Nicholas Coppola: Gay Catholic Parishoner Banned From Church Involvement
Angel Au-Yeung
19 minutes ago
This dissonance between the Roman Catholic hierarchy and its parishioners were made apparent in a recent incident involving a gay Catholic man who, despite finding acceptance from his fellow peers and priest, was nonetheless shunned by those higher in command.
Nicholas Coppola, a parishioner at St. Antonys Roman Catholic Church in Oceanside, New York, was not only actively involved in his church as a religious education instructor, lector, altar, and server he had also been openly gay to his priest and fellow parishioners for years. Many of them supported his relationship and a number of members within the congregation attended his legal wedding on October 27, 2012.
However, the pastor of St. Antony informed him shortly after returning from his honeymoon that his marriage was against church teachings and he could not longer be active in the church.
This episode, while unfortunate, happens all too frequently. In Maryland, a woman was denied communion at her own mothers funeral because she was a lesbian. And in Minnesota, a 17-year old was denied confirmation because he had posted a Facebook photo of himself that showed his support for gay equality.
http://www.policymic.com/articles/32731/nicholas-coppola-gay-catholic-parishoner-banned-from-church-involvement
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)out and gay and that's fine with everybody, denying that that any LGBT members are shunned. They claim 'it is only the hierarchy that is bigoted, and no one listens to them'.
They act as if we live in cloisters and don't know a thing.
It is insulting and it gets old and I wish the ethical people of faith would not keep permitting this bullshit and insist on honesty. Just honesty.
rug
(82,333 posts)For everyone who says it's the hierarchy there's someone who says it's anyone who goes to Mass. The truth is somewhere in between.
I do know that we have a responsibility to oppose these actions when they come up, especially if it's in a church we attend.
mykpart
(3,879 posts)we were married in a civil ceremony only, as I was divorced from my first husband and had not had the marriage annulled. Until then I had been active in my parish also, but was told that people married "outside the Church" could not serve as lectors or educators.
rug
(82,333 posts)The Church considers all sexual activity, straight or gay, that occurs outside a sacramental marriage to be wrong. I suppose you could say it's an odd type of equality.