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MineralMan

(146,318 posts)
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:14 PM May 2016

Most people nostalgic for the 50s

weren't alive then. I was. It was OK for some white men, but for nobody else. I remember the period well.

Ethnic minorities had few real rights.
Women had few real rights.
Rapists went unpunished while their victims were shamed.
Contraception was illegal in many jurisdictions.
Developmental disabilities could lead to forced sterilization.
Native American Children were punished for speaking their own language.
LGBT Americans were imprisoned and could be beaten to death with impunity.
Children had to hide under desks for A-bomb drills.
Everyone smoked everywhere.
Any cancer was a death sentence.

Yes, I remember the 50s. The only people nostalgic for that period are white men and Republicans, most of whom were not even alive at the time. Democrats, including both of our primary candidates want nothing to do with a return to that time.

The 50s are gone. Good riddance to them!

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Most people nostalgic for the 50s (Original Post) MineralMan May 2016 OP
Let's extend the privileges of white males of the 50's senseandsensibility May 2016 #1
Which white males? MineralMan May 2016 #3
Perfect response. 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #9
Well said!!! n/t RKP5637 May 2016 #10
I wish GulfCoast66 May 2016 #34
The white males with the privilege senseandsensibility May 2016 #36
The privilege Spacedog1973 May 2016 #46
+1 uponit7771 May 2016 #43
GIs got big breaks in the 50s... ljm2002 May 2016 #58
That's what the establishment does AgingAmerican May 2016 #76
Finally pmorlan1 May 2016 #2
Thanks! MineralMan May 2016 #4
Yup. The 50s weren't that cool. R&K nt longship May 2016 #5
Too right. K&R Tierra_y_Libertad May 2016 #6
Thank you for putting the DU narrative to rest ... 1StrongBlackMan May 2016 #7
This. Nt tymorial May 2016 #52
This message was self-deleted by its author TM99 May 2016 #8
Aside from the last sentance, I wholly endorse what you wrote floppyboo May 2016 #23
MM speaks of "people," Trump's "great again" theme is offset by these historical facts. ancianita May 2016 #42
This message was self-deleted by its author TM99 May 2016 #44
No kidding MM.. it was a GOD awful time.. for people .. goverment cheese Peacetrain May 2016 #11
I remember my mother, who worked as a cashier MineralMan May 2016 #16
Your Mom was a saint.. Peacetrain May 2016 #17
Nowadays if a cashier were to pay for a kid's lunch... ljm2002 May 2016 #69
There were no free lunch programs in the 50s and 60s, and MineralMan May 2016 #70
Yes, those damn kids do continue to occupy your lawn. (nt) jeff47 May 2016 #12
Let me add to that.. the damn Dixiecrats... Peacetrain May 2016 #13
The fifties were good for me. Tal Vez May 2016 #14
Thanks! I love stories. More stories to remind us all that we are all here together! floppyboo May 2016 #25
I was very insulted by the other OP but Tavarious Jackson May 2016 #15
In the 50s the average home was about 1200 square feet today it is well over 2000 doc03 May 2016 #18
the mini -80's punk revolution made all of that look like luxury floppyboo May 2016 #27
There were many things wrong with the 50's, marybourg May 2016 #56
Just sayen the middle class back then can't be compared to today. Someone in doc03 May 2016 #65
I was alive then Urchin May 2016 #19
there was real opportunity then dsc May 2016 #22
And now Urchin May 2016 #30
How do you explain Corporate666 May 2016 #48
So the people around us who do not have tymorial May 2016 #54
I never said things were perfect Corporate666 May 2016 #64
Your entire premise ignores the reality of privelege tymorial May 2016 #68
So much wrong in so few words Corporate666 May 2016 #47
Oh yeah? Urchin May 2016 #73
For straight white men only. nt geek tragedy May 2016 #59
Thank you mcar May 2016 #20
Thank you. Nt Quayblue May 2016 #21
In the 50's, I was still in Europe. hobbit709 May 2016 #24
In the 50's and early 60's, I lived in a Sundown town. No nonwhites were allowed in the city limits Agnosticsherbet May 2016 #26
Born in 1951. I well remember the... 3catwoman3 May 2016 #28
I have pleasant memories of the fifties Retrograde May 2016 #29
No decade is perfect. Urchin May 2016 #31
I remember a lot of the 50's as pretty pleasant for a middle class white girl but the food! Shrike47 May 2016 #32
I thought I hated vegetables when... 3catwoman3 May 2016 #38
I can't say from experience Mike__M May 2016 #33
Yes. There were a couple of girls in my high school class MineralMan May 2016 #49
The OP nostalgic for the 50's: Bluenorthwest May 2016 #35
That is good news. auntpurl May 2016 #39
1957 posts gollygee May 2016 #79
Rec'd CorkySt.Clair May 2016 #37
The person who wrote that OP has been FFR'd. ;) nt silvershadow May 2016 #40
I learn as I age that people are nostalgic for EVERY era of the past. Bonobo May 2016 #41
Well, I have some personal nostalgia for all of those decades. MineralMan May 2016 #50
I grew up in the '50s, they stunk bad, they did. nt bemildred May 2016 #45
Pleasantville no_hypocrisy May 2016 #51
Yes. It was a good film in that way. MineralMan May 2016 #55
Absolutely right. raging moderate May 2016 #53
i was alive in the 50's konnie May 2016 #57
The disingenuousness is sickening. Like every dem isn't aware that it is the economic polocies vintx May 2016 #60
Thank you!! Dem2 May 2016 #61
"the fifties sound" niyad May 2016 #62
Bernie has been rebelling against the 1950s his entire adult life. DemocraticWing May 2016 #63
Penn & Teller did a Bullshit! (Season 6, Episode 10) show called the "The Good Ol' Days" TheBlackAdder May 2016 #66
Makes sense. MineralMan May 2016 #67
Some things were better back then: Jetboy May 2016 #71
"1. Extremely progressive tax rates." <- THAT is what that poster was talking about vintx May 2016 #74
Sanders' proposed tax rate on the wealthy is HALF that of Truman Jetboy May 2016 #75
It seems most here are determined to ignore the obvious vintx May 2016 #80
The cars were cool, that's about it. Throd May 2016 #72
Like I see with many conservatives who think movies beachbumbob May 2016 #77
Women who went to college SheilaT May 2016 #78
When I first went to college, I was an engineering major at a sizable school. MineralMan May 2016 #81

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
34. I wish
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:28 PM
May 2016

I was that quick!! Perfect response. My small farmer grandfather did not pine for a return of the 50's.

ljm2002

(10,751 posts)
58. GIs got big breaks in the 50s...
Sat May 28, 2016, 01:51 PM
May 2016

...and that included (mostly white) men from all walks of life, and helped to create a big and strong middle class that many people benefited from.

Of course there were many things that were bad about the 50s. Social issues have evolved hugely since then. But in many economic areas we have seen things go backwards. We have a smaller middle class, a hardening of class lines, an outsourcing of manufacturing jobs, an increase in rapacious financial entities such as payday lenders, and higher income inequality than even during the Gilded Age, just to name a few.

The practices of credit card companies these days would have been illegal in the 50s, when there were still laws against usury. The population of this country is milked by the elites, whether by paying more for drugs than people in other countries -- due to laws passed by our very own Congress -- or by getting poorer Internet service for their money than any European country -- often again there are laws preventing municipalities from providing these services themselves -- these are just two examples, there are many others.

So yes, some things really were better in the 50s. Recognizing that fact does not make me nostalgic for the era and its racial and gender inequalities, sorry.

Response to MineralMan (Original post)

floppyboo

(2,461 posts)
23. Aside from the last sentance, I wholly endorse what you wrote
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:32 PM
May 2016

- would have included it but I'm a chicken shit and Hillary may be the last hope. Lord help us all

ancianita

(36,109 posts)
42. MM speaks of "people," Trump's "great again" theme is offset by these historical facts.
Sat May 28, 2016, 04:20 AM
May 2016

No one's obsessing about the 50's when those times are completely remembered and not stereotyped.

Berners don't buy Clinton politics, true, but I think that if she projects a kind of Eisenhower politics, that was politics that was willing to work with FDR Democrats without rancor.

There was a time in the 50's when political opponents did work on projects for the betterment of the American people.

Then came the Powell Memo and capitalist insurgency against democratic spending.


Response to ancianita (Reply #42)

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
11. No kidding MM.. it was a GOD awful time.. for people .. goverment cheese
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:41 PM
May 2016

just to add to it.. it was GOD awful for so many families.. and I was in MPLS in the early 70's when we won the freedom for women who are married to not be committed to asylums by their husbands for nothing.. did not need a diagnosis of anything..just his say so.. not so very long ago.. so few rights... but the 50's were great for white males.. that lived through the draft of Korea and Vietnam.. hell married women could not get birth control without their husbands permission.. good riddance indeed!!

MineralMan

(146,318 posts)
16. I remember my mother, who worked as a cashier
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:57 PM
May 2016

at the middle and high school cafeteria. Lunch was 25 cents. She always had a stack of quarters in her pocket. Kids whose parents couldn't pay for those lunches knew that she'd use one of her quarters for them with nothing more than a smile for the kid.

No money...No lunch in the 50s. Lots of kids would have gone hungry. Nobody cared. Well, almost nobody.

Peacetrain

(22,877 posts)
17. Your Mom was a saint..
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:00 PM
May 2016

I remember that.. Being in 3rd grade and all your classmates around you have lunch.. while you watch.. you know what the right says and those nostalgic.. it built character .. duck and cover.. who could forget.. whew

ljm2002

(10,751 posts)
69. Nowadays if a cashier were to pay for a kid's lunch...
Sun May 29, 2016, 11:40 AM
May 2016

...they would likely be fired. We have seen news stories of just that happening, and of servers being compelled to throw a child's lunch in the garbage, in front of them and everybody, because the child's payments for lunch are in arrears. So, it's "No money...No lunch" in this time too, and lots of kids still go hungry. IOW your anecdote does not support the thesis that the 50s were unremittingly bad compared to today.

MineralMan

(146,318 posts)
70. There were no free lunch programs in the 50s and 60s, and
Sun May 29, 2016, 11:49 AM
May 2016

nobody got fired for paying for a kid's lunch. Few people have been fired for doing so these days, either. It makes the news when it happens, because it's so shocking. In Minnesota, it led to laws being passed ensuring that kids got lunch. Breakfast, too, in most of our schools in MN.

My point was that there was no program to make sure that kids who were in poverty got anything to eat at all. My mother didn't care for that, so she pitched in. She worked in the cafeteria and as a school secretary. My father was an auto mechanic. They had three children. We were far from well-to-do. My mother's free lunch program for poor children was simply her way of compensating for the inequity of the time. She did what she could with her minimal resources. I'm sure it came out of her grocery and clothing budget. We had tight budgets in those days.

Tal Vez

(660 posts)
14. The fifties were good for me.
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:51 PM
May 2016

But, I was a child growing up one block from a beautiful beach.

However, things weren't better for most people back then. Health insurance was cheap because there wasn't much health care. And, then there was polio and iron lungs. One cool thing was that every year each auto manufacturer had a distinctly different design and it was exciting to see the new cars each year. We had tiny, tiny closets, but we didn't own many clothes. The best toy was any kind of a ball or a basketball. Bicycles were cool, too. It would not have been unusual for a kid like me to own his own bike, a football and a surfboard. But, that was it. The Sears Christmas issue was a big deal. Rock and Roll records (one song on each side) began on large records - 78rpm. Later, they became smaller - 45 rpm. Most families had a hi-fi record player and about half had a tiny TV. We had two channels.

African Americans had it pretty bad. In the south, there were segregation laws and in much of the north, there was a de facto segregation. Before the development of national TV, each area of the country had distinctly different accents. As a California boy, I could just barely understand the words of friend who moved to California from South Carolina. It was like another language.

There were more bowling alleys then than now. Nearly everyone smoked, including doctors and nurses. A pack of cigarettes was twenty cents. A gallon of gas cost about the same. On the other hand, there was less obesity. We didn't have fast food restaurants - none. A lot of the adults had been greatly changed by WWII. All the men had stories to tell. I think alcohol use was about the same then as now. We didn't get drugs until we were teenagers in the early sixties.

There were good and bad things back then. And, when your young the times seem bette for some reason.

 

Tavarious Jackson

(1,595 posts)
15. I was very insulted by the other OP but
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:56 PM
May 2016

glad it got some exposure so people can see why we reject a revolution.

doc03

(35,351 posts)
18. In the 50s the average home was about 1200 square feet today it is well over 2000
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:22 PM
May 2016

but the average family is smaller. A new car loaded with all the options had an AM radio and heater. If we were lucky we had a black and white TV and maybe 2 or 3 channels. There was no air conditioning. Not many of the middle class had an RV, motorcycle or a boat. A vacation was maybe a road trip to a local lake or amusement park not a Caribbean cruise. No you can have your 50s.

floppyboo

(2,461 posts)
27. the mini -80's punk revolution made all of that look like luxury
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:51 PM
May 2016

I only say mini - cause it didn't take long for the establishment to shape shift it to 'alternative'. About the same time crack hit the streets. Coincidence? I'm one of those tweeners, tween hippie and punk, but there was plenty in common between the 2. At least for the socially conscious/Greenpeace types. Skinheads were Trump's wet dream.

My parents were not mainstream at all, so I became an observer. 50's beatniks. No motorhome, no vacations outside of where we could get in the station wagon, and b&w tv for 2 hours a day (news and Star Trek, Man from Uncle, Ed Sullivan, Twilight Zone, then, the color bars or indian head and annoying "wheeeeeee" noise until Mr. Dress-up

marybourg

(12,633 posts)
56. There were many things wrong with the 50's,
Sat May 28, 2016, 11:42 AM
May 2016

but the stripped down (by today's standards) consumer goods you list are not among them.

People were just as pleased with their 1200 square foot house, their new car with heater and radio, their b & w TV and road trip vacation as people are today with 2000 sq. ft. houses, cars with entertainment units and Bluetooth, and Caribbean cruises. You don't miss what you've never had, just as we don't miss today what people will have 60 years from now.

doc03

(35,351 posts)
65. Just sayen the middle class back then can't be compared to today. Someone in
Sat May 28, 2016, 08:23 PM
May 2016

what we consider middle class today would have had the quality of life of someone in the upper 10% in those days.
I started working in a steel mill in 1970 for $2.10 an hour, in this area that was upper middle class. In 1970 the minimum
wage was $1.45, $2.10 was only 44% above minimum wage. The current federal minimum wage is now $7.25 and the same job in the
mill pays over $20 an hour that is 280% over minimum wage. Yes according to bls.gov $1.45 minimum wage would be
equal to $8.94 an hour today with inflation, minimum wage hasn't kept up. Even if you would consider a minimum wage of $8.94 $20 an hour is still 225% over the minimum wage. I think that makes it clear that the middle class of today has a better standard of living than
40 50 or 60 years ago.

 

Urchin

(248 posts)
19. I was alive then
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:26 PM
May 2016

And the 1950s were great, not perfect, but great.

Since the 1950s some things have improved, but most things have gone backward.

The period between the end of WWII up until 1990 in America, was possibly the best time in history for the human race.

None of those decades were perfect (crime, Vietnam, poverty, etc.), each had its pluses and minuses, but overall that time period in America may go down in history as having been the best time in history to have been alive.

There was real opportunity then. If you studied, if you worked, you could make a great life for yourself and your family. Imagine! You could get an affordable college degree and actually find a job and start a career.

Looking back at that time from 1945 to 1990, I am reminded of Wordsworth:

"Bliss was it in that dawn to be alive, but to be young were very heaven!"

What's wrong with wanting a world like that for all people of all races?

dsc

(52,164 posts)
22. there was real opportunity then
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:32 PM
May 2016

unless you were black, or gay, or Hispanic, or a woman, or a Muslim.

 

Urchin

(248 posts)
30. And now
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:03 PM
May 2016

And now there's no opportunity if you're white, black, gay, Hispanic, woman, or Muslim . . .

Unless you're a super-rich white, black, gay, Hispanic, woman, or Muslim.

Like I said, we've been going backwards to before the 1950s.

Corporate666

(587 posts)
48. How do you explain
Sat May 28, 2016, 06:39 AM
May 2016

the countless people I know that are making a great living as high-tech workers, engineers, financiers, tradesman, lawyers, doctors, nurses, salespeople, etc? They didn't come from rich families. They weren't the 1%. They didn't "get lucky". They worked hard, got an education in a relevant field, and leveraged that to a good income and good life.

Saying that something doesn't exist when it is all around us every day is like saying the sky isn't blue on a cloudless June day at noon.

tymorial

(3,433 posts)
54. So the people around us who do not have
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:41 AM
May 2016

Those careers did not and do not work hard? Your entire premise requires that access to education and opportunity is equal regardless of gender, race, economic status, and geographic location. A poor african american growing up in an urban environment that has a high crime rate and underperforming schools will NOT have the same opportunity as a peer in an affluent neighborhood. This does not even take into account the realities of privilege.

Even if we look at two people of the same race, someone growing up in a poor mining town in west virginia has less access to quality educational services than someone growing up in Manhattan.

You can always find a four leaf clover in an attempt to bolstet your argument but it will still be rare among the those with three leaves.

Corporate666

(587 posts)
64. I never said things were perfect
Sat May 28, 2016, 06:30 PM
May 2016

But the person I was replying to said there was no opportunity for anyone unless you are super rich. That just isn't true. I didn't grow up rich and neither did all the other people I grew up with. Some did well, some did not. My observation is that those who did well are the ones who worked harder and who had more natural talent (intelligence).

Education should be available to everyone who wants it and we should support and encourage people to get educated. We've made great strides on that front - we have people in this thread saying they remember the 50's and talking about how women couldn't open bank accounts without their husband's permission - so we've come a long way.

But to say there is no opportunity unless you're super rich is a blatant lie. It's defeatist. It's a horrible basis for one's political beliefs and a dangerous basis for who one chooses to vote for. Worst of all, legislating on the basis of emotions and beliefs rather than facts and data produces bad results (i.e. pro-life legislation, abstinence education, increases in gov't backed loans for students, etc).

tymorial

(3,433 posts)
68. Your entire premise ignores the reality of privelege
Sat May 28, 2016, 09:09 PM
May 2016

And the vast differences in opportunity, quality of education, quality of life, quality of healthcare and the realities of privelege.

I see this work hard argument all the time and it continues to astound me that so many fail to recognize reality...

well all my friends succeeded.... I didnt grow up wealthy... I worked hard. I didn't have it easy.... inevitably "super rich" will be brought up as a means at misdirection. It comes from a place of privilege and ignorance. I am not calling you ignorant as an insult. You are ignorant of the vast differences in experiences of Americans and how those differences present roadblocks to recieving all of those things I highlighted in my first sentence. All Americans are supposed to be equal but that doesn't mean that they are treated equal even have the opportunity to experience equality. One can work hard but not be granted the opportunity to enjoy those aspects of life you enjoy.

Corporate666

(587 posts)
47. So much wrong in so few words
Sat May 28, 2016, 06:36 AM
May 2016

Most things have gone backwards?

Education has improved.

Technology has improved.

Medicine has improved.

Quality of life has improved.

Working conditions have improved.



There is real opportunity today. More than there was back then. More millionaires are made every year now than ever were back then. The internet and free trade has opened up opportunities we could never have dreamed of. College is more accessible than it was back then, and if you are smart and hard working, the world is your oyster.

Oh, and asians, latinos, blacks, women, gays and the other groups have equality that didn't exist in the 50's.


People remember the 50's the same way as I remember childhood. Long summer days, out playing with my friends until it was dinner time, not a care in the world and no stress whatsoever in life. But we always look on the past fondly and forget the bad stuff.

And there was a shitload of bad stuff in the 50's that is best left behind.

 

Urchin

(248 posts)
73. Oh yeah?
Sun May 29, 2016, 04:05 PM
May 2016

Education has improved? You can spend the rest of your life paying off your huge student loans because there are no jobs for you after you graduate.

Technology has improved? Sure, that's why there are so few jobs and will be even fewer jobs with every passing year.

Medicine has improved? How nice of modern science to invent hugely profitable interventions to give usually temporarily, partial, and often questionable relief from ailments that an unhealthy lifestyle and diet that modern science has inflicted on us, and of which many ailments can be cure by simply returning to a less industrial lifestyle (as do industrialized Australian Native Peoples, when they abandon civilization to go live in the bush to get themselves healthy again).

Quality of life has improved? All but the rich are extremely insecure in the necessities of life, and which necessities have become outrageously expensive--houses, education, healthcare (the current drop in oil prices is a temporary anomaly), the cost of raising children, and good healthy food (have you seen the price of grass fed and grass finished beef?)--all the most important things in life are being taken from us.

And those of us who still manage to have them should be looking over their shoulders every day for the technology that will eliminate their careers forever, either by technology doing their jobs outright . . .

Or by technology enabling the offshoring of their jobs: Huge amounts of information can be moved around the world at light-speed for near absolute zero cost, so why should knowledge work be done in America anymore, when it's cheaper elsewhere in the world?

Or by simply obviating the need for your career altogether: Who will need traffic cops when your car is in the IoT and the cloud will detect every traffic infraction and instantly deduct your fine from your credit or debit card, and who will need traffic court judges and traffic court lawyers too?

I don't call cheap flatscreen TVs and electronic gizmos as quality of life enhancing (rather they destroy our quality of life by destroying the environment in their manufacture and disposal and by over-complicating our lives).

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
24. In the 50's, I was still in Europe.
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:36 PM
May 2016

In the early 50's I remember seeing the occupation troops on the streets of my home town.

Agnosticsherbet

(11,619 posts)
26. In the 50's and early 60's, I lived in a Sundown town. No nonwhites were allowed in the city limits
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:43 PM
May 2016

after sundown.
If they drove through the town on the state highway, they were ticketed.
They could not buy gas in any gas station or groceries in any store.
Those laws were repealed with the 1964 Civil Rights Act.

3catwoman3

(24,007 posts)
28. Born in 1951. I well remember the...
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:54 PM
May 2016

...A-bomb drills. I also remember thinking there was no way in hell ducking and covering under my desk was going to do a damn thing to protect me if an atomic bomb went off anywhere nearby.

Retrograde

(10,137 posts)
29. I have pleasant memories of the fifties
Fri May 27, 2016, 09:59 PM
May 2016

no worries, no problems, all (well, most) of my needs catered to. Of course, I was only 8 when the fifties ended, so my view might be slanted...

In most states, married women could not open bank accounts without their husband's consent. They could not sigh contracts on their own. Single women had it a little better, but they could get fired for getting married. Employers were free to discriminate based on sex. And that's just one group.

OTOH, progress was starting to be made, however slowly. The GI Bill was creating a larger middle class by making college education available to people who wouldn't have had it otherwise, the armed forces were being integrated, people were starting to recognize the inequalities in the country and doing something about them.

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, like most other eras.

 

Urchin

(248 posts)
31. No decade is perfect.
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:16 PM
May 2016

Why must we ignore the part of the past that teaches us good lessons and only pay attention to the part of the past that teaches us bad lessons?

It's because most people think a thing must be either this or that. It doesn't occur to them that a thing can be both, by employing what's called Janusian thinking.

To categorize a thing as always this or that, is to go through life with blinders on.

It is also a sign of laziness because it's easy, it saves the trouble of thinking about a thing further when you can simply categorize a thing as wholly bad as soon as one bad thing about it is discovered.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
32. I remember a lot of the 50's as pretty pleasant for a middle class white girl but the food!
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:19 PM
May 2016

Fresh fruit or vegetables were much less common; people really did eat canned vegetables. The smoking was everywhere; maybe it helped kill the taste of canned green beans.

Jello was HOT.

3catwoman3

(24,007 posts)
38. I thought I hated vegetables when...
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:06 AM
May 2016

...I was a kid, because we only ever had the canned variety. Canned peas are particularly vile, IMO, as are creamed vegetables. Blecchhhh!

Mike__M

(1,052 posts)
33. I can't say from experience
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:26 PM
May 2016

Having been born in January 1960.
There were these though: The Girls Who Went Away, young women who suddenly went to live with their "aunt" in another state, and came back seven or eight months later, depressed and years older. For the lucky ones, Auntie's was a Salvation Army maternity home, other institutions may have been less forgiving.
Nope, no nostalgia here.


MineralMan

(146,318 posts)
49. Yes. There were a couple of girls in my high school class
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:01 AM
May 2016

who "visited their aunt" for a while. However, there was one doctor in town who would perform abortions on the quiet. It wasn't a secret, really, but nothing was ever really said about it. A couple of girls I knew went to him for that. Since teenagers had zero access to any form of contraception, pregnancies weren't uncommon, really.

An adult over 21 could buy condoms, but in early 60s California, you could only get them from a pharmacist, and they had "For Prevention of Disease Only" printed on their packaging. Teens either had to have an adult friend get them for them, or try to do without. That trick often failed.

I graduated from high school in 1963 and went off to college that fall. What a surprise to visit the student health center and see a big goldfish bowl full of condoms in the waiting area. Soon after that, the birth control pill became available and the health center was always ready to prescribe them.

So much repression.

 

Bluenorthwest

(45,319 posts)
35. The OP nostalgic for the 50's:
Fri May 27, 2016, 10:38 PM
May 2016

Account status: Flagged for review
Member since: Sun Jan 31, 2016, 11:40 PM
Number of posts: 2,028
Number of posts, last 90 days: 1957

Can a constructed character experience nostalgia at all? I suppose if androids dream of electric sheep perhaps they can.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
41. I learn as I age that people are nostalgic for EVERY era of the past.
Sat May 28, 2016, 03:47 AM
May 2016

50's, 60's, 70's, 80's, 90's.... every era, MM, not just the 50's.

MineralMan

(146,318 posts)
50. Well, I have some personal nostalgia for all of those decades.
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:05 AM
May 2016

But that's personal. I also can remember how those decades were for others. I try very hard to balance my own personal experiences with my observations of a broader perspective.

I'm a white, straight male with a college education. I'm a person of privilege. That does not make my personal experiences universal for everyone. Far from it. Have I had a pleasant life? Yes, pretty much. Have I seen many others who did not? Absolutely. I try to remember that always.

no_hypocrisy

(46,130 posts)
51. Pleasantville
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:25 AM
May 2016
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120789/?ref_=nm_flmg_act_38

That movie scared and depressed me with the mobs of people who started off clueless and transformed into mindless violent crowds who destroyed anything that changed their world.

The movie killed whatever nostalgia I had for the Fifties.

raging moderate

(4,306 posts)
53. Absolutely right.
Sat May 28, 2016, 10:32 AM
May 2016

In the fifties, we not only had no lunch served at school, we had very little time given to us to eat whatever our working parents had managed to pack for us. The teachers had to take turns supervising us in a classroom. One teacher used to kick us out onto the playground after 5 minutes of fulminating at us about how we were ruining her lunch period. Most gave us 15 minutes to choke something down. Then out we went, into all weathers.

konnie

(44 posts)
57. i was alive in the 50's
Sat May 28, 2016, 12:40 PM
May 2016

I was there. and anyone who thinks they want to go back there is a fool. for all the obvious reasons already stated and for one that has not been. the entire economic engine of Europe and Asia had been decimated. there were millions of homeless refugees. there was no infrastructure standing. and America in her victory instituted the Marshall Plan. America rebuilt Europe. America rebuilt Japan.
Our tax dollars literally forged our competition!

Does anyone think that America - untouched by the ravages of war - would stay on top forever?
That's just ignorance. Those smart Europeans used to immigrate to the USA because there was
no opportunity at home. Of course they would remain in their home countries and take the opportunity to not only rebuild their own country but re-start their economic engines.

And they certainly did. And instead of raising our game to meet the new competition - we got lazy and greedy. We stopped paying attention and the oligarchs took over. We allowed troglodytes to use their "southern strategy" to gin up hate and fear. We allowed big money to take over and silence real journalists. As the "greatest generation" of newsmen died off they were replaced by inexperienced pretty boys (and girls) who read a script edited by corporate suits more indebted to profit than the country.

And for the record those folks not in the white middle class - other white people - weren't doing so well. My mother worked in a factory - my father held down 3 jobs. We lived in a tiny house, on a dirt road. My grandparents lived in a tiny house on a dirt road, without hot water for years. Those post war 40's and 50's that are so fondly remembered are childhood memories. my own daughter stated that she wanted to raise her kids in the 70's! really? yes that was her childhood. free and safe in a rural area where she could ride her bike. well she found it in a backwater hick town. Her kids are "safe" - but she is surrounded by zealot religious freaks and racists and guns - lots and lots of guns. She is re-thinking her strategy.

So when you hear someone waxing nostalgic about the 50's remind them they hid behind wooden desks during nuclear war drills. They wore military style dog tags for easier body identification. and preachers railed against the evils of the modern world in vague terms. Violence was seldom witnessed - the closest were "film noir" black and white movies with slimy crooks with lots of gun shots that never produced any blood. And our information of the outside world was limited to headlines at 6pm on a 30 minute newscast, that children seldom watched. If parents were worried they did not share it with their children.

and here we are today - citizens who remember the simpler time of childhood! That never existed!!






 

vintx

(1,748 posts)
60. The disingenuousness is sickening. Like every dem isn't aware that it is the economic polocies
Sat May 28, 2016, 01:55 PM
May 2016

of the time that anyone on our side would be nostalgic about.

Back then a working class wage would support a family.

THIS is an example of people using identity politics to marginalize the left.

Well done.

Dem2

(8,168 posts)
61. Thank you!!
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:00 PM
May 2016

There's a reason suburban white Republicans look so fondly on this post-war decade of rebuilding as an idea time. They had ALL the privilege.

It shocks me to the core (though it shouldn't based on the demographics of the 'typical' Bernie enthusiast) that there are those here to long for the days of white male supremacy.

niyad

(113,413 posts)
62. "the fifties sound"
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:33 PM
May 2016


The Fifties Sound

They say the fifties are comin again!
Get out my bobby socks and run to the gym!
The fifties band has got them out on the floor -

Hey wait! I been through this nightmare before!
Those olden days were not so golden you know
Girls who got in trouble, they had nowhere to go
Couldn't take their lives into their own hands
Spent their time a swoonin over rock n roll bands

In those days colored people knew their place
Didn't try to barge into the human race
But Elvis and the others picked up all their cues
And made a million dollars singing white boy blues

Whoa Whoa - whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa
They're dancing to what oppressed us 20 years ago.
Girls wore thick makeup, boys wore thick grease
If you didn't have a steady, you were never at ease
Swearin and sex, they were mortal sins -
Why the hell you think we brought the sixties in?

Everybody looked and thought and talked the same
And learned all of the details of the dating game
Boys, they were lettermen or else they were queer
If they were small or shy they lived in constant fear

Think of all the folks who miss the fifties sound
The millionaires whose profits have been going down
For the ku klux klan, those were the good ole' days
And back then, women really knew their place
Administrators missed the days when students obeyed
Didn't meddle in the world the grownups had made
The Pentagon's nostalgic for the days of yore
When every kid would rush to join their latest war!

So all you kids soakin up the scene
Sorry to break in on your American dream
But we lived through it and it ain't no fun:
No one's gonna take back what we won!
Teen angel, teen angel, rest in pieces!

kristin lems
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DemocraticWing

(1,290 posts)
63. Bernie has been rebelling against the 1950s his entire adult life.
Sat May 28, 2016, 02:48 PM
May 2016

What the hell do people think the 60s were all about? This idea that the 50s was a socialist paradise is nonsense; back then they put socialists in jail and capitalists were directly running the government. Eisenhower's advisors were all corporate CEOs!

TheBlackAdder

(28,209 posts)
66. Penn & Teller did a Bullshit! (Season 6, Episode 10) show called the "The Good Ol' Days"
Sat May 28, 2016, 08:39 PM
May 2016

.


People who fantasize about going back have mental issues, a fucked up recollection, or hold a bogus nostalgia.


.

Jetboy

(792 posts)
71. Some things were better back then:
Sun May 29, 2016, 02:00 PM
May 2016

1. Extremely progressive tax rates.

2. Things were built to last in America by Americans instead of being built to fail in China.

3. In song, women were dolls or gals instead of bitches and hoes. Perhaps dolls or gals were not ideal but surely they beat the terms that have come since.

4. When in public, people dressed up and strove to have some class and style. People had shame. Today people are slobs and have no shame whatsoever. I'm ashamed of having to write b & h in the above line! YUCK!!!

5. Rock-n-roll in the 1950s was a black and white art form. Just a few years later black music was soul and white music was rock.

6. Mid-century modern/ atomic age furniture and decor, tail fin cars. People around the world covet this stuff and they still make reproductions to this day.

7. TV and movies had morals and glorified doing good while punishing being bad. I literally will not watch tv or movies of today because they often glorify deception, underhandedness or 'dissing' others. The only lessons learned are if it feels good do it and if you don't get caught it didn't happen.

8. Mom and Pop stores instead of evil corporate entities.

Of course I applaud the social progress made since the 1950s but why can't we have the good things that were around back then too? Imagine the 1950s with today's civil rights and technology! That's what we need to strive for IMO.

 

vintx

(1,748 posts)
74. "1. Extremely progressive tax rates." <- THAT is what that poster was talking about
Sun May 29, 2016, 04:20 PM
May 2016

And every single fucking person posting on these disingenuous fucking threads fucking well knows it.

This is just theatrical meaningless bullshit.

People should be ashamed to be this mendacious

But like candidate, like supporter!

Jetboy

(792 posts)
75. Sanders' proposed tax rate on the wealthy is HALF that of Truman
Sun May 29, 2016, 05:17 PM
May 2016

and Ike. But we should reject everything from the 1950s because there was sexism and racism. Of course that stuff is all gone today, right!?!

The 1950s with today's civil rights and technology is what we on the Left should all be striving for.

 

vintx

(1,748 posts)
80. It seems most here are determined to ignore the obvious
Sun May 29, 2016, 06:39 PM
May 2016

Meanwhile our party moves more and more toward the right.

 

beachbumbob

(9,263 posts)
77. Like I see with many conservatives who think movies
Sun May 29, 2016, 05:27 PM
May 2016

And tv represents an America we have lost where it was all great and everyone lived a great life until govt messed it up...the 1950s started a transition...and it took a toll...but we are so much better off.for it
But 1950s America sucked...for most

 

SheilaT

(23,156 posts)
78. Women who went to college
Sun May 29, 2016, 05:42 PM
May 2016

were assumed to be only wanting to get a Mrs. degree. That a woman might want some sort of career was a completely alien thought.

A corollary to this was that in a family with both girls and boys, money might be found for the sons to go to college, but not the daughters. Even if the daughters were noticeably smarter and more interested in going.

MineralMan

(146,318 posts)
81. When I first went to college, I was an engineering major at a sizable school.
Sun May 29, 2016, 07:28 PM
May 2016

Not one female student in the entire department. Not one. 1963.

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