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hertopos

(833 posts)
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:34 PM May 2016

As a Hillary supporter, I ask for civility

Dear Sanders supporters and Hillary supporters,

I respect Senator Sanders.
I also respect his decision to contest the nomination at the convention.
I respect his political belief and personal values.
I also respect some Sanders supporters decision not to vote for Hillary.
I agree that it is mathematically still possible (but not probable ) for Sander's to win the nomination.

In return, please be civil.

I joined DU a little after 9-11 and stolen election.
Until I left DU in 2008, our enemy was Freepers and GOP.

Around the time of 2008, I got an impression that SM based uncivil language started.

I was actually shocked today, someone posted #DropoutHillary tweets.

Please do not turn DU into High-school bully SM.

Clinton campaign also showed the respect for Sanders Campaign.

http://www.cnn.com/2016/05/05/politics/hillary-clinton-bernie-sanders-exit-race/


It really saddens old Asian lady's heart to see DU becoming so vulgar and hateful.

hertopos

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As a Hillary supporter, I ask for civility (Original Post) hertopos May 2016 OP
There is a reason for the season and it's factual. This is a different type of election from bkkyosemite May 2016 #1
Incoming. auntpurl May 2016 #2
Classic example of the lack of civility. n/t demmiblue May 2016 #7
Way to prove the OP's point....... Amaril May 2016 #31
Whee! bvf May 2016 #41
Respect is EARNED. basselope May 2016 #3
Respect to other posters on DU, however, is part of our Community Standards. moriah May 2016 #5
+1 BootinUp May 2016 #8
Disagreeing with someone's opinion is not disrespect. basselope May 2016 #24
That's fine. And I wasn't saying that the post in question was a personal attack. moriah May 2016 #40
The post in question was about respecting the CANDIDATE. basselope May 2016 #43
And I was pleading for the real civility we could all use. moriah May 2016 #44
Unfortunately, we have too much civility. basselope May 2016 #45
Considering you have four posts hidden and only registered in January. moriah May 2016 #46
Sorry, the truth hurts. basselope May 2016 #47
The bubble that people who are supposed to be Democrats/Progressives can behave... moriah May 2016 #48
I am not a democrat. I am independent. basselope May 2016 #49
From the forum's TOS: moriah May 2016 #50
There are many alternatives JPR for one basselope May 2016 #53
Had to Google to even know what that was. moriah May 2016 #57
So you will be voting in such a way to help Drumpf, sounds like to me Jackie Wilson Said May 2016 #51
I won't be voting Republican basselope May 2016 #54
Why are you in a community of liberals. Jackie Wilson Said May 2016 #55
Because I am for Bernie Sanders basselope May 2016 #56
Nice post, but too many here hold too much anger. Nt Logical May 2016 #4
I consider Hillary supporters to be my political opponents. Maedhros May 2016 #6
Likewise. I need to be more civil...but they ARE (political) enemies. Lizzie Poppet May 2016 #12
There will always be a bit of figurative bare-knuckled brawling during primary season... Maedhros May 2016 #23
Then, frankly, I think you're on the wrong website. LisaM May 2016 #28
I would say the same for anyone who condones the Iraq War, the TPP, the Libyan intervention, Maedhros May 2016 #32
Well, you've got the talking points down, that's for sure. LisaM May 2016 #36
I'm sure I did. And they are talking points for a reason. Maedhros May 2016 #42
Promoting civility is worth the rec. nt BootinUp May 2016 #9
You can't civilize trolls and bots Pisces May 2016 #10
^^^^^^^^^^^ Amen! ^^^^^^^^^^^ pdsimdars May 2016 #17
I've gone from advocating unity to realizing the vast majority of the Hillary camp is my enemy. VulgarPoet May 2016 #11
When the Clintons control your party BernieforPres2016 May 2016 #13
Welcome to the internet nt firebrand80 May 2016 #14
I agree although I don't think it will happen till June jzodda May 2016 #15
Interesting idea but backwards. . . .if Hillary dropped out, it would all stop. pdsimdars May 2016 #18
What are the chances of that? jzodda May 2016 #19
And that is what dropoutHillary is all about. She is being jwirr May 2016 #33
You make some good points jzodda May 2016 #59
Karma, you reap what you sow. Hillary has been liying, smearing and swift boating Bernie pdsimdars May 2016 #16
.+1 840high May 2016 #20
SM ieoeja May 2016 #21
They spent months calling me racist and sexist. ieoeja May 2016 #22
They sow the wind and reap the whirlwind. DookDook May 2016 #25
I think we Hillary supporters have been mostly civil toward BS supporters. But please, don't ask us Jitter65 May 2016 #26
;) saddens me to.. Debating is a necessary evil in order to get to the truth, ignoring the AuntPatsy May 2016 #27
"In all matters of opinion our adversaries are insane." - Mark Twain EndElectoral May 2016 #29
We didn't start the fire tularetom May 2016 #30
Thank you pmorlan1 May 2016 #34
I am bitting my tongue more often. hrmjustin May 2016 #35
I tend to ask for the same. Xyzse May 2016 #37
The Clinton campaign showed "respect" for the Sanders campaign? Betty Karlson May 2016 #38
Almost a year ago this OP was posted. Puglover May 2016 #60
I tried posting in the Hillary group. hellofromreddit May 2016 #39
I respect you, but let's get real. 99Forever May 2016 #52
I’m fine… CobaltBlue May 2016 #58
Respectfully, many of her biggest boosters here have 13, 14, 15, 16 posts hidden. closeupready May 2016 #61
I can not speak on others PowerToThePeople May 2016 #62

bkkyosemite

(5,792 posts)
1. There is a reason for the season and it's factual. This is a different type of election from
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:37 PM
May 2016

previous because an honest person is running against an dishonest person. I suppose that is why all the comments.

auntpurl

(4,311 posts)
2. Incoming.
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:39 PM
May 2016

You're about to get shellacked. The anger of some Bernie supporters is off the charts. Judging by what they post here, they hate Hillary more than they hate Trump. Think about THAT.

 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
3. Respect is EARNED.
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:40 PM
May 2016

I don't respect people who are for war.

I don't respect people who are so easily bought/sold.

I don't respect people who will do/say anything to get elected with no plans to follow through.

I don't respect people who try and hide behind their gender to cover up their flaws.

I don't think she has earned a morsel of respect.

I am being very civil by simply saying she doesn't deserve respect, far more civil than she was when she twice plunged the middle east into chaos.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
5. Respect to other posters on DU, however, is part of our Community Standards.
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:44 PM
May 2016

Even if lately enforcement of those standards has gone to hell during primary season.

 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
24. Disagreeing with someone's opinion is not disrespect.
Thu May 5, 2016, 02:48 PM
May 2016

If you don't wish to be contradicted... don't post.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
40. That's fine. And I wasn't saying that the post in question was a personal attack.
Thu May 5, 2016, 04:45 PM
May 2016

I recognized you were referring mainly to people's references/opinions about candidates.

That's why I said that respect towards other users, in the form of CIVIL disagreement if that wasn't clear, was the original Community Standard, and is still, at least in writing, is part of the Community Standards people are supposed to read.

Not ad-hominem. Not personal attacks against another user. Not accusing people who dare to have the audacity to express their opinions of being shills, bros, bots, or any form of disruptor -- you can email a member of MIR you know and let them know if you really think that's what's happening, but otherwise if that's the best argument you've got maybe it's time to move to the next post or next thread.

 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
43. The post in question was about respecting the CANDIDATE.
Thu May 5, 2016, 05:10 PM
May 2016

Who must EARN respect.. a respect which has not been earned.

 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
45. Unfortunately, we have too much civility.
Thu May 5, 2016, 05:24 PM
May 2016

Civility is what is about to allow the democrats to put an unelectable candidate at the top of their ticket and create President Trump b/c too many people (including Bernie) have wanted to be civil and not call out liars, shills and people who are just plain willfully ignoring facts.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
46. Considering you have four posts hidden and only registered in January.
Thu May 5, 2016, 06:38 PM
May 2016

... I sadly must take your opinions on DU's past traditions of civility towards each other with a grain of salt.

For the rules in place in 2008, here's a blast from the past.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/12511883321

 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
47. Sorry, the truth hurts.
Thu May 5, 2016, 06:51 PM
May 2016

I know you all like to hide in your bubble safe from contradiction and facts.

But, you are about to elect donald trump as president, so it is time to wake up.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
48. The bubble that people who are supposed to be Democrats/Progressives can behave...
Thu May 5, 2016, 06:57 PM
May 2016

... better, at least towards each other, than the Rethugligans did in their food fights.... er, debates?

I know they CAN. The trouble is, people aren't. On both sides, not just against any one candidate.

 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
49. I am not a democrat. I am independent.
Thu May 5, 2016, 07:19 PM
May 2016

I put as much faith in political parties as I do religions

And I have as much respect for people who adhere to political parties as I do those who preach religion.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
50. From the forum's TOS:
Thu May 5, 2016, 07:36 PM
May 2016
Democratic Underground is an online community for politically liberal people who understand the importance of working within the system to elect more Democrats and fewer Republicans to all levels of political office.


You might be in tbe wrong forum. However, there is an alternative!

Discussionist.com
 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
53. There are many alternatives JPR for one
Thu May 5, 2016, 07:42 PM
May 2016

And I plan to go there if this party makes the mistakes of picking an unelectable candidate.

moriah

(8,311 posts)
57. Had to Google to even know what that was.
Thu May 5, 2016, 08:00 PM
May 2016

Now, just so you understand, a lot of the reason I am pissed off about how DU's civility standards have fallen is that someone accused me. a DUer for eight years and without a single hide or removed post ever, of making my posts on some asigned "shift", and spoke of alleged websites where people are voluntarily doing just that.

All for having the farking audacity to state my opinion, because it was pro-Hillary.

I've been here long enough to not have to deal with that shit, but truthfully no one should. Yet here you are, on this forum called Democratic Underground, saying you're not a Democrat, saying you're an independent, saying you have no concept of party unity, referencing forums by acronym like the ones that spawned the hideous PUMA idiots in 2008.

And I'm the one accused of shilling or otherwise disrupting for stating my opinion.

 

basselope

(2,565 posts)
56. Because I am for Bernie Sanders
Thu May 5, 2016, 07:46 PM
May 2016

Which is the choice of the majority of this community.

If this community lurches to the right by choosing Clinton, I will not longer be part of this community and vote for a liberal.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
6. I consider Hillary supporters to be my political opponents.
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:45 PM
May 2016

They are, after all, condoning so many of the horrible things liberals have been fighting against for decades.

I will try to be civil, but I won't pull punches.

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
12. Likewise. I need to be more civil...but they ARE (political) enemies.
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:53 PM
May 2016

They're supporting a candidate who stands against a number of things I consider essential for the nation's future. I should probably be less of a raging bitch to (most of) them, but I hold rather passionate views on these matters. Shit happens...

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
23. There will always be a bit of figurative bare-knuckled brawling during primary season...
Thu May 5, 2016, 02:44 PM
May 2016

I'm going to try and unwind with some Western Swing and Podnah's barbecue on Saturday.

LisaM

(27,828 posts)
28. Then, frankly, I think you're on the wrong website.
Thu May 5, 2016, 02:51 PM
May 2016

This is a website for Democrats, and if you think people like me who have been Democrats their whole lives and worked on a ton of campaigns is your enemy, then I just don't think you're in the right place.

 

Maedhros

(10,007 posts)
32. I would say the same for anyone who condones the Iraq War, the TPP, the Libyan intervention,
Thu May 5, 2016, 03:20 PM
May 2016

the coup in Honduras, the private prison industry, corporate financing of candidates, and Henry Kissinger as a mentor.

VulgarPoet

(2,872 posts)
11. I've gone from advocating unity to realizing the vast majority of the Hillary camp is my enemy.
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:51 PM
May 2016

Respect is earned, and too many have lost said respect for advocating the continued destruction of our Earth, and the continued needless deaths of our service members. I cannot be civil towards people who would use me as a pawn for neo-colonial interventionism. Not anymore.

ETA: You can't watch people get slandered as everything from hardcore communists to tea partiers, and then ask those same people for civility towards their attackers.

BernieforPres2016

(3,017 posts)
13. When the Clintons control your party
Thu May 5, 2016, 12:57 PM
May 2016

Vulgar and hateful unfortunately become part of the landscape. If Hillary wanted it to be otherwise she wouldn't hire people like Sid Blumenthal and David Brock.

jzodda

(2,124 posts)
15. I agree although I don't think it will happen till June
Thu May 5, 2016, 01:06 PM
May 2016

If Bernie drops out it may be less heated here but until then I doubt it.

Many of his supporters feel the system is corrupt and that somehow Bernie is getting robbed and so they are getting robbed as well.

I don't agree but it is what it is. I still Rec for you

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
33. And that is what dropoutHillary is all about. She is being
Thu May 5, 2016, 03:23 PM
May 2016

investigated by the FBI and no one knows when that will end in a decision. So we are supposed to set here and support her nomination with no verdict in this case? Maybe this is why we have never had a candidate in history that was indicted running in an election.

She is not liked and she has won by getting a lot of her votes from states that will never go for a Democratic candidate in the GE (southern states).

So we are supposed to let the Super-Delegates side with a person who is not doing as well as it looks? If this was all turned around and it was Bernie being investigated who would not drop out until it was too late to pick an honest candidate how would you feel? In fact a lot of Hillary's supporters are already calling for him to drop out.

I don't think you can assume that this hashtag issue is not a legitimate campaign to get Hillary to recognize her vulnerability in the election before we enter the GE with a candidate who cannot finish it out.

jzodda

(2,124 posts)
59. You make some good points
Fri May 6, 2016, 09:51 AM
May 2016

I have been a luke warm Clinton supporter. The stuff you mentioned has turned from a whisper to a louder sound in my head.

In any event if Bernie was nominated I would fight hard for him.

 

pdsimdars

(6,007 posts)
16. Karma, you reap what you sow. Hillary has been liying, smearing and swift boating Bernie
Thu May 5, 2016, 02:09 PM
May 2016

the whole campaign. . . and then you turn around from stabbing him in the back and want peace.
Let's see the Clinton campaign stop with the lies and smears and the DUers here stop the constant harassment and condescension. If you do that, I think you'd find things turn around all by themselves. You reap what you sow. If you don't like it, change your ways. Period!

 

ieoeja

(9,748 posts)
22. They spent months calling me racist and sexist.
Thu May 5, 2016, 02:42 PM
May 2016

And you want me to play nice with those assholes?

Ain't gonna happen. That bridge done been burnt.


 

Jitter65

(3,089 posts)
26. I think we Hillary supporters have been mostly civil toward BS supporters. But please, don't ask us
Thu May 5, 2016, 02:49 PM
May 2016

to just sit by and allow continual untruths, misinformation, and nasty trashing of our candidate to go unchallenged. We will not!!

AuntPatsy

(9,904 posts)
27. ;) saddens me to.. Debating is a necessary evil in order to get to the truth, ignoring the
Thu May 5, 2016, 02:51 PM
May 2016

truth is where we are becoming them.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
30. We didn't start the fire
Thu May 5, 2016, 03:11 PM
May 2016

I was going to write a song parody listing every nasty stunt the Clintons have pulled in the last 25 years but there were so many I couldn't remember all of them and I wanted to make certain I had them in chronological order. So the project will have to go on the back burner for now, but I felt the title was an appropriate response to your OP.

pmorlan1

(2,096 posts)
34. Thank you
Thu May 5, 2016, 03:28 PM
May 2016

for the effort hertopos. Lately I've done far more reading here than posting so I can avoid being attacked (I'm sure others are doing the same). The other day I posted a news report about Sanders visit to my state and some person who also lives in my state felt the need to jump into the thread and make disparaging remarks. They kept trying to get me and others to fight with them. It was the strangest encounter I've had yet. They were just spoiling for a fight over nothing. I hadn't criticized their candidate and didn't even mention Sec. Clinton except at the end of the thread while talking with a Sanders supporter. I said I thought she would probably win my state because it was a closed primary.

Going forward I'm just not going to respond to people like that PERIOD. Trying to reason with them does no good and only invites more insults from them. Whatever you say they twist it around to attack you. Sadly there are people like that in both camps. I don't know if they are trolls or just very unhappy people who are lashing out at others? But life is far too short to waste on feuding with anonymous people on the internet who are full of themselves.

Xyzse

(8,217 posts)
37. I tend to ask for the same.
Thu May 5, 2016, 04:29 PM
May 2016

Dear Hertopos,

I really wish this post was placed back then when Clinton supporters immediately attacked Sanders calling for him to leave the race, after the first day of actual primary voting.

I tend to find the #DropoutHillary tweets to be vulgar and childish, though I also acknowledge that it is in direct relation to the point I have placed prior. I mean it has been quite a while since they have started the operation drop out Bernie. I have noted the tone is different.

Neither side is innocent in terms of being vulgar and hateful. It is why I tend to concentrate on what the campaigns themselves do rather than their supporters.

Unfortunately, I also find that those that say they are being civil tend to not see how offensive they are being. As such, it is best to look at the person in the mirror.

 

Betty Karlson

(7,231 posts)
38. The Clinton campaign showed "respect" for the Sanders campaign?
Thu May 5, 2016, 04:41 PM
May 2016

So all those accusations and intimations, that his supporters were racists, sexists, complacent millennials, negligeable keyboard-warriors, hellbound sluts (as per Madelein Albright and Gloria Steinem) lusting for those mythical "Berniebros", f*cking retarded pony-wanters who want to ride unicorns or vice-versa, spiteful RW conspiracy parts who want free stuff:

al that didn't happen? That wasn't vulgar and hateful? That was a token of respect?

I can't speak for the sadness in your heart, dear old Asian lady. But methinks your judgement and / or memory are cause for greater concerns.

 

hellofromreddit

(1,182 posts)
39. I tried posting in the Hillary group.
Thu May 5, 2016, 04:42 PM
May 2016

I got a big bunch of "fuck you," "you don't belong," and "go away."

This place is full of OPs attacking Sanders voters--not Sanders himself, just voters. Usually directly, sometimes by insinuaton. Here are a few examples: http://www.democraticunderground.com/12511906657 http://www.democraticunderground.com/12511748904 http://www.democraticunderground.com/12511626320 http://www.democraticunderground.com/12511906230 I could provide plenty more from my trash can. Then you have, of course, the relentless smug comments that Sanders voters are too stupid to understand math, aren't real democrats, and have no business even being here.

I get that a lot of anger is directed at Clinton and the DNC with the posts around here, but those are people actually in positions of power--they're the ones we're supposed to direct our anger at when things are wrong. Things are very obviously wrong when we can't feed all the kids but we can send them to prison for life. And I'm perfectly fine with anger directed at Sanders since he's also in a position of power.

But attacks against voters are beyond the pale and create the majority of conflict around here, and almost all of them come from a small gang out of the HRC group. If you want to make some real headway in your appeal for peace, you'll probably make more headway by starting over there.

99Forever

(14,524 posts)
52. I respect you, but let's get real.
Thu May 5, 2016, 07:41 PM
May 2016

Almost none of your compatriots will act as you propose. Unilateral disarmament is for fools and the vanquished. I am neither.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
61. Respectfully, many of her biggest boosters here have 13, 14, 15, 16 posts hidden.
Fri May 6, 2016, 10:01 AM
May 2016

AND they are still posting.

THAT ought to speak volumes to EVERYONE here on DU.

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
62. I can not speak on others
Fri May 6, 2016, 10:07 AM
May 2016

But I try to be civil until someone is uncivil towards me, typically multiple times.

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