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Lady Freedom Returns

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Tue Dec 25, 2012, 05:13 PM Dec 2012

Some things that you may not think about when giving to the homeless. [View all]

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As many know, I was on the streets for roughly a year and a half. And it is rough out there. One needs to eat, to have a way to wash, a place to sleep. But there are some things people may not think of when they are wanting to help. I have been asked by others what else could help. So I thought to make this little list up, that way it will give you an idea what else can be donated that you may not think about.

Something that is a necessity is a good size pack. When you are out there, it is your home. It is something that is in short supply as well. So if you have a school pack that is the kind a high schooler would carry and no longer using it, please donate it. Even a rolling suitcase is useful. Rolling backpacks are a dream come true! And if you have a messenger bag that you don’t use, please donate it, that is great for carrying paperwork in. Believe me, when you are homeless, you have a lot of paperwork you need to try (the big word) and keep with you.

Another thing is dark color blankets. They are used all year long. The dark color works as camouflage at night while one sleeps. So, light or heavy in weight, if they are dark the homeless need it! If you have a dark sleeping bag you don’t want anymore, it would be great to. The street is not very soft.

Eye glasses. So many could use reading glass. Prescription glass as well. Many places have an eye glass drop off to help people that cannot afford them. Sun glasses, all year around need. One must protect from the sun and from the wind. So if you see some cheap reading glasses at one of those $1 shops, pick a couple up to donate to your local shelter to give out, the sunglasses too! You would not believe how much they are needed!

Pens and paper. I know that sounds odd. But when you are trying to find work or take down information to remember later, you need to have something to write on and with. Folders with pockets are great to. You will not believe how much paperwork is involved when you are in poverty and worse. Sometimes it feels like a full time office job just to get help.

Besides the usual cloths like jeans (jeans are a major thing for women and men) everyday shoes, and t-shirt (sweat shirt and coats in winter), the homeless also need cloths for getting work. Believe it or not there are people out there that are in need of black or khaki slacks, dress shoes, blouses/ white dress shirts, and everything else one need to dress for work are a must have to get a job. The dress codes for department stores, call centers, etc. are what is needed on top of the usual needed cloths. Oh, and underwear! For both sexes (bras are an extreme luxury for a homeless woman and you can’t look nice without one). You would not believe how little underwear can be found at the places that help with giving out cloths to the homeless.

Wallets, glasses cases and phone cases is something that are very useful. The government phones do not come with holders and that makes it hard to take care of. Those phones are your only way to reach help in an emergency and get contacted for a possible job. The phone holder, glasses case and wallets make it easier to keep your ID, food cards (many food banks that help with homeless food packs use an ID card and you also need to keep your food stamp card safe) and many other needed cards in and safe. And the glasses case to keep one’s glasses safe. If you have any that you don’t use anymore, please donate them. They will not go unwanted!

Another thing is Maxis and Tampons. Yes, the women need them. But did you know that the guys will carry Maxis’ as part of a makeshift first aid kit? Things to treat wounds are big. So is hygiene in general. Toilet paper is street currency. Someone has extra can of spaghetti that is worth one roll of TP.

Something else that is also worth its weight in gold are water bottles. The kind that you can fill in a park bathroom or drinking fountain. Having water is something that is very important, there had been many a death due to not having water to drink out there. I remember seeing many homeless get taken away in an ambulance due to being dehydrated. Eating utensils are a nice thought too! Spoon fork and knife is something that are so nice to have. And a can opener! Oh, I had been given cans of food but had no way to open it.

The last thing many don’t think of is pet food and leashes. That’s right, pet food and leashes. Many homeless have dogs, some even have cats. They are, for many, what is left of their family. The animals watch them and they watch out for the dog or cat. It is such an attachment that those that do have pets will not go to shelters due to the no pets allowed rule at many. It is that important, the pet is their family, what is left of love. I have seen the attachment so strong that if something happens to that pet, the owner will not be long for this world. The food to proper feed them and the leashes to keep legal. Another big thing that has started to happen is groups that are making sure that the homeless pets get shots and licenses. They ever try to help get then spaded or neutered. If you have a group in your area helping with this a donation to buy the shots are welcome in a big way!

For those that are looking for something to do, I hope that it gives you some ideas. To those that are reading this and remembers that you have some of this stuff and you aren’t using them, please donate!


Add on: Socks, Rain gear, Foot powder, batteries, sowing kit, flash lights and Walkman type radios.

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Wonderful words. Whovian Dec 2012 #1
glad that you are no longer on the streets, hope all is going well for you. niyad Dec 2012 #2
kick . . .n/t annabanana Dec 2012 #3
Thank you for these good suggestions. LiberalEsto Dec 2012 #4
Thanks for the list lunatica Dec 2012 #5
OMG, I have quite a bit of what you list and I do have a homeless "friend" who is paranoid schizo monmouth3 Dec 2012 #6
With her being a woman a dark blanket can mean the difference of life and death. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #10
Toothbrush! Daveparts3 Dec 2012 #7
Hygiene in general. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #9
Thank you for sharing your insight siligut Dec 2012 #8
K&R !!! n/t RKP5637 Dec 2012 #11
Thank you! GreenPartyVoter Dec 2012 #12
Thank you for this, madamesilverspurs Dec 2012 #13
I hope everyone shares it. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #16
Are their no prisons? And the union workhouses - are they still in operation? Demo_Chris Dec 2012 #14
Ah, A Christmas Carol. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #15
AND SOCKS!!! Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #17
And foot powder to avoid the toe and nail rot. Lionessa Dec 2012 #34
Socks absolutely. Sometimes that's all they have for shoes. Just socks. calimary Dec 2012 #60
Sadly that is true. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #61
Signs for homeless listing these. ErikJ Dec 2012 #18
Soon you won't see anyone flying or shaking a can for anything. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #30
knr Douglas Carpenter Dec 2012 #19
Thank you for this list, LFR. Aristus Dec 2012 #20
I think that is the most over-looked necessity of the homeless and impoverished: me b zola Dec 2012 #26
That is something many forget. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #50
That's what people like that don't understand (or refuse to understand...): Aristus Dec 2012 #62
Very informative underpants Dec 2012 #21
What orgs to give to? nt Honeycombe8 Dec 2012 #22
look in your local phone book or google search for your area. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #33
A lot of food banks also do much more, serving as community resource centers pinboy3niner Dec 2012 #46
Great post. Thank you for taking the time to write it. Politicub Dec 2012 #23
It is so sad that this OP is so necessary today. Live and Learn Dec 2012 #24
and money .... shireen Dec 2012 #25
Be careful doing that depending on your area. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #45
thanks for the tips shireen Dec 2012 #68
K&R Jamastiene Dec 2012 #27
... Mnemosyne Dec 2012 #28
I made friends with a homeless guy FiggyJay Dec 2012 #29
That is the other currency on the street. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #49
one can NEVER underestimate the importance of "squares" datasuspect Dec 2012 #79
thanks for the post otherone Dec 2012 #31
Flash light and batteries. Lionessa Dec 2012 #32
Good one! So is a radio. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #38
This isn't the exact brand, reflection Dec 2012 #78
K & R !!! - Thank You For That !!! WillyT Dec 2012 #35
how about umbrellas or anything else if it rains ? JI7 Dec 2012 #36
Best thing for the rain is things like the those rain tarps Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #37
A kick due to add on on list. n/t Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #39
Excellent info. Will share with my scout groups cpamomfromtexas Dec 2012 #40
Thank you! Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #41
Thanks for the excellent information. senseandsensibility Dec 2012 #42
Sadly, the need is all year long. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #43
Are gently used ohheckyeah Dec 2012 #51
YES! Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #52
I usually give clothes ohheckyeah Dec 2012 #53
K&R Squinch Dec 2012 #44
Thank you wellstone dem Dec 2012 #47
K+R. Thank you. RedCappedBandit Dec 2012 #48
There is a homeless woman who sleeps a block from my home. Hatchling Dec 2012 #54
Many cops don't usually bother homeless women due to the lack of places for them in many areas. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #57
definitely bookmarking. liberal_at_heart Dec 2012 #55
Thanks for the tips. Pretzel_Warrior Dec 2012 #56
Thank you Digit Dec 2012 #58
Great way to start. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #59
Thank you for this - only someone who has been there can really know. Raksha Dec 2012 #63
Great tips upi402 Dec 2012 #64
awesome list LittleGirl Dec 2012 #65
St Vincent De Paul Thrift Stores in Tucson Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #99
K&R SunSeeker Dec 2012 #66
Thank you. SheilaT Dec 2012 #67
kr Norrin Radd Dec 2012 #69
This is one of the best posts I have found on DU. Thank you. kelliekat44 Dec 2012 #70
I will start going through my closets today. tblue Dec 2012 #71
My local food bank issues "Wish Lists". These are great because... Walk away Dec 2012 #72
If our 1% government cannot provide shelter for the homeless, it could at least merrily Dec 2012 #73
oh good point on the pop top can goods SmileyRose Dec 2012 #86
Walk in centers. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #94
Great OP. UnrepentantLiberal Dec 2012 #74
Good suggestions. tradecenter Dec 2012 #75
What is a "massager bag," please? reflection Dec 2012 #76
Right - she misspelled "messenger bag." Raksha Dec 2012 #81
Fixed it. Sorry about that. n/t Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #93
Great thread! Remmah2 Dec 2012 #77
knr. and thank you! nt G_j Dec 2012 #80
Thanks for posting. You've opened my eyes. hamsterjill Dec 2012 #82
Having been homeless myself last year, I can give you a few reasons why... HamstersFromHell Dec 2012 #84
I hope you do expand upon your thoughts and post the results as a new OP. Raksha Dec 2012 #88
Thank you for the information. hamsterjill Dec 2012 #89
I know, people don't think when it comes to the food thing. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #90
There are a lot of reasons. But here are a few. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #95
The grandkids libodem Dec 2012 #83
Churches are a great place Iwillnevergiveup Dec 2012 #85
Please do. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #96
best post I have ever seen on DU SmileyRose Dec 2012 #87
THANK YOU for thee guidance! loyalsister Dec 2012 #91
Please do! Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #92
kick Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #97
thank you so much for these tips watch the sky Dec 2012 #98
Kick. Lady Freedom Returns Jan 2013 #100
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