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rug

(82,333 posts)
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 04:06 PM Aug 2013

Is Atheism Just Another Old Boys Club?

Stephanie Stark
4 hours ago

Back in March, in honor of Women’s History Month, the New York City Atheists held their weekly discussion group on the topic:“Why Aren’t There More Secular Women?” The group, a band of 60-plus white men who gather weekly to verbally spar over relevant philosophy and literature in the dark and dusty back room of Stone Creek Inn in Kips Bay, were overwhelmed with the newfound diversity as a handful of women trickled in. And what happened next was something none of the old-timers could have expected: The 20 to 30 women who came lashed out about feeling unincluded and overrun within the atheist community, and the 60-plus men reacted like rabid dogs backed into a corner, first tip-toeing and obviously uncomfortable and then attacking, if for no other reason than that they felt attacked themselves.

As a particularly unapologetic brand of “New Atheism” has risen in recent years, women are entering into the discussion with their guns blazing. Atheism boasts a basis in science, logic, and reason, yet age-old gender wars remain relevant within the atheist and skeptic community, with sexual harassment and exclusion of women at the forefront. They are the exact problems that most traditional religions attempt to deal with by way of restrictions on women’s opportunities — to join the priesthood, to pray equally at holy sites, to wear what they want, to have sexual freedom, to have reproductive rights — and for the sexism within its ranks, atheism does not have a logical solution.

In a Huffington Post Live discussion on the subject last week, atheist author and activist Sikivu Hutchinson explained just that: “Atheist organizing is no different from other power structures that deeply inform the ways in which women are subjugated — within secular context and within the context of organized religion,” she said.

For example, at a conference at the Center for Inquiry in 2011, Rebecca Watson, founder of Skepchick.org, a website devoted to the intersection of secularism and atheism, gave a speech on women’s inclusion, was hit on subsequently thereafter, and made a video blog using the encounter as an anecdote on the exact problem she was speaking out against. Prominent atheist Richard Dawkins commented on the video dismissing her qualms, sparking vicious internet backlash.

http://www.policymic.com/articles/59277/is-atheism-just-another-old-boys-club

http://skepchick.org/

http://secularwomen.org/

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Is Atheism Just Another Old Boys Club? (Original Post) rug Aug 2013 OP
highly unlikely that atheism is just a bunch of old "boys" nt msongs Aug 2013 #1
For example: okasha Aug 2013 #2
Geez. rug Aug 2013 #3
OMG! What the hell is going on? cbayer Aug 2013 #6
Trolls and assholes, most likely. AtheistCrusader Aug 2013 #16
"self-awareness and paying attention to culture (including one's own) are for PoMos!" MisterP Aug 2013 #28
Interesting article. MADem Aug 2013 #4
I'm willing to give up all my power over what women wear if it will solve this. dimbear Aug 2013 #5
Poppycock. AtheistCrusader Aug 2013 #7
Nice try, but the article is about atheist organizations. rug Aug 2013 #8
"Is Atheism Just Another Old Boys Club?" AtheistCrusader Aug 2013 #9
Well, if you're going to take things literally . . . . rug Aug 2013 #10
It is a grossly misleading headline, and contributes to the general misunderstanding AtheistCrusader Aug 2013 #11
If you say it's only the beginning, you're saying it's not simply nonbelief. rug Aug 2013 #12
More or less, I think my position agrees with Kim, at the end of that article. AtheistCrusader Aug 2013 #13
Only "Old Boys" can not believe in a god? What utter nonsense. cleanhippie Aug 2013 #14
Not surprising. Nor is the denial and dismissal. cbayer Aug 2013 #15
Patriarchy is an ill that needs to be confronted in every context. LostOne4Ever Aug 2013 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author edhopper Aug 2013 #18
No. n.t. Donald Ian Rankin Aug 2013 #19
If you want to take on a real old boys club Goblinmonger Aug 2013 #20
Are you speking to me about my house? rug Aug 2013 #21
Are you under the impression that the RCC isn't an old boys club? Goblinmonger Aug 2013 #22
The RCC isn't my house. rug Aug 2013 #23
And those you post about in the OP are not my house. Goblinmonger Aug 2013 #24
Nobody even mentioned you or your house. rug Aug 2013 #25
Atheism itself is not, but if there is some Atheist Organization there is a chance JI7 Aug 2013 #26
That's an important distinction the headline blurs. rug Aug 2013 #27
The majority of atheists I've known have been women. napoleon_in_rags Aug 2013 #29
i suppose you can make it look that way if you ignore madalyn murray o'hair unblock Aug 2013 #30

dimbear

(6,271 posts)
5. I'm willing to give up all my power over what women wear if it will solve this.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 05:29 PM
Aug 2013

Accommodationist, I suppose.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
7. Poppycock.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 07:38 PM
Aug 2013
“Atheist organizing is no different from other power structures that deeply inform the ways in which women are subjugated — within secular context and within the context of organized religion,”

That's because people are investing more in the idea of Atheism than it represents. Mistaking a reflection of a patriarchal society with 'atheist dogma'.

There isn't any. Atheism is simply the non-belief in supernatural deities. It tells us NOTHING of social structure between men and women. Nothing of gender equality. It doesn't tell me how to wind my watch either.


If you want to address those problems with society, you have to go BEYOND Atheism(TM) into various philosophies. If you take a bunch of old guys in society, convince them that there is no god, they do not suddenly receive the enlightening benefits of believing in or accepting gender equality. Gender inequality/patriarchal society is predicated on a WHOLE LOT MORE than just religion. Something that does not evaporate instantly in the light of reason.

You don't magically cure the baggage of a patriarchal society by simply deciding you don't believe in a supernatural god. It's silly to even expect they would go hand in hand. These are separate and unrelated issues.

And further, if you want to 'enter into atheism with guns blazing' fuck it, you don't need to enter into a social remnant of patriarchy or any other -archy. Form peer bonds with WHOMEVER YOU WANT. You don't need Dawkin's permission to be an atheist. There is no inculcation, no initiation, no dues, no membership in 'Atheism'. You want to lead? LEAD. Take it. It's yours. You cannot BE stopped.
 

rug

(82,333 posts)
8. Nice try, but the article is about atheist organizations.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 07:41 PM
Aug 2013

Do you not believe they exist? There is evidence.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
9. "Is Atheism Just Another Old Boys Club?"
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 07:44 PM
Aug 2013

"Is Atheism Just Another Old Boys Club?"


Nice try? Perhaps you (or the author) should rephrase that as "Are the current populist Atheist organizations just another old boy's club?"

Would have more weight that way, and I would not necessarily voice an objection.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
11. It is a grossly misleading headline, and contributes to the general misunderstanding
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 07:51 PM
Aug 2013

that I perceive growing in society, that 'Atheism(TM)' is some alternate faith based magesteria that replaces religion. It doesn't.

If you take away all the baggage of religion, you are STILL going to have to get off your ass and gin up the philosophical muscles to tackle issues like gender equality/opportunity/sexism, etc.

You still have to tackle EVERY philosophical issue that religion has ever pretended to solve. That takes work. 'I don't believe in god' isn't some intellectual finish line. It's the barest beginning of the task before humanity.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
12. If you say it's only the beginning, you're saying it's not simply nonbelief.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 07:55 PM
Aug 2013

Sexism and all the other isms can be challenged without reference to either theism or atheism.

And I agree the headline sacrificed accuracy for sensation.

AtheistCrusader

(33,982 posts)
13. More or less, I think my position agrees with Kim, at the end of that article.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 08:05 PM
Aug 2013

This is a social ill, that goes quite beyond religion, and to the heart of society. (Though there are some religions that institutionalize sexism as a core bit of the faith itself)

So yes, it's much more than nonbelief. Nonbelief is a Boolean bit; true/false. If false, and you select a particular faith, it will more often than not have associated dogma that already tackles issues like this.

If you select true, then you have an empty sack, from which you have to proceed to additional philosophical venues. Secular Humanism? Naturalistic beliefs? There are a few to choose from, some of which will fill that sack with dogma that answers things like gender equality, some are silent on the matter.

For me, I selected a clean slate, I start with the axiom of self-ownership, which actually tells me everything I need to know about gender equality. Every single individual, irrespective of gender, owns their own voice, their own dreams, their own desires, and their own potential. Proceeding from self-ownership to things like non-aggression, I find that it is wholly inappropriate for me to attempt to hold anyone back from those dreams, aspirations, their voice, etc. It's taken a lot of work, a lot of lifting, a lot of wheel re-inventing, but it is entirely rewarding and worth it for each individual to discover. Discarding the option of religion and prepackaged dogma was just one step on the journey.

I encourage others to look beyond Atheism as a state or a destination. It's much much more, and simultaneously, a lot less, than that.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
15. Not surprising. Nor is the denial and dismissal.
Tue Aug 13, 2013, 10:41 PM
Aug 2013

The good news is that it is being discussed early and in an honest and earnest way by some.

I think there is the chance here that this can be resolved in a way that hasn't happened in a lot of organizations.

That would be good for women and good for organized atheism, imo.

And in the end, good for men.

If leaders within atheist organizations would take a united stand against the incredibly ugly misogyny that is being expressed by what I guess is a small group of people, they could be formidable.

LostOne4Ever

(9,290 posts)
17. Patriarchy is an ill that needs to be confronted in every context.
Wed Aug 14, 2013, 03:16 AM
Aug 2013

It permeates nearly everything in our society. Even when it permeates our own groups we can not let it stand. It is a real problem and we need to listen when we are told about it anywhere. These groups need to listen to these women and address their concerns and fix the issues in their own organization.

That said, atheism is not a religion, movement or organization. All it means is that we do not have any belief in any god(s). There are right wing atheists, and left wing. Some are skeptics and reject any unproven claim, and others who believe in other spiritual assertions...just not in any god(s).

We can form groups around certain issues that affect us, but no group represents all of us. There is no big book of atheism that says thou shall protest the pledge or thou shalt read thine Richard Dawkins.

Similarly, there is nothing that is inherently pro or anti patriarchy or pro or anti feminism about atheism. Nothing.

No where in the big book of atheism does it say Thou shall deny women their reproductive rights, or that shall force women to wear certain clothing, or that women are worth less than men, or any patriarchal bullshit like that. We have no doctrine set up to support or oppose patriarchy. That is up to the individual atheist.

Any issues with patriarchy that a group of atheists or a group devoted to promoting atheism or the rights of atheism has belongs solely to that specific group and its members. The Patriarchy of, lets say, The Ayn Rand Anti-theist Alliance* is in no way related to Secular Humanist United.*

So, no, atheism, itself, is not an old boys club. These groups that are oppressing or being exclusive of women need to be criticized and reform themselves so that women feel welcome and confident that the members realize that they are equals and treat them as such. But again their patriarchy is thier own and comes solely from the individual members of that group.

Patriarchy is not a characteristic of atheism itself.


*These are not real groups. I made them up.

Response to rug (Original post)

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
20. If you want to take on a real old boys club
Thu Aug 15, 2013, 10:50 AM
Aug 2013

You might start with your own house.

But, please, do continue. I appreciate irony.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
22. Are you under the impression that the RCC isn't an old boys club?
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 09:55 AM
Aug 2013

I'll put the "sins" of the RCC in regard to being an old boys club against anything that has happened within the atheist community any day of the week.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
23. The RCC isn't my house.
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 04:54 PM
Aug 2013

You may want to rephrase that.

Besides, arguing which is the bigger pig sty misses the point. You really don't want to measure the pigs proportionately.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
24. And those you post about in the OP are not my house.
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 05:10 PM
Aug 2013

But you certainly use them to make a point about the "rampant" sexism in atheism.

And if you are a member of the RCC and give them your money and/or time, it is your house.

And by that respect, I would have to call the FFRF as my house. Gladly.

It is you that would not want to measure the pigs proportionately. You have the numbers and many more centuries of shit and pretty damn heinous crimes.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
25. Nobody even mentioned you or your house.
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 05:18 PM
Aug 2013

Although that didn't stop you from walking in and making yourself right at home.

How about next time you want to start a fight, you make sure it's about you?

And don't trot out that tired old bullshit about practicing Catholics being enablers of child rape. I can suggest a room where people will high five you for regurgitating that kind of tripe.

If you want truly want to measure the pigs proportionately, there's a very simple logarithm.

JI7

(89,262 posts)
26. Atheism itself is not, but if there is some Atheist Organization there is a chance
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 05:24 PM
Aug 2013

that the organization could be an old boys club.

i'm an atheist and i don't attend any organization or anything having to do with me being atheist.

 

rug

(82,333 posts)
27. That's an important distinction the headline blurs.
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 05:27 PM
Aug 2013

There's a small discussion upthread about that.

napoleon_in_rags

(3,991 posts)
29. The majority of atheists I've known have been women.
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 05:38 PM
Aug 2013

But none of them are "new atheists", the ones going out and talking to people about their atheism.

Honestly though, this reminds of the shortage of women and "sexism" in the science fields. Its being overcome, and the sexism is never overt, its accidental. For instance culturally men have one way of communicating and women another, and scientists used to a male field will have a way of communicating when you know what you're talking about, that women may not have. So it takes a conscious effort to listen really to their different communication style and adapt to it to see if they know what they are talking about, otherwise you risk dismissing an expert because they communicate differently, an act of accidental sexism. Its an example of a good truth: sexism, racism and the rest aren't necessarily conscious decisions, we all have to be mindful of our actions to make sure we're not doing them accidentally.

unblock

(52,309 posts)
30. i suppose you can make it look that way if you ignore madalyn murray o'hair
Fri Aug 16, 2013, 05:46 PM
Aug 2013

she practically *was* the modern atheist movement for decades.

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