Religion
Related: About this forumMost social privilege is unearned. It should not be a source of pride.
I'm a white, blond straight male with blue eyes. I'm tall, not obese, and I am articulate. I have no physical or mental handicaps. I earned none of those attributes. They are congenital. I'm also a college graduate and a military veteran. Those I earned, but they're not visible attributes. I am an atheist, which is a negative attribute in this society, but that, too, is not immediately detectable, and so has little impact.
I take no pride in my privileged status, since I did not earn it. I recognize my privileges and realize that some of whatever success I have is due to those congenital privileges. I also recognize that I have no more right to anything than anyone else, and try hard to check my privilege frequently so that I do not take any credit for things I had nothing to do with.
Recognizing that most privilege is unearned and reflecting on that always seems appropriate to me. Most privilege is accidental, and should not be something people feel pride about. Instead, we should be grateful for our good fortune and try very hard not to let our privilege influence our interactions with others.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)It's a pretty standard progressive idea these days, and you can find roots of it going back to Rousseau. But only in the Religion Group on DU will you find a progressive arguing that differential privilege is okay because every other society has always done it. If I didn't know better, I'd say anyone who makes that kind of argument would be a conservative.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Judging by this post, and your response, that seems to be what has happened.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)There is clearly some sort of argument going on, but is not being stated openly.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Who is privileged changes.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)Like the conservative argument that marriage has always been between one man and one woman, which is not only untrue, but also irrelevant to modern marriage which has in fact changed greatly from medieval and early modern marriages.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)If I observe that humans are also tribal, that is neither conservative nor liberal.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)That basically say: because we've always had them, we always will.
guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)And historical based observation?
That is an interesting viewpoint.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)Last edited Sun Apr 8, 2018, 07:57 PM - Edit history (1)
You don't think you use conservative arguments. I understand.
Act_of_Reparation
(9,116 posts)Last edited Mon Apr 9, 2018, 01:41 PM - Edit history (1)
Pretty much everything you've said so far. You are either implying that humans are by nature a certain way and cannot change, or simply observing that humans have acted a certain way for, like, a really long time. In neither case are you offering anything particularly useful.
And neither should either case matter, seeing as you believe in free will.
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)The key is in recognizing one's own privileges and taking them into consideration through recognition that not all share one's privileges. Recognizing, for example, that I am often treated differently than a person of color or a woman helps me not to take advantage of my privilege to the detriment of others.
Privilege exists. Recognition of that is crucial in achieving social justice. I cannot change my inborn characteristics, but I can change my behavior. I should and I do.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)There's volumes of information you're missing out on.
Just sayin'
Voltaire2
(13,061 posts)to what people affected by privilege have to say about it, to not dismiss those comments, and to try to see the world as experienced by others.
Or not. Generally the latter approach is more typical.
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)guillaumeb
(42,641 posts)Cuthbert Allgood
(4,921 posts)1. you could empathize and listen to what the marginalized (in the area of religion in this country) have to say so that you can understand those experience better.
2. you could dismiss and mock those that have concerns and voiced them.
You opted for 2. Because of privilege. Own that and do better at discussion.
Mariana
(14,858 posts)As he posted to you in that very same thread, he says he receives numerous personal messages and asking him to continue doing what he is doing, and praising his efforts to "present balance" here with posts like that.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/1218270285#post159
Since you participated in that thread, you may have noticed that a grand total of zero Christians had anything to say to him about mocking recipients of death threats, including children, or about the Christians who issue those death threats.
I think this goes way beyond simple privilege.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)trotsky
(49,533 posts)"You're in the minority, so STFU."
MineralMan
(146,317 posts)So are holier-than-thou attitudes. There are many abuses of privilege that adversely affect those who do not have the same privilege. We should all be mindful of that as much as possible.
Major Nikon
(36,827 posts)Namely civil and human rights.
The value in discussing social privilege is to teach people to be more inclusive and respectful of diversity by recognizing the reinforcement of the default isnt always a great idea.