History of Feminism
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(95,247 posts)Thank you.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)coldbeer
(306 posts)What is a wife in Scripture?
Jubilees 03:06 And he awakened Adam from his sleep, and when he
awoke, he stood up on the sixth day. And he brought
her to him and he knew her and said to her, "This is
now the bone of my bone and the flesh from my flesh.
This one will be called my wife because she was taken
from her husband." This is the Book of Jubilees. Jesus read it. The interpretation is
that Adam took the already married Eve from her husband (Adam took
her). Cain slew Abel and took Abel's spouse and her children).
Cain slew Abel, Moses and David killed their brother. The prize was the wife.
She had dollar bills. BTW, Jubilees is older than Geneses.
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)libodem
(19,288 posts)Tee hee hee.
rock
(13,218 posts)That is a good one!
annabanana
(52,791 posts)or something
zeemike
(18,998 posts)Even those that speak English have problems with literalisms.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Literalisms. Plural noun, no apostrophe.
Sorry, pet peeve of a grammar nazi.....
zeemike
(18,998 posts)And I am not bothered by corrections.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Hey if I kept up with house chores as well as I do with apostrophes, I'd have a kitchen sink I could actually see.
zeemike
(18,998 posts)I thought I was alone in the world...but I am fare worse, I don't even keep up with my apostrophes.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)Apostrophes....at least I've got that!!!!
Grammar edit: them. "At least I've got them".
Unless you're talking about the attribute of good apostrophe usage. Then it would properly be, "that".
It is important to clarify these things.
zeemike
(18,998 posts)But thanks for the grammar lesson...you must be an English teacher.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)I DO own them. I collect royalties every time an apostrophe is used.
Guess I should come clean on that....
And FWIW, I'm a Sign Language Interpreter. Which is pretty language based!!
zeemike
(18,998 posts)But I have to ask, do they use apostrophes?
Just kidding of course, even I am not that dense in language.
Chaco Dundee
(334 posts)Best laugh I had in a while.
awoke_in_2003
(34,582 posts)redqueen
(115,103 posts)We should talk more about the origins of the tradition, the reality of the division of household labor, etc.
Women do their daughters no favors by whitewashing this shit.
seabeyond
(110,159 posts)i will agree. llol
redqueen
(115,103 posts)to tell us that this is women's fault, because moms raise sons to be lazy.
I can't get enough of that whole 'there's a woman to blame, somewhere, dammit!' schtick. It never gets old!
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)"There's a woman to blame somewhere, dammit!!"
sheshe2
(83,791 posts)It's usually Obama's fault.
Women and Obama to a fault so to speak~
Flatulo
(5,005 posts)All my SO talked about while we were dating was getting married. She wanted all the traditional stuff, even took my last name.
Yet somehow I still got stuck with doing all the cooking and housework.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)It is very, very far from the norm.
Flatulo
(5,005 posts)For 35 years I worked as an engineer and payed all the household bills. She worked part-time and we split the chores.
Now I'm disabled and she's the larger wage-earner, so she's funding most of the household. I have the time to do the housework, so I do what I can with a bad back.
As far as the cooking, I enjoy doing it, she doesn't so that settles out well.
All in all we have what I consider to be an equitable arrangement. We've been married for 28 years, together for 33. Financially we're in OK shape, as I earned six figures in my prime and saved a good deal.
redqueen
(115,103 posts)The division of unpaid (household) labor, specifically as it is split in two-income households, is the subject of studies, discussions, etc.
Flatulo
(5,005 posts)My sister and her husband both worked for Apple for the last 23 years or so. He left for another job, then got laid- off. He was laid-off for two years, and in that entire time he never once so much as boiled a cup of water for himself. My sister commuted 90 minutes each way, and at the end of a 14 hour day was expected to prepare something 'interesting' for dinner. His own word.
And keep the house clean, pay the bills, and (I can only assume) put out as required.
Unbelievable. My sister is a smart lady, but is more afraid of being alone than kicking this guy's useless ass.
I suspect this type of crap is fairly common. You don't have to be a feminist to see how terribly wrong this situation is.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)As will I if I ever decide to get married.
Gender roles are bullshit.
Flatulo
(5,005 posts)I cook by mutual agreement, as she's just not into it.
The cleaning, well, no one wants to do that, but it needs to be done, so I just do it as I now have more time than she does.
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I think you're kinda missing the obvious point there via the mechanism of a hypothetical scenario rather irrelevant to the topic being discussed.
Merely half a brain indicates the relevant and obvious point of the poster is that traditional "gender roles are bullshit"-- not as to whether the poster will or will not deny their partner something they enjoy doing. No more than that, no less than that.
However, I readily admit to not knowing whether a quarter-brain can see that or not.
yuiyoshida
(41,832 posts)love it!~
Wounded Bear
(58,670 posts)Forgive, O Lord, my little jokes on Thee, and I'll forgive Thy great big joke on me.
Robert Frost
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