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mercuryblues

(14,532 posts)
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 09:19 AM Oct 2013

Dear Little One

Recently, your mother and I were searching the Internet, and Google returned a list of the most popular searches in the world. Perched at the top was “How to keep him interested.”

It startled me. I scanned several of the countless articles about how to be sexy, when to bring him a beer versus a sandwich, and the ways to make him feel smart and superior.

And I got angry.

Little One, it is not, has never been, and never will be your job to “keep him interested"



Read more: http://www.rd.com/advice/relationships/what-one-dad-wants-his-girl-to-know-about-her-future-husband/#ixzz2iSLBryJJ

Article like the one he is talking about make me SMH.
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Dear Little One (Original Post) mercuryblues Oct 2013 OP
This is pure awesomeness ismnotwasm Oct 2013 #1

ismnotwasm

(41,989 posts)
1. This is pure awesomeness
Tue Oct 22, 2013, 04:10 PM
Oct 2013

The message little girls can't help internalizing is 'keep him interested'--look at any grocery store magazine selection. Autonomous self decoration is one thing, promoting a culture that literally makes women sick is quite another. Good for this Dad for seeing through it.

As a particularly disturbing example, There's a form of anorexia that type one diabetic young women will develop. They allow their blood sugar to get so high they literally piss away calories.

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