Where the actual story is?

What went on between her and Petraeus really only involves those involved in those marriages. If there was no security breaches, and that's all we need to concern ourselves about, then we have no business in their respective marriages. However, I've got to admit that the voyeuristic aspects of this is tempting.

I don't get the speculation.

.. the time to divorce is after her second book about her affair $$$$

military affairs.The military will stay away from this woman.

divorce in two years is worth the wait
who knows
Marriage is private, unpredictable, complicated, and only between the two people in the marriage.

Or she is about to be super rich and he might as well ride that gravy train everywhere it goes

Were I in his situation, the divorce papers would already be filed. Actually would have been filed the moment the affair became obvious.

amusing,wouldn't you say. This couple travel in the 1% Club circle and it's all about the Rolla Dex,and who list your on. It's a tough life isn't it. Geezzzz!!

Let he who is without sin throw the first stone. Leave it alone. Damn, investigate over classified info etc. Leave the marriage B.S. alone. This is the kind of crap Repukes thrive on.

He'll live to regret his decision.

Try to keep things as normal as possible for the kids.

And when things quiet down in a couple of months, slowly start separating and gently break it to the little ones.

Those boys are traumatized enough as it is.

n/t

I thought she should have respected herself enough to kick him out when she was humiliated in front of whole country. Showed me marriage was a sham staying together for power.

I think she is ok but I sort of lost my respect when she didnt leave him.

that was cheated on.
I have friends who have gone through the same thing. on the husband's end and on the wife's side. It is never easy but some people try to work it out. Some do end up divorcing as being together was worse for everyone involved, including the children.

And so who knows what their marriage is...