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Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 11:54 AM Jun 2012

I love a good ghost story

To me they are so much fun. I love to tell them and watch people squirm, wide-eyed and twitchy.

One of my family's favorite past times is to turn on the Travel Channel or Bio and watch the campy ghost shows such as "Ghost Adventurers" or "Celebrity Ghost Stories". The former is just freaking hilarious. Three guys who are locked into a haunted location for a night and every now and then scream, "Dude, I was just touched!" It is rarely scary but often very instructive on the hysteria associated with the experience of seeing ghosts. The latter is just plain fun. You have actors who are natural story tellers relaying their ghostly experience in hushed tones with a few tears thrown in. Interspersed in this re-telling are recreations of the event in question with a load of spooky music. It truly is enough to make you shiver if you allow yourself to move into it for a short period of time and suspend disbelief.

Last week my daughters, my girlfriend and I were watching a particularly fun and silly show called "The Dead Files" in which a physical medium and NYC cop work independently to uncover the strange happenings of a particular location. They come together in the end to "reveal" their findings to the residents and make a determination on what is the cause of the disturbances and what should be done by the family to either live with it or make it go away. The medium is freaky and the cop is a stereotypical NYC detective. Great popcorn eating, clean fun.

At the end of this show we were discussing the claims. My 15 year old - an atheist and skeptic - opined that, while interesting, there are so many opportunities for the producers of the show to help steer the results in a certain direction that it calls into question the veracity of any of the claims. My 13 year old who loves to be chilled and scared commented that it would take a lot to do that to which my 15 year said, "Really? It is quite easy." I, in my spookiest "I love a ghost story" voice said, "One never knows when it comes to the dead!"

We all laughed but the discussion then centered around the question of whether an atheist can be a believer in ghosts. I thought it was a great question that brought up a discussion of what atheism means. Questions that the girls and I explored were:

Does the non-belief in deities also include the automatic non-belief in the super or extra natural?
If not, what is the scientific evidence that supports claims of ghosts?
If this evidence is simply personal experience how is that not the same as evidence of personal experience of a god?
While individual claims are easy to debunk what about mass sightings of the same phenomena?
Is it worthwhile to examine claims of ghosts or is it impossible to study these claims like it is impossible to study the existence of gods?
Why do we like ghost stories? What does this say about our human nature?
What role does the brain play in these experiences?
How does a presupposition of "evil" and "heaven/hell" direct ones supernatural experiences? (notice how demons are mostly experienced on these shows by devout Catholics, for instance)
How does one's cultural background influence one's experience of the supernatural?

I ran across this ThiningAtheist broadcast from a couple of years ago on the subject.

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thethinkingatheist/2010/10/16/can-atheists-believe-in-ghosts

At the end of the night, the girls and I had a wonderful discussion that had them engaged in critical thinking.

Boo!

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I love a good ghost story (Original Post) Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 OP
I love a good ghost story too. Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #1
I have had a few supernatural experiences and I am an atheist. RebelOne Jun 2012 #2
Yep, that gives me chills. Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #4
Odd experience, that Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #6
the handle turned and the door opened. AlbertCat Jun 2012 #24
There was no porch and nothing to jar the door. RebelOne Jun 2012 #37
There was no porch and nothing to jar the door. AlbertCat Jun 2012 #38
Devil's advocate time... Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #7
You do make a point. But Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #10
I'm not ready to make that claim Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #16
My definition of an atheist is one who does not believe in (a) god. djean111 Jun 2012 #12
Can you explain what that experience was like? Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #13
Strange sociological phenomenon: ghosts change over time. dimbear Jun 2012 #3
Interesting observation Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #5
It's strange, but ghosts never seem to come back to tell their relatives that dimbear Jun 2012 #8
Maybe there are rules against that. nt Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #9
Ha...perhaps so Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #15
Break the rules, you are vaporized. Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #18
Duzy! Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #19
Break the rules, you are vaporized. AlbertCat Jun 2012 #25
How the hell do I know Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #29
Who doesn't love a good ghost story? daaron Jun 2012 #11
"We can't be trusted to interpret information when it's at the edge of our senses" Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #14
True - no objective method. daaron Jun 2012 #17
my (somewhat rational) take Shagman Jun 2012 #20
A ghost made me buy beer. OriginalGeek Jun 2012 #21
Good story. JNelson6563 Jun 2012 #33
I'm an agnostic who thinks most "paranormal hunters" are full of shit ... Kennah Jun 2012 #22
A couple things: laconicsax Jun 2012 #23
"Ghosts in another dimension" AlbertCat Jun 2012 #26
I think the experimental theologians have it at 11 dimensions. laconicsax Jun 2012 #28
Body cools over time after death, but whatever energy was in a person is gone immediately Kennah Jun 2012 #31
I think you meant quantum mechanics, not relativity. laconicsax Jun 2012 #32
Ghosts are wishful thinking... cynatnite Jun 2012 #27
Killjoy! nt Curmudgeoness Jun 2012 #30
Agreed Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #34
What would constitute an extra-natural event? FiveGoodMen Jun 2012 #35
Ahhh....good point! Stuckinthebush Jun 2012 #36
One of the best ghost stories ever written. longship Jun 2012 #39

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
1. I love a good ghost story too.
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 01:06 PM
Jun 2012

I love the chills that run up your spine when someone tells you about an experience that cannot be explained.

With that said, just because it can't be explained doesn't make it true. I believe that our minds will work overtime when other people put suggestions in our minds. I remember when I was a teenager, several of us went to a supposed haunted road with someone who was an expert in the area of spirits and ghosts. There was supposed to be a ghost of a woman with a light who roamed this old road. All of a sudden, someone said they saw a light moving toward us. We all started staring at this light, and sure enough, it was appearing to move closer. I stared and stared, and realized that it was a distant streetlight or other fixed light and that it just looked like it was moving closer because we were concentrating so hard on it. I still laugh all these years later at the expert who said that my spiritual power was so strong that I chased ghosts away, which is why I have never seen or felt a ghost....it seems that I scare the shit out of ghosts. Pretty strong medicine, if you ask me. Or it could be that I will not join in on group hysteria.

So my answer is, an atheist cannot believe in ghost. If there is no afterlife, and there is no soul that lives on after we die, there can be no ghosts. But I still love a good ghost story.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
2. I have had a few supernatural experiences and I am an atheist.
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 01:43 PM
Jun 2012

And there was no explanation for them. For instance, dreams that occurred days later. And one day I went to my mother's house and when I went to open the front door, the handle turned and the door opened. It was not my mother because she was asleep on the couch in the Florida room in the back of the house. And the dog did not know how to open the door. But despite these happenings, I am still a diehard atheist.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
4. Yep, that gives me chills.
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 03:29 PM
Jun 2012

Like I said, I love a good ghost story. I guess that I can't relate to how it would feel or what I would think if anything supernatural ever happened to me. Nothing has. Not even dreams that came true.

I do remember being told once by a cop about that "sixth sense" that people believe that they have because of how they avoided disaster. This cop told me that we have the ability to see so many things that our conscious brain does not register. But we still see things. Imagine that you pull up to a convenience store and you have this strange feeling of foreboding...for no apparent reason. But what really happened is that "something" wasn't right...like there is another car there, and there is no one in the store where you can see---no clerk at the cash register, no customer. Your instincts have kicked in. Your unconscious mind has gathered all this information and registered it as off. So you get this feeling that something isn't right, but you are not thinking this. You just get the feeling that you should just drive away. The point of the story was that if you feel that way, do drive away. There may be something to it that you are not paying attention to. I took from it that it is not supernatural or clairvoyant, it is just your subconscience....but imagine how the believers would go on and on about god protecting them or how spiritualists will say that they have special powers.

It's science.

But your stories are strange occurences.

Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
6. Odd experience, that
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 03:37 PM
Jun 2012

My mother had an experience recently where she began falling backward in her room due to being off balance. She said "something" caught her in mid air and swung her around so she gently fell on the bed.

I can explain this away but it certainly is strange.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
24. the handle turned and the door opened.
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 02:34 PM
Jun 2012

Rather than jump to the default supernatural explanations.... there are many simpler ones.

Like the door was not latched all the way and your walking on the porch jared it enough to pen the latch... and the nob turned in the process. This and a combination of remembering it inaccurately seem fine explanations to me.

I love a good ghost story too... but because I make period costumes, I prefer the ones with women in hoop skirts and that sorta thing... a good Gothic tale...

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
37. There was no porch and nothing to jar the door.
Thu Jun 21, 2012, 01:04 PM
Jun 2012

How do you explain that the handle turned on its own?

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
38. There was no porch and nothing to jar the door.
Sat Jun 23, 2012, 11:34 AM
Jun 2012

How do you know there's nothing to jar the door? It has a latch doesn't it? Y'know a little metal thing that fits into a hole in the door jam?

Your presence in front of the door might have been enough to change the situation and move the door. Every time the AC comes on in my house, my room door closes. I don't think it's ghosts.

And that little metal thing is attached to the door nob. If you push it the knob will turn (on some doors).

But even if all these things are not part of your scenario, it wasn't a supernatural event.

Y'know... every time one remembers something, what you are remembering is NOT the event, but the last memory you had of the event. Brains are messy and not 100% efficient. Remembering the memory is like what we used to call "Chinese Telephone" (I know, very un-pc). One adds and subtracts and twists details. That's why farther away from the actual even, memories get muddled. Your brain actually "throws out" details it deems unimportant... emphasizes things you like or want to believe. This happens to everyone.

Remain skeptical!

Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
7. Devil's advocate time...
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 03:49 PM
Jun 2012
I like that term in this discussion - devil's advocate!

One might retort that an afterlife could be reality without the existence of gods. Why would a god be necessary for the continual existence of one's self-energy (I know - that sounds woohooey!)?

Or, perhaps "ghosts" are not extant energy but atmospheric replaying of events. Of course, I have no idea what the physical mechanism of such replaying of these events would be, but it could be an explanation without the need for a god.

Do we need a specification of what is not believed? A-theism, A-spiritualism, A-woohooism. Does Atheism naturally encompass all of these non-beliefs under one big umbrella of rationalism?

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
10. You do make a point. But
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 05:45 PM
Jun 2012

if I were to believe in ghosts and a continuation of my personal energy/being, it would not be a far stretch to just assume that there is also a god. I guess that I am just a non-believer, period. If it cannot be proven or repeatedly shown to be true, I am not going to believe it in. Maybe one day, there will be a way to prove the existence of ghosts, or god, and I will then change my opinion on it. Until then, I am anti-woohooism in all it's forms.

So are you saying that you may believe in ghosts, but not god?

Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
16. I'm not ready to make that claim
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 06:42 PM
Jun 2012

While I love the stories and the chills, my rational mind kicks in during the light of day and has a hard time explaining the physical mechanism required to be a ghost.

But, I have seen things and experienced things. That just makes me human, though. Perfectly imperfect as a measuring device.

When would I be ready to make that claim? Outside of some ghost measuring device (highly unlikely), my personal experience is the only thing that I can rely on. So, if I experienced an apparition in the presence of other skeptics for a long enough period of time to be able to later investigate all natural explanations, and those explanations were all ruled out, then maybe....just maybe...I'd start wondering.

 

djean111

(14,255 posts)
12. My definition of an atheist is one who does not believe in (a) god.
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 06:07 PM
Jun 2012

I am an atheist, I had an NDE, I believe there is something after this, but the experience was completely and totally not religious.
Not fond of the word "ghosts", though, prefer spirits or whatever.
I do love a ghost story!

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
13. Can you explain what that experience was like?
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 06:31 PM
Jun 2012

NDE are as interesting as "ghost" stories.

I will state that I do not believe in anything after this life, but I can be swayed by evidence. If I remember correctly, the last theories regarding NDE's is that it is a reaction to the brain shutting down due to lack of oxygen and syapses out of control. But I still like to hear more details about things that I cannot explain away.

dimbear

(6,271 posts)
3. Strange sociological phenomenon: ghosts change over time.
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 03:08 PM
Jun 2012

In the old days they often used to speak, and reinforce mostly Catholic theological ideas.

Nowadays they're just scary.



Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
5. Interesting observation
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 03:34 PM
Jun 2012

Yes, I find that many ghost stories still do reinforce Catholic or fundamentalist christian ideas. I haven't looked into the history of ghosts in cultures other than European/North American. For instance, what does an Indian ghost story look like - or a Japanese story? What are the connections between these stories and their unique cultural experiences?

dimbear

(6,271 posts)
8. It's strange, but ghosts never seem to come back to tell their relatives that
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 03:52 PM
Jun 2012

the national religion is all wrong. Somewhere that would have to be the case........ most places that would have to be the case........

Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
15. Ha...perhaps so
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 06:37 PM
Jun 2012

But were I a ghost, I'd bet I'd not be a rule follower. I don't do it too well in the physical realm. Why start in the spirit?

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
25. Break the rules, you are vaporized.
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 02:58 PM
Jun 2012

Haha!

Aren't they already vapor?... ectoplasmic vapor?

What rules? I love in, like, movies....

In that sappy tearjerker "Ghost", Patrick Swayze's ghost runs up the stairs and reaches for the doorknob to open it only to find out, alas! he cannot "react" with matter... his hand goes thru the doorknob. But wait! How then did he run up the stairs? Why don't his feet go thru the stairs? How for that matter does he stand on the ground? Why doesn't he go thru the Earth as it hurtles thru space, leaving him behind....?

It's all so "don't think it thru".

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
29. How the hell do I know
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 06:38 PM
Jun 2012

what the rules are? I have been mistaken for a lot of things (and some things that are no mistake), but I have never been called a "ghost". I don't know what the rules are, but I bet there are rules. Seems to me that in the movie Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice had to tell the "new" ghost couple all the rules. Too bad I don't remember what they were.

Hmmmm, I think I'd like to listen to The Banana Boat Song now.

 

daaron

(763 posts)
11. Who doesn't love a good ghost story?
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 06:02 PM
Jun 2012

I've had a couple otherworldly experiences - they're fun to think about, but I don't take them seriously. We can't be trusted to interpret information when it's at the edge of our senses. Our minds tend to fill in the blanks with the most handy invention - often faces, since our brains are wired from birth to recognize them. Throw in some creepy coincidences, and it's a recipe for a ghost.

As for the more serious question of whether or not atheists eschew all belief in the supernatural - most that I've spoken with are die-hard skeptics as well as atheists, so yes. That said, there's nothing in the word "atheist" that specifically rules out the supernatural - it just rules out the belief in "theos" - deity, as it were. If there were some way to decouple the afterlife from ghosts, it wouldn't seem as irrational for an atheist to believe in ghosts. Wouldn't SEEM as irrational, mind you.

Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
14. "We can't be trusted to interpret information when it's at the edge of our senses"
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 06:36 PM
Jun 2012

Indeed, sir. Indeed!

That's just it, isn't it? There is absolutely no objective method to examine the claims of the supernatural. Unless, of course, you use one of those ghost boxes that the ghost adventurer guys love to use

 

daaron

(763 posts)
17. True - no objective method.
Sat Jun 16, 2012, 06:58 PM
Jun 2012

In which case, I tend to default, a'la David Hume, to the most commonsense, least miraculous explanation.

Shagman

(135 posts)
20. my (somewhat rational) take
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 01:10 PM
Jun 2012

A belief in the supernatural doesn't preclude disbelief in the unnatural. Religion posits some entity from outside nature, while a ghost is by definition linked to nature.

To believe in ghosts, I think you have to believe that science has not yet reached the point where it can produce suitable evidence. Simply dismissing everything for lack of evidence means you don't understand the nature of science. We don't (and can't) know everything.

Can't help you with subjective experience. There's no irrefutable evidence either way for ghosts or gods. People who have religious experiences are sure that something happened, but who's to say they didn't interpret an event outside their understanding by cloaking it in their cultural memes?

It's one thing to see a ghost when you know it might appear. It's another thing entirely to see a ghost, where others have seen it, when you don't know anything ahead of time. That's the best evidence for their objective existence.

We are curious creatures, we humans. Someone will examine anything we don't understand. If you learn something, you can count it a successful effort, even if you didn't confirm your original hypothesis.

We are drawn to ghosts because they confirm a possibility that we want desperately to be true, that all religions promise--there is (or can be) another existence after this one.

out of time ...

OriginalGeek

(12,132 posts)
21. A ghost made me buy beer.
Mon Jun 18, 2012, 01:52 PM
Jun 2012

Some background: My boss and I are pretty close - we socialize outside of work and we know some of each others extended families - including his father in law. One of the things we do is play on-line RPGs and one of the guys we play with is a life-long friend of my bosses FIL.

This guy is pretty old and in poor health so online games are one of his outlets.

Now I have posted in the lounge about my father's day gifts from my daughter - she took me out for sushi and on the way home we stopped at the grocery store and she bought me a 12 pack of beer.

In all my beer drinking history I have never bought Yuengling Black and Tans. I've had gallons of regular Yuengling but never the Black And Tan. Old Timer was always talking about how much he loved YB&T - it's about the only thing he drinks (maybe another reason for his poor health) - we had many late night gaming sessions, each of us getting stupider as the night wore on but we were both safely in our homes so it was just all good fun.

It's been several months since we last played any games online though because he had been in poor health and I guess just not up to it.

So my daughter and I are in the beer aisle and for no reason other than I suddenly thought of Old Timer I decided to get the Black and Tans.

I get into work this morning and I found out that my boss wasn't in today because he's with his family - Old Timer had passed away.

Now i know I just saw the B&T on the shelf and thought of Old Timer but man, I bet I could pretty easily spin it the other way way around. Old Timer wants me to carry on the tradition of gaming on Black And Tans.

Here's to you, Old Timer. You were a good guy.

Kennah

(14,336 posts)
22. I'm an agnostic who thinks most "paranormal hunters" are full of shit ...
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 02:31 AM
Jun 2012

... but I have had experiences that lead me to believe ghosts are real.

From a scientific view, because energy is neither created nor destroyed, the idea of a ghost does make a lot of sense. When a person dies, that energy goes somewhere.

Dr. Michio Kaku in "Physics of the Impossible" leads one to believe the idea of ghosts in another dimension may have scientific standing.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
23. A couple things:
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 03:42 AM
Jun 2012

When a person dies, their "energy" is released as heat.

"Ghosts in another dimension" has no scientific standing as it is, at best, speculative.

 

AlbertCat

(17,505 posts)
26. "Ghosts in another dimension"
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 03:05 PM
Jun 2012

Yeah right.... maybe in one of the 26 dimensions (or is it 10?) needed for String Theory.... so ghosts are curled up too small to perceive.


or something....

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
28. I think the experimental theologians have it at 11 dimensions.
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 04:25 PM
Jun 2012

At least that's what magic theory says.

Kennah

(14,336 posts)
31. Body cools over time after death, but whatever energy was in a person is gone immediately
Wed Jun 20, 2012, 04:27 AM
Jun 2012

Spooky stuff in relativity bends the brain, and speculative science beats speculative religion in my book.

Mostly, I find the idea of ghosts, Bigfoot, alien visitors, and the like to be fun to speculate over.

 

laconicsax

(14,860 posts)
32. I think you meant quantum mechanics, not relativity.
Wed Jun 20, 2012, 04:48 AM
Jun 2012

Neither special nor general relativity are particularly spooky. I suppose the physical effects of velocity and mass are a bit trippy but spooky?

Quantum mechanics...that's another story. It starts out spooky and only gets more bizarre the more you learn. For example: a positron is indistinguishable from an electron traveling backwards in time, photons are their own antiparticles, there's nothing really prohibiting any given proton in your body from being in your body at the start of this sentence, on the other side of the universe in the middle, and back where it started at the end.

cynatnite

(31,011 posts)
27. Ghosts are wishful thinking...
Tue Jun 19, 2012, 03:19 PM
Jun 2012

When we die, our bodies stop operating. The heart stops beating, the lungs stop breathing, the blood stops circulating. Our brain activity ceases.

It's a romantic idea to believe that some part of us continues on after we die. Death is a scary thing. When you contemplate the very notion that when you die, you cease to exist, it can be a paralyzing fear for many people. We don't want our lives to end. No one does. Nature dictates that we die...all things die.

We fight against this so much that we're willing to put all reason aside in hopes that some small part of us will continue to exist. We see what we want to see. It's no different than Christians who see the unusual and claim that it's divine.

This hope is so strong that we have willed our minds to see what we want to see. It's understandable that we want some form of afterlife, but it's not realistic.

Stuckinthebush

(10,847 posts)
34. Agreed
Wed Jun 20, 2012, 04:14 PM
Jun 2012

But.....

How do we explain that ghost cat that my mother and father always see at their house? It always jumps from the floor to the table and then disappears. More than one person has seen it at a time.

Of course we can explain it away, but is there a possibility that we aren't talking about an actual sentient soul but a recreation of events somehow recorded for playback? Is that physically possible?

The underlying question, however, is can an atheist (one who doesn't believe in gods) still believe in extra-natural events? Is atheism necessarily synonymous with rationalism?

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
35. What would constitute an extra-natural event?
Wed Jun 20, 2012, 04:33 PM
Jun 2012

If there was no god but ghosts existed, wouldn't those ghosts just be a part of nature that we haven't understood yet?

longship

(40,416 posts)
39. One of the best ghost stories ever written.
Thu Jun 28, 2012, 02:08 AM
Jun 2012
Shirley Jackson's The Haunting of Hill House is probably one of the best of the genre.

I came onto the little gem when I was in the 9th grade and the wonderful Robert Wise directed version of Jackson's novel was released in celluloid, entitled simply The Haunting. One of my friends and I got together and saw it. Leaving the theater I remember riding home on by bike after dark I was scared shitless.

I soon got the novel from the library and gobbled it up -- one of the best reads ever of this genre. The 1963 version of the movie honors Jackson's book. It is a nearly flawless flick.

I highly recommend either of these as a near best of genre ghost story.

N.B., Please avoid, at all costs the insipid, iconic Hollywood remake, Jon de Bont's 1999 version. It turns Jackson's into a cartoon, substituting creepy situations for startling and blood, neither of which happens in the novel nor Wise's 1963 version of the movie.

Best ghost story I ever read and one of the best ghost films ever produced.
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