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Related: About this forumWomen to battle pornography with prayer
Perhaps they have been ashamed, scared, embarrassed or too paralyzed to take action. Or maybe they simply didnt know what to do.
Dennis, whose husband Jay Dennis launched the Join One Million Men movement at the Southern Baptist Convention annual meeting June 11-12 in Houston, is hopeful women will pray up, speak up and join the fight against pornography in a way that will capture hearts and minds for generations to come.
As moms and grandmothers, we should be angry righteously angry about this, Dennis told Baptist Press where Join One Million Men staffed a booth in the SBC exhibit hall. These pornographers are trying to steal the purity from our sons and grandsons. Every woman should be doing whatever we can to stop it.
http://www.brnow.org/News/June-2013/Women-to-battle-pornography-with-prayer
MotherPetrie
(3,145 posts)PDJane
(10,103 posts)BenzoDia
(1,010 posts)hahaha
LuvNewcastle
(16,846 posts)of changing things with their actions.
krispos42
(49,445 posts)...then having prolonged, frequent sexual encounters with either other several times a day.
That's my experience, at least.
And let us not forget that, if you're doing it right, it sounds like prayer.
longship
(40,416 posts)Battling pr0n, being one.
Prayer being the other.
Both are equally hopeless enterprises.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)have a serious problem or whether they are including all men who look at pornography (most of whom probably don't have a problem).
At any rate, if they are talking about the first group, the fact that they are providing an opportunity for people to be more open and active about it could be a very positive thing.
LostOne4Ever
(9,288 posts)But Im getting that impression from this:
One woman who did stop told of her son, a student at a large Christian university who said virtually all of the male students there struggle with looking at pornography.
There is no way virtually all the male students "struggle" with pornography. I think they are assuming if you even look at porn you got a problem.
cbayer
(146,218 posts)If they think that anyone who looks at any kind of pornography is "troubled", then they are going to have to do a lot more than pray.
SecularMotion
(7,981 posts)Goblinmonger
(22,340 posts)Thanks for the laugh. I'm sure my downstairs neighbor is wondering what is so funny.
rug
(82,333 posts)Still, Hypersexual Disorder is a proposed diagnosis for DSM5.
A. Over a period of at least 6 months, recurrent and intense sexual
fantasies, sexual urges, or sexual behaviors in association with 3 or
more of the following 5 criteria:
A1. Time consumed by sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors repetitively
interferes with other important (non-sexual) goals, activities and
obligations.
A2. Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors in
response to dysphoric mood states (e.g., anxiety, depression,
boredom, irritability).
A3. Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors in
response to stressful life events.
A4. Repetitive but unsuccessful efforts to control or significantly
reduce these sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors.
A5. Repetitively engaging in sexual behaviors while disregarding the
risk for physical or emotional harm to self or others.
B. There is clinically significant personal distress or impairment in
social, occupational or other important areas of functioning
associated with the frequency and intensity of these sexual fantasies,
urges or behaviors.
C. These sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors are not due to the direct
physiological effect of an exogenous substance (e.g., a drug of abuse
or a medication).
Specify if:
Masturbation
Pornography
Sexual Behavior with Consenting Adults
Cybersex
Telephone Sex
Strip Clubs
Other
http://www.dsm5.org/Documents/Sex%20and%20GID%20Lit%20Reviews/Paraphilias/KAFKAHD.pdf
It can be a problem.
trotsky
(49,533 posts)This stuff literally writes itself!
dimbear
(6,271 posts)That explains the microphone.
dimbear
(6,271 posts)I'll just think about them quietly for a bit.
SecularMotion
(7,981 posts)Most folks drive right past the gritty stretch of downtown Los Angeles that houses University Cathedral, a former movie palace whose marquee now advertises weekly evangelical sermons. But on any given Sunday, several hundred parishioners converge here for a rousing service that has them swaying and shouting Hallelujah!, enraptured by the low, breathless calls for salvation from Melissa Scott. The unlikely stunner who leads this congregation, Scott, 40, struts the stage clutching a red-leather Bible, periodically flinging her endless chestnut locks. Her doe-eyed image is beamed to local cable stations she is a late-night staple courtesy of six TV cameras flanking the pulpit. "Before I found God's word, when things got bad, what did I have? I had friends and family forsake me," she cries, directing her followers to Deuteronomy 33:25. In unison, they bark, "Tough shoes for a tough road!" Ninety minutes later, she slips offstage and is whisked by security out of the building through a private passageway.
Scott knows a thing or two about tough roads. Four years ago, she lost her husband, Dr. Gene "Doc" Scott, the wildly popular "shock jock of televangelism" nearly 40 years her senior to complications from prostate cancer. In his heyday as pastor, Doc Scott reportedly collected $1 million a month in donations and amassed an empire that included two horse ranches, a 35,000-square-foot mansion in Pasadena, a private plane, and a collection of luxury cars. Shortly after his funeral, Doc Scott's comely young wife assumed University's pulpit. But after her first sermon, someone anonymously mailed churchgoers Easter cards featuring snapshots of a porn star named Barbie Bridges, who looked remarkably similar to Pastor Melissa Scott. One image showed the woman with her legs spread wide, Virgin Mary and baby Jesus postage stamps covering her privates. Another featured a "See you Sunday!" banner plastered across her bare chest; underneath, it read: "The Church Where You Can Do Anything ... Anything."
The mailing sparked a revolt. Scott's Wikipedia page was so vandalized, it had to be removed; Web newsgroups devoted to the church were overrun by users posting more damning photos. ("Who else wants to bang the bejesus out of Pastor Melissa Scott?" inquired one.) Already stinging from the regime change following Doc Scott's death, some demanded her resignation. Others claimed she was a walking billboard for the redemptive powers of faith. But Scott would cop to nothing, dismissing the incident as an expert Photoshop job, part of a sick smear campaign by religious nuts. She even trotted out a Hollywood attorney to threaten her congregants with lawsuits should any more anonymous missives materialize. It seemed as if Scott had joined the long, sordid list of disgraced televangelists like Jimmy Swaggart, Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, and, most recently, Ted Haggard, ousted from his Colorado church following allegations that he solicited a male prostitute. But unlike those toppled icons, Scott clung to her denial and carried on preaching.
In the years that followed, Scott avoided answering any more questions about Barbie Bridges until now.
http://www.marieclaire.com/world-reports/news/melissa-scott-porn-pastor
jeepnstein
(2,631 posts)Sure she's got a past. Who doesn't? I'm not going to judge.
Oh, and BTW, what's she doing these days?
rrneck
(17,671 posts)They're both wishful thinking.