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redqueen

(115,103 posts)
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 04:39 PM Mar 2014

Darren Sharper admitted to having "non-consensual sex" with a woman. Really?

I'm watching the goals from the Arsenal game this morning, and I'm so fortunate to see those words, again, on the news crawl under the game.

What is so hard to understand? There is no such thing as "non-consensual sex", it's rape. Rape culture is why so many "journalists" and others insist on euphemizing rape.

Oh, and the reason this piece of shit is in the news having his actions whitewashed again is because judge Renee Korn might have to let him out of jail, because holding him there is so "unfair".

No, I'm not exaggerating:
http://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/2014/03/07/darren-sharper-extradition-hearing-los-angeles/6188441/

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Darren Sharper admitted to having "non-consensual sex" with a woman. Really? (Original Post) redqueen Mar 2014 OP
Even if ablamj Mar 2014 #1
In fact, it makes the person unable to give consent. cui bono Mar 2014 #2
Thank you for the welcome... ablamj Mar 2014 #3
welcome mercuryblues Mar 2014 #5
So then, Darren Sharper admitted he is a rapist. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2014 #4
Suspected of nine rapes in five states theHandpuppet Mar 2014 #6
oh. and you forgot. it is only rape. nt seabeyond Mar 2014 #7
I had found an essay somewhere ismnotwasm Mar 2014 #8

ablamj

(333 posts)
1. Even if
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 04:59 PM
Mar 2014

they voluntarily drink the booze and take the drugs, that doesn't automatically equal consent to sex. And last I checked "non consensual sex" equals rape. Period!

ablamj

(333 posts)
3. Thank you for the welcome...
Sat Mar 8, 2014, 09:22 PM
Mar 2014

I've been here two years and this was my first welcome. I mostly read and don't post. The only other acknowledgement of my new-ness was when I was accused of being a previously banned person because I replied to someone posting a picture of a pizza saying "I love pizza." Apparently it's not a good thing to say even though it is my favorite food.

mercuryblues

(14,537 posts)
5. welcome
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 10:59 AM
Mar 2014

from a long time lurker, low poster.

In case you are mot aware on DU2, when a troll was banned. a tombstone appeared under their name. A pizza is posted accusing a poster of being a troll. Apparently it is ok for some members to accuse others of being trolls, but not others.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
6. Suspected of nine rapes in five states
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 11:15 AM
Mar 2014

But it's "grotesquely unfair" for his ass to sit in jail?

Oh... I forgot... he's a football player.

ismnotwasm

(41,998 posts)
8. I had found an essay somewhere
Sun Mar 9, 2014, 12:52 PM
Mar 2014

On the word rape, and how often it's used out of context. How minimizes the word, lessens it's meaning, it's impact. You see it in literature quite often " they raped the Vast forest for profit" and the like.

So here we have someone who simply erases it. Plays with the word "consent" to make his crime look less.


We have here , at best, someone skilled in manipulation, my guess is a sociopath. And they will let him out. We know this.

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