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dsc

(52,164 posts)
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:49 PM May 2016

My openly gay uncle turned 18 in 1952 he was dead by 1970

The fact is being openly gay in that time frame likely killed him. He died of complications of alcohol and drug abuse. My dad told me stories of this era from his military service (he was in Airborne out of NC). He befriended an African American who was from his part of PA and they would travel home together on leave. His friend would lay under a blanket in the backseat of the car until they reached PA for fear that cops would target them for mistreatment. Even the drive ins were segregated.

There aren't mere social issues that are some how unworthy of our discussion until economic issues are solved. They were, and still often are, issues of literal life and death. For people like me life is much better than it was for my uncle. For many of my students, life is much better than it was for their ancestors.

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My openly gay uncle turned 18 in 1952 he was dead by 1970 (Original Post) dsc May 2016 OP
I'm so sorry for your loss. A DUer is the daughter of Gerri Santoro. PeaceNikki May 2016 #1
I was born in 1967 so I can't really call it a loss as much as not having had something dsc May 2016 #2
So touching to me... JudyM May 2016 #3

PeaceNikki

(27,985 posts)
1. I'm so sorry for your loss. A DUer is the daughter of Gerri Santoro.
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:54 PM
May 2016

A photograph of her corpse, published in 1973, became an tragic, iconic, powerful symbol of domestic violence and abortion restrictions. She died of a botched abortion in 1964.

There are millions of stories like your uncle's and Gerri's.

You're right, these important issues must not be forgotten or dismissed.

dsc

(52,164 posts)
2. I was born in 1967 so I can't really call it a loss as much as not having had something
Fri May 27, 2016, 08:57 PM
May 2016

over the years as I realize how similar we wound up being I would have loved to be able to talk to him about what it was really like.

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