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rug

(82,333 posts)
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 07:07 PM Jul 2012

Do atheists have a sexual harassment problem?

By Kimberly Winston
Religion News Service
Updated: Thursday, July 12, 4:51 PM

As skeptics, atheists and humanists prepare to gather for their largest meeting in Las Vegas this weekend, attendance by women is expected to be down significantly.

Officials for The Amazing Meeting, or TAM, said Wednesday (July 11) that women would make up 31 percent of the 1,200 conference attendees, down from 40 percent the year before. A month before the conference, pre-registration was only 18 percent women, organizers said.

The explanations are many — the bad economy, that women, as caregivers, are less able to get away, and that more men than women identify as skeptics, whose worldview rejects the supernatural and focuses on science and rationality.

But in the weeks preceding TAM, another possible explanation has roiled the nontheist community. Online forums have crackled with charges of sexism in TAM’s leadership and calls for the ouster of D.J. Grothe, the male president of the James Randi Educational Foundation, TAM’s organizer. In June, Rebecca Watson, a skeptic blogger and speaker, canceled her TAM appearance because, she said on her blog, she does “not feel welcome or safe.”

http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/on-faith/do-atheists-have-a-sexual-harassment-problem/2012/07/12/gJQAnMIAgW_story.html

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Do atheists have a sexual harassment problem? (Original Post) rug Jul 2012 OP
Uh, well, some MEN have a sexual harassment problem skepticscott Jul 2012 #1
I have been a member of male dominated associations for most of my life. cbayer Jul 2012 #2
What are your thoughts on it?? Angry Dragon Jul 2012 #3
Compared to what happens in religious organizations, this is tame! backscatter712 Jul 2012 #4
Don't you think that might be apples and oranges? cbayer Jul 2012 #5
rug has posted an article about this probably 5 times Goblinmonger Jul 2012 #6
Check the date and the publication. It's now mainstream. rug Jul 2012 #8
Because this is the atheism bashing group? pokerfan Jul 2012 #9
It is? cbayer Jul 2012 #10
No cordelia Jul 2012 #17
Actually that's fine, but then complaints about discussing belief goofiness are moot. Warren Stupidity Jul 2012 #23
I followed this. longship Jul 2012 #7
I agree with you that this could and should be handled relatively easily. cbayer Jul 2012 #11
"The Safe TAM Brigade" longship Jul 2012 #12
Even just starting a women's forum where they could discuss this, cbayer Jul 2012 #13
No. Warren Stupidity Jul 2012 #14
The phrase "glass house" sprung into my mind for some reason. 2ndAmForComputers Jul 2012 #15
No. Some people do, some of them are atheists. You'll have to try harder than this, rug. mr blur Jul 2012 #16
He can't try any harder. trotsky Jul 2012 #18
While calling other posters trolls. Warren Stupidity Jul 2012 #19
Lol. rug Jul 2012 #27
Yes, this could not possibly be a real problem. rug Jul 2012 #26
I'l write a terse email to the Post telling them to dig deeper. rug Jul 2012 #25
Meetings of male -dominated groups often have a sexual harassment problem LeftishBrit Jul 2012 #20
Absolutely correct. It is a problem in all kinds of organizations. cbayer Jul 2012 #31
No, humans do. trotsky Jul 2012 #21
Which atheists, Rug? MineralMan Jul 2012 #22
In this case, it's a problem at TAM. rug Jul 2012 #24
Read the first comment there. LaurenG Jul 2012 #28
Sorry about your experience, Lauren. rug Jul 2012 #29
Flame bait ... eom Kolesar Jul 2012 #30
Article is short on evidence Bradical79 Jul 2012 #32
 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
1. Uh, well, some MEN have a sexual harassment problem
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 07:25 PM
Jul 2012

and some of those men are atheists. But is there anything about atheism itself that requires atheists to regard women as second-class citizens? As compared to, say, Catholicism?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
2. I have been a member of male dominated associations for most of my life.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 07:31 PM
Jul 2012

They have been notably more overtly sexist than associations where there is more balance and where women have had a presence for a longer time.

This has been a particular issue at conventions or national meetings where there tends to be a lot of drinking, people traveling without their spouses, etc.

IMHO, the women should form their own sub-group and attend the meetings with an agenda to change the tone and raise expectations about how women will be treated. Boycotting the meetings sends a message, but will it change the culture?

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
4. Compared to what happens in religious organizations, this is tame!
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:02 PM
Jul 2012

Do you hear about atheist pedophiles out fiddling kids? Do you hear about atheist organizations covering up and protecting the said pedophiles?

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
5. Don't you think that might be apples and oranges?
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:10 PM
Jul 2012

Or perhaps pineapples and grapes, as there is no question that the pedophilia problem is way bigger than this.

But this is an organization that is trying to grow, obtain more legitimacy and be heard by more people. If they are dealing with some issues of sexism within the organization, is that not worth addressing?

longship

(40,416 posts)
7. I followed this.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:41 PM
Jul 2012

IMHO, DJ Grothe handled this very badly. If he had paid attention to previous rumblings in the skeptical blogosphere, he should have realized that this could be important.

Instead, he went into denial, and equivocation. If woman attendance at TAM this year is markedly down this year I put the responsibility on DJ, whose callous disregard had to be the most insulting and misogynistic attitude.

Grothe has always been a controversial figure in our movement. I like him but have a real problem with his naive and overt libertarianism. Not to raise politics into this... But I am going to nevertheless do that very thing.

Grothe failed here, big time. He should resign as JREF president if he is unable to address a problem which could be very easily resolved.

There are many of us in the skeptic community who are disgusted of the way this was mishandled.

I think Grothe put his politics ahead of the issue. I have lost all respect for him.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
11. I agree with you that this could and should be handled relatively easily.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:57 PM
Jul 2012

I don't know much about this guy, but the women have been making increasingly loud noises for a while. To ignore them, or even worse blow them off, shows poor leadership skills.

longship

(40,416 posts)
12. "The Safe TAM Brigade"
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 09:09 PM
Jul 2012

Probably not the best name, but something like that. Basically, dozens of volunteers who would be made aware of the issues and volunteer to keep TAM safe for the attendees. They would be the people who complaints could be brought to; they would be the reporters. They would be identifiable by a special TAM badge.

There would be people at the JREF who would take action upon a report. Like in public schools, there would be manditory reporting.

A simple system which would help everybody feel safe. Even if it isn't perfect, it's better than DJ's sticking his fingers in his ears, saying "La-la-la-la! I can't hear you."

I am very disappointed in the JREF, DJ, and Randi on this issue.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
13. Even just starting a women's forum where they could discuss this,
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 09:15 PM
Jul 2012

brings resolutions for change and talk about being a female atheist in a relatively safe space. They could also provide educational seminars on sexism and sexual harassment. Could be a real asset for any organization facing similar problems.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
18. He can't try any harder.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 07:05 AM
Jul 2012

He just keeps posting the same boring bullshit hoping to deflect from the monstrous institution he defends.

LeftishBrit

(41,212 posts)
20. Meetings of male -dominated groups often have a sexual harassment problem
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 07:55 AM
Jul 2012

Being atheist does not make one more likely to do so.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
31. Absolutely correct. It is a problem in all kinds of organizations.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 11:05 AM
Jul 2012

The denial of it is what is most bothersome. They are going to doom themselves if they don't pay attention. If the responses in this thread are any indication, there doesn't seem to be much interest in either recognizing or addressing the problem.

trotsky

(49,533 posts)
21. No, humans do.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 07:58 AM
Jul 2012

We have lots of problems treating each other fairly and equally.

Some groups of us are doing a better job confronting this, and dealing with it, than others.

MineralMan

(146,331 posts)
22. Which atheists, Rug?
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 09:14 AM
Jul 2012

Do you suppose that the atheists attending this conference are representative of all atheists? Perhaps, instead of the all-inclusive term "atheists", you could mention the name of the group or the conference. Atheists attending this do not represent atheism. They are merely atheists who belong to some organization.

It's much as if I referred to Catholics as a whole, when what I was really talking about was Catholic leaders, not all Catholics. I don't do that.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
24. In this case, it's a problem at TAM.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 09:28 AM
Jul 2012

In another case, it's Thunderfoot and his supporters.. And the headline belongs to the Washington Post, not me.

LaurenG

(24,841 posts)
28. Read the first comment there.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 09:48 AM
Jul 2012

PhillyJimi1 wrote:
4:34 AM EDTWell compared to what a bunch of Catholic priests and Penn State have gotten away with, this seems rather tame. As if there isn't a segment of men that act like pigs when they go away to a convention in Vegas. I don't think it is a stretch to say the same thing goes on at almost every convention in Vegas.

And in my own words (again) some men are creepy. The creepiest in my life have been the old "trustworty" christian men.
Do we have to do this every year Rug? Why?

 

Bradical79

(4,490 posts)
32. Article is short on evidence
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 11:13 AM
Jul 2012

Maybe she is on to something, but she used a meeting as the main focus that is not specifically an atheist meeting. Other than some very non-specific mentioning of other un-named incidents and unnamed forum/blog complaining, she doesn't really lay out any kind argument for atheism having a sexual harassment problem as far as I can tell. I think she makes the mistake of thinking everyone reading this follows the same un-named groups and forums that she does, so people like me have no idea what the hell she is talking about.

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