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BobTheSubgenius

(11,603 posts)
52. What a great perspective you two have!
Sat Jul 1, 2023, 11:10 AM
Jul 2023

My wife and I are bracing ourselves (although we'd never admit it to each other) for our Cairn's last day. He's 15 and has recurring liver and pancreas problems that might be cancer.

He, typical of his breed, has never been a cuddler, a lap dog or even really responsive, although he loves us in his own way. Especially SU, because she had him for 3 years before we met.

A great dog all the same, and with his feline nature (I want I want I want....seeya bye) came 9 lives. He had pancreatitis that very nearly killed him, a bacterial infection that took $500US worth of antibiotics to get rid of, an enlarged liver with very bad enzyme numbers, ate dark chocolate twice (the second time a half-pound) and was once hit by a car. Also true to his nature, he was never afraid of cars, even so. Barely acknowledged they exist.

I hope we can be as positive and accepting as you...but I doubt it. Revel in your memories of a sweet, sweet boy.

Condolences. IrishAfricanAmerican Jul 2023 #1
Dunc...I wasn't going to have onions for breakfast but you changed my mind... MiHale Jul 2023 #2
Oh, no - I'm so sorry ms liberty Jul 2023 #3
So beautifully put. Hope22 Jul 2023 #4
So sorry....our older Maine Coon is in decline and it's hard. we can do it Jul 2023 #5
He had a good life... 2naSalit Jul 2023 #6
Duncanpup Diamond_Dog Jul 2023 #7
So sorry those beautiful four-legged souls leave us so soon. 70sEraVet Jul 2023 #8
I am so sorry. MuseRider Jul 2023 #9
So sorry Dunc. kozar Jul 2023 #10
All that love and playfulness makes the world a better place for everyone Easterncedar Jul 2023 #11
🤍 ''Heaven's Paw'' Donkees Jul 2023 #12
He clearly was a good boy Elessar Zappa Jul 2023 #13
Losing a fur baby is never easy.... ProudMNDemocrat Jul 2023 #14
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and niyad Jul 2023 #15
This Hekate Jul 2023 #66
I'm so sorry. I have loved hearing about Mr. Big Paws in your posts. Lonestarblue Jul 2023 #16
So sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Jul 2023 #17
I am so sorry mgardener Jul 2023 #18
I am so sorry for the loss of your gooed boi. Maraya1969 Jul 2023 #19
My heart sank when I read your OP this morning. pazzyanne Jul 2023 #20
Sending you love & hugs Chicagogrl1 Jul 2023 #21
I'm so sorry democrank Jul 2023 #22
I am so sorry. I've been there and it never gets any easier... Rhiannon12866 Jul 2023 #23
So sorry this morning. MOMFUDSKI Jul 2023 #24
So sorry for your loss zeusdogmom Jul 2023 #25
I'm sitting here with tears streaming after reading your beautiful post honoring Mr. Big Paws and LaMouffette Jul 2023 #26
Condolences. I'm so sorry. paleotn Jul 2023 #27
I am so sorry. murielm99 Jul 2023 #28
Crying along with you here. Duppers Jul 2023 #29
Your wife and Boog were there to greet Mr. Big Paws with hugs and licks as he crossed the Bridge. Fla Dem Jul 2023 #30
Dunc I'm so sorry. barbtries Jul 2023 #31
My condolences nuxvomica Jul 2023 #32
Giving a pet a great home makes you the person you are. Remember what you had, not what you lost. twodogsbarking Jul 2023 #33
Beautiful tribute to all your beloveds... hlthe2b Jul 2023 #34
Dog is just the correct spelling of God. Botany Jul 2023 #35
((Duncanpup)) blm Jul 2023 #36
I'm sorry for your loss. area51 Jul 2023 #37
I'm sorry for your loss Kali Jul 2023 #38
Sending condolences, Duncanpup. Backseat Driver Jul 2023 #39
I'm so sorry about your losses. nocoincidences Jul 2023 #40
I'm so sorry for all your losses. Ocelot II Jul 2023 #41
What a great tribute! Permanut Jul 2023 #42
I'm so sorry, Duncanpup. What you wrote here is such a beautiful tribute to highplainsdem Jul 2023 #43
(((hugs))) sueh Jul 2023 #44
A very touching eulogy my friend ... so, so sorry for your loss Hugh_Lebowski Jul 2023 #45
in November I lost 12 yr old Golden Emma ...i was by her side 24/7 for the entire 6 mos she gave me. samnsara Jul 2023 #46
I'm so very sorry, my friend. catbyte Jul 2023 #47
Oh, Duncanpup... rubbersole Jul 2023 #48
Jerry Jeff's Bojangles knew beat.raven Jul 2023 #49
The world was far better for having had Mr. Big Paws in it. MLAA Jul 2023 #50
Lovely tribute Saoirse9 Jul 2023 #51
What a great perspective you two have! BobTheSubgenius Jul 2023 #52
So sorry, duncanpup peacebuzzard Jul 2023 #53
Condolences Jean Genie Jul 2023 #54
Oh no Dunc.. onecaliberal Jul 2023 #55
Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute. My heart is with you all. Goddessartist Jul 2023 #56
I am so very sorry. Beautiful and loving memories. ❤️💔😢 lucca18 Jul 2023 #57
Love you duncanpup! AKwannabe Jul 2023 #58
My deepest condolences to you on the loss of Mr. Big Paws💔 virgdem Jul 2023 #59
Dunc, I'm so sorry for your losses. badhair77 Jul 2023 #60
So sorry montanacowboy Jul 2023 #61
I loved reading your memories... those will never die. RIP Big Paws... Karadeniz Jul 2023 #62
Your losses this year have been devastating, yet your keep brer cat Jul 2023 #63
So sorry for your loss Duncanpup. Your words ring of truth and love. c-rational Jul 2023 #64
(((((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))) UpInArms Jul 2023 #65
(((Oh Dunc, I'm so sorry))) Hekate Jul 2023 #67
I am sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Jul 2023 #68
That essay had to have helped you. The Jungle 1 Jul 2023 #69
No tears as something wet is rolling down my face. Yours is a home so full of love. LoisB Jul 2023 #70
Hope you can see them in the daily visit of a cardinal or another regular visitor. No Vested Interest Jul 2023 #71
(hug) ((GroupHug)) elleng Jul 2023 #72
Lots of friends up there. Some of ours, too. calimary Jul 2023 #73
So , sorry to hear about Mr Big Paws MacKasey Jul 2023 #74
I'm so sorry for yet another loss. That's a wonderful tribute. yonder Jul 2023 #75
He was so lucky to have you... AmBlue Jul 2023 #76
I'm so sorry for the loss of stage left Jul 2023 #77
I'm so sorry cate94 Jul 2023 #78
What a good dog. What a sweet story. Condolences. Nt spooky3 Jul 2023 #79
Sorry for your loss. AltairIV Jul 2023 #80
Condolences here - we too just lost our 17 (almost 18) y/o cat about six weeks ago and we are still Hestia Jul 2023 #81
Condolences, Duncanpup gademocrat7 Jul 2023 #82
Your profound love for all your family members shines brightly... 3catwoman3 Jul 2023 #83
so very sorry, Duncanpup diva77 Jul 2023 #84
I'm so sorry. You've had more than your share of losses. yardwork Jul 2023 #85
Thank you for sharing. Peace and great memories to you and yours. Biophilic Jul 2023 #86
Thank you for this... Trueblue Texan Jul 2023 #87
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