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RainDog

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52. My ex is from Belgium
Tue Jul 1, 2014, 08:08 AM
Jul 2014

Last edited Wed Jul 2, 2014, 01:11 AM - Edit history (1)

I lived there for a while and visited family there often.

My ex also played for the junior national soccer team there, too. He is or was a forward midfielder. Now that he's older, he still plays but I think he's fallen back to defense b/c defense doesn't require running the entire field. He chose to come to the U.S. to study rather than to go for a professional soccer career. He broke his dad's heart, because his dad was a working class guy. Soccer is a working class sport in Europe - unlike America.

Anyway, Belgium is divided into two parts. The Northern half speaks Flemish, a dialect of Dutch (softer, not as gutteral). The southern half speaks French.

Both the Flemish and French speakers are majority Catholic. The reason the northern part of Belgium stayed with the southern part is because The Netherlands is protestant... at one point, when they liberated themselves from control of all the different nations that had controlled them... Belgium is considered the footpath of Europe b/c it shares borders with The Netherlands, Germany and France, and Germany and France were at war with one another more often than not until the end of WWII, in various iterations (Holy Roman whatever, etc.)

Before WWII, the southern part of Belgium was wealthy because of heavy industry. But the northern part has since gained more wealth. When the southern part (Wallonia) was wealthy, they made fun of the north. Anyone who spoke Flemish was looked down upon. Flemish was called the language of peasants and farmers.

France, of course, was a great national power for a long time, and was the language of diplomacy - it was the international language, as English is now.

If you want to piss off someone from the northern part of Belgium, claim French is the majority language.

They have govt. CRISES over language and have portioned off the nation to exactly equal language divisions. any time one part gains a language area, they have to give another one to the other side.

Before this arrangement, people in Brussels, who were born to Flemish-speaking families, would pretend they didn't know Flemish and would only speak in French because French was considered the language of those who were connected. Political life was conducted in French. Flemish speakers have derogatory names for people who do that.

When the northern Flemish-speaking population gained enough power, financially, to demand equal time for their language, the political partitioning started. Every interstate sign in major city areas, like Brussels, are in both Flemish and French. In the northern part of the country, however (this includes the major or notable cities of Ghent, Antwerp, Brugge (both major ports at different times until silt), Ostende (which is the passageway to England), Leuven (fr: Louvain - one of the oldest University towns in Europe), all the suburbs north and east of Brussels etc... all are Flemish speaking and if someone speaks French there, people often react rudely unless it's obvious you're a tourist. Universities in Brussels exist as both French and Flemish-speaking versions.

Students in the northern, Flemish region begin to learn both English and French in elementary school (in addition to Flemish, which they hear at home.) In Wallonia, because the area is more depressed now with the fall of their major industries, or, the Flemish say, because they're so rude, students generally are not required to learn Flemish, but do learn English... at least that's what the Flemish portion of the nation thinks.

The Battle of the Bulge was in Wallonia, in the Ardennes. Waterloo is a city in Wallonia. After the defeat of Napoleon, the legend was that the people there brought buckets of dirt to build a mound to commemorate the defeat of Napoleon. Whether it's true or not, you can climb up a human-made mound and view the battlefields where Napoleon was defeated.

Southern Belgium is like other industrial belts and is hurting, while Flemish-speaking northern Belgium has prospered. So, sometimes the Flemish half talks about separating from the French half.

In the corner of Flemish Belgium, where Limbourg is located, there's a German-speaking population, too. But German is a minor language there. The two major languages are Flemish and French.

I'd love to go back to Belgium NightWatcher Jun 2014 #1
Well, for Pete's sake, don't go until next Wednesday! KamaAina Jun 2014 #2
waffle house calls for the boycott! big_dog Jun 2014 #47
Belgium gave us... dixiegrrrrl Jun 2014 #3
Um, no, England did. KamaAina Jun 2014 #4
I beg to differ. dixiegrrrrl Jun 2014 #5
So he's going to vanish on Tuesday afternoon? KamaAina Jun 2014 #6
little grey cells and all........ dixiegrrrrl Jun 2014 #7
If only Belgium would play him at goalkeeper KamaAina Jun 2014 #8
I thought he was French. El Supremo Jun 2014 #10
Nope, Belgian. KamaAina Jun 2014 #11
That was a running joke in the novels. El Supremo Jun 2014 #13
Here's one for the homies in Bruges. bluesbassman Jun 2014 #9
Let's fan the flames a bit here: Ron Obvious Jun 2014 #12
There's a nasty dark side to Belgium the tourist posters don't show you DFW Jun 2014 #14
The trumpet? KamaAina Jun 2014 #15
That's it!!!! DFW Jun 2014 #19
And there's this KamaAina Jun 2014 #16
Not surprising, but not the same DFW Jun 2014 #18
Oh yeah, Belgium is totally corrupt RainDog Jun 2014 #20
The Antwerpen train station is an architectural gem DFW Jun 2014 #21
Well that was awesome. CanSocDem Jun 2014 #27
Agreed. countryjake Jun 2014 #31
Here's another one for you and countryjake RainDog Jun 2014 #33
And a smile on every face! How refreshing. Paper Roses Jul 2014 #50
On the contrary. Iggo Jun 2014 #41
You win the award for "The Most Gratuitous Use of the Word 'Belgium' in a Serious Screenplay." Xipe Totec Jun 2014 #17
René Magritte is paper to Van Damme's rock RainDog Jun 2014 #22
The sad thing is, none of those people are "famous" KamaAina Jun 2014 #36
Django Reinhardt's famous, in a Miles Davis kind of way. Iggo Jun 2014 #42
word RainDog Jul 2014 #53
And also, the Belgian Malinois meow2u3 Jun 2014 #23
Thank goodness we advanced over Portugal KamaAina Jun 2014 #25
Pommes Frites. vanlassie Jun 2014 #24
The ones they serve with mayo? KamaAina Jun 2014 #32
I KNOW!!! Yuck. But they're so good, and they don't need mayo. vanlassie Jun 2014 #34
The only famous Belgian? No. countryjake Jun 2014 #26
If being born in Brussels makes her Belgian, KamaAina Jun 2014 #28
Those guys should be considered men without a country... countryjake Jun 2014 #30
Django Reinhardt, Toots Thielemans, and Jacques Brel aint_no_life_nowhere Jun 2014 #29
I've got buddies in Belgium, my wife speaks Dutch MrScorpio Jun 2014 #35
Many are bilingual to be sure but the National language is Flemmish. mackerel Jun 2014 #38
Just about everyone there speaks Flemmish (Dutch), Wallonese (French) or English MrScorpio Jun 2014 #39
Wikipedia says there are three official national languages, French, Flemish, and German aint_no_life_nowhere Jun 2014 #46
My ex is from Belgium RainDog Jul 2014 #52
I think Hercule Poirot is the most famous Belgium mon ami. mackerel Jun 2014 #37
63% Of Americans Think Belgium Is A Beer Company T_i_B Jun 2014 #40
Belgium IS a beer company, silly KamaAina Jun 2014 #43
Daily Currant is satire NewJeffCT Jul 2014 #49
I know T_i_B Jul 2014 #51
Belgium can also beat the U.S. in Jenoch Jun 2014 #44
The chocolate here* is scary DFW Jun 2014 #45
We'll soon find out. lovemydog Jul 2014 #48
Beer and chocolate for starters. hobbit709 Jul 2014 #54
Belgian... MrMickeysMom Jul 2014 #55
Belgium is the Ned Flanders of Europe (without the religious sanctimony) Yavin4 Jul 2014 #56
The northern, Dutch-speaking half of Belgium is, in fact, called Flanders. KamaAina Jul 2014 #57
What do you call people from Belgium anyways? NewJeffCT Jul 2014 #58
Losers. KamaAina Jul 2014 #59
DUzy+ truth sakabatou Jul 2014 #62
Thanks NewJeffCT Jul 2014 #64
Claude Van Damme... ailsagirl Jul 2014 #60
oops n/t RainDog Jul 2014 #61
A country known for beer and fries and chocolate IronLionZion Jul 2014 #63
It's not fruit in the beer. It's fermented fruit RainDog Jul 2014 #65
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