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boston bean

(36,223 posts)
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:16 AM Nov 2015

I've been voting for a MAN for President of the US since I've been able to vote.

How about you?

This time, seems likely I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance.

Mock that, think of me as a person who only votes with her vagina. But I ask you what was I voting with when I voted for all those men? I don't have a penis, so I wasn't voting with that.

I guess I only use my brain when voting for men????

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I've been voting for a MAN for President of the US since I've been able to vote. (Original Post) boston bean Nov 2015 OP
You shouldn't vote with your penis or your vagina... CoffeeCat Nov 2015 #1
the bug eyed picture thread was sad, boston bean. very roguevalley Nov 2015 #93
You vote with your brain, no matter which sex you vote for. CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2015 #2
Chisholm ran, Schroder ran, Clinton ran dsc Nov 2015 #14
I should have said, in the General election, not in the Primary. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2015 #17
I'd LOVE to vote for a female president. RiverLover Nov 2015 #3
Roger that. tk2kewl Nov 2015 #28
I have been voting lesser of two evils PowerToThePeople Nov 2015 #4
It's just so strange, how now, this time, people can't make a vote against a repuke.. boston bean Nov 2015 #5
Blah blah blah two evils blah blah Sheepshank Nov 2015 #103
Damm the Corporate Shills - Full Female ahead FreakinDJ Nov 2015 #6
The way you posted, the words beginning with caps and the - boston bean Nov 2015 #9
Not really FreakinDJ Nov 2015 #22
A little education to fight ignorance! artislife Nov 2015 #33
Why bring up sex at all? sellitman Nov 2015 #7
So, it wasn't a part of my decision at all when there was absolutely no woman on the ballot? boston bean Nov 2015 #8
Jill Stein was on the ballot in 2012 Art_from_Ark Nov 2015 #11
I vote for Democrats. You? boston bean Nov 2015 #16
So if the matchup is O'Malley versus Fiorina, you'll presumably vote for O'Malley. Jim Lane Nov 2015 #78
uh, yeah. I'm a democrat. posting here on Democratic Underground. boston bean Nov 2015 #82
I vote for whoever best represents my interests Art_from_Ark Nov 2015 #115
Not unless you stayed home and didn't vote sellitman Nov 2015 #12
My history of Casting Prez ballots: LDA sums it up Hepburn Nov 2015 #10
Women can wait. Its only been 230+ years. JaneyVee Nov 2015 #13
+1 ismnotwasm Nov 2015 #46
Some are now evolving ... cosmicone Nov 2015 #15
There is not a single person on DU PowerToThePeople Nov 2015 #18
You must be kidding. eom BlueMTexpat Nov 2015 #31
Links or gtfo. PowerToThePeople Nov 2015 #32
If every candidate running for the Dem Nom was female and not male, Hepburn Nov 2015 #19
And you know this how. Hillary is worse than some imagined woman boston bean Nov 2015 #20
Again: Hepburn Nov 2015 #23
That should be an OP Hep, JackInGreen Nov 2015 #29
Again, how do you know she would be worse than some imagined other woman candidate? boston bean Nov 2015 #37
Her policies will bring America forward and swing it left. ismnotwasm Nov 2015 #48
+1 million!! darkangel218 Nov 2015 #79
Can't wait for the "Legally insane 3 days a month" FreakinDJ Nov 2015 #21
Inane reasoning in OP. Completely effed up logic. Bonobo Nov 2015 #24
I've voted for a woman for president. Tierra_y_Libertad Nov 2015 #25
I have figured all along that many Clinton supporters are voting for her just because of her gend Doctor_J Nov 2015 #26
And I've figured out ismnotwasm Nov 2015 #50
So You Vote Based On Sex - Not Based On Issues, Information, Logic And Morality - Pretty Sad Excuse cantbeserious Nov 2015 #27
If gender was the reason someone voted for a candidate, then the voter is an idiot Android3.14 Nov 2015 #30
I won't mock it BUT pinebox Nov 2015 #34
So if Bernie Sanders and Carly Fiorina are the candidates... bobbobbins01 Nov 2015 #35
What is it you are thinking I am saying? boston bean Nov 2015 #36
"This time, seems likely I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance." bobbobbins01 Nov 2015 #38
right. ok... so what do you think that means? boston bean Nov 2015 #39
That'll you'll vote for any woman over any man this election. bobbobbins01 Nov 2015 #40
oh yeah, you think that's what it means? boston bean Nov 2015 #41
In the absence of anything other than the OP, I'd say that's about it. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #64
Even though I voted for all those men all these years? nt boston bean Nov 2015 #66
Even though. Words have meaning. The words you used made it clear you'll vote for the woman. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #69
Why am I going to vote for the woman this time? boston bean Nov 2015 #70
According to your OP? For NO other reason than she's a woman. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #71
That's what you think it says.... oh my. boston bean Nov 2015 #74
"I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance." Brick wall is right. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #77
Obstinance is unbecoming. nt boston bean Nov 2015 #91
Sounds like she'd vote for Palin if she were the candidate... berni_mccoy Nov 2015 #42
yeah, that's something I made very clear. boston bean Nov 2015 #44
Just quoting your OP: "I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance" berni_mccoy Nov 2015 #45
If Hillary wins the nomination, and she is a woman, I will vote for her. boston bean Nov 2015 #47
Now you're changing your position like Hillary does... berni_mccoy Nov 2015 #49
I did, where? I know us women have a reputation of not being able to make up our minds. boston bean Nov 2015 #51
You never mentioned Hillary in your OP or that this was about her. berni_mccoy Nov 2015 #53
I said this: boston bean Nov 2015 #54
Was pretty clear you were voting for a woman because you are a woman. berni_mccoy Nov 2015 #61
I am a duplicitous woman, in your eye? And what I say, doesn't really mean what I am saying? boston bean Nov 2015 #62
I'm only going on what you said in your OP. berni_mccoy Nov 2015 #65
Read it. And then read my responses to you. boston bean Nov 2015 #68
I did read it. I'm not the only one to have this impression. berni_mccoy Nov 2015 #75
The part you excerpted says clearly that you'll vote for fiorina if it's her versus Sanders Doctor_J Nov 2015 #73
I clearly said I would vote for Fiorina? And you know I would do this how???... boston bean Nov 2015 #80
You wrote this - verbatim Doctor_J Nov 2015 #99
More obstinance and word twisting. boston bean Nov 2015 #100
Me, too. Sadly, that was all that was offered on the ballot. MineralMan Nov 2015 #43
That would be nice HassleCat Nov 2015 #52
Voting for someone because of their gender is sexist. NobodyHere Nov 2015 #55
No one accused men of doing that for the past 200+ years... boston bean Nov 2015 #56
Is my statement wrong? NobodyHere Nov 2015 #57
Accusing people of voting based on sex? boston bean Nov 2015 #58
I don't remember accusing anyone NobodyHere Nov 2015 #85
What would ever to motivate you to make such a statement? nt boston bean Nov 2015 #88
It's the truth NobodyHere Nov 2015 #98
Um well... Kali Nov 2015 #101
We accused women of voting for men because why? boston bean Nov 2015 #102
we do seem to be talking about different things Kali Nov 2015 #104
I almost agree. boston bean Nov 2015 #105
see, I would tweak this Kali Nov 2015 #106
I see a tactic being used to deligitimize boston bean Nov 2015 #107
I don't see anybody doing that. Kali Nov 2015 #110
Accusing women of voting for her boston bean Nov 2015 #111
the "accusations" you got about that were kind of a Kali Nov 2015 #113
Then you haven't been paying close enough attention, sorry. It's not just this thread it's all over boston bean Nov 2015 #114
Not to mention idiotic and petty. cherokeeprogressive Nov 2015 #72
So, you're telling us that you are making your choice SOLELY based on gender tularetom Nov 2015 #59
Was I voting based on sex every time I voted for the male democratic nominee? boston bean Nov 2015 #60
I have no interest whatsoever in what motivated your past voting record tularetom Nov 2015 #76
Well, something that motivated my past voting record boston bean Nov 2015 #86
The "only option"? I voted for a woman for president in 2012 in the GE. Tierra_y_Libertad Nov 2015 #89
You voted third party in the GE, I presume? I did not. boston bean Nov 2015 #90
OK. Just pointing out your options. Tierra_y_Libertad Nov 2015 #94
Good thing Sarah Palin didn't run. Renew Deal Nov 2015 #63
In this campaign the female happens to be the best presidential candidate. I like voting for the Thinkingabout Nov 2015 #67
Will you vote for Fiorina if she runs against a man? Renew Deal Nov 2015 #81
Is it likely Fiorina will be on the ballot? boston bean Nov 2015 #83
You made an open ended statement Renew Deal Nov 2015 #84
In your reading maybe. boston bean Nov 2015 #87
Not just me if you look at this thread. Renew Deal Nov 2015 #92
It's sort of sad. nt boston bean Nov 2015 #95
I would like to see a woman POTUS and would certainly vote for a woman candidate. PufPuf23 Nov 2015 #96
You have also been voting for a CHRISTIAN for President of the US since you've been able to vote. mhatrw Nov 2015 #97
Way to set feminism back. Fearless Nov 2015 #108
Did you vote for them because they were the best candidate or because they had a penis? Chan790 Nov 2015 #109
I will be supporting Hillary Clinton in the Texas primary Gothmog Nov 2015 #112

CoffeeCat

(24,411 posts)
1. You shouldn't vote with your penis or your vagina...
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:23 AM
Nov 2015

The edges are sharp on those voting machines and you could injure yourself.

If you insist on doing this, I would bring along a bottle of disinfectant and paper towels. You know...wipe off the voting machine after you've finished, just like you would wipe off the tread mill at the gym after a vigorous run.

Good luck.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,683 posts)
2. You vote with your brain, no matter which sex you vote for.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:25 AM
Nov 2015

And you voted for a man since, until now, men were the only ones running.

I don't really get the point of your OP.

But I will keep reading, and maybe I'll get it.

Have a good morning!

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
4. I have been voting lesser of two evils
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:31 AM
Nov 2015

Since I have been voting. Well, Obama successfully swindled me the first time.

I have a chance to vote for something, not just against repukes.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
5. It's just so strange, how now, this time, people can't make a vote against a repuke..
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:32 AM
Nov 2015

I find it curious.

Hell, I've been doing it my entire voting life as well.

I assume you are talking about the GE, because there aren't any republicans running in the Democratic Primary.

 

Sheepshank

(12,504 posts)
103. Blah blah blah two evils blah blah
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 08:31 PM
Nov 2015

Well, hope you have a fucking grand time with the greater of the two evils.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
9. The way you posted, the words beginning with caps and the -
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:39 AM
Nov 2015

reminded me of another poster on this website.

Is this a new thing?

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
22. Not really
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 11:28 AM
Nov 2015

Take a look at the titles in the Latest Breaking News threads - Capitol Letters are used on pronouns

and now for Grammar Nazi viewing pleasure ...

Rule 2. Capitalize proper nouns—and adjectives derived from proper nouns.

Examples:
the Golden Gate Bridge
the Grand Canyon
a Russian song
a Shakespearean sonnet
a Freudian slip

http://www.grammarbook.com/punctuation/capital.asp

 

artislife

(9,497 posts)
33. A little education to fight ignorance!
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 12:15 PM
Nov 2015

Or should I have capitalized a couple words in there?

Great response, FreakinDJ!

sellitman

(11,607 posts)
7. Why bring up sex at all?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:37 AM
Nov 2015

That shouldn't even be part of your decision.

I don't understand the reason for your post.

Support whoever you think is best on the most amount of issues.

I will.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
8. So, it wasn't a part of my decision at all when there was absolutely no woman on the ballot?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:38 AM
Nov 2015

You guys got this all sewn up.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
11. Jill Stein was on the ballot in 2012
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:48 AM
Nov 2015

Cynthia McKinney was on the ballot in 2008.

And who knows? After she gets through chasing down those dalmatian puppies and gets back in the campaign, maybe Carly Fiorina will get the Republican nomination for 2016.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
78. So if the matchup is O'Malley versus Fiorina, you'll presumably vote for O'Malley.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:37 PM
Nov 2015

I think virtually everyone here would.

In past elections, those of us who were voting back then voted for a woman for VP in 1984 and against a woman for VP in 2008. Over on the right, I'm sure that a lot of the people who want to restrict reproductive rights, repeal the Lily Ledbetter Act (and perhaps even the Equal Pay Act), etc., nevertheless voted in 2008 to put a woman a heartbeat away.

The point is that, for most voters, gender doesn't enter into these decisions to any significant extent.

There are exceptions. If Clinton is the nominee (against any male Republican), some generally Republican voters, especially younger women, will vote for her despite her issue positions because they want to break that glass ceiling; and some generally Democratic voters, especially older men, will refuse to vote for her because they don't think a woman can stand up to Putin. My wild unscientific guess is that the effect of the gender factor would be a small net gain for Clinton.

But I agree with your implication that policy is much more important.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
115. I vote for whoever best represents my interests
Mon Nov 9, 2015, 06:41 AM
Nov 2015

or the interests of my family.

I don't care what their gender is-- I care more about how trustworthy they are and what their record is. At the presidential level, it doesn't matter one whit how I vote in the general election, since my state always votes overwhelmingly for one party or another. It's always been that way in my lifetime, and even my mother's lifetime. Arkansas's presidential vote is about as predictable as a summer heat wave in Death Valley.

At the primary level, however, I want the best candidate, and I sometimes have a marginal say in the outcome, particularly, maybe, next year, when my state joins Super Tuesday. Hillary's years in Arkansas have become almost mythical in this forum, but from my viewpoint they are vastly overrrated. She may have been somewhat liberal in the '70s, when she was virtually unknown outside of LIttle Rock and the University of Arkansas, but she became rather corporatized after her husband won his second term as governor in 1982. Her education "reform", which is often touted as some sort of success, was basically an early form of No Child Left Behind-- teaching for the test, rather than teaching for learning and thinking. And six years after joining the board of Arkansas's richest Republican, Sam Walton, she and her husband palled up with Mr. Republican of Arkansas, Jackson Stephens, to finance Bill's nascent presidential campaign in 1992. So when I hear that Hillary has always been a diehard liberal who kicked Republican butt in Arkansas, I just have to laugh.

So to answer your question, I vote for Democrats who act like Democrats, that is, Democrats whom I respected when I cast my first vote back in the '70s. That includes people like John and Robert Kennedy, J. William Fulbright, Dale Bumpers, Frank Church, Mike Mansfield, Bella Abzug, and Shirley Chisholm. Even LBJ, minus the Vietnam War. In my mind, Bernie is the candidate who best resembles those Democrats.



Hepburn

(21,054 posts)
10. My history of Casting Prez ballots: LDA sums it up
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:47 AM
Nov 2015

Yep, LEAST DETRIMENTAL ALTERNATIVE

There were times when there were some good, if not great choices: Obama heads that list.

However, most of the time, in local, state and national elections, I am looking for the person that will do the least harm.

If Hillary unfortunately gets the nod, it will be another LDA election under my belt. I will not work for her, but I will not work against her. I live in a definitely Blue State -- California -- and I will grudgingly fill in the circle by her name and feel sick as having to make this choice when there are so many better choices for this country. I have never passed a Prez vote in my life and just because Hillary is there, I am not going to pass my vote. Like I said, it will make me ill...but the alternatives are far, far worse. She is just bad news, IMO, the others have entered into the evil zone.

JMHO

 

cosmicone

(11,014 posts)
15. Some are now evolving ...
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 10:58 AM
Nov 2015

The "never shall I vote for a woman" has now morphed into "I'll vote for a woman but not this woman" crowd. They don't see the irony that the end result of their position is the same.

Hepburn

(21,054 posts)
19. If every candidate running for the Dem Nom was female and not male,
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 11:20 AM
Nov 2015

Hillary would still be my last choice. It's her policies -- NOT HER PLUMBING!!!!!!

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
20. And you know this how. Hillary is worse than some imagined woman
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 11:21 AM
Nov 2015

you know nothing of?

That seems a bit extreme, no?

Hepburn

(21,054 posts)
23. Again:
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 11:33 AM
Nov 2015

I looked at her policies and her past actions -- I don't agree and/or support most of what she has done. Her gender is not relevant.

I would not agree and/or support her past actions if she were male, transgendered or any imaginable ilk of genitalia, including asexual. WOMEN DO NOT THINK WITH THEIR VAGINAS. Get over it, OK? I entered into a male dominated profession when women attorneys were rather rare. I got called "honey," "sweetheart", "dear" and asked when in Judge's chambers to take the notes on the conference.

I have been there and done that...there is nothing that makes me pro and/or anti a candidate because of the plumbing. Hear me: I was a TRIAL ATTORNEY -- not a FEMALE TRIAL ATTORNEY. My gender did not matter. Getting the job done mattered and I can damn well tell you that I NEVER had a client come into my office and say, "I am here cuz you are a woman." They came because I got the job done and they knew it.

Get over it, OK? Female or not female: HER POLICIES SUCK, IMO. That's my opinion and if she were a man, my opinion would be the same. She is way, way too moderate for me. I am a liberal and have been one since in grade school in the 1960s in a solid Repub mid-west town I began to support socialized medicine for everyone. My Repubbie, Country Club parents were appalled. But...I stood my ground and I have never backed down or seen it necessary to resort to my gender for support for and/or against me.

Your concentration on gender? I find that extreme. Her plumbing is NOT important. Her policies are.



boston bean

(36,223 posts)
37. Again, how do you know she would be worse than some imagined other woman candidate?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:24 PM
Nov 2015

Any woman in the world is better than her?

ismnotwasm

(41,999 posts)
48. Her policies will bring America forward and swing it left.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:58 PM
Nov 2015

And more importantly are actually obtainable.

Of you think gender doesn't matter, you haven't been paying attention. No righteous rant will ever EVER change that.

 

FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
21. Can't wait for the "Legally insane 3 days a month"
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 11:21 AM
Nov 2015

Was that not the meme when Mondale ran with Geraldine Ferraro

You certainly have a "Tough road to plough" and I sincerely wish you and your choice all the best

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
24. Inane reasoning in OP. Completely effed up logic.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 11:38 AM
Nov 2015

"But I ask you what was I voting with when I voted for all those men? I don't have a penis, so I wasn't voting with that."

That makes SENSE to you?

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
26. I have figured all along that many Clinton supporters are voting for her just because of her gend
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 11:50 AM
Nov 2015

You have verified that. Only a couple of posters have admitted to being sick and tired of voting for white men, but I suspect it's quite a prevalent feeling among a segment of the population. This op was quite a strange rant.

ismnotwasm

(41,999 posts)
50. And I've figured out
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:00 PM
Nov 2015

That certain Sanders supporters are voting for him because he is a man. Terrified of true change.

 

Android3.14

(5,402 posts)
30. If gender was the reason someone voted for a candidate, then the voter is an idiot
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 12:08 PM
Nov 2015

So when Clinton loses the primary and Carly wins the GOP nomination, you'll be voting for the GOP in the general.

With you, does gender trump good sense?

 

pinebox

(5,761 posts)
34. I won't mock it BUT
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 12:17 PM
Nov 2015

if your ONLY defense is "Hillary is a woman", then I will say that's a very weak argument. Incredibly so.
What matters IS THE ISSUES and nothing more. That's what really matters. Gender doesn't make policy, the person does however. Remember, the next candidate will have an impact on you and possibly your kids if you have any for the next 4 years and maybe 8.

bobbobbins01

(1,681 posts)
35. So if Bernie Sanders and Carly Fiorina are the candidates...
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:18 PM
Nov 2015

You'll be voting for the woman? That is essentially what you're saying here.

bobbobbins01

(1,681 posts)
38. "This time, seems likely I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance."
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:24 PM
Nov 2015

Thats what I think you're saying.

bobbobbins01

(1,681 posts)
40. That'll you'll vote for any woman over any man this election.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:46 PM
Nov 2015

If that isn't true then your OP isn't clear.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
69. Even though. Words have meaning. The words you used made it clear you'll vote for the woman.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:29 PM
Nov 2015

You said nothing about her party.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
71. According to your OP? For NO other reason than she's a woman.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:31 PM
Nov 2015

Reading isn't rocket science. Your words are crystal clear. The words in the OP that is.

 

cherokeeprogressive

(24,853 posts)
77. "I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance." Brick wall is right.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:34 PM
Nov 2015

Built by your own hand.

 

berni_mccoy

(23,018 posts)
45. Just quoting your OP: "I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance"
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:55 PM
Nov 2015

Yup. Seems clear to me.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
47. If Hillary wins the nomination, and she is a woman, I will vote for her.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:58 PM
Nov 2015

That means I vote based on sex?

No one seemed to think I was voting based on sex all the times I voted for a male candidate.

Such a double standard. A woman voting for a woman, means she is voting based on sex. A woman voting for a male candidate (sometimes one that is not ideal), when no female has ever been on the ballot is not.

Wow.... so much to unravel here with so little time, and really don't want to have to explain how incredibly stupid this line of attack is.

 

berni_mccoy

(23,018 posts)
49. Now you're changing your position like Hillary does...
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:00 PM
Nov 2015

That's not what you said in your OP. You said, and I quote "I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance".

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
51. I did, where? I know us women have a reputation of not being able to make up our minds.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:02 PM
Nov 2015

But if you please, point to exactly where I have changed my position. You know, take the entire OP, not one little sentence you think you confer your own meaning onto.

 

berni_mccoy

(23,018 posts)
53. You never mentioned Hillary in your OP or that this was about her.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:04 PM
Nov 2015

You simply said "I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance"

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
54. I said this:
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:06 PM
Nov 2015
This time, seems likely I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance.


Oh, so because I didn't say the name Hillary, leads you to believe I meant someone else, here in GDP on Democratic Underground. Glad to have cleared that up.

Obviously, I meant Hillary, and now I assume I have satisfied your inquiries?
 

berni_mccoy

(23,018 posts)
61. Was pretty clear you were voting for a woman because you are a woman.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:25 PM
Nov 2015

I can only go on what your words were. If you want to change them now, that's fine.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
62. I am a duplicitous woman, in your eye? And what I say, doesn't really mean what I am saying?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:27 PM
Nov 2015

How about you go with what I did say in totality instead of some stuff you made up.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
68. Read it. And then read my responses to you.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:29 PM
Nov 2015

If you think that means what you say it does, there is nothing I can do to help you.

 

berni_mccoy

(23,018 posts)
75. I did read it. I'm not the only one to have this impression.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:32 PM
Nov 2015

I know sometimes when people say things, they later regret them. No harm no foul.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
73. The part you excerpted says clearly that you'll vote for fiorina if it's her versus Sanders
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:32 PM
Nov 2015

Many of us knew that already

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
80. I clearly said I would vote for Fiorina? And you know I would do this how???...
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:41 PM
Nov 2015

Really?

Is Fiorina someone likely to be on the ballot in the GE? Cause what I said is I will likely be able to vote for a woman this time. And being a democrat on a democratic board, figured I was pretty safe in assuming people knew I was speaking of Hillary, but my bad on that.

But you go on ahead, you got a good little scenario brewing there in your imagination, that I wouldn't want to get in the way of. I'm use to having words put in my mouth, as a woman, it happens quite often. Us woman don't usually know what's good for us, right? I mean, in your eyes, we could never support Clinton for any reason other than her sharing the same sex... But never get questioned on who we vote for when voting for males for the last almost 100 years.... because, just because. The only reason women would vote for a woman is because we share the same sex? That type of opinion is stupid, insulting and sexist.

Thanks for proving the point of the OP.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
99. You wrote this - verbatim
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 06:39 PM
Nov 2015
seems likely I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance.


This states that if Carly is the only female on the ballot, you will vote for her. If it ends up being Carly vs. a male, you'll need to either walk this back, or violate the ToS by supporting a R over a D.

MineralMan

(146,325 posts)
43. Me, too. Sadly, that was all that was offered on the ballot.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 02:51 PM
Nov 2015

I believe that will change in 2016. Since the woman who probably will appear on my ballot is a Democrat, then I'll be voting for her enthusiastically. I always vote for the Democratic presidential candidate and for Democrats in general.

Betty McCollum is my congressional representative and Amy Klobuchar is one of my senators. I'm proud of them for their support of important issues in Congress. That's why I voted for them. That's why I vote for Democrats. They do better for us than Republicans.

I'll gladly vote for a woman for President. I can't see how the gender of a candidate has anything to do with it. In a fair world, at least half of our candidates would be women, in keeping with the gender distribution in our society.

 

HassleCat

(6,409 posts)
52. That would be nice
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:03 PM
Nov 2015

It would be nice to have a woman as president. I'm thinking Elizabeth Warren or somebody like that.

Kali

(55,019 posts)
101. Um well...
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 08:20 PM
Nov 2015

the whole point of confronting patriarchy is related to the issues of men in power and how and why they get there. so yeah, I think we (mostly) have "accused," stated, complained, articulated, pointed out, and otherwise noted that sexism has been driving politics and most other social institutions for (way more) than the past 200 years.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
102. We accused women of voting for men because why?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 08:28 PM
Nov 2015

We are talking two real different things here.

Men holding power over and unfair advantage over women based on sex and accusing women of sexism or playing a gender card and voting only for a woman because they have a vagina is not the same.

Women were never accused of voting for a male based on sex. This is a new phenomena we are witnessing. One that happens to really favor men by attempting to shame women who are voting for a woman.



Kali

(55,019 posts)
104. we do seem to be talking about different things
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 08:45 PM
Nov 2015

it seems a lot of people in this thread misunderstand what you wrote in the OP. I see where the confusion comes from, but all the cross talk is not very productive.

saying one will be able to vote for a woman and will do it is a hair different than saying the that one is going to be voting for some one who is in political alignment AND is a woman. I am pretty sure you grasp that. the first obviously leaves one open to questions of does that mean ANY woman? and if the answer was yes (I know that it is not) then the decision could be seen as sexist.

however, my comment was attempting to point out that we do indeed "accuse" men of voting for men because they are men (or rather just plain keeping women out because they are women). the whole system is sexist.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
105. I almost agree.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 08:52 PM
Nov 2015

However my stating I will vote for a woman is fact. It doesnt mean i am only voting for a woman because she is a woman.

Second, sexism does exist in politics but it isnt coming from women who will cast a vote for a woman. Throughout this thread i have pointed the the history, sexist history of men controlling this process as a way to show how women werent being accused of sexism in voting for men even though there was a sexist component. Not originating from women though.

Kali

(55,019 posts)
106. see, I would tweak this
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 09:06 PM
Nov 2015

"Second, sexism does exist in politics but it isnt coming from women who will cast a vote for a woman." by adding the word "all" or the phrase "the majority of."

Second, sexism does exist in politics but it isnt coming from all (or the majority of) women who will cast a vote for a woman.


because even for Hillary, I am positive there will be SOME women (and men) who WILL be voting for her solely because she is a woman.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
107. I see a tactic being used to deligitimize
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 09:10 PM
Nov 2015

the historical importance of her run. I sincerely doubt that many people are voting for her only beause she is a woman. But attempts to deny people the pride of voting for the first female nominee is a real dirty tactic.

Kali

(55,019 posts)
110. I don't see anybody doing that.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 09:19 PM
Nov 2015

I see a lot of blather about her and her supporters that is just over the top crap, but haven't seen anybody denying the pride of voting for a female. I see some (legitimate) concern about whether that is a good enough criteria to be the major reason to vote for her, but I suspect tons of people would really love to be voting for a first female candidate that they really agree with politically. Lots of wish-it-were-Warren folks around.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
111. Accusing women of voting for her
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 09:23 PM
Nov 2015

Based on sex as you have seen throughtout this thread is a way to deligitimize my vote and her candidacy.

Kali

(55,019 posts)
113. the "accusations" you got about that were kind of a
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 09:38 PM
Nov 2015

self-fulfilling reaction to the way you worded the OP, I don't see anybody out there doing that in general.

of course I have to give my usual disclaimer - I am trying to avoid gdp so maybe it is going on. but I haven't seen it anywhere casually from getting called to juries or the random thread I actually look at.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
114. Then you haven't been paying close enough attention, sorry. It's not just this thread it's all over
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 09:48 PM
Nov 2015

this website.

You need to use the disclaimer on this.

I don't make this shit up out of thin air. I've been confronted with it for MONTHS!

ETA I appreciate the conversation with you though. Thank you.

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
59. So, you're telling us that you are making your choice SOLELY based on gender
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:25 PM
Nov 2015

and that even though you know the candidate you support will not be a good choice for the country, you don't care because you are just plain fed up with having to vote for (eeyew) men.

It takes courage to admit that you plan to vote for an inferior candidate on the basis of plumbing, but I applaud you for being brave enough to do it!

tularetom

(23,664 posts)
76. I have no interest whatsoever in what motivated your past voting record
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:33 PM
Nov 2015

But I am proud of you for being honest enough to disclose what you plan to do this time.

To paraphrase your post - "I know my candidate is awful, but I'm voting for her because she has an innie rather than an outie".

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
86. Well, something that motivated my past voting record
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:52 PM
Nov 2015

in the GE was that I only had the option of voting for a male. I can't believe there hasn't been one single qualified women to win the nomination. But since we women have only been allowed to vote for the last 95 years, I would assume some of the voting was in fact based upon sex, which is rarely discussed or taken into consideration. Which is really fascinating if you think of it, cause not once were people accused of voting based on sex until we have a woman who very likely will be nominated for President in the year 2016.

So, yes I will vote for a woman. That you want to say my vote is based on sex only is your characterization. Not mine.

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
90. You voted third party in the GE, I presume? I did not.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 04:25 PM
Nov 2015

As is obvious I am writing about the Democratic nomination. You know, something we discuss incessantly here in GDP, the only place you can discuss the Democratic Primary?

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
67. In this campaign the female happens to be the best presidential candidate. I like voting for the
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:29 PM
Nov 2015

best candidate. Voting against Clinton just because she is female is a poor excuse.

Renew Deal

(81,870 posts)
81. Will you vote for Fiorina if she runs against a man?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:41 PM
Nov 2015

"This time, seems likely I will have a choice to vote for a woman, and I will if given the chance."

boston bean

(36,223 posts)
83. Is it likely Fiorina will be on the ballot?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 03:43 PM
Nov 2015

pretending you don't know who I am talking about here in GDP on Democratic Underground is fascinating really.

Renew Deal

(81,870 posts)
92. Not just me if you look at this thread.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 04:26 PM
Nov 2015

And I'm pretty sure you would consider me friendly compared to some people here

PufPuf23

(8,821 posts)
96. I would like to see a woman POTUS and would certainly vote for a woman candidate.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 04:46 PM
Nov 2015

I have not yet read this thread so my response is only to your OP.

For a thought experiment try replacing woman with man and man with woman and vagina with penis and vice versa.

Do you intend to vote for Carly Fiorina should she be the only female candidate in the 2016 election?

Would you be happy with Ben Carson or Pizza Guy (can't remember his name) as the first Black POTUS?

I do not want to be forced to vote for Hillary Clinton because of her track record, her stated positions on policy, and my perceptions of her character; her sex or race or religion or other identity is immaterial.

So many potential voters within the Democratic Party and others in the USA have such earned and crazy talk bad impressions of HRC she represents the GOPs greatest hope of winning the 2016 POTUS election. Her candidacy not only exposed the DP to this risk but has blocked any of a number of potential good Democratic candidates that may have made an effort in this election cycle.

mhatrw

(10,786 posts)
97. You have also been voting for a CHRISTIAN for President of the US since you've been able to vote.
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 05:36 PM
Nov 2015

Do we really need another avowed Christian as President?

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
109. Did you vote for them because they were the best candidate or because they had a penis?
Sun Nov 8, 2015, 09:12 PM
Nov 2015

If you voted for them because they were the best candidate and you're voting for Hillary because solely because she has a vagina, then you're kind of being a hypocrite by explicitly asking to be called out for it and so you should be called out for it.

Hillary is certainly not the best choice by any metric. If you oppose what Hillary is running on, then Sanders is a better choice. If you support what Hillary is running on, then vote GOP...it's a more full-throat version of the exact same policies. Because that's what Hillary is...a milquetoast half-hearted Republican. To Hell with her.

I've voted for lots of women for President, including the ones I wrote in because I don't vote for DLCers or Clintons or the allies of either.

This is the woman I most recently voted for, for President:


Her name is Jill Stein and despite having no chance of ever being elected President, she'd be a damned sight better as President than Hillary "Fake Democrat" Clinton.

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