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one_voice

(20,043 posts)
Tue Jul 23, 2013, 01:17 PM Jul 2013

This is a little outdated but I thought..

this part was pertinent..

Ashley Judd in DC: I'm a Three-Time Rape Survivor

In her first appearance in Washington, DC since hinting at running for Senate in January, Ashley Judd opened up about the sexual abuse she was subjected to when she was younger

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But her most candid remarks may have come when she was asked if she had any advice for women who have been sexually assaulted:

I've been aware of gender violence all my life, being a survivor of gender violence. Yet I was astonished when I went to graduate school and started to do a deeper dive on gender violence here in America how prevalent rape and attempted rape is, particularly amongst young people. Am I correct that it's one in three college* students, college women? So that's a lot. That's a third of us in this room. And I think part of what's important, in addition to how we shape the narrative, is that we all have the courage to talk about it, because we're as sick as our secrets and the shame keeps us in isolation. And when we find that shared experience, we gather our strength and our hope. So for example, I'm a three-time survivor of rape, and about that I have no shame, because it was never my shame to begin with—it was the perpetrator's shame. And only when I was a grown empowered adult and had healthy boundaries and had the opportunity to do helpful work on that trauma was I able to say, okay, that perpetrator was shameless, and put their shame on me. Now I gave that shame back, and it's my job to break my isolation and talk with other girls and other women.



http://www.motherjones.com/mojo/2013/03/ashley-judd-dc-im-three-time-rape-survivor

This article is from March of this year. I'd also like to say that Ms. Judd spoke only of women and girls, but I want to point out that we include everyone in this group. The same principles apply to everyone.

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This is a little outdated but I thought.. (Original Post) one_voice Jul 2013 OP
Thanks, onevoice! Sissyk Jul 2013 #1
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