.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:26 PM
Feb 2018

But I understand that some few simply cannot admit that the post revealed much about the poster, and nothing about theists.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
131. One example was in the Religion Group.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:29 PM
Feb 2018

The other was in a protected Group.

As for revealing "much" about the poster, I don't think so. It revealed, perhaps, a "little" about that poster. Posts are temporal things. Before making a judgment about a poster, I like to see a number of posts. Not too many, mind you, but a number. Sometimes, too many posts confuses everyone.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
132. I have seen a few from the poster in a similar vein.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:31 PM
Feb 2018

But I am not going to list or link to them. But these are the basis for my opinion of the poster only as it relates to religion.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,946 posts)
133. So only positive discussion is allowed in here?
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:32 PM
Feb 2018

I don't see that in the group description at all.

Perhaps you would be more comfortable in Interfaith. From glancing at it, it looks like it could use you bringing some activity to it since rug and hrmjustin got banned.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
135. Not on topic, or relevant.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:34 PM
Feb 2018

I understand some might be reluctant to criticize in certain circumstances, but please realize that this double standard is apparent to others.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,946 posts)
138. What double standard?
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:57 PM
Feb 2018

It's free reign here to talk about all matters religion. I've seen plenty of people tell you you are wrong, but nobody has told you that you can't talk about what you want to talk about. Give everyone else the same respect. That's pretty easy. Not everybody thinks religion is god's gift to the planet. Respect that difference.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
143. You want to see a double standard? Check this out.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 07:38 PM
Feb 2018

I'm sure you remember this thread. A poster who is not a regular in this group comes in to harass MineralMan. See my exchange with the g-man about that person's hateful post:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/1218261782#post23

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,946 posts)
189. That's a really helpful response. Thank you. Clears up everything.
Thu Mar 1, 2018, 12:56 PM
Mar 2018

For someone who constantly complains about the lack of dialogue in this group, you are one of the most frustrating posters every. You never answer questions. You never directly respond to anything. You just do this same crap over and over and over.

Be the change, G-dawg; be the change.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,946 posts)
192. I asked a question and then gave you the basis of that question
Thu Mar 1, 2018, 03:44 PM
Mar 2018

from my point of view. See? I not only asked something, I contributed to the discussion immediately and gave my perspective. You resort to what you clearly think are witty, one-liner retorts (much like this response, too) rather than actually adding to the dialogue. That you seem to completely not understand that you are contributing to the lack of dialogue here is something that is lost on pretty much just you.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
137. Gil's complaining about a post
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:55 PM
Feb 2018

in another group, a protected one. It seems he doesn't just want to restrict what atheists say in this group, but what we say everywhere else on DU, as well.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
139. Perhaps he's intolerant of atheists and their opinions.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:57 PM
Feb 2018

That thought has occurred to me from time to time. Yet, we are supposed to be tolerant of "theists," whatever those are. I'm tolerant of people with religious beliefs, even though I don't share those beliefs in any way. Perhaps tolerance of those without religious beliefs is more difficult somehow. I don't know.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
141. I think his definition of tolerance is, well, unusual.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 05:03 PM
Feb 2018

As with so many other words, Gil has assigned his own unique personal definition to this one. In the past, I've asked him to post a glossary, but he has not done so.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,946 posts)
140. Of course. But under the guise that
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 04:58 PM
Feb 2018

"it was posted here, too." Ironically, it was removed. So as much as Gil wants to talk about positive posts about theism being unwanted, it is the atheist post that is removed. Privilege will probably stop that from being recognized by Gil.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
113. Applause for the argument, I think.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 12:02 AM
Feb 2018

The act is getting progressively more ridiculous, for certain. There used to be some comedic value in it, but now it's starting to resemble slapstick, which I've never thought was particularly funny. The spamming of thread after thread with the same silly accusations reeks of desperation. Perhaps the volume of private message fan mail is dropping off.

TwistOneUp

(1,020 posts)
115. If you understood logic...
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 02:32 AM
Feb 2018

You would assign it a higher priority than your hypothetical "deities".

Logic is based on reality, i.e., things that exist.

Faith is a belief in things that cannot be proven to exist.

But then we've been down this road before, and it is a waste of time. You turn everything into a pedantic argument over definitions. You do this because your so-called positions are indefensible in the real world, so you deflect and shift attention in the same manner as Cheetolini..

The bottom line is that I have been programming for the last 50+ years, and I use boolean, inductive and deductive logic every day of my life during which I have written code (and some days I didn't write code, as well). You, on the other hand, appear to have been arguing about things that *may* not even exist.

Thus, I conclude that further discussions with you are a non-trivial waste of my time. Perhaps you could find someone else, someone that also has no idea of what logic means, and then you two could have discussions about your particular flavors of snake oil.

Goodbye.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
120. A nice display of tolerance.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 12:54 PM
Feb 2018

And thank you for sharing your many accomplishments. I am suitably impressed.

MineralMan

(146,324 posts)
126. Tolerance is not always a positive thing, guillaumeb.
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 02:49 PM
Feb 2018

I cannot tolerate Donald Trump, for example. I don't tolerate child molesters, either. There are many things I will not tolerate. Am I, then, an intolerant person?

Tolerance requires a definition each time it is used. Tolerance of what? Tolerance of whom? Tolerance of everything is not desirable.

I am tolerant of people's religious beliefs, as long as they do not try to push those beliefs onto others. I am very intolerant of that.

Tolerance is a very vague thing, unless it is tightly defined when used.

Are you tolerant of all things and all people, guillaumeb? I think not.

sprinkleeninow

(20,254 posts)
153. Guillaume, Mon Ami!
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 10:56 PM
Feb 2018

J'ai une émoticône que je s'abstenir à propos de la poste susmentionné.
À tout à l'heure,
la sprink~

Call: 1-800-how's-my-fractured-franglais.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
154. Moi, j'ai un devis pour eux qui sont...............si.....
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 11:17 PM
Feb 2018

Je ne vais pas continuer.

Bonsoir, sprinkleeninow

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
127. There are several groups on DU that exist for the exact purpose
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 02:50 PM
Feb 2018

of religious people to discuss their religious beliefs, without the bother of having any infidels pointing out their logical fallacies and asking awkward and embarrassing questions. Most of those groups are desolate wastelands. Gil and his groupies prefer to communicate among themselves via numerous private messages.

TygrBright

(20,763 posts)
103. Which theists?
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 07:28 PM
Feb 2018

I think what is most offensive to both theists and atheists is the blanket assumption that they are part of some homogenous "all", when the nuances of belief/nonbelief are complex and individual.

diffidently,
Bright

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
116. Yet you do exactly this when it comes to theism
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 12:13 PM
Feb 2018

Defending some sort of vague generic theism thatsupposedly always existed despite the many different forms, including non-theistic ones that religion may take.

rickford66

(5,528 posts)
104. I was banned from this group once.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 07:29 PM
Feb 2018

I was comparing the moral motives of atheists to theists and was told "This is the religion group. Goodbye."

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
105. Interesting information.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 07:32 PM
Feb 2018

There are no current banned members. I feel that your proposal would fit well here.

rickford66

(5,528 posts)
107. I was just commenting to a "latest thread" and didn't notice it was religion group.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 07:41 PM
Feb 2018

I remember commenting that an atheist who would do the "right" thing would do it because he/she would believe it was "right". While a religious person would do the "right" thing for a couple reasons. Fear of "punishment in Hell" or reward in Heaven". These motives are drummed into the heads of most of us. Just my thoughts. I didn't mind being banned, but I thought it was petty.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
108. I agree.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 08:42 PM
Feb 2018

And your description could well apply to a certain percentage of theists.

But as I hope my post makes clear, I distinguish between discussion and name calling. I belong to a social justice group with a mix of atheists and theists and our conversations do not involve name calling. Part of that is undoubtedly due to the nature of online discussion boards where the anonymity allows for more name calling than is found in face to face talking.

Mariana

(14,860 posts)
109. Yeah, I remember those days.
Sun Feb 25, 2018, 09:15 PM
Feb 2018

Over time, DU as a whole has become much less hateful toward people who aren't religious.

sprinkleeninow

(20,254 posts)
158. Oh you tease!
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 11:38 PM
Feb 2018

I'll try to get back to you l8r after I give pops his ice cream treat and la chienne her frozen yoghurt. And fulfill my delusion quota for today.
Beback soon.
Your devoted groupie,
~sprink

sprinkleeninow

(20,254 posts)
165. May I clarify.
Tue Feb 27, 2018, 02:10 AM
Feb 2018

I gave treats to pops and dogga daughter, then I sat for a spell and replenished my cache of delusion right chere, in my own private personal space.

I soitenly did NOT imply I'd be back here for delusion re-fill. and most emphatically, not from Mon Ami, Guillaume.

Guillaume, je t'adore. N'est pas?

Stargleamer

(1,990 posts)
152. I'm not sure why "psychosis" is viewed as an insult
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 10:04 PM
Feb 2018

Does the stigma of mental illness come into play here? If I call you "bi-polar" or " a depressive" and you are not, do you feel insulted? Yes, being called what you are not is irritating, but is it insulting? At psychiatric facilities staff may not see schizophrenic patients as lesser than themselves--I know I don't. Of course I want people to accurately assess others and not judge someone to be other than what she is, in other words to avoid gross generalizations and stereotypes in deciding who a person is, but if they do think/assess someone is mentally ill and they are not in actuality, I don't necessarily feel they have insulted the person in question. The insult comes only when it seems that someone is being thought of as lesser rather than an equal. In this case , it seems the stigma of mental illness (psychotic) is determining that being referred to this way is an insult.

I guess it could be considered though insulting when others make hasty assessments of who we are based on little substance or on gross stereotypes; in this case, we can feel that they are being disrespectful, and feel wronged by that. But I think that being psychotic doesn't mean that a person is in any way lesser.

guillaumeb

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157. No, this is not a reflection on mental illness,
Mon Feb 26, 2018, 11:21 PM
Feb 2018

and I think your ending paragraph sums the situation up very well.

Perhaps those who use definitions from the DSM to insult or belittle others should be asked why they misuse these definitions. I had not even considered this aspect, but thank you for this insight.

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