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H2O Man

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Mon Apr 4, 2016, 09:31 PM Apr 2016

Road Rage Trial Update [View all]



“One man come in the names of love
One man come and go
One man come he to justify
One man to overthrow.”
-- U2; (Pride) In the Name of Love



April 4 is always an important date for me. I remember 1968 all too well. It actually took a struggle to get Martin Luther King, Jr., to be “officially” honored with a holiday. And I remember when, in the 1990s, during union negotiations with the county board of supervisors on a contract. We discussed holidays. When Martin Luther King’s holiday was mentioned, one republican supervisor told us we didn’t need it off, as “there aren’t many Negroes in the county.” Seriously.

I know, I know ….. I should have said, “Yeah, but we’re a communist union!”

I think it is more important to think about the accomplishments, and the meaning, of King’s life, than about his death. But, it is important to think about what he was planning, in those final twelve months of his life, and about how he was killed.

Today was also the first day of the man who shot my cousin and his son, on October 27, 2014. I think it must have weighed on my mind last night, as I would break off a tooth while sleeping last night.. Maybe it was a premonition of how brutal a day we were in store for.

The District Attorney, who I’ve known and respected for years, did an outstanding job with his opening statement. Now, I have far more, and much closer, personal relationships with defense attorneys -- and civil attorneys -- than prosecutors. But I’ve followed DA’s in a four-county region in upstate New York, and I have long considered this one to be the best. In fact, I helped run one of his re-elections, against a tea party candidate.

The defense attorney opted not to give an opening statement. I don’t know this fellow, but he seems pleasant outside of the courtroom. I appreciate that everyone is entitled to a fair trial, which demands a competent attorney to represent your best interests. He has a job to do, and I do not resent him for that.

The first witness was my cousin. He did very well on direct. The prosecutor pre-empted a topic we knew the defense attorney planned to focus on …..that my cousin, who worked as a carpenter for 33 years, and is retired in part due to physical injuries sustained on the job, at times smokes pot to ease physical pain. Now, please -- before you decide never to talk to me again because my cousin sometimes indulges in the demon weed (he doesn’t play piano, though), try to keep an open mind. His primary doctor has prescribed strong “pain-killers” for him, but he is not willing to take them. His doctor is aware that my cousin smokes pot to relieve pain, and he’s okay with it.

Indeed, on cross-examination, the defense attorney did spend a significant amount of time and energy focusing on pot. There are a heck of a lot of ways for a person to ask the same question. But this got beyond where it seemed like overkill. And it eventually got to my cousin, and he reacted with emotion.

There was then a series of other witnesses -- one gentleman who drove by, and four women who were nearby, hadn’t witnessed the shooting, but attempted first aide before the EMTs , ambulances, and state police arrived. They all told the same basic story. One mentioned something that the thug isn’t being tried for: he placed the gun at the back of my cousin’s head, but the bullet jammed, just before he sped away from the scene.

The final witness today was a BCI Investigator for the NYS Police. She was the first person to interview the murderer. Her testimony really only had just gotten started, when a series of “in chambers” discussions took place. She’ll be back on the witness stand in the morning.

Perhaps the most painful part for me today was to listen to the tape of my cousin’s 911 call for help. I’m glad that I heard, but wish that I never had. It was something that I will not soon get out of my head.

The strangest part was when, during the BCI Investigator’s testimony, a series of photos were introduced (and then projected upon a large screen). The gunman had taken a lot of blood, and smeared it strategically on himself, to indicate serious injuries. He was taken to an area hospital; upon being washed, he had actually sustain zero injuries from the two people he shot.

Other information included that he was well beyond the legal limit for intoxication, when tested more than two hours after being placed in custody, and the description of his massive, entirely illegal arsenal. This creep had an unreal amount of weapons in both his car, and his home.

I was also struck by the defendant’s almost absolute lack of emotion. On several occasions, he would sneer at my cousin. This included a look of utter contempt, when my cousin wept while describing his son dying in his arms. I am convinced that this creep actually feels that he is the real victim here, and was entitled to do exactly what he did. I found myself remembering that, after being arraigned in court, he asked the judge, “Can I leave now?” He saw no reason for them to put him in jail.

I was hoping to spend some time tonight, doing housework, paying bills, and mailing out some things to friends that I promised a while back. But my mind isn’t there. I’m not trying to make an excuse for falling behind on stuff. Yet, even in the hours since I returned home, I’ve had fifteen phone calls -- from relatives, friends, the media, etc. I don’t have the energy that I had when I was young. I will get things out to a couple DU community members. Seriously. But for now, I just keep thinking about how my cousin and his son lived life, and how that young man died. And I still can’t grasp “Why?” he died like that. Maybe I never will.

Peace,
H2O Man
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...... daleanime Apr 2016 #1
great description Old Codger Apr 2016 #2
Peace to you, man. SCantiGOP Apr 2016 #3
And it may sound rhetorical but Gman Apr 2016 #4
I'll second that renate Apr 2016 #21
I know what you are going through is tough, and it is likely to get tougher ... 1StrongBlackMan Apr 2016 #5
I wish you peace nadinbrzezinski Apr 2016 #6
Thank you NBachers Apr 2016 #7
Indeed, you may never find an answer. Wilms Apr 2016 #8
Stay Strong H2O Man Mbrow Apr 2016 #9
I wish you & your family strength & peace to get through this trial. pacalo Apr 2016 #10
Can only *begin* to imagine what you're going through H20 Man. pablo_marmol Apr 2016 #11
Thank you, my dear H20 Man, for updating us so thoroughly. CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2016 #12
K&R Sissyk Apr 2016 #13
Thank you for sharing this. Gregorian Apr 2016 #14
Sending you a virtual hug GardeningGal Apr 2016 #15
thank you for keeping us updated shireen Apr 2016 #16
Peace, strength, and love... Liberal Jesus Freak Apr 2016 #17
The murderer must be a sociopath to have Ilsa Apr 2016 #18
You have impressive courage to sit thru the trial. FailureToCommunicate Apr 2016 #19
I wasn't aware this had happened. Major Hogwash Apr 2016 #20
"I’m not trying to make an excuse for falling behind on stuff." eggplant Apr 2016 #22
Thank you for keeping us updated mountain grammy Apr 2016 #23
Peace...peace....peace.... Hekate Apr 2016 #24
k&r Liberal_in_LA Apr 2016 #25
There are no words... FourScore Apr 2016 #26
Sounds like it went well. Spitfire of ATJ Apr 2016 #27
I am so glad we didn't have to face a murder trial Warpy Apr 2016 #28
this is traumatic even to read hopemountain Apr 2016 #29
Thank you so... onyourleft Apr 2016 #30
Peace and love for you and your family. Scuba Apr 2016 #31
Peace to you and your family salin Apr 2016 #32
Powerful stuff, man. You need to put it together in a book. marble falls Apr 2016 #33
Thank you so much for keeping us updated... kag Apr 2016 #34
Thanks for the update LittleGirl Apr 2016 #35
I could understand the defense attorney harping on the pot... malthaussen Apr 2016 #36
Those "in chambers" discussions puzzle me a little. tclambert Apr 2016 #37
I forgot to say K&R Omaha Steve Apr 2016 #38
have been following your story and am just overwhelmed by what you are going through rurallib Apr 2016 #39
thank you for keeping us updated. barbtries Apr 2016 #40
Please continue to keep us posted as painful as it is hbhall Apr 2016 #41
What can we do for you? Lifelong Protester Apr 2016 #42
Wishing you Peace, Love and Light. Melissa G Apr 2016 #43
Hugs to you and your cousin and all the family lunatica Apr 2016 #44
What a complete and utter fucking scumbag A HERETIC I AM Apr 2016 #45
What you said. MH1 Apr 2016 #53
Thanks for keeping us up to date. My best you you and your family. rhett o rick Apr 2016 #46
I am so very sorry for what you and your family are having to endure. yardwork Apr 2016 #47
I can't give you any comfort, passiveporcupine Apr 2016 #48
I can't even imagine... myrna minx Apr 2016 #49
Wishes for continued strength and eventual peace etherealtruth Apr 2016 #50
Please take care and update when you can. I remember your first post and it pained me then. Cant lunasun Apr 2016 #51
I cannot imagine how painful this is H2O Marrah_G Apr 2016 #52
Defending pieces of shit like this are what earned me my username. msanthrope Apr 2016 #54
K&R! Ghost in the Machine Apr 2016 #55
Again, so glad you are able to be there for your cousin. rosesaylavee Apr 2016 #56
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