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seabeyond

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115. right malaise, that is what i said. women everywhere, accuse men of false rape. really?

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Tue Jul 15, 2014, 09:19 AM

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Conor Oberst Rape Accuser: 'I Made up Lies to Get Attention' [View all] alp227 Jul 2014 OP

Thanks a lot. Aristus Jul 2014 #1

I don't know ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2014 #3

I don't understand what you're saying here. Comrade Grumpy Jul 2014 #5

Sometimes pressure is brought to bear on victims to recant their testimony el_bryanto Jul 2014 #7

Oh ye GODS nt Dreamer Tatum Jul 2014 #9

And sometimes pressure is brought to bear on false accusers to recant their testimony. Comrade Grumpy Jul 2014 #10

I haven't followed the case. el_bryanto Jul 2014 #12

I haven't either ... 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2014 #15

Well, she will have a chance to address that in court. NaturalHigh Jul 2014 #117

Why don't you throw up the stats on false accusations showing how minimal it is? seabeyond Jul 2014 #14

Post removed Post removed Jul 2014 #17

Another time out? Does that language strike you as disrespectful? el_bryanto Jul 2014 #19

How? oldhippie Jul 2014 #24

I think it's disrespectful because a time-out is something you give to children el_bryanto Jul 2014 #25

Well, then .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #26

I would probably say something like "Go fuck yourself." el_bryanto Jul 2014 #27

Very good ... oldhippie Jul 2014 #30

This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Jul 2014 #32

I disagree with your assessment el_bryanto Jul 2014 #33

now, i am acting like a child, that needs a time out, cause i am out of control, for stating a fact? seabeyond Jul 2014 #34

Thank you for speaking out Quantess Jul 2014 #103

Oh, bullshit. TDale313 Jul 2014 #42

Thank you. whathehell Jul 2014 #105

Agschmid did an experiment. He posted one of seabeyond's posts, word for word, under his Squinch Jul 2014 #52

Wow, that is eye opening. smirkymonkey Jul 2014 #70

I thought so too. There IS a groupthink among those who like to hate her. I bet Squinch Jul 2014 #73

Oh please...That's condescending bullshit. whathehell Jul 2014 #107

are you suggesting i need a time out? are you agreeing i am out of control? seabeyond Jul 2014 #31

It's not the facts that I find objectionable. oldhippie Jul 2014 #35

since you are unable to mention it, i will remain clueless. seabeyond Jul 2014 #36

I'm not going to fall for that trap again .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #37

whatever dude. seabeyond Jul 2014 #41

Keeping it classy I see. Agschmid Jul 2014 #43

This is the basis you use to judge people's worth? How sad for you. Squinch Jul 2014 #55

It's a tough life ... oldhippie Jul 2014 #56

You might want to get on that, then. Squinch Jul 2014 #57

I'm old enough I have had my core principles for awhile. oldhippie Jul 2014 #59

Since I have never seen any evidence of them, it's no matter to me. Squinch Jul 2014 #60

One of mine is to ... oldhippie Jul 2014 #61

Having the last word in a thread is one of your core principles? Somehow that doesn't surprise me. Squinch Jul 2014 #69

Thank you, I am enjoying myself ..... oldhippie Jul 2014 #76

lol. and judging one cause of capitalization is a core principle for you. bah hahahahahahahahahaha seabeyond Jul 2014 #63

Nice, OldHippie cyberswede Jul 2014 #128

No, it isn't beneath you BainsBane Jul 2014 #132

What "unmentionable thing"? whathehell Jul 2014 #104

And where, exactly .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #120

Answering my question with yours won't work...Answer my question first, whathehell Jul 2014 #121

Ok, come closer, closer ....... oldhippie Jul 2014 #123

you can project whatever tone you want on me. that is a limp excuse. i have no control seabeyond Jul 2014 #124

You can lose the faux cloak and dagger.. whathehell Jul 2014 #125

PWF BainsBane Jul 2014 #133

Got it Thanks. n/t whathehell Jul 2014 #134

"time out" is too delicate for my critics. Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #126

Why is that? BainsBane Jul 2014 #44

"How dare anyone question the superior members of the site?" oldhippie Jul 2014 #46

Clearly your judgement is off BainsBane Jul 2014 #47

It's not important .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #48

you came in du for a couple jabs, now off... to the more important stuff? lol. what? discussionist? seabeyond Jul 2014 #49

Have you been over there? ... oldhippie Jul 2014 #62

so, that IS where you do your serious discussion. you have me in stitches old. between seabeyond Jul 2014 #64

Come on down, we could have some fun .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #65

a part of the intellectual integrity is not acting cause someone says i dare you.... i double seabeyond Jul 2014 #67

I know it's tough on you guys ... oldhippie Jul 2014 #71

I think it's great they created that site BainsBane Jul 2014 #68

So are you saying that .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #72

If their true selves are against the democratic principles of equal rights for women, Squinch Jul 2014 #75

What if they are for most of them, but .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #77

If they are against equal rights for women, people of color and LGBT people, and if they Squinch Jul 2014 #78

I don't think you answered the question oldhippie Jul 2014 #80

Well, then it's a good thing that what you think is not important to me. Squinch Jul 2014 #83

OK, I'll just leave with this ..... oldhippie Jul 2014 #91

Clearly not, since some of those folks remain BainsBane Jul 2014 #85

You are "for" equal rights for some people, but not others, like women? whathehell Jul 2014 #111

Only some people pretend here BainsBane Jul 2014 #82

I think a number are migrating ..... oldhippie Jul 2014 #90

I find it fascinating BainsBane Jul 2014 #66

Do you think maybe .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #74

Are you saying that you prefer the way you are free to be yourself over there? If so, Squinch Jul 2014 #79

Because it is ..... oldhippie Jul 2014 #81

OK. So now, have that last word that is so essential for your well being. Squinch Jul 2014 #87

look. i am sure you will go back to discussionist and tell the buddies how you got them wimminz, ... seabeyond Jul 2014 #89

Gee, I thought I was oldhippie Jul 2014 #92

old. you have not really said much of anything, but that you are playing a game. seabeyond Jul 2014 #93

I haven't said much of anything you like .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #95

Yes. I do. BainsBane Jul 2014 #86

Post removed Post removed Jul 2014 #21

Score? BainsBane Jul 2014 #29

Record may be a more .... oldhippie Jul 2014 #38

I'll just point out that those members recently PPR'd BainsBane Jul 2014 #50

Thank you for pointing that out ... oldhippie Jul 2014 #58

The statistics of actual versus fictional claims of rape does seem germane LanternWaste Jul 2014 #22

you walk into a thread of a 16 yr old girl, drugged, raped, videod, distributed, hashtagged mocked seabeyond Jul 2014 #23

Good jury decision BainsBane Jul 2014 #28

which stats? qazplm Jul 2014 #102

Right. Cause that never happens... Squinch Jul 2014 #51

And sometimes people just lie and then realize the harm they have done and sabrina 1 Jul 2014 #97

If she really does have a history of "catfishing", it sounds like a case of Munchausen by Internet. moriah Jul 2014 #11

Okay. Thanks for the information. eom. 1StrongBlackMan Jul 2014 #16

This message was self-deleted by its author yeoman6987 Jul 2014 #53

What a horrible thing to be accused of. zappaman Jul 2014 #2

Is "attention-whore" offensive if directed against a woman.... moriah Jul 2014 #4

Yes, it is BainsBane Jul 2014 #18

Yes sarisataka Jul 2014 #39

Uh, I'd judge a man for making up being raped to get attention, just as harshly... moriah Jul 2014 #88

But the words you used probably wouldn't criticize his sexuality, as words Squinch Jul 2014 #94

Nicely put. +1 riqster Jul 2014 #106

Exactly, thank you. n/t whathehell Jul 2014 #108

Actually, I'd probably call him the same thing. So desperate for attention.... moriah Jul 2014 #113

But when you think of what a whore is, do you think of a man or a woman? Squinch Jul 2014 #116

Honestly? I think of a male friend of mine, Isaac. moriah Jul 2014 #118

No, I mean the meaning of the word "whore." We call male prostitutes "male prostitutes." We Squinch Jul 2014 #119

That's why I expressed that my experience was different from others. moriah Jul 2014 #122

We all have men and women in our lives who toss those words around, and it's becoming a point Squinch Jul 2014 #129

Yeah, you should feel uncomfortable calling a woman a whore. Please don't do it again. Gravitycollapse Jul 2014 #54

So where is her photograph? malaise Jul 2014 #6

How many rapes today around the world? One false accusation today not taken beyond public, seabeyond Jul 2014 #8

Your knowing better doesn't stop the people malaise Jul 2014 #100

that is really the point. they were doing it before this women. and they would be doing it seabeyond Jul 2014 #110

So let's encourage dumb women with agendas malaise Jul 2014 #112

What a strange conclusion you've drawn... whathehell Jul 2014 #114

right malaise, that is what i said. women everywhere, accuse men of false rape. really? seabeyond Jul 2014 #115

No one said anything even remotely resembling that statement. Why are YOU saying it? Squinch Jul 2014 #130

I agree. She can go fuck herself ....... how many people with influence in polly7 Jul 2014 #99

This malaise Jul 2014 #101

Ton of selfie images of her. Fitting. Eleanors38 Jul 2014 #127

Criminal Charges should be brought against her. dilby Jul 2014 #13

This message was self-deleted by its author 1000words Jul 2014 #20

Everything I've seen about Conor Oberst indicates he's a good guy, and a solid progressive. Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #40

That was one of the best anti-bush songs during the reign of terror. Hoyt Jul 2014 #45

I'd never heard it before. Here's one anti-Bush song that was far better... Violet_Crumble Jul 2014 #109

I got to see him 10 yrs ago at a Vote for Change concert in which Bright Eyes was the bottom act pinboy3niner Jul 2014 #84

Yeah, I saw R.E.M. in Oct. of 2004, too. Warren DeMontague Jul 2014 #98

I saw them in Atlanta 6 or so years ago with Gillian Welch as opening act in an big old theater. Hoyt Jul 2014 #131

The comments section of XOJane is an awful cesspool. Drunken Irishman Jul 2014 #96