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In reply to the discussion: Is it okay for a 18 year old to have sex with a 14 year old [View all]HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)I worked in a cafe when I was 17 (out of HS). The place had bands and there was one with 14 and 17 year old brothers. The 17 year old was involved in a relationship with an 18 year old waitress. Perfectly legal since the age of consent in NY is 17.
The waitress got pregnant but claimed the father was not the 17 year old, but his 14 year old brother. She said she was raped by him. Consensual relationship with the older brother, but not the younger one. Tests proved the younger brother was the father.
The brothers parents brought her up on Felony charges. I was only friends with the brothers, but they both talked to me. The old brother said he "egged on" his younger brother to have sex with her for the experience. The younger brother told me that he just wanted to have sex. The waitress told me that she loved the older brother and that the younger one attacked her.
It was a big mess. The older brother considered it all his fault and eventually convinced his parents to just drop the whole thing. The waitress agreed to not seek child support and put the baby up for adoption. They all came to this agreement without going to court.