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Irish_Dem

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33. Early in my career I worked with sex offenders.
Wed Feb 21, 2024, 09:23 PM
Feb 2024

(I am a retired mental health professional).
I conducted court ordered psych evaluations for those sitting in jail for various crimes.
Many were sexual offenders.

Some of them had been abused themselves.
Or seriously neglected, yes some had mother issues.
Or seriously immature and consensual sex was frightening on some level.
Or angry at women for various reasons.
Some liked the game of the crime.
And the power trip.
Or pretended the woman came on to them.

It was a mixed bag. Sometimes the childhood stories were quite sad.

The child sexual offenders were difficult for me.
Hearing grown men say the three year they had raped, asked for it.

After a couple of years of this, I asked to move to other clinic duties.
It was not something I wanted to do long term.

I of course stayed professional and wrote the court reports in a neutral clinical way.
The courts and judges wanted certain information and opinions about diagnosis and
treatment.

Actually I thought about those reports after hearing Judge Engoron's ruling recently.
The judges always wanted to know if the people sitting in jail that I was evaluating
expressed any remorse, guilt about what they did. Sometimes they did, sometimes not.
But the judges took that into account in their decisions.

It sure is. nt CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2024 #1
Any bets how pandering for primary votes Nikki will say she feels about this? Freethinker65 Feb 2024 #2
Asshole isn't very Christ-like, is he? Aristus Feb 2024 #3
If you knew Monroe, you'd be surprised if there was a trial in the first place. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2024 #4
"It's the woman's fault she gets raped." Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #5
I kind of bdamomma Feb 2024 #29
Early in my career I worked with sex offenders. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #33
Mental Health professions bdamomma Feb 2024 #39
I loved my job. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #40
It's sad bdamomma Feb 2024 #46
Yes Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #63
Your last bdamomma Feb 2024 #65
I hope I did some good. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #66
We all bdamomma Feb 2024 #75
Yes I hope love triumphs over evil. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #76
I have learned a lot from this exchange and admire everyone in the field. erronis Feb 2024 #88
Thank you! Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #94
Victim blaming MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2024 #82
Yep. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #84
Is he an ex con pastor? pwb Feb 2024 #6
A man is a man RussBLib Feb 2024 #7
Post removed Post removed Feb 2024 #18
"a man's a man!" ecstatic Feb 2024 #8
Not even inappropriately. Beartracks Feb 2024 #55
Those long ankle length dresses CANADIANBEAVER69 Feb 2024 #9
Easier ways to get out of jury duty lame54 Feb 2024 #10
Thought the same thing. MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2024 #83
If you didn't get up and walk out of this sermon when he said this you are just as complicit!! Pisces Feb 2024 #11
And with both middle fingers held high. Delmette2.0 Feb 2024 #24
I assume he is trying to get out Jury duty Johonny Feb 2024 #12
This guy is a prime example of why so many of us DESPISE religion. Sky Jewels Feb 2024 #13
What would Jesus say..... ? LakeArenal Feb 2024 #14
I think he said - if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out. Probatim Feb 2024 #53
God! What a DEPOLORABLE excuse of a human being! ProudMNDemocrat Feb 2024 #15
If you wear an expensive suit like that thucythucy Feb 2024 #16
Exactly right Seinan Sensei Feb 2024 #97
If you preach like that SarahD Feb 2024 #17
Fuck you. SamKnause Feb 2024 #19
Tracey Ullman skit - What were you wearing? Poiuyt Feb 2024 #20
That was perfect. Thanks for sharing. Delmette2.0 Feb 2024 #28
Brilliant. Sad but true. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #34
Facebook wouldn't let me post this pfitz59 Feb 2024 #61
We need to end the patriarchy redqueen Feb 2024 #21
Pastor Bobby just about sent me over the edge. democrank Feb 2024 #22
So all men are rapists? Isn't rape a sin? TexasBushwhacker Feb 2024 #23
Sure looks like Pastor Bobby's lights are on but nobody's home struggle4progress Feb 2024 #25
And it's also the idea that mcar Feb 2024 #26
Somebody needs to interview Pastor Bobby's choir boys. limbicnuminousity Feb 2024 #27
If you spew hatred for women like that, and some woman runs you down with her car, and I'm on the jury, Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #30
Pastor Bobby sure has a purdy mouth. Kind of enflames my groin. Don't know if I could control myself around him. Midnight Writer Feb 2024 #31
Scum HandmaidsTaleUntold Feb 2024 #32
Watch out for your family, friends and community around that sleazebag. Bluethroughu Feb 2024 #35
Very true bluestarone Feb 2024 #69
These people are exhausting. AltairIV Feb 2024 #36
He just told every man in that congregation Demobrat Feb 2024 #37
Just like Trump Celerity Feb 2024 #41
He oozes av8rdave Feb 2024 #38
I wonder how many women he has sexually assaulted. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #42
Wild ass guess. Yavin4 Feb 2024 #43
Disgusting! Niagara Feb 2024 #44
Not surprising, his church's Facebook is temporarily disabled TlalocW Feb 2024 #45
thx. i left a message BlueWaveNeverEnd Feb 2024 #58
"All men are monsters" chowmama Feb 2024 #47
What an ignorant stupid misguided human being. Also 1980 called and they want that statement back...Ya dumb fuck nt GuppyGal Feb 2024 #48
totally agree with your comment. I would add hateful. nt BootinUp Feb 2024 #49
Post removed Post removed Feb 2024 #50
AmurKKKan Taliban Traildogbob Feb 2024 #51
Well, Mr. Pastor, if you talk like that and you get bludgeoned megapuzzler Feb 2024 #52
I think we have a pervert pastor here. Emile Feb 2024 #54
I think bdamomma Feb 2024 #77
Pastor Bobby confesses he's out of control, will rape, thieve, pillage without warning. Hermit-The-Prog Feb 2024 #56
Then rape that christofascist pig I_UndergroundPanther Feb 2024 #57
WTAF is wrong with these sick fucks?: Initech Feb 2024 #59
I've been with women when both of us were as naked as we were made . . . Journeyman Feb 2024 #60
Whole societies and religions have rules for females Aussie105 Feb 2024 #62
This is creepy on a lot of levels. "Send your boy out there" ?? Iris Feb 2024 #64
What a really sick human being. A man is a man and if he sees some woman's skin or figure .... Botany Feb 2024 #67
The trump/MAGA America Norbert Feb 2024 #68
A Mans a Man! BadGimp Feb 2024 #70
So, by his own reasoning......... DFW Feb 2024 #71
I like that. Boomerang it back on them JanMichael Feb 2024 #73
The old "she was asking for it defense." Sick. The only way to comply with MAGAt and evangelical rape laws Martin68 Feb 2024 #72
Obviously what he said is shocking and disgusting XorXor Feb 2024 #74
Republicans for Rape. hadEnuf Feb 2024 #78
If a man can't control himself when he sees a woman wearing shorts, he is a danger japple Feb 2024 #79
Men who can't control themselves around women in public murielm99 Feb 2024 #87
But, but, but altar boys don't wear shorts..... RSherman Feb 2024 #80
If you're an evil conservative and you get punched in the face IronLionZion Feb 2024 #81
Sick Demovictory9 Feb 2024 #85
Sick Demovictory9 Feb 2024 #86
And the best part is what he said right after that ... SupportSanity Feb 2024 #89
He's just mad cuz he hasn't been able to muster a woody for decades. flying_wahini Feb 2024 #90
Huh! Katcat Feb 2024 #91
This pastor must also think women in swimsuits at a public beach are asking to be raped! Bluejeans Feb 2024 #92
I suppose Republicans would prefer women to wear burkas, but then what excuse would they give for condoning rape? Lonestarblue Feb 2024 #93
I would have him investigated. This is beyond sick. twodogsbarking Feb 2024 #95
Hope your daughters don't ever wear shorts, Rev! they'll love you for your thoughts. Wonder Why Feb 2024 #96
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