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History of Feminism

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LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
Tue Feb 11, 2014, 11:26 PM Feb 2014

"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men." [View all]

"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men."

Frederick Douglass wrote that in 1855 in reference to a series of dialogs he had with white slave-owners who simply did not see in any way that slavery was a moral and absolute wrong.

Not that they felt badly about it and covered up the guilt with justifications, but that these slave-owners simply did not see the inherent evil of slavery. They were broken men who simply could not comprehend that what they were doing was wicked and damnable, any more than a person blind since birth can tell the difference between light and darkness.

After reading Douglass' speech, I'm beginning to re-evaluate my opinions of those who deny rape-culture (and yes angry lurkers, there is precise and academic definition of that) , those who see dating as a "game", and those who rationalize the inequalities females receive at the hand of males.

My re-evaluation leads me to believe that these poor saps are not simply denying it exists despite their actual knowledge that it does. They simply cannot see it. They are blind to it, and nothing short of a dramatic personal or emotional trauma can pull the veil back.

They are "broken men"... and I feel more pity for them than I do frustration because of them, because they are broken, have no idea they are broken, and hence, can not be fixed.



Idle thoughts on a Tuesday night.

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Frederick Douglass was wise. defacto7 Feb 2014 #1
seems to me there is a problem because these Broken men Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #2
I have trouble believing they don't see it BainsBane Feb 2014 #3
It is a function of character and compassion rather than gender. yes. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #4
"Regardless of what happened, Dylan is the abuser now." Who could say something like that? redqueen Feb 2014 #6
Here BainsBane Feb 2014 #8
Ugh, sick. redqueen Feb 2014 #9
Days later, I remain stunned BainsBane Feb 2014 #10
saying such a thing, defending such a thing, blame a couple people regardless the # seabeyond Feb 2014 #11
Completely transparent. nt redqueen Feb 2014 #12
It is incredible. redqueen Feb 2014 #13
No, redqueen. It is Not that they Don't care, it is that they see Nothing Wrong with it. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #14
Ugh, goddess.... I hope that's not true. redqueen Feb 2014 #15
and that is how it should be redq. interesting where you and tues are going. seabeyond Feb 2014 #18
Oh yeah, I know how much hostility some on here harbor for you. redqueen Feb 2014 #20
They look and, they like and, they wish it was them. seabeyond Feb 2014 #16
step further, i think it is a right. i think with the net, in so many ways, seabeyond Feb 2014 #17
Agreed on all counts wryter2000 Feb 2014 #7
and i am thinking about this and the replies. interesting. seabeyond Feb 2014 #5
see what you started lantern, ..... ? thank you. tis fun. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #19
What sea said... redqueen Feb 2014 #21
Rec-ing this because: Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #22
i do not agree. seabeyond Feb 2014 #23
hmmm ... maybe semantics at work here. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #25
words matter to me, hence me clarifying on that. seabeyond Feb 2014 #27
people have a field day with this conversation, Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #28
exactly. and no.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #30
years ago i was making choices that people could easily look at me with pity. seabeyond Feb 2014 #24
because You are AWARE< sea. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #26
yes. i can do empathy. empathy is my action, not giving to another. seabeyond Feb 2014 #29
you calling me out, sea? - Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #31
lol... never darlin' just playing in the exploration of... seabeyond Feb 2014 #32
their perception of you ... Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #34
it certainly is not my place to say if another has or not, though. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #36
agreed on this. you can be the mirror but, they can still be blind. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #39
am tellng you... this conversation s all n ruiz four agreement. seabeyond Feb 2014 #33
thanks for reminding me. No, I have not read. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #35
since i am all that in packaging and using a post office now.... seabeyond Feb 2014 #37
ha. my i button is getting stuck. now what do i do. lol. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #38
oh woman. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2014 #40
iiiiiii thought so, too. lol. nt seabeyond Feb 2014 #41
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