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BainsBane

(53,072 posts) Mon May 27, 2013, 07:39 PM May 2013

Dating guru Alex Matlock: Sex with women who fear you and push you away might not be much fun

So “dating” guru Roosh has a post up on his Return of Kings blog by another self-professed dating guru, Alex Matlock, who rates various types of “bad sex” according to the type of female partner who’s involved in them, including such charmingly named types as “The one that tries too much (aka The Disaster)” and “The one that doesn’t move (aka The Starfish or The Doll).”

I expected a good deal of standard-issue manosphere misogyny in Matlock’s list, but I honestly couldn’t make it past his description of what he regards as the second-worst type of female sex partner: “The one that’s scared (aka The Virgin).” Because what he’s describing doesn’t sound so much like “bad sex” as “date rape.”
http://manboobz.com/

Evidently this comes as a revelation to MRAsmas.

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Dating guru Alex Matlock: Sex with women who fear you and push you away might not be much fun (Original Post) BainsBane May 2013 OP

Well, no shit, Sherlock. How did you stumble across Arkansas Granny May 2013 #1

What an astonishing revelation! arcane1 May 2013 #2

Who reads this shit ? CincyDem May 2013 #3

Two kinds of people. Those who hate women, redqueen May 2013 #4

Maybe I should be asking different question - who WRITES this shit ? CincyDem May 2013 #6

More than you would dare to imagine. redqueen May 2013 #8

Excellent question! Laelth May 2013 #11

Those who seek ideological justification BainsBane May 2013 #5

Why would anyone seek ideological justification for their hatred of women? Laelth May 2013 #12

"Sits in some extremely awkward positions that make you give up and just go missionary." ismnotwasm May 2013 #7

That reminds me of your recent post from the formerly "sex positive" feminist... redqueen May 2013 #9

Ya gotta learn what you like ismnotwasm May 2013 #10

Arkansas Granny

(31,532 posts)

1. Well, no shit, Sherlock. How did you stumble across

Reply to BainsBane (Original post)

Mon May 27, 2013, 07:42 PM

May 2013

this little nugget of wisdom?

arcane1

(38,613 posts)

2. What an astonishing revelation!

Reply to BainsBane (Original post)

Mon May 27, 2013, 07:46 PM

May 2013

CincyDem

(6,390 posts)

3. Who reads this shit ?

Reply to BainsBane (Original post)

Mon May 27, 2013, 07:50 PM

May 2013

"If you manage to land such a slampiece...". Is there some contest for how many different ways we can be insulting to women ?

redqueen

(115,103 posts)

4. Two kinds of people. Those who hate women,

Reply to CincyDem (Reply #3)

Mon May 27, 2013, 07:57 PM

May 2013

and those who make it their business to expose / mock / contradict the vile shit those misogynists are attempting to normalize.

CincyDem

(6,390 posts)

6. Maybe I should be asking different question - who WRITES this shit ?

Reply to redqueen (Reply #4)

Mon May 27, 2013, 08:26 PM

May 2013

Seriously - people sit around and think of this stuff as witty ?

Sorry. Doesn't do it for me.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)

8. More than you would dare to imagine.

Reply to CincyDem (Reply #6)

Mon May 27, 2013, 08:35 PM

May 2013

There's a reason the SPLC decided to start watching these shits.

The manosphere is still growing, and far too few people seem to be aware of what that means.

http://www.salon.com/2009/11/05/mens_rights/
http://www.theatlanticwire.com/global/2013/04/earl-silverman-suicide/64696/
http://www.bostonmagazine.com/2012/08/angry-men-feminist-agenda/

Laelth

(32,017 posts)

11. Excellent question!

Reply to redqueen (Reply #8)

Tue May 28, 2013, 09:38 AM

May 2013

What does it mean that the manosphere is growing?

I am genuinely interested in your perspective on this question.

-Laelth

BainsBane

(53,072 posts)

5. Those who seek ideological justification

Reply to CincyDem (Reply #3)

Mon May 27, 2013, 08:07 PM

May 2013

for their hatred of women.

Laelth

(32,017 posts)

12. Why would anyone seek ideological justification for their hatred of women?

Reply to BainsBane (Reply #5)

Tue May 28, 2013, 09:42 AM

May 2013

Why do they hate (or fear) women at all?

These are very important questions, I think.

-Laelth

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)

7. "Sits in some extremely awkward positions that make you give up and just go missionary."

Reply to BainsBane (Original post)

Mon May 27, 2013, 08:30 PM

May 2013

This is so ridiculously dumbass it actually reminds me of a scene from the movie "Mallrats"

Shannon Hamilton: Smart-ass ex-boyfriend! I've got two things to tell you. One: I don't like you. I see you every week in this mall. I don't like you shiftless layabouts. You're one of those loser fucking mallrat kids. You don't come to the mall to shop or work. You hang out all day, act like you fucking live here. Well, I have no respect for people with no shopping agenda.

Brodie: Is this what's known as motivated salesmanship?

[Shannon Hamilton beats up Brodie]

Shannon Hamilton: Rene told me to leave you alone, but she's fucking clueless. The newly single always feel a bit protective of the ex-boyfriend.

Brodie: If this is her idea of protective, I'd hate to have her mad at me.

Shannon Hamilton: You see, Bruce, I like to pick up girls on the rebound from a disappointing relationship. They're much more in need of solace and they're fairly open to suggestion. And, I use that to fuck them some place very uncomfortable.

Brodie: What, like the back of a Volkswagen?

Shannon Hamilton: No. More like someplace girls dread.

[Brodie tries to take a poke at Shannon, Shannons gives him another beat-down]

redqueen

(115,103 posts)

9. That reminds me of your recent post from the formerly "sex positive" feminist...

Reply to ismnotwasm (Reply #7)

Mon May 27, 2013, 08:44 PM

May 2013

I love that it was from a radical feminist site that she saw the problems in that 'ok so a lot of women are writing to me about how they're being pressured to do anal, let me explain how they can go against their own desires ... and say nothing at all about how maybe pressuring your partner into doing something they don't want to is wrong, because for god's sake we can't dare to in any way address the issue of coercion, heavens no!' tidal wave of dipshittery.

ismnotwasm

(42,014 posts)

10. Ya gotta learn what you like

Reply to redqueen (Reply #9)

Mon May 27, 2013, 09:42 PM

May 2013

And don't like.

Coercion is just ugliness.

Kristy, Are You Doing OK?
The Offspring

There's a moment in time
And it's stuck in my mind
Way back when we were just kids
'Cuz your eyes told a tale
Of an act of betrayal
I knew that somebody did

Oh, waves of time
Seem to wash away the scenes of our crimes
For you this never ends

Can you stay strong
Can you go on
Kristy are you doing ok
A rose that won't bloom
Winter's kept you
Don't waste your whole life trying
To get back what was taken away

Though the marks on your dress
Have been neatly repressed
I knew that something was wrong
And I should have spoke out
And I'm so sorry now
I didn't know
'Cuz we were so young

Oh, clouds of time
Seem to rain on innocence left behind
It never goes away

Can you stay strong
Can you go on
Kristy are you doing ok
A rose that won't bloom
Winter's kept you
Don't waste your whole life trying
To get back what was taken away

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