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Douglas Carpenter

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Mon Jun 25, 2012, 08:56 AM Jun 2012

Some disturbing stuff I have been following-the bus monitor and the threats to the little tormentors [View all]

I’m certainly glad this video went viral and hope that it draw attention to a real problem

I’m sure most of you have heard by now about the video, “Making the bus monitor cry.” A truly disturbing video made by a group of 13-year old seventh graders from the suburbs of Rochester, New York showing off how they cruelly tormented a 68 year old grandmother who was working as a bus monitor – someone who tries to keep an eye on the children while they ride to and from school. Below you can find a link to this video if you have not seen it already. Be prepared for a shock. It is like watching true evil incarnated into a group of little children.

here is the original video



this is a short one a half minute clip that was not included in the 10 minute video that went viral



Well this video which one of the little tormenters did make and did post on the Internet ended up going viral all around the world. By now millions – probably tens of millions of people all over the world have seen it. This seems to have a triggered an absolute avalanche of sympathy for the poor lady who was so cruelly victimized that can be only matched by an even greater outpouring of outrage against these four little boys.

I must admit that when I first saw the video and heard that these children and their families were receiving volumes of hate messages and even death threats - I thought to myself, “good – those little bastards bloody well deserve it.” But then I started to read some of those threats and hate messages on the Internet and I couldn’t help but think that little seventh graders really are not equipped to be the recipient of an international bloodlust and hate campaign at least equal in intensity to anything ever directed against Osama bin Laden or Saddam Hussein. This just isn’t right.

Frankly, I was tormented and bullied terribly when I was in the seventh grade. But from what I can gather most of those bullies grew out of it as they got older and most of them have turned out to be decent and responsible people. I don’t think that one can look at even this horrific behavior when its coming from a child that age and simply pronounce them as an unredeemable sociopaths. Cannot people remember how cruel children in that age group can be? I sure the hell can. Here is a link to a 10 second youtube with an attempt at an apology from one of those children. Take a look at the responses he gets. This is at least and perhaps more chilling than watching those children torment poor Karen Klein.

That being said, I certainly hope these children are punished severely and that they learn a lesson.

http://www.youtube.com/all_comments?v=mzbDdLM4a6Y

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Other bullies don't grow out of it. Just look at Mitt Romney catbyte Jun 2012 #1
Not everyone is Mitt Romney. antigone382 Jun 2012 #5
It should be formed enough not to do what I Love a Mystery Jun 2012 #18
I certainly don't think it's acceptable, and it shouldn't be normal. antigone382 Jun 2012 #32
Your post will fall on deaf ears here alcibiades_mystery Jun 2012 #2
Sorry, but most of the kids who bullied me in elementary and junior high school went coalition_unwilling Jun 2012 #3
I hope you're wrong but perhaps you are right Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #4
I heard a discussion about this on the radio this morning. A bullying expert was the guest. calimary Jun 2012 #39
I thought about posting something to this effect, but decided not to bother. antigone382 Jun 2012 #6
Our society is so punishment-centric lapislzi Jun 2012 #8
don't do it Eksess Jun 2012 #23
I never said they shouldn't be held responsible. antigone382 Jun 2012 #31
They only "grow out of it" if they become a victim themselves jeff47 Jun 2012 #7
Comments are saying this isn't actually the kid Tsiyu Jun 2012 #9
I'm not sure if there is any way to know for sure if it is the kid Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #11
A lot of the comments are probably from other kids who Tsiyu Jun 2012 #16
South Park???? you can't be fucking serious Eksess Jun 2012 #24
in answer to your question,,no, I never consumed paint-ships before or after 1978 Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #25
They can be cruel treestar Jun 2012 #10
The point isn't that this behavior is normal or healthy or something to be excused. antigone382 Jun 2012 #14
I behave better now than I did when I was 13. immoderate Jun 2012 #12
The brains of kids this age are not fully formed. lumberjack_jeff Jun 2012 #13
thanks for that link..that program on the teenage brain is really interesting Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #38
And this was not the first video these kids had made proud2BlibKansan Jun 2012 #15
No sympathy from me. I Love a Mystery Jun 2012 #17
Sounds like agent46 Jun 2012 #21
I think it's disrespectful to those actually lynched I Love a Mystery Jun 2012 #40
I will agree that the behavior of these children was inexcusable and it was good that they were Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #41
You're a highly moral person agent46 Jun 2012 #42
You know, out of the two of us I Love a Mystery Jun 2012 #43
Out of the two of us agent46 Jun 2012 #45
if you would like to help Karen Klein - you can join me and tens of thousands of others in donating Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #33
Doing that tonight, thanks for the link I Love a Mystery Jun 2012 #44
Thank you for the lovely post. Luminous Animal Jun 2012 #19
I did some shitty things in my youth... but nothing this serve... to an INDIVIDUAL. nt Comrade_McKenzie Jun 2012 #20
I think the way adults are behaving in response to these children is reprehensible. FedUpWithIt All Jun 2012 #22
I felt the same way Politicalboi Jun 2012 #26
bullying is NOT A PHASE Skittles Jun 2012 #27
Your last link is broken. nt MADem Jun 2012 #28
apparently, the number of death threats lead youtube to cancelling it. Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #29
Never mind Youtube dipsydoodle Jun 2012 #30
My sympathy meter won't budge. Quantess Jun 2012 #34
I completely agree with the behavior of these little boys being publicly shown. Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #36
Have parents been notified? What about school officials? rurallib Jun 2012 #35
oh absolutely, in fact the families are being bombarded with death threats. Douglas Carpenter Jun 2012 #37
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