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Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 12:49 PM Apr 2016

I was just told that my dislike of HRC as a candidate --

is because I have been "brainwashed" into doing so by the GOP.

When I argued that that was not the case and said I had genuine objections to her based on her actions and policies, I was told again that it was only because I had been brainwashed. When I went into detail about my objections (none of which had to do with emails, Benghazi!?!?, or any of the other RW rages against her and everything to do with her record), they were dismissed as being fabrications of the GOP. I was told that I was "voting for Trump" if I voted for Bernie. I was told that I was throwing my vote away.

I wanted to scream. Scream with rage, scream with frustration. I did end up crying.

I have never felt more unheard. I have never felt more disconnected from the Party and the process. I feel like that meme, "What Has Been Seen Cannot Be Unseen". I know too much, I've seen too much. I've crossed the political Rubicon. I have now officially gone rogue.

BoB, baby, BoB.

As an aside, if one more man lectures me that I should be voting for HRC because (take your pick) it would be making history/it's the feminist thing to do/I need to show solidarity with my sex, then someone may get throat-punched.

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I was just told that my dislike of HRC as a candidate -- (Original Post) Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 OP
Integrity. You only have one and it's not for sale. nt thereismore Apr 2016 #1
That's the place I have come to. Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 #24
Thank you for putting all of those faces together next to your sig line Ned_Devine Apr 2016 #52
Ratfuckers... Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 #66
You said it Ned_Devine Apr 2016 #67
LMAO! Rockyj Apr 2016 #62
Ignore the Brocolytes. Qutzupalotl Apr 2016 #2
This is actually happening IRL. Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 #25
IRL... malokvale77 Apr 2016 #50
I am hoping both parties blow up this go around. Hopefully things would realign as Labor vs Capital corkhead Apr 2016 #70
they can only keep their minds clean by saying that every criticism by definition originated from MisterP Apr 2016 #3
The biggest irony? Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 #26
well, if they rationalized it, they've won! they really think her pushing these wars MisterP Apr 2016 #27
Cognitive dissonance will do that. GreenPartyVoter Apr 2016 #48
You can't argue with a wall. enlightenment Apr 2016 #4
Great song eom Jennylynn Apr 2016 #46
Here is the original of that most perceptive song. malokvale77 Apr 2016 #51
You're not alone Kittycat Apr 2016 #5
All I had to do was read the headline.................. turbinetree Apr 2016 #9
O's first term -- Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 #29
There's a coterie of ultra-females who call us things like "Bro" and "bud" senz Apr 2016 #36
many of the same people were here 8 years ago and were just as insufferable. corkhead Apr 2016 #69
Well I guess I am in the boat with you, and its called principles ............................ turbinetree Apr 2016 #6
Honk back attcha! Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 #32
I forgot all about that, who's great idea was that, the current.......... turbinetree Apr 2016 #58
Be confident that the Truth is on your side. FlatBaroque Apr 2016 #7
Oh the irony. Clinton agrees with the Republicons on 90% of the issues. rhett o rick Apr 2016 #8
Exactly. senz Apr 2016 #38
I can not stress it enough, Ignore is your best friend. Use it liberally. Hiraeth Apr 2016 #10
20+ year friend and co-worker.... Hell Hath No Fury Apr 2016 #33
oh my. sorry about that. misread your post. I thought it was something happened on here. Hiraeth Apr 2016 #37
Could you senz Apr 2016 #39
"You sound like a Republican" I was told once after I criticized HRC. I pointed out that I Doctor_J Apr 2016 #11
I get that Republican crap too. greymouse Apr 2016 #12
awful tough accusation coming from the party faction that brags it's conservative and whose MisterP Apr 2016 #15
And shouts down progressive values as "free stuff" Kittycat Apr 2016 #42
Plus one for truth! Enthusiast Apr 2016 #57
Yes, objecting to her hawkish ways is so very right-wing, after all. Scuba Apr 2016 #13
The 'brainwashed by GOP' meme is everywhere. Brock must have sent out an email or something Dems to Win Apr 2016 #14
The repetition of the talking points is maddening. There's no desire to discuss riderinthestorm Apr 2016 #16
Yes, it is destructive. They've been trying to rattle us and get us to leave. senz Apr 2016 #40
People paid to piss us off felix_numinous Apr 2016 #17
Well, I know how you feel since BerninInBama Apr 2016 #18
Check out Belize. Nice expat retiree policies. oldandhappy Apr 2016 #21
yep oldandhappy Apr 2016 #19
They've been brainwashed by the "Democratic (tm)" Party mindwalker_i Apr 2016 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author DUbeornot2be Apr 2016 #60
Or maybe it isn't brainwashing and has something to do with this? jillan Apr 2016 #22
Good list, jillan. Thanks! nt senz Apr 2016 #44
You WILL be assimilated. TBF Apr 2016 #23
You were obviously dealing with a disrespectful person. merrily Apr 2016 #28
Anyone who would claim such a thing is a raving idiot, best relegated to the ignore list.[n/t] Maedhros Apr 2016 #30
The brainwashed calling someone else brainwashed, common affliction. There are so many reasons to be highprincipleswork Apr 2016 #31
They're the RW of the party. HooptieWagon Apr 2016 #34
My mother was telling me that a month ago or so... northernsouthern Apr 2016 #35
Ah, the ol' "brainwashed" meme. intheflow Apr 2016 #41
Remember when Herman Cain said that? Manifestor_of_Light Apr 2016 #49
Bernie beathes oxygen. Remember when herman Cain breathed oxygen? eShirl Apr 2016 #68
You might as well try to reason with a Scientologist QC Apr 2016 #43
I reached that point after Bill's first term, Mbrow Apr 2016 #45
*hugs* I share your rage and frustration! GreenPartyVoter Apr 2016 #47
If voting for a particular candidate would violate your sense of ethics, your integrity, or Yo_Mama Apr 2016 #53
How One Handles CobaltBlue Apr 2016 #54
I'm against Hillary for what she along with Bill... malokvale77 Apr 2016 #55
I no longer get mad when they say that. It is so far from the truth that it no longer bothers me. Enthusiast Apr 2016 #56
What did you expect these people to say? leftcoastmountains Apr 2016 #59
I've been there and babylonsister Apr 2016 #61
It's not over yet but please take one of these Deb Apr 2016 #63
so they were basically telling you that you dana_b Apr 2016 #64
My humble opinion... malokvale77 Apr 2016 #65
Sorry: BoB? mac56 Apr 2016 #71
Projection. mac56 Apr 2016 #72
 

Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
24. That's the place I have come to.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:58 PM
Apr 2016

I refuse to play the "lesser of two evils" thing anymore when genuine damage to our People, the planet, and the world are the result.

Rockyj

(538 posts)
62. LMAO!
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 07:57 PM
Apr 2016
Brainwash Hillary supporters seem to love these smilies = And say very little!
They are the ones that are brainwashed or either getting paid to rip Bernie apart!
Hillary is a joke & she needs us to win but WE won't be there to support her "Neo-Liberal Oligarchy" agenda!

Qutzupalotl

(14,311 posts)
2. Ignore the Brocolytes.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:02 PM
Apr 2016

They're intentionally trying to goad you and push your buttons. They're only here because they fear our voices. Don't let them silence you.

 

Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
25. This is actually happening IRL.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:59 PM
Apr 2016

On DU, I know the score. When I am getting this from "liberal" friends it becomes a whole other story.

malokvale77

(4,879 posts)
50. IRL...
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 05:01 PM
Apr 2016

the only person I'm getting this from is my son (of all people). Disappointing to say the least.

His salary is slightly above "working poor". He is however married to a woman who stands to inherit a few million. Her father has the attitude that he doesn't care who's in charge, as long as he can avoid paying income taxes. I believe being around that way of thinking has skewed his perception. He didn't used to be that way.

Most people I know think Hillary will be the final nail in the Democratic coffin.

corkhead

(6,119 posts)
70. I am hoping both parties blow up this go around. Hopefully things would realign as Labor vs Capital
Fri Apr 29, 2016, 12:02 PM
Apr 2016

or people who care... about each other and the planet we share, vs those who don't. Currently both groups inhabit the Democratic™ party.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
3. they can only keep their minds clean by saying that every criticism by definition originated from
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:03 PM
Apr 2016

the RW

of course that accidentally ends up requiring a massive left-right horseshoe-thesis conspiracy that covers InTheseTimes, NYT, WaPo, McClatchy, Reuters, AP, El Tiempo, DailyKos, CommonDreams, HuffPo, The Nation, The Atlantic, Harper's, The Guardian, The New Statesman, USNWR, Time, Newsweek, Frankfurter Allgemeine, Le Monde, Süddeutsche Zeitung, CNN, ABC, NBC, and CBS

it's the same dilemma the neocons faced: either the KGB had suborned every church, party, newspaper, university, publisher, corporation, and TV network on the planet, or they were wrong about something

 

Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
26. The biggest irony?
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:07 PM
Apr 2016

The person who I was having this interaction with said that he bases his views solely on "facts". I pointed out a few "facts" like IWR, Libya, her anti-LGBT stands, flip-flopping on various issues, her deep financial ties to Wall Street but there was always a rationalization given.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
27. well, if they rationalized it, they've won! they really think her pushing these wars
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:09 PM
Apr 2016

wasn't really her fault

LIE

enlightenment

(8,830 posts)
4. You can't argue with a wall.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:04 PM
Apr 2016

Or with people who don't want to hear.

I was listening to the new version of "The Sound of Silence" the other day (by Disturbed. It's fabulous); and was astonished at how prescient Simon was when he wrote the lyrics.

And in the naked light I saw
Ten thousand people, maybe more
People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening . . .



Kittycat

(10,493 posts)
5. You're not alone
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:06 PM
Apr 2016

Bernie apparently made me a man under the age of 30, that apparently didn't go to college and is unable to do research or think for myself. Also, I'm a sucker for donating. Apparently I should leave that to corporations, because they have no political sway when they give to our candidates.

You're going to have to let it roll, because those people are literally batshit, and little more. I'm not sure if they are legitimately sincere at all, or just very bad at trolling. Either way, they have no control over you - nor I. And have no sway over your voice or your vote come fall. You are you, I am me - and they are simply irrelevant. We know we've done our due diligence, have faith in that.

There's a very disturbing trend that many refuse to acknowledge. We've seen it unfold in the clintons, and as much as I loved Obama - I've become very disheartened by his actions as well. And now I have to read this - does it sound familiar? http://www.ibtimes.com/political-capital/barack-obama-readies-final-tpp-push-which-could-benefit-presidential-library

turbinetree

(24,701 posts)
9. All I had to do was read the headline..................
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:12 PM
Apr 2016

Library and donors and the TPP...................the professionals creating more inequality, and blaming those that are not professionals like them

Honk---------------for a political revolution Bernie 2016

 

Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
29. O's first term --
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:13 PM
Apr 2016

put a stake in any thought from me that the Party would ever offer any genuine change willingly. Just like all corrupted Power, they will do everything they can to maintain that control, by any means necessary.

I, too, was surprised to find I was a politically naive "Bro".

At some point in the very near future, I will take a great deal of pleasure and yet none at all at saying, "I told you so."

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
36. There's a coterie of ultra-females who call us things like "Bro" and "bud"
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:19 PM
Apr 2016

They are so eager to see Bernie supporter as a brash young male bully and so easily offended when none is intended that they give feminism a bad name. I also get a whiff of group narcissism.

lol -- it just hit me how weird some of her supporters are!

The ibtimes story about Obama & the TPP is depressing. I've always liked him. I think he is a much better person than Hill, but his need to impress (or mollify?) TPTB is such a failing, if only he could see it.

Another thing that worries me about this is that it could make him not want Bernie to win b/c Bernie would fight TPP. And if he doesn't want Bernie to win, he might resist the FBI indictment. Yet, some of us are sure he dislikes Hill.

It's so complicated.

corkhead

(6,119 posts)
69. many of the same people were here 8 years ago and were just as insufferable.
Fri Apr 29, 2016, 11:51 AM
Apr 2016

Losing made many of them disappear. Unfortunately this time it looks like we are going to have to put up with them until November.

turbinetree

(24,701 posts)
6. Well I guess I am in the boat with you, and its called principles ............................
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:07 PM
Apr 2016

Honk-------------for a political revolution Bernie 2016

 

Hell Hath No Fury

(16,327 posts)
32. Honk back attcha!
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:17 PM
Apr 2016

I think that when they got rid of the kicking donkey and went for that lame D circle logo it really said a lot about the Party.

Here's to ass-kickin' donkeys!

turbinetree

(24,701 posts)
58. I forgot all about that, who's great idea was that, the current..........
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 06:09 PM
Apr 2016

team under the DWS, just put a blue and white target ..............

Yeah, enjoy one or two on me also......................




Honk--------------for a political revolution Bernie 2016

FlatBaroque

(3,160 posts)
7. Be confident that the Truth is on your side.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:10 PM
Apr 2016

Do not seek understanding from people who do not wish to understand.

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
8. Oh the irony. Clinton agrees with the Republicons on 90% of the issues.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:10 PM
Apr 2016

Progressives don't agree with them on any issues.

Hiraeth

(4,805 posts)
37. oh my. sorry about that. misread your post. I thought it was something happened on here.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:20 PM
Apr 2016

you have my deepest sympathy

 

senz

(11,945 posts)
39. Could you
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:34 PM
Apr 2016

list some of Hill's behaviors that most bother you and then explain that you hold presidential candidates to certain standards and Hill falls way short of those standards? Maybe do it when you're feeling calm and centered and say it slowly and steadily while remaining pleasant?

Maybe that way she'd at least give you the respect you deserve for holding your own opinion. And maybe she'd stop to think?

Hope it works out, HHNF.

 

Doctor_J

(36,392 posts)
11. "You sound like a Republican" I was told once after I criticized HRC. I pointed out that I
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:12 PM
Apr 2016

am in favor of Medicare For All, public schools, free public colleges, massive Pentagon cuts, huge Social Security expansion, 6 months guaranteed family leave, and a $15 minimum wage, and against fracking, capital punishment, for profit prisons, for profit healthcare, endless war and regime change, and signing "trade" deals that invalidate our laws. In what way does this sound like a Republican?

Yes, Hillary's lying and flip-flopping every time the wind changes also dissuade me from voting for her, but her stances on the issues are IMO completely off-putting.

greymouse

(872 posts)
12. I get that Republican crap too.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:20 PM
Apr 2016

It baffles me. Do those people never actually look at what Hillary has done, and not done.

Even a broken clock is right twice a day.

MisterP

(23,730 posts)
15. awful tough accusation coming from the party faction that brags it's conservative and whose
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:32 PM
Apr 2016

mottoes have become "kick their ass and take their gas," "drill here drill now," "let him die"

Kittycat

(10,493 posts)
42. And shouts down progressive values as "free stuff"
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:48 PM
Apr 2016
What has DU become. It's shocking to the senses. I swear it's turning in to free republic with the RW party plank talking points that are acceptable now.
 

Scuba

(53,475 posts)
13. Yes, objecting to her hawkish ways is so very right-wing, after all.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:20 PM
Apr 2016

And objecting to her many obvious conflicts-of-interest is mysogenistic.

 

Dems to Win

(2,161 posts)
14. The 'brainwashed by GOP' meme is everywhere. Brock must have sent out an email or something
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:27 PM
Apr 2016

I have genuine reasons for not supporting Hillary, thank you very much.

I hear you.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
16. The repetition of the talking points is maddening. There's no desire to discuss
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:37 PM
Apr 2016

They simply want to condescend and/or outright dismiss.

Its incredibly destructive here.

I believe they are really trying to force Bernie supporters off. There's no other explanation. Skinner won't put down the ban hammer (controversy=clicks=$$) so they're doing it themselves.

It sucks.


 

senz

(11,945 posts)
40. Yes, it is destructive. They've been trying to rattle us and get us to leave.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:43 PM
Apr 2016

Ugly campaign tactics from an ugly campaign.

I believe our viewpoints need to be seen "out there," so if we can just find ways to make it bearable -- like get in there with an OP or several recommendations, some positive comments on good OPs, or quick rebuttals of bullshit -- and then get out of there.

Or whatever works...

felix_numinous

(5,198 posts)
17. People paid to piss us off
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:38 PM
Apr 2016

just makes me stronger, I'm a stubborn SOB

It's so divided here, there are often two completely different conversations happening on threads since they are ignoring each other. It's become quite bizarre.

Solidarity

BerninInBama

(27 posts)
18. Well, I know how you feel since
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:38 PM
Apr 2016

I live in the stupidest state in the nation and am surrounded by Hillary-supporters particularly at church. One lady told me she didn't care how much money Hillary has accepted from banks/corporations. Really? So having a woman president is far more important than getting money out of politics, paying workers a living wage, protecting the environment, avoiding job-killing trade deals, avoiding unnecessary wars, and guaranteeing health care as right?

I've lost tons of respect for people who I once thought were intelligent and caring. My contempt for the American electorate is so high that I will be unable to remain in this country if Bernie is not the next President.

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
19. yep
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:38 PM
Apr 2016

Hear ya. Sometimes it is good to go take the dog for a walk. We have reached a stage where a lot of minds have hardened. It hurts.

mindwalker_i

(4,407 posts)
20. They've been brainwashed by the "Democratic (tm)" Party
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 01:38 PM
Apr 2016

... to take what it gives them and like it!

More specifically, they have been conditioned to believe in the democratic party and to believe that it is everything that is good and right. It's a matter of faith. The problem, of course, is that someone with none of the beliefs can come in, diddle the kids, and everyone will ignore it because of their faith. With The Party, we've got people who suck up to corporations, pass laws that hurt people, start wars but too man people won't acknowledge that it even happens.

Response to mindwalker_i (Reply #20)

 

highprincipleswork

(3,111 posts)
31. The brainwashed calling someone else brainwashed, common affliction. There are so many reasons to be
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:15 PM
Apr 2016

against Hillary, all of them from a Progressive not a Republican point of view.

 

HooptieWagon

(17,064 posts)
34. They're the RW of the party.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:18 PM
Apr 2016

And RWers are authoritarians, who want to 'bring us to heel' by bullying and intimidation. Fuck 'em. The Third Way corporatists have more in common with Republicans than they do with us. They've already said they don't need us, and made it clear we're the enemy. So I see no reason to get in line to support their agenda to further line the pockets of the wealthy and increase austerity for the working class.

 

northernsouthern

(1,511 posts)
35. My mother was telling me that a month ago or so...
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:19 PM
Apr 2016

But I finally sat down and talked to her for an hour and sent her the articles on the Hillary camp with the Bernie Bro smear they started and the racist attacks on Obama. She now hopes Hillary will e indicted so she doesn't have to vote for her. For a family from Arkansas that supported the Clintons blindly for decades, I would say it was not the GOP that stopped them, it was the race baiting and attacks on her son that made her see Hillary for the horrible person she is. We all love Ian Richardson's character from House of Cards...but in real life Francis would be a horrible person...and that is what some of us are realizing.

intheflow

(28,473 posts)
41. Ah, the ol' "brainwashed" meme.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:46 PM
Apr 2016

Cripes, can't Clinton supporters come up with anything original to say, or do they just endlessly bleat whatever Correct the Record feeds them?

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
49. Remember when Herman Cain said that?
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 04:56 PM
Apr 2016

In 2012 he said that black people who voted Democratic were "brainwashed". Very old and tired slam.

QC

(26,371 posts)
43. You might as well try to reason with a Scientologist
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 02:49 PM
Apr 2016

as with the personality cultists around here.

It's a shame what has happened to this place.

There was a time when DU was a place to get a real education in politics and current events. Now it's essentially a gory car wreck--you know you shouldn't look but it's hard not to.

Mbrow

(1,090 posts)
45. I reached that point after Bill's first term,
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 04:11 PM
Apr 2016

He ran as an FDR dem then went total rw on most of it. My wife and I went green for a long time after that till we moved to Idaho and went back to being dems which in Idaho is the same as being Green party in most eyes.....

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
53. If voting for a particular candidate would violate your sense of ethics, your integrity, or
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 05:09 PM
Apr 2016

cause you to lose your self-regard, don't do it.

However, stating it is going to utterly infuriate the candidate's supporters. Both reactions are understandable.

If we want to unite again in pursuit of our goals, there are some things about which we are going to have to agree to disagree.

Being told to vote Hillary because I am a woman does make my eyes roll like that girl's in "The Exorcist", so you have my sympathy and understanding. There are a lot of us in the same boat here, if it helps.

Enthusiast

(50,983 posts)
56. I no longer get mad when they say that. It is so far from the truth that it no longer bothers me.
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 06:00 PM
Apr 2016

Additionally you can use it as an opportunity to add to your collection of the "fully ignored".

babylonsister

(171,065 posts)
61. I've been there and
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 07:41 PM
Apr 2016

read insults from 'friends' on FB so I pretty much stopped commenting, pretty much like here. I no longer see the point in arguing. It's too late in the game to change anyone's mind imo; my life is a lot more peaceful.

Deb

(3,742 posts)
63. It's not over yet but please take one of these
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 08:09 PM
Apr 2016

I've recently convinced 3 Republican women into voting for the Dem Pres candidate. (an easy thing to accomplish)
We can "pass the vote forward" or find our own proxy and walk away from the top of the ticket with a clear conscience.


dana_b

(11,546 posts)
64. so they were basically telling you that you
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 08:18 PM
Apr 2016

(and excuse the phrasing) that you're stupid. Fuck them. Fuck them all!!

I am not normally a violent person but I can understand the wanting to "throat punch" somone too.

malokvale77

(4,879 posts)
65. My humble opinion...
Thu Apr 28, 2016, 08:58 PM
Apr 2016

Every Clinton supporter is just as selfish as every W supporter. Most of them have benefited at the expense of the rest of us.

I will no longer help the Democratic Party as it becomes as evil as.

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