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God promised men... (Original Post) seabeyond Nov 2013 OP
Wife Liked That One Immensely, Ma'am The Magistrate Nov 2013 #1
every one is picturing god rotfl that makes it so perfect. lol. you are welcome. nt seabeyond Nov 2013 #2
Heh! ismnotwasm Nov 2013 #3
You have to read in between the lines coldbeer Nov 2013 #32
K & R L0oniX Nov 2013 #4
Good one! libodem Nov 2013 #5
So God doesn't understand the common English idiom? rock Nov 2013 #6
nope It means that God is the Delphic Oracle annabanana Nov 2013 #12
Well in all fairness it is not his first language. zeemike Nov 2013 #15
um, that's an apostrophe misuse there.... BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #18
It's OK, I make mistakes. zeemike Nov 2013 #21
:) BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #22
Oh no, you too? zeemike Nov 2013 #23
hmmm....I guess I should be grateful.... BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #24
Oh hell, I thought apostrophes were something you owned. zeemike Nov 2013 #27
well yes, as a fatter of mact, BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #28
Well that is an interesting job. zeemike Nov 2013 #29
I like to laugh. Chaco Dundee Nov 2013 #7
You just got a K&R from an atheist. nt awoke_in_2003 Nov 2013 #8
I don't know why women even want to get married. redqueen Nov 2013 #9
hey.... seabeyond Nov 2013 #10
I'm half waiting for someone to show up redqueen Nov 2013 #17
hee! good one! BlancheSplanchnik Nov 2013 #19
I guess we are in good company Blanche~ sheshe2 Nov 2013 #33
And yet some still do... Flatulo Nov 2013 #11
Your situation is NOT the norm. redqueen Nov 2013 #13
I'm not sure what passes for 'the norm' these days, but it works for us. Flatulo Nov 2013 #26
If you were a feminist you would likely have some idea. redqueen Nov 2013 #30
I don't know the statistics, but I've seen some of it first-hand in my own family. Flatulo Nov 2013 #31
My father did all the housework and cooking too. NuclearDem Nov 2013 #14
You've already pre-made that decision for your future spouse? What if he/she likes to cook? Flatulo Nov 2013 #25
I think you're kinda missing the obvious point there.... LanternWaste Nov 2013 #36
heh yuiyoshida Nov 2013 #16
God.... Wounded Bear Nov 2013 #20
Thanks seabeyond! sheshe2 Nov 2013 #34
I have never understood the desire for an "obedient" spouse GeoWilliam750 Nov 2013 #35

coldbeer

(306 posts)
32. You have to read in between the lines
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 06:11 PM
Nov 2013

What is a wife in Scripture?


Jubilees 03:06 And he awakened Adam from his sleep, and when he
awoke, he stood up on the sixth day. And he brought
her to him and he knew her and said to her, "This is
now the bone of my bone and the flesh from my flesh.
This one will be called my wife because she was taken
from her husband."
This is the Book of Jubilees. Jesus read it. The interpretation is
that Adam took the already married Eve from her husband (Adam took
her). Cain slew Abel and took Abel's spouse and her children).

Cain slew Abel, Moses and David killed their brother. The prize was the wife.
She had dollar bills. BTW, Jubilees is older than Geneses.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
15. Well in all fairness it is not his first language.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 01:23 PM
Nov 2013

Even those that speak English have problems with literalisms.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
18. um, that's an apostrophe misuse there....
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 01:32 PM
Nov 2013

Literalisms. Plural noun, no apostrophe.

Sorry, pet peeve of a grammar nazi.....

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
22. :)
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 02:03 PM
Nov 2013

Hey if I kept up with house chores as well as I do with apostrophes, I'd have a kitchen sink I could actually see.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
23. Oh no, you too?
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 02:11 PM
Nov 2013

I thought I was alone in the world...but I am fare worse, I don't even keep up with my apostrophes.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
24. hmmm....I guess I should be grateful....
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 02:15 PM
Nov 2013

Apostrophes....at least I've got that!!!!

Grammar edit: them. "At least I've got them".

Unless you're talking about the attribute of good apostrophe usage. Then it would properly be, "that".

It is important to clarify these things.

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
27. Oh hell, I thought apostrophes were something you owned.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 03:56 PM
Nov 2013

But thanks for the grammar lesson...you must be an English teacher.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
28. well yes, as a fatter of mact,
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 04:20 PM
Nov 2013

I DO own them. I collect royalties every time an apostrophe is used.

Guess I should come clean on that....




And FWIW, I'm a Sign Language Interpreter. Which is pretty language based!!

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
29. Well that is an interesting job.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 04:29 PM
Nov 2013

But I have to ask, do they use apostrophes?
Just kidding of course, even I am not that dense in language.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
9. I don't know why women even want to get married.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 12:53 PM
Nov 2013

We should talk more about the origins of the tradition, the reality of the division of household labor, etc.

Women do their daughters no favors by whitewashing this shit.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
17. I'm half waiting for someone to show up
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 01:30 PM
Nov 2013

to tell us that this is women's fault, because moms raise sons to be lazy.

I can't get enough of that whole 'there's a woman to blame, somewhere, dammit!' schtick. It never gets old!

sheshe2

(83,791 posts)
33. I guess we are in good company Blanche~
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 08:48 PM
Nov 2013

It's usually Obama's fault.

Women and Obama to a fault so to speak~

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
11. And yet some still do...
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 01:09 PM
Nov 2013

All my SO talked about while we were dating was getting married. She wanted all the traditional stuff, even took my last name.

Yet somehow I still got stuck with doing all the cooking and housework.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
26. I'm not sure what passes for 'the norm' these days, but it works for us.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 03:10 PM
Nov 2013

For 35 years I worked as an engineer and payed all the household bills. She worked part-time and we split the chores.

Now I'm disabled and she's the larger wage-earner, so she's funding most of the household. I have the time to do the housework, so I do what I can with a bad back.

As far as the cooking, I enjoy doing it, she doesn't so that settles out well.

All in all we have what I consider to be an equitable arrangement. We've been married for 28 years, together for 33. Financially we're in OK shape, as I earned six figures in my prime and saved a good deal.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
30. If you were a feminist you would likely have some idea.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 05:13 PM
Nov 2013

The division of unpaid (household) labor, specifically as it is split in two-income households, is the subject of studies, discussions, etc.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
31. I don't know the statistics, but I've seen some of it first-hand in my own family.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 05:24 PM
Nov 2013

My sister and her husband both worked for Apple for the last 23 years or so. He left for another job, then got laid- off. He was laid-off for two years, and in that entire time he never once so much as boiled a cup of water for himself. My sister commuted 90 minutes each way, and at the end of a 14 hour day was expected to prepare something 'interesting' for dinner. His own word.

And keep the house clean, pay the bills, and (I can only assume) put out as required.

Unbelievable. My sister is a smart lady, but is more afraid of being alone than kicking this guy's useless ass.

I suspect this type of crap is fairly common. You don't have to be a feminist to see how terribly wrong this situation is.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
14. My father did all the housework and cooking too.
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 01:21 PM
Nov 2013

As will I if I ever decide to get married.

Gender roles are bullshit.

 

Flatulo

(5,005 posts)
25. You've already pre-made that decision for your future spouse? What if he/she likes to cook?
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 03:05 PM
Nov 2013

I cook by mutual agreement, as she's just not into it.

The cleaning, well, no one wants to do that, but it needs to be done, so I just do it as I now have more time than she does.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
36. I think you're kinda missing the obvious point there....
Tue Nov 5, 2013, 04:23 PM
Nov 2013

I think you're kinda missing the obvious point there via the mechanism of a hypothetical scenario rather irrelevant to the topic being discussed.

Merely half a brain indicates the relevant and obvious point of the poster is that traditional "gender roles are bullshit"-- not as to whether the poster will or will not deny their partner something they enjoy doing. No more than that, no less than that.


However, I readily admit to not knowing whether a quarter-brain can see that or not.

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