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LakeArenal

(28,817 posts)
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 11:31 AM Apr 2017

2-year-old girl defends her choice of doll

When 2-year-old Sophia was told she could pick out a prize for finishing her potty training, she knew just what she wanted......

......"She kept going back to the doctor doll, because in her mind, she is already a doctor," Benner said. "She loves giving checkups, and if you come in the house, she'll tell you that's the first thing you need."

Sophia, who will be 3 in July, was so excited by her choice that she wouldn't let go of her new doll until they reached the register to check out.

Did we mention that the doll is black and Sophia is white?

The issue came up right away, when a store cashier asked Sophia: Wouldn't she rather have a doll that looked like her?

According to her mother, Sophia had a ready answer.

"She does (look like me)!" the toddler responded. "She's a doctor; I'm a doctor. She is a pretty girl; I am a pretty girl. See her pretty hair? See her stethoscope?" (read more)

http://www.msn.com/en-us/news/good-news/2-year-old-girl-defends-her-choice-of-doll-to-cashier/ar-BBzimQj?li=BBnb7Kz

"She's a pretty girl; I'm a pretty girl" sigh.. aren't we all..

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2-year-old girl defends her choice of doll (Original Post) LakeArenal Apr 2017 OP
Sophia is true to her name- wise or wisdom n/t TexasProgresive Apr 2017 #1
Yes she is! silverweb Apr 2017 #19
I have a granddaughter, Sophia of the same age in the other Carolina. TexasProgresive Apr 2017 #31
Aww... silverweb Apr 2017 #40
Grandkids are,,, well, just grand. TexasProgresive Apr 2017 #41
I have no doubt! silverweb Apr 2017 #43
Let's hope well meaning but idiot adults don't mess it up Warpy Apr 2017 #35
Yes shenmue Apr 2017 #2
Love the story! Reminded me of one I posted a while ago Xipe Totec Apr 2017 #3
... Kali Apr 2017 #6
I Love this. And it was you that helped her along... Hekate Apr 2017 #9
excellent! I love the curious kids! Fast Walker 52 Apr 2017 #16
Awesome story! silverweb Apr 2017 #18
The store cashier... 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #4
Is it any of the cashier's business what any one is buying? Dr. Sophia your lunasun Apr 2017 #11
yes, the cahsier is a fucking asshole Fast Walker 52 Apr 2017 #15
This Post Deserves a Thumbs Up Leith Apr 2017 #12
two thumbs up! demigoddess Apr 2017 #37
Yes - and I'm willing to bet that the cashier NEVER Ms. Toad Apr 2017 #14
Maybe. I am going to hazard a guess that this... 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #22
I grew up in the era when that was all there were. Ms. Toad Apr 2017 #32
We may be of similar vintages. 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #33
1956 n/t Ms. Toad Apr 2017 #34
Good to read. Baitball Blogger Apr 2017 #5
Remember the news a few weeks ago about the boy who got a haircut PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2017 #7
I remember that. It is so great that these Ilsa Apr 2017 #13
That was one of the best... 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #21
I love that story dflprincess Apr 2017 #42
"A little child shall lead them". MadCrow Apr 2017 #8
If taller people only acted like Sophia world wide wally Apr 2017 #10
We could all learn from this little girl... Heartstrings Apr 2017 #17
Way to go, Dr. Sophia! silverweb Apr 2017 #20
K&R! Omaha Steve Apr 2017 #23
Children are so precious! Stellar Apr 2017 #24
WTF is wrong with the store cashier??? The nerve!! NurseJackie Apr 2017 #25
I don't know if this is true metroins Apr 2017 #27
I hope you're right. NurseJackie Apr 2017 #29
GOOD GIRL Angry Dragon Apr 2017 #26
My then 2 year old Grandson wanted a Doll HockeyMom Apr 2017 #28
My 18 month old grandaughter also chose a black doll this weekend. elleng Apr 2017 #30
When my now 27 year old son was about 4, a family of color moved... 3catwoman3 Apr 2017 #36
that child is being brought up right! lunatica Apr 2017 #38
Good girl. nt Honeycombe8 Apr 2017 #39
Kids like these give us hope for the future. El Mimbreno Apr 2017 #44
"Doc McStuffins" is fantastic inspiration for little girls mainer Apr 2017 #45
The innocence and perspective of childhood n/t apkhgp Jul 2017 #46

silverweb

(16,402 posts)
40. Aww...
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 09:38 PM
Apr 2017

[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]That is such a beautiful name; I love it.

Still waiting for my chance at a grandchild. One of my kids is getting married soon, so maybe in a year or two....

Warpy

(111,265 posts)
35. Let's hope well meaning but idiot adults don't mess it up
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 03:59 PM
Apr 2017

My dad once drove across the desert southwest. I'd left a doll in the back of the car on the deck behind the back seat, a common thing because I wasn't into dolls. When he came back, the rubber had darkened considerably from the harsh sun, making the doll distinctly brown. I was interested in that doll. My parents were horrified and threw it away. Yay for the 1950s and "if it's not white, it's not right."

Sophia sounds like my kind of kid. My favorite book when I was four was "What's Inside of Me?" a sexless anatomy book for the kiddies.

Xipe Totec

(43,890 posts)
3. Love the story! Reminded me of one I posted a while ago
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 11:47 AM
Apr 2017
My first encounter with a real girl scientist.

This was back in Houston, in one of the suburbs around the Johnson Space Center.

On a hot summer day, my boys were playing in the back yard with a bunch of neighborhood friends. I was in charge of keeping an eye on them, but I was distracted inside. Can't remember what I was doing. Suddenly several of the kids burst in through the back door, screaming that there's a snake in the yard. This is Houston, we're surrounded by rice paddies, so my first thought is copperhead or cotton mouth. Both deadly vipers. I run to the garage, grab a machete and race to the backyard. I can see rustling in the raised flower beds. It's a big one, but I can't tell what it is; the ferns are three feet tall and thick. I track it to the corner. There's about a dozen kids in the yard and I feel I have no choice but to whack first, ask questions later. So I do.

One, two, three slashes, and I finally nail the snake. Head severed a few inches back from the neck. I pull the body out and, lo and behold, it is a garter snake. Absolutely harmless. I feel like shit.

I wanted to make the best of a bad situation, so I decided this was a good moment for an anatomy lesson. I grab some X-acto knives and head back to the back yard. I cut the snake lengthwise along the belly, exposing stomach, the one lung and a still beating heart. The kids recoil in horror. All save one; a little girl, about four years old. She is fascinated. She is squatting in front of the snake, mesmerized. She asks me to open the stomach to see what's inside. The rest of the kids including my sons have already moved to the other side of the yard. They want no part of this. I open the stomach and there's a couple of small mice, and a frog. She looks at them intently and asks me to turn them over to see them from all sides...

THAT!, my friend, is what a scientists looks like. Male, female, or otherwise, that's the hallmark; that insatiable curiosity.

That little girl is a surgeon now.

She may be the very same person who holds your life in her hands the next time you go to the hospital.

Pray that she is, for then you will be in the best hands. You will be in the hands of a real scientist.




http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002880878

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
11. Is it any of the cashier's business what any one is buying? Dr. Sophia your
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 12:44 PM
Apr 2017

answer must have set her straight. Good girl!

Leith

(7,809 posts)
12. This Post Deserves a Thumbs Up
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 12:59 PM
Apr 2017

I thought the same thing. It's how bigotry extends into the next generation - small experiences like that

Ms. Toad

(34,073 posts)
14. Yes - and I'm willing to bet that the cashier NEVER
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 01:26 PM
Apr 2017

asked a black girl buying a white doll that question.

3catwoman3

(23,995 posts)
22. Maybe. I am going to hazard a guess that this...
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 02:08 PM
Apr 2017

...cashier would probaby think a black child shouldn't be allowed to have a white doll.

Ms. Toad

(34,073 posts)
32. I grew up in the era when that was all there were.
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 03:38 PM
Apr 2017

So it wasn't a quesiton of being allowed to have a white doll - but there weren't any dolls for brown children that even bore a passing resemblance to them.

Ilsa

(61,695 posts)
13. I remember that. It is so great that these
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 01:20 PM
Apr 2017

Children are blind to race and ethnicity. Let's hope they never change and they teach other kids to be the same.

dflprincess

(28,078 posts)
42. I love that story
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 09:54 PM
Apr 2017

and two little saps (said with affection) are both so pleased with themselves and convinced they'll fool their teacher. I do hope she or he went along with it.


silverweb

(16,402 posts)
20. Way to go, Dr. Sophia!
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 02:02 PM
Apr 2017

[font color="navy" face="Verdana"]You are so lucky to have such a wonderful, supportive mom, too. I hope to have the chance to see what you're up to in another 15-20 years!



NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
25. WTF is wrong with the store cashier??? The nerve!!
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 02:18 PM
Apr 2017
The issue came up right away, when a store cashier asked Sophia: Wouldn't she rather have a doll that looked like her?
Jesus H. Christ at the disco! What kind of person says something like that?

Or is that pretty much the "norm" for South Carolina? I don't know...

metroins

(2,550 posts)
27. I don't know if this is true
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 02:22 PM
Apr 2017

I can't imagine any cashier saying this and the story doesn't mention the store or any complaints.

Every time I see stories like this, the person recants it a few weeks later when they realize people have caught on that it's a lie.

If it's true, there's something wrong with that cashier but I right now don't believe this happened.

 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
28. My then 2 year old Grandson wanted a Doll
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 02:23 PM
Apr 2017

when his Mom was pregnant. He didn't care if it was a boy, or girl doll "like Mommy". He also wanted a Kitchen Set, and constantly wants to help his Mom cook. So what? Lose the male/female gender classifications. Perhaps, he will grow up to be a Chef like his Great-Great-Great-Grandpa, or a Chef Ramsey. At any rate, maybe loving. caring Daddy from changing Baby Dolls Diapers, unlike his PRESIDENT. "HER job, not mine."

elleng

(130,916 posts)
30. My 18 month old grandaughter also chose a black doll this weekend.
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 02:43 PM
Apr 2017

Noa is white, like Sophia. My daughter recalled HER favorite American Girl Doll, and she wrote this yesterday: 'I remember why I always found Addy to be the most beautiful. I had read all of her stories and I was captivated by her power. Strong women are beautiful.'

3catwoman3

(23,995 posts)
36. When my now 27 year old son was about 4, a family of color moved...
Tue Apr 4, 2017, 04:09 PM
Apr 2017

...into our otherwise melanin-deficient neighborhood, we stopped by to introduce ourselves. The family had 2 little girls, the same age as mykids. As is so often the case, the kids were instant best buddies, and we went over to their house many times.

One afternoon, when we were outside in their front yard, my older son asked his friend a question that she couldn't answer. He pointed to the 8 yr old boy who lived next door, and said, "I'll ask her brother. I'll bet he knows."

The 8 yr old next door was as blonde and blue-eyed as a poster child for Sweden. I was touched by the innocence of my son's assumption that this young man was his frined's brother, and hoped that he would always be so ""color-blind."

El Mimbreno

(777 posts)
44. Kids like these give us hope for the future.
Wed Apr 5, 2017, 10:19 AM
Apr 2017

Let's make sure they're not contaminated by the hate and cruelty spewing out of DC.

mainer

(12,022 posts)
45. "Doc McStuffins" is fantastic inspiration for little girls
Wed Apr 5, 2017, 11:10 AM
Apr 2017

My 3 year old granddaughter is a huge fan of the show, and every time I visit, the first thing she wants to do is give me a check-up. She has her own medical kit with a stethoscope, otoscope, and even a plastic x-ray machine. This is all due to Doc McStuffins, which has introduced a whole generation of little girls to the idea that they too should be doctors.

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