Democratic Primaries
Related: About this forumI can't be the only one that feels really depressed around here
I mean, I know what the primary season is suppose to be and bring but it feels so hostile around here now about who is better and who will win. I mean all of us are going to vote for whoever is the nominee to defeat Trump. I just feel depressed checking in everyday and see everyone about to tear each others throats out over which candidate did this or who said that. Again, I know what the primary season but it's just depressing to see dems attack other dems here.
Just my two cents. I love y'all regardless of who you support. I don't pick sides. I'm voting whoever wins the nomination. End of story.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
RandySF
(59,399 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I mostly ignored it. But since I'm more active now its sad to me given our futures are hanging in the balance. I know the articles and attacking won't stop, but it would be just nice to take a break and just love each other for a moment.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
loyalsister
(13,390 posts)With the Booker, Harris, and Castro on the stage, it felt like we were truly rejecting the direction Trump's influence has been taking us. Since they exited, it has been downhill.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I can see that. Same with Beto. I was all in for him because I worked hard to get him elected in 2018. Door to door, phone calls. But once he dropped. I tilted towards Biden, but overtime I grew on Pete and then Amy. So I'm undecided until the winner is announced
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
writes3000
(4,734 posts)Is to use the full ignore button. There are those who seek to antagonize. That fuels people to resent other candidates. Thats no good.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I don't like to ignore others based on their preferences. Expect if you like Trump then you go in the bin lol
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
yellowdogintexas
(22,278 posts)mostly just feeling helpless and hopeless and scared. It sort of comes in waves, mostly when #45 does yet another egregious thing.
So I am keeping busy planning a membership party for our Democratic Woman's Club, and working on a fundraiser for our county party and doing ballot chases for the Vote By Mail applications which were sent out to my precinct.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)Doing what you can to flip our state back. Living up here in the panhandle. Its sorta difficult to start a organization here since it's much more conservative.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Sherman A1
(38,958 posts)and do not believe that you are entirely incorrect. Yes there has been sniping and responses to sniping. Primary season can be very ugly. As suggested above, the ignore button can be your friend.
I have great concerns about the coming November election and beyond, no matter who the nominee ends up being. They will get my vote, but being in a heavily Red State that will be rather meaningless in the long run.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)Mean eventually my vote is gonna matter in Texas because of how close it is to flipping in 2 to 4 years
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)There is NO room for picking an ERROR!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)Reason I'll vote for whoever wins. I'm 29 and I still have lot of time left on the earth. Don't wanna spend my dirty thirties living in a dictatorship
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)If he wins again I'll fully believe it. Worst part about being young is seeing how truly fucked this world will continue to get
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I survived two attempts and I still wonder how long it'll be before this world takes an even worse turn before I do it again. I can't imagine for the life of me why I'd want to bring a child into this world as it is. Its incredibly selfish.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
democratisphere
(17,235 posts)The malignancy on the Presidency will eventually be eradicated. I wish you well!
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Skittles
(153,212 posts)I hope you are getting some professional help, but always know you can talk to us here.
and don't deride people for having children - some of them may be the ones who save this world.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
calimary
(81,527 posts)so many times. Ive quoted your someones always here so many times. Its gotten me through some rough moments.
Even just remembering whenever it was that you first posted that, has been helpful. I bet its served far more than just me.
And, vercetti2021, keep that reminder. Keep those words. They mean a lot. They help. They really do.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I think just everything right now is just overwhelming with personal life and politics is just taking a very bad toll.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
calimary
(81,527 posts)Its debilitating. Almost as though its trying to suck the fire out of us.
But then, heres what I always try to remind myself:
Thats what they want.
Thats what they hope for.
They know (I think trump knows this instinctively) that our heart, our belief in reality and truth and honestly and morality and ethics and compassion, and all those other good things, mean were softies. Snowflakes. Push-overs.
Thats what they want. How they want us to respond, and process this and try to make sense of it. And how itll make us feel helpless and overwhelmed and wanna run away or go hide. Or give up. Just as trump wants us all to THINK that the Ukrainians are investigating Biden & Son because he talked the Ukrainian President into ANNOUNCING an investigation that would help his own 2020 prospects. The strategy, like its intended result, is as shallow as the donald is. But hes good at INSINUATING things. Plausible deniability, cause he never actually uttered the specific words that could tie him to the bottom of a long deep well. But you get what he means, as Michael Cohen knows intimately and has described.
This guy is simply about mind-fucking. Hes a lazy SOB so hell do it verbally. But hes just trying to mind-fuck all of us.
So thats why Im personally determined NOT TO PLAY. I wont give in.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
see, I am always awake all night - I live my life completely upside-down - so it is normal to be on DU in the middle of the night....I think that's when people start wavering, when their support is generally not available. But there's always someone on DU
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I just for the life of me couldn't have a child in this day of age is because of how bad it is. But I always appreciate your words Skittles I do. I don't normally like to talk about depression, but sometimes it gets overwhelming.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
calimary
(81,527 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Kurt V.
(5,624 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
lunasun
(21,646 posts)Turn it back on again if Im up to to it. Also ignore for some individual posters who are too strange
Maybe you already know this and are just hoping for better decorum
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I feel when more drop out and it's down to two or three candidates. It'll be like the duel of fates around here.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
lunasun
(21,646 posts)I was not here for awhile and missed a lot of primary 16 when I came back befor the election I made the mistake of saying I thought trump would win and got piled on but it was an observance of what I was seeing and experiencing and had nothing to do with the nomination so I know it can get bad
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I'm ashamed to say how bad of a Bern bro I was and how much of an asshole I was. I voted for her though because that's who I wanted. But given how bad it's gotten with Trump and trying to figure out who can beat him. It's just gotten so bad.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
DanieRains
(4,619 posts)Focus = Anger + Action
I donate to my state party and officials here. Gave to Ossof today.
It helps.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I hope he wins.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
no_hypocrisy
(46,231 posts)I survived, and you can too.
IF *we* stick together, we can push back and fight back. And prevail!
Come join the fight!
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I'm trying to stick together. I'm trying to keep myself together mainly. I guess every day when I come here I'm hoping for some kind of escape from everything. But seeing everybody just fights about stuff now, it's just very upsetting.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
no_hypocrisy
(46,231 posts)Dad gave me little hope for success in life. Trump brings out PTSD in me as it's nearly identical except for the personal aspect.
Courage. Just get out and join a group like Indivisible and show up to the meetings. You at least believe you're doing SOMETHING.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)Mental Warfare. Reason a lot of my depression is how it is now. But I mean I hope we can figure it out around here where I live.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
no_hypocrisy
(46,231 posts)Find your local chapter of Indivisible:
https://indivisible.org/groups
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
vercetti2021
(10,156 posts)I didn't know this was a real place.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
Dem2
(8,168 posts)It is disheartening.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
zackymilly
(2,375 posts)primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
The Mouth
(3,165 posts)There really is an existential divide between Bernie and Bloomberg (and Pete and Amy).
If we go with Bloomberg, I feel we are admitting that one has to be a billionaire to be president; yes, we like his *positions* better than Trump's, and he's probably a better human being, but we are really just choosing which Kubiki figure is going to rule us.
If we go with Bernie, we are standing for actual change, not just from cheeto benito, but from the 'third way' 'Republican Lite' paradigm; but we also will be fielding a candidate with vulnerabilities as well as genuine advantages.
I like Pete the best, but Amy and Elizabeth are good people who would do their honest best. I do not like or trust Bloomberg, never have, never will. I'll hold my nose, though. But a Bloomberg win will be, in my opinion, just a slower, fainter death knell as opposed to the current dumpster fire.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
squirecam
(2,706 posts)If he were to win, even though he is a billionaire too.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
The Mouth
(3,165 posts)I do think that, while better than the current resident, one couldn't blame them if tens of millions of people said 'fuck it, you have to be a billionaire, why bother'.
that said, I'm just a bit left of center on most things. But I know a lot of Bernie fans
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided
mvd
(65,180 posts)It is one thing to talk about potential vulnerabilities, especially in a very important election. But to see so many threads seem full of hatred and trying to tear down is depressing. And those threads arent only about my candidate.
primary today, I would vote for: Joe Biden
marlakay
(11,508 posts)But a lot of us have seen our candidates struggle or quit.
primary today, I would vote for: Undecided