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Tree-Hugger

(3,370 posts)
Wed Jun 3, 2020, 01:09 PM Jun 2020

My dad is losing his best friend in an hour [View all]

My dad's best friend will be taken off of life support in an hour. He had been hospitalized a month ago and was sent into a nursing home to recover. He contracted Covid and was sent back to the hospital and eventually on a vent. He is around 70 and has a host a health problems and it doesn't help that he was in one of the worst Philly hospitals.

My dad and this friend have played cards with one other friend every Wednesday night since the 70's, stopping only for Covid. My mom joked that my dad was so dedicated to Wednesday night cards that if she died on a Wednesday, he'd still go out to play cards. Well, my mom died this year on New Year's Day, which was a Wednesday. My dad played cards that night.

I'm worried about my dad. We just lost my mom. I have taken my kids over weekly for over a decade, but we stopped due to Covid. My dad is a Vietnam Vet who still holds into that trauma and doesn't realky express a lot of emotion.

Fuck Covid. Fuck Covid.

Can I get some prayers and good thoughts sent to my dad's friend, his family, and my dad plesse?

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you have it demtenjeep Jun 2020 #1
Agree. What a difficult period for you all bobbieinok Jun 2020 #9
Fuck COVID! Initech Jun 2020 #2
Peace to all lunasun Jun 2020 #3
🕯️ irisblue Jun 2020 #4
My deepest sympathies for your dad's friend, his family, and your dad The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2020 #5
:-( CentralMass Jun 2020 #6
Sending prayers of support and virtual hugs to your dad, his friend and friend's family. nt woodsprite Jun 2020 #7
Prayers and good thoughts from me. Different Drummer Jun 2020 #8
Peace for you and your family peggysue2 Jun 2020 #10
I(((((((((Tree-Hugger)))))))). Prayers for peace and comfort for alll of you in this sad time. niyad Jun 2020 #11
Prayers to a fellow vet... N_E_1 for Tennis Jun 2020 #12
I'm so sorry MissB Jun 2020 #13
Sending 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 MLAA Jun 2020 #14
I'm sending prayers, and thoughts of well being wendyb-NC Jun 2020 #15
hugs, thoughts, prayers.. stillcool Jun 2020 #16
Please tell him we support him. Peace to him and you. ancianita Jun 2020 #17
Sending good thoughts cilla4progress Jun 2020 #18
Sending love cp Jun 2020 #19
Sending your dad and his friend (and you too ) much love today! FM123 Jun 2020 #20
Sending prayers for your dad's friend, his family and your dad. gademocrat7 Jun 2020 #21
I am so sorry. All the strength and love to you and your dad. crickets Jun 2020 #22
Very sorry for the situation and the loss dlk Jun 2020 #23
May light surround you all Maeve Jun 2020 #24
I want to ditto this wish. Karadeniz Jun 2020 #28
So sorry democrank Jun 2020 #25
My condolences, good thoughts and prayers to all of you. bearssoapbox Jun 2020 #26
Holding you and your Dad in my heart... it's a terrible time. Stay strong for each other. n/t TygrBright Jun 2020 #27
Sending love, sympathy and peace. bronxiteforever Jun 2020 #29
sending love & well wishes for all of you! bluboid Jun 2020 #30
So much sympathy for you and your dad, Tree-Hugger! LaMouffette Jun 2020 #31
You have mine, and thanks for sharing with us, it helps us too! nt. SayItLoud Jun 2020 #32
Sending strength, prayers and good thoughts to you and yours. Niagara Jun 2020 #33
Prayers for your dad, his friend and you 🙏🏽 nt live love laugh Jun 2020 #34
that's so sad. i'm so very sorry. orleans Jun 2020 #35
Blessings and prayers for your dad, his friend, you and your families. pazzyanne Jun 2020 #36
I'm so sorry. Covid sucks! 🙏🏽Nt helpisontheway Jun 2020 #37
Prayers to all of them. Prayers to you as their front-line support. SideStep Jun 2020 #38
yes, yes you can. barbtries Jun 2020 #39
This boomer expresses love and kindness for your dad. SleeplessinSoCal Jun 2020 #40
Yes, certainly. H2O Man Jun 2020 #41
Warmest wishes to you and your dad. kag Jun 2020 #42
I am very sorry. sinkingfeeling Jun 2020 #43
Loving thoughts for you, your dad & his best friend. GentryDixon Jun 2020 #44
So young DownriverDem Jun 2020 #45
Peace... masmdu Jun 2020 #46
Healing vibes on the way! SheltieLover Jun 2020 #47
Prayers, of course, Tree! majdrfrtim Jun 2020 #48
Good vibes sent to all, Tree-Hugger! Heartstrings Jun 2020 #49
I'm so sorry for your father's loss and for the pain you both feel. femmedem Jun 2020 #50
None of my business but... qwlauren35 Jun 2020 #51
so very very sorry, Tree-Hugger -- am sending good thoughts diva77 Jun 2020 #52
So sorry to hear Tree-Hugger. smirkymonkey Jun 2020 #53
Lot of love and comfort (we hope) demigoddess Jun 2020 #54
Sending prayers for a peaceful passing for your dad's friend hamsterjill Jun 2020 #55
Atheist here but prayed anyway. Ligyron Jun 2020 #56
You bet! Wawannabe Jun 2020 #57
... Hotler Jun 2020 #58
My best thoughts for your popps. denbot Jun 2020 #59
I am so sorry that your Dad is facing yet another devastating loss Rhiannon12866 Jun 2020 #60
Good Thoughts Godspeeding their way. Tommymac Jun 2020 #61
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