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MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 10:13 AM Apr 2018

Most social privilege is unearned. It should not be a source of pride.

I'm a white, blond straight male with blue eyes. I'm tall, not obese, and I am articulate. I have no physical or mental handicaps. I earned none of those attributes. They are congenital. I'm also a college graduate and a military veteran. Those I earned, but they're not visible attributes. I am an atheist, which is a negative attribute in this society, but that, too, is not immediately detectable, and so has little impact.

I take no pride in my privileged status, since I did not earn it. I recognize my privileges and realize that some of whatever success I have is due to those congenital privileges. I also recognize that I have no more right to anything than anyone else, and try hard to check my privilege frequently so that I do not take any credit for things I had nothing to do with.

Recognizing that most privilege is unearned and reflecting on that always seems appropriate to me. Most privilege is accidental, and should not be something people feel pride about. Instead, we should be grateful for our good fortune and try very hard not to let our privilege influence our interactions with others.

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Most social privilege is unearned. It should not be a source of pride. (Original Post) MineralMan Apr 2018 OP
I don't know why this has to be pointed out marylandblue Apr 2018 #1
Do not confuse an observation with an argument. guillaumeb Apr 2018 #4
There is a subtext regarding privilege in a few recent OPs marylandblue Apr 2018 #5
The concept of privilege seems to be a constant in human society. guillaumeb Apr 2018 #6
Okay, but like I said that's a conservative argument marylandblue Apr 2018 #8
It is an observation that is neither conservative nor liberal. guillaumeb Apr 2018 #11
You use these observation in conservative style arguments marylandblue Apr 2018 #12
So logic is a conservative attribute? guillaumeb Apr 2018 #13
Your opinion marylandblue Apr 2018 #14
You know what's *not* an interesting viewpoint? Act_of_Reparation Apr 2018 #22
There is always privilege in play. MineralMan Apr 2018 #9
You should learn to read between the lines Major Nikon Apr 2018 #18
One way to understand privilege is to listen Voltaire2 Apr 2018 #2
I guess the point of having privilege is you don't have think about it marylandblue Apr 2018 #3
Or being unaware of it. guillaumeb Apr 2018 #7
... trotsky Apr 2018 #16
So in that other thread where atheist said they felt excluded, you had a couple options: Cuthbert Allgood Apr 2018 #17
Hell, he mocks atheists who receive credible death threats. Mariana Apr 2018 #19
And then he's got the nerve to whine when not every comment on his threads is positive. trotsky Apr 2018 #21
He's made clear what his attitude is toward nonbelievers in this country. trotsky Apr 2018 #20
Racism and Misogyny are abuses of privilege. MineralMan Apr 2018 #10
Its more accurate to say they are abuses of rights Major Nikon Apr 2018 #15

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
1. I don't know why this has to be pointed out
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 12:03 PM
Apr 2018

It's a pretty standard progressive idea these days, and you can find roots of it going back to Rousseau. But only in the Religion Group on DU will you find a progressive arguing that differential privilege is okay because every other society has always done it. If I didn't know better, I'd say anyone who makes that kind of argument would be a conservative.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
4. Do not confuse an observation with an argument.
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 12:22 PM
Apr 2018

Judging by this post, and your response, that seems to be what has happened.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
5. There is a subtext regarding privilege in a few recent OPs
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 12:28 PM
Apr 2018

There is clearly some sort of argument going on, but is not being stated openly.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
8. Okay, but like I said that's a conservative argument
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 12:48 PM
Apr 2018

Like the conservative argument that marriage has always been between one man and one woman, which is not only untrue, but also irrelevant to modern marriage which has in fact changed greatly from medieval and early modern marriages.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
11. It is an observation that is neither conservative nor liberal.
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 05:21 PM
Apr 2018

If I observe that humans are also tribal, that is neither conservative nor liberal.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
12. You use these observation in conservative style arguments
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 05:53 PM
Apr 2018

That basically say: because we've always had them, we always will.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
13. So logic is a conservative attribute?
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 06:10 PM
Apr 2018

And historical based observation?

That is an interesting viewpoint.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
14. Your opinion
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 07:27 PM
Apr 2018

Last edited Sun Apr 8, 2018, 07:57 PM - Edit history (1)

You don't think you use conservative arguments. I understand.

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
22. You know what's *not* an interesting viewpoint?
Mon Apr 9, 2018, 12:14 PM
Apr 2018

Last edited Mon Apr 9, 2018, 01:41 PM - Edit history (1)

Pretty much everything you've said so far. You are either implying that humans are by nature a certain way and cannot change, or simply observing that humans have acted a certain way for, like, a really long time. In neither case are you offering anything particularly useful.

And neither should either case matter, seeing as you believe in free will.

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
9. There is always privilege in play.
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 01:38 PM
Apr 2018

The key is in recognizing one's own privileges and taking them into consideration through recognition that not all share one's privileges. Recognizing, for example, that I am often treated differently than a person of color or a woman helps me not to take advantage of my privilege to the detriment of others.

Privilege exists. Recognition of that is crucial in achieving social justice. I cannot change my inborn characteristics, but I can change my behavior. I should and I do.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
18. You should learn to read between the lines
Mon Apr 9, 2018, 11:24 AM
Apr 2018

There's volumes of information you're missing out on.

Just sayin'

Voltaire2

(13,061 posts)
2. One way to understand privilege is to listen
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 12:08 PM
Apr 2018

to what people affected by privilege have to say about it, to not dismiss those comments, and to try to see the world as experienced by others.

Or not. Generally the latter approach is more typical.

Cuthbert Allgood

(4,921 posts)
17. So in that other thread where atheist said they felt excluded, you had a couple options:
Mon Apr 9, 2018, 10:51 AM
Apr 2018

1. you could empathize and listen to what the marginalized (in the area of religion in this country) have to say so that you can understand those experience better.

2. you could dismiss and mock those that have concerns and voiced them.

You opted for 2. Because of privilege. Own that and do better at discussion.

Mariana

(14,858 posts)
19. Hell, he mocks atheists who receive credible death threats.
Mon Apr 9, 2018, 11:25 AM
Apr 2018
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1218270285#post1

As he posted to you in that very same thread, he says he receives numerous personal messages and asking him to continue doing what he is doing, and praising his efforts to "present balance" here with posts like that.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/1218270285#post159

Since you participated in that thread, you may have noticed that a grand total of zero Christians had anything to say to him about mocking recipients of death threats, including children, or about the Christians who issue those death threats.

I think this goes way beyond simple privilege.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
20. He's made clear what his attitude is toward nonbelievers in this country.
Mon Apr 9, 2018, 11:31 AM
Apr 2018

"You're in the minority, so STFU."

MineralMan

(146,317 posts)
10. Racism and Misogyny are abuses of privilege.
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 01:40 PM
Apr 2018

So are holier-than-thou attitudes. There are many abuses of privilege that adversely affect those who do not have the same privilege. We should all be mindful of that as much as possible.

Major Nikon

(36,827 posts)
15. Its more accurate to say they are abuses of rights
Sun Apr 8, 2018, 10:52 PM
Apr 2018

Namely civil and human rights.

The value in discussing social privilege is to teach people to be more inclusive and respectful of diversity by recognizing the reinforcement of the default isn’t always a great idea.

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